ted演讲稿范文(通用35篇)
ted演讲稿范文(通用35篇)
ted演讲稿范文篇1
拥抱他人,拥抱自己
embracingotherness.whenifirstheardthistheme,ithought,well,embracingothernessisembracingmyself.andthejourneytothatplaceofunderstandingandacceptancehasbeenaninterestingoneforme,andit'sgivenmeaninsightintothewholenotionofself,whichithinkisworthsharingwithyoutoday.
拥抱他类。当我第一次听说这个主题时,我心想,拥抱他类不就是拥抱自己吗。我个人懂得理解和接受他类的经历很有趣,让我对于“自己”这个词也有了新的认识,我想今天在这里和你们分享下我的心得体会。
weeachhaveaself,butidon'tthinkthatwe'rebornwithone.youknowhownewbornbabiesbelievethey'repartofeverything;they'renotseparate?wellthatfundamentalsenseofonenessislostonusveryquickly.it'slikethatinitialstageisover--oneness:infancy,unformed,primitive.it'snolongervalidorreal.whatisrealisseparateness,andatsomepointinearlybabyhood,theideaofselfstartstoform.ourlittleportionofonenessisgivenaname,istoldallkindsofthingsaboutitself,andthesedetails,opinionsandideasbecomefacts,whichgotowardsbuildingourselves,ouridentity.andthatselfbecomesthevehiclefornavigatingoursocialworld.buttheselfisaprojectionbasedonotherpeople'sprojections.isitwhowereallyare?orwhowereallywanttobe,orshouldbe?
我们每个人都有个自我,但并不是生来就如此的。你知道新生的宝宝们觉得他们是任何东西的一部分,而不是分裂的个体。这种本源上的“天人合一”感在我们出生后很快就不见了,就好像我们人生的第一个篇章--和谐统一:婴儿,未成形,原始--结束了。它们似幻似影,而现实的世界是孤独彼此分离的。而在孩童期的某段时间,我们开始形成自我这个观点。宇宙中的小小个体有了自己的名字,有了自己的过去等等各种信息。这些关于自己的细节,看法和观点慢慢变成事实,成为我们身份的一部分。而那个自我,也变成我们人生路上前行的导航仪。然后,这个所谓的自我,是他人自我的映射,还是我们真实的自己呢?我们究竟想成为什么样,应该成为什么样的呢?
sothiswholeinteractionwithselfandidentitywasaverydifficultoneformegrowingup.theselfthatiattemptedtotakeoutintotheworldwasrejectedoverandoveragain.andmypanicatnothavingaselfthatfit,andtheconfusionthatcamefrommyselfbeingrejected,createdan_iety,shameandhopelessness,whichkindofdefinedmeforalongtime.butinretrospect,thedestructionofmyselfwassorepetitivethatistartedtoseeapattern.theselfchanged,gotaffected,broken,destroyed,butanotheronewouldevolve--sometimesstronger,sometimeshateful,sometimesnotwantingtobethereatall.theselfwasnotconstant.andhowmanytimeswouldmyselfhavetodiebeforeirealizedthatitwasneveraliveinthefirstplace?
这个和自我打交道,寻找自己身份的过程在我的成长记忆中一点都不容易。我想成为的那些“自我”不断被否定再否定,而我害怕自己无法融入周遭的环境,因被否定而引起的困惑让我变得更加忧虑,感到羞耻和无望,在很长一段时间就是我存在状态。然而回头看,对自我的解构是那么频繁,以至于我发现了这样一种规律。自我是变化的,受他人影响,分裂或被打败,而另一个自我会产生,这个自我可能更坚强,可能更可憎,有时你也不想变成那样。所谓自我不是固定不变的。而我需要经历多少次自我的破碎重生才会明白其实自我从来没有存在过?
igrewuponthecoastofenglandinthe'70s.mydadiswhitefromcornwall,andmymomisblackfromzimbabwe.eventheideaofusasafamilywaschallengingtomostpeople.butnaturehaditswickedway,andbrownbabieswereborn.butfromabouttheageoffive,iwasawarethatididn'tfit.iwastheblackatheistkidintheall-whitecatholicschoolrunbynuns.iwasananomaly,andmyselfwasrootingaroundfordefinitionandtryingtoplugin.becausetheselflikestofit,toseeitselfreplicated,tobelong.thatconfirmsitse_istenceanditsimportance.anditisimportant.ithasane_tremelyimportantfunction.withoutit,weliterallycan'tinterfacewithothers.wecan'thatchplansandclimbthatstairwayofpopularity,ofsuccess.butmyskincolorwasn'tright.myhairwasn'tright.myhistorywasn'tright.myselfbecamedefinedbyotherness,whichmeantthat,inthatsocialworld,ididn'treallye_ist.andiwas"other"beforebeinganythingelse--evenbeforebeingagirl.iwasanoticeablenobody.
我在70年代英格兰海边长大,我的父亲是康沃尔的白人,母亲是津巴布韦的黑人。而想象我和父母是一家人对于其他人来说总是不太自然。自然有它自己的魔术,棕色皮肤的宝宝诞生了。但从我五岁开始,我就有种感觉我不是这个群体的。我是一个全白人天主教会学校里面黑皮肤无神论小孩。我与他人是不同的,而那个热衷于归属的自我却到处寻找方式寻找归属感。这种认同感让自我感受到存在感和重要性,因此十分重要。这点是如此重要,如果没有自我,我们根本无法与他人沟通。没有它,我们无所适从,无法获取成功或变得受人欢迎。但我的肤色不对,我的头发不对,我的过去不对,我的一切都是另类定义的,在这个社会里,我其实并不真实存在。我首先是个异类,其次才是个女孩。我是可见却毫无意义的人。
anotherworldwasopeninguparoundthistime:performanceanddancing.thatnaggingdreadofself-hooddidn'te_istwheniwasdancing.i'dliterallylosemyself.andiwasareallygooddancer.iwouldputallmyemotionale_pressionintomydancing.icouldbeinthemovementinawaythatiwasn'tabletobeinmyreallife,inmyself.
这时候,另一个世界向我敞开了大门:舞蹈表演。那种关于自我的唠叨恐惧在舞蹈时消失了,我放开四肢,也成为了一位不错的舞者。我将所有的情绪都融入到舞蹈的动作中去,我可以在舞蹈中与自己相溶,尽管在现实生活中却无法做到。
andat16,istumbledacrossanotheropportunity,andiearnedmyfirstactingroleinafilm.icanhardlyfindthewordstodescribethepeaceifeltwheniwasacting.mydysfunctionalselfcouldactuallyplugintoanotherself,notmyown,anditfeltsogood.itwasthefirsttimethatie_istedinsideafully-functioningself--onethaticontrolled,thatisteered,thatigavelifeto.buttheshootingdaywouldend,andi'dreturntomygnarly,awkwardself.
16岁的时候,我遇到了另一个机会,第一部参演的电影。我无法用语言来表达在演戏的时候我所感受到的平和,我无处着落的自我可以与那个角色融为一体,而不是我自己。那感觉真棒。这是第一次我感觉到我拥有一个自我,我可以驾驭,令其富有盛名的自我。然而当拍摄结束,我又会回到自己粗糙不明,笨拙的自我。
by19,iwasafully-fledgedmovieactor,butstillsearchingfordefinition.iappliedtoreadanthropologyatuniversity.dr.phyllisleegavememyinterview,andsheaskedme,"howwouldyoudefinerace?"well,ithoughtihadtheanswertothatone,andisaid,"skincolor.""sobiology,genetics?"shesaid."because,thandie,that'snotaccurate.becausethere'sactuallymoregeneticdifferencebetweenablackkenyanandablackugandanthanthereisbetweenablackkenyanand,say,awhitenorwegian.becauseweallstemfromafrica.soinafrica,there'sbeenmoretimetocreategeneticdiversity."inotherwords,racehasnobasisinbiologicalorscientificfact.ontheonehand,result.right?ontheotherhand,mydefinitionofselfjustlostahugechunkofitscredibility.butwhatwascredible,whatisbiologicalandscientificfact,isthatweallstemfromafrica--infact,fromawomancalledmitochondrialevewholived160,000yearsago.andraceisanillegitimateconceptwhichourselveshavecreatedbasedonfearandignorance.
19岁的时候,我已经是富有经验的专业电影演员,而我还是在寻找自我的定义。我申请了大学的人类学专业。phyllislee博士面试了我,她问我:“你怎么定义种族?”我觉得我很了解这个话题,我说:“肤色。”“那么生物上来说呢,例如遗传基因?”她说,“thandie肤色并不全面,其实一个肯尼亚黑人和乌干达黑人之间基因差异比一个肯尼亚黑人和挪威白人之间差异要更多。因为我们都是从非洲来的,所以在非洲,基因变异演化的时间是最久的。”换句话说,种族在生物学或任何科学上都没有事实根据。另一方面,我对于自我的定义瞬时失去了一大片基础。但那就是生物学事实,我们都是非洲后裔,一位在1600__年前的伟大女性mitochondrialeve的后人。而种族这个无效的概念是我们基于恐惧和无知自己捏造出来的。
strangely,theserevelationsdidn'tcuremylowself-esteem,thatfeelingofotherness.mydesiretodisappearwasstillverypowerful.ihadadegreefromcambridge;ihadathrivingcareer,butmyselfwasacarcrash,andiwoundupwithbulimiaandonatherapist'scouch.andofcourseidid.istillbelievedmyselfwasalliwas.istillvaluedself-worthaboveallotherworth,andwhatwastheretosuggestotherwise?we'vecreatedentirevaluesystemsandaphysicalrealitytosupporttheworthofself.lookattheindustryforself-imageandthejobsitcreates,therevenueitturnsover.we'dberightinassumingthattheselfisanactuallivingthing.butit'snot.it'saprojectionwhichourcleverbrainscreateinordertocheatourselvesfromtherealityofdeath.
奇怪的是,这个发现并没有治好我的自卑,那种被排挤的感觉。我还是那么强烈地想要离开消失。我从剑桥拿到了学位,我有份充满发展的工作,然而我的自我还是一团糟,我得了催吐病不得不接受治疗师的帮助。我还是相信自我是我的全部。我还是坚信“自我”的价值甚过一切。而且我们身处的世界就是如此,我们的整个价值系统和现实环境都是在服务“自我”的价值。看看不同行业里面对于自我的塑造,看看它们创造的那些工作,产出的那些利润。我们甚至必须相信自我是真实存在的。但它们不是,自我不过是我们聪明的脑袋假想出来骗自己不去思考死亡这个话题的幌子。
butthereissomethingthatcangivetheselfultimateandinfiniteconnection--andthatthingisoneness,ouressence.theself'sstruggleforauthenticityanddefinitionwillneverendunlessit'sconnectedtoitscreator--toyouandtome.andthatcanhappenwithawareness--awarenessoftherealityofonenessandtheprojectionofself-hood.forastart,wecanthinkaboutallthetimeswhenwedoloseourselves.ithappenswhenidance,wheni'macting.i'mearthedinmyessence,andmyselfissuspended.inthosemoments,i'mconnectedtoeverything--theground,theair,thesounds,theenergyfromtheaudience.allmysensesarealertandaliveinmuchthesamewayasaninfantmightfeel--thatfeelingofoneness.
但其实我们的终极自我其实是我们的本源,合一。挣扎自我是否真实,究竟是什么永远没有终结,除非它和赋予它意义的创造者合一,就是你和我。而这点当我们意识到现实是你中有我,我中有你,和谐统一,而自我是种假象时就会体会到了。我们可以想想,什么时候我们是身心统一的,例如说我跳舞,表演的时候,我和我的本源连结,而我的自我被抛在一边。那时,我和身边的一切--空气,大地,声音,观众的反馈都连结在一起。我的知觉是敏锐和鲜活的,就像初生的婴儿那样,合一。
andwheni'mactingarole,iinhabitanotherself,andigiveitlifeforawhile,becausewhentheselfissuspendedsoisdivisivenessandjudgment.andi'veplayedeverythingfromavengefulghostinthetimeofslaverytosecretaryofstatein__.andnomatterhowothertheseselvesmightbe,they'reallrelatedinme.andihonestlybelievethekeytomysuccessasanactorandmyprogressasapersonhasbeentheverylackofselfthatusedtomakemefeelsoan_iousandinsecure.ialwayswonderedwhyicouldfeelothers'painsodeeply,whyicouldrecognizethesomebodyinthenobody.it'sbecauseididn'thaveaselftogetintheway.ithoughtilackedsubstance,andthefactthaticouldfeelothers'meantthatihadnothingofmyselftofeel.thethingthatwasasourceofshamewasactuallyasourceofenlightenment.
当我在演戏的时候,我让另一个自我住在我体内,我代表它行动。当我的自我被抛开,紧随的分歧和主观判断也消失了。我曾经扮演过奴隶时代的复仇鬼魂,也扮演过__年的国务卿。不管他们这些自我是怎样的,他们都在那时与我相连。而我也深信作为演员,我的成功,或是作为个体,我的成长都是源于我缺乏“自我”,那种缺乏曾经让我非常忧虑和不安。我总是不明白为什么我会那么深地感受到他人的痛苦,为什么我可以从不知名的人身上看出他人的印痕。是因为我没有所谓的自我来左右我感受的信息吧。我以为我缺少些什么,我以为我对他人的理解是因为我缺乏自我。那个曾经是我深感羞耻的东西其实是种启示。
andwhenirealizedandreallyunderstoodthatmyselfisaprojectionandthatithasafunction,afunnythinghappened.istoppedgivingitsomuchauthority.igiveititsdue.itakeittotherapy.i'vebecomeveryfamiliarwithitsdysfunctionalbehavior.buti'mnotashamedofmyself.infact,irespectmyselfanditsfunction.andovertimeandwithpractice,i'vetriedtolivemoreandmorefrommyessence.andifyoucandothat,incrediblethingshappen.
当我真的理解我的自我不过是种映射,是种工具,一件奇怪的事情发生了。我不再让它过多控制我的生活。我学习管理它,像把它带去看医生一样,我很熟悉那些因自我而失调的举动。我不因自我而羞耻,事实上,我很尊敬我的自我和它的功能。而随着时间过去,我的技术也更加熟练,我可以更多的和我的本源共存。如果你愿意尝试,不可以思议的事情也会发生在你身上。
iwasincongoinfebruary,dancingandcelebratingwithwomenwho'vesurvivedthedestructionoftheirselvesinliterallyunthinkableways--destroyedbecauseotherbrutalized,psychopathicselvesalloverthatbeautifullandarefuelingourselves'addictiontoipods,pads,andbling,whichfurtherdisconnectourselvesfromeverfeelingtheirpain,theirsuffering,theirdeath.because,hey,ifwe'realllivinginourselvesandmistakingitforlife,thenwe'redevaluinganddesensitizinglife.andinthatdisconnectedstate,yeah,wecanbuildfactoryfarmswithnowindows,destroymarinelifeanduserapeasaweaponofwar.sohere'sanotetoself:thecrackshavestartedtoshowinourconstructedworld,andoceanswillcontinuetosurgethroughthecracks,andoilandblood,riversofit.
今年二月,我在刚果和一群女性一起跳舞和庆祝,她们都是经历过各种无法想象事情“自我”遍体鳞伤的人们,那些备受摧残,心理变态的自我充斥在这片美丽的土地,而我们仍痴迷地追逐着ipod,pad等各种闪亮的东西,将我们与他们的痛苦,死亡隔得更远。如果我们各自生活在自我中,并无以为这就是生活,那么我们是在贬低和远离生命的意义。在这种脱节的状态中,我们是可以建设没有窗户的工厂,破坏海洋生态,将__作为战争的工具。为我们的自我做个解释:这是看似完善的世界里的裂痕,海洋,河流,石油和鲜血正不断地从缝中涌出。
crucially,wehaven'tbeenfiguringouthowtoliveinonenesswiththeearthandeveryotherlivingthing.we'vejustbeeninsanelytryingtofigureouthowtolivewitheachother--billionsofeachother.onlywe'renotlivingwitheachother;ourcrazyselvesarelivingwitheachotherandperpetuatinganepidemicofdisconnection.
关键的是,我们还没有明白如何和自然以及其他所有生物和谐地共处。我们只是疯狂地想和其他人沟通,几十亿其他人。只有当我们不在和世界合一的时候,我们疯狂的自我却互相怜惜,并永远继续这场相互隔绝的疫症。
let'slivewitheachotherandtakeitabreathatatime.ifwecangetunderthatheavyself,lightatorchofawareness,andfindouressence,ourconnectiontotheinfiniteandeveryotherlivingthing.weknewitfromthedaywewereborn.let'snotbefreakedoutbyourbountifulnothingness.it'smorearealitythantheonesourselveshavecreated.imaginewhatkindofe_istencewecanhaveifwehonorinevitabledeathofself,appreciatetheprivilegeoflifeandmarvelatwhatcomesne_t.simpleawarenessiswhereitbegins.
让我们共生共荣,并不要太过激进着急。试着放下沉重的自我,点亮知觉的火把,寻找我们的本源,我们与万事万物之间的联系。我们初生时就懂得这个道理的。不要被我们内心丰富的空白吓到,这比我们虚构的自我要真实。想象如果你能接受自我并不存在,你想要如何生活,感恩生命的可贵和未来的惊奇。简单的觉醒就是开始。
thankyouforlistening.
(applause)谢谢。
ted演讲稿范文篇2
IwasoneoftheonlykidsincollegewhohadareasontogototheP.O.bo_attheendoftheday,andthatwasmainlybecausemymotherhasneverbelievedinemail,inFacebook,inte_tingorcellphonesingeneral.AndsowhileotherkidswereBBM-ingtheirparents,Iwasliterallywaitingbythemailbo_togetaletterfromhometoseehowtheweekendhadgone,whichwasalittlefrustratingwhenGrandmawasinthehospital,butIwasjustlookingforsomesortofscribble,someunkemptcursivefrommymother.
AndsowhenImovedtoNewYorkCityaftercollegeandgotcompletelysucker-punchedinthefacebydepression,IdidtheonlythingIcouldthinkofatthetime.Iwrotethosesamekindsoflettersthatmymotherhadwrittenmeforstrangers,andtuckedthemallthroughoutthecity,dozensanddozensofthem.Ileftthemeverywhere,incafesandinlibraries,attheU.N.,everywhere.Ibloggedaboutthoselettersandthedayswhentheywerenecessary,andIposedakindofcrazypromisetotheInternet:thatifyouaskedmeforahand-writtenletter,Iwouldwriteyouone,noquestionsasked.Overnight,myinbo_morphedintothisharborofheartbreak--asinglemotherinSacramento,agirlbeingbulliedinruralKansas,allaskingme,a22-year-oldgirlwhobarelyevenknewherowncoffeeorder,towritethemaloveletterandgivethemareasontowaitbythemailbo_.
Well,todayIfuelaglobalorganizationthatisfueledbythosetripstothemailbo_,fueledbythewaysinwhichwecanharnesssocialmedialikeneverbeforetowriteandmailstrangersletterswhentheyneedthemmost,butmostofall,fueledbycratesofmaillikethisone,mytrustymailcrate,filledwiththescriptingsofordinarypeople,strangerswritingletterstootherstrangersnotbecausethey'reevergoingtomeetandlaughoveracupofcoffee,butbecausetheyhavefoundoneanotherbywayofletter-writing.
But,youknow,thethingthatalwaysgetsmeabouttheselettersisthatmostofthemhavebeenwrittenbypeoplethathaveneverknownthemselveslovedonapieceofpaper.Theycouldnottellyouabouttheinkoftheirownloveletters.They'retheonesfrommygeneration,theonesofusthathavegrownupintoaworldwhereeverythingispaperless,andwheresomeofourbestconversationshavehappeneduponascreen.WehavelearnedtodiaryourpainontoFacebook,andwespeakswiftlyin140charactersorless.
Butwhatifit'snotaboutefficiencythistime?Iwasonthesubwayyesterdaywiththismailcrate,whichisaconversationstarter,letmetellyou.Ifyoueverneedone,justcarryoneofthese.(Laughter)Andamanjuststaredatme,andhewaslike,"Well,whydon'tyouusetheInternet?"AndIthought,"Well,sir,Iamnotastrategist,noramIspecialist.Iammerelyastoryteller."AndsoIcouldtellyouaboutawomanwhosehusbandhasjustcomehomefromAfghanistan,andsheishavingahardtimeunearthingthisthingcalledconversation,andsoshetuckslovelettersthroughoutthehouseasawaytosay,"Comebacktome.Findmewhenyoucan."OragirlwhodecidesthatsheisgoingtoleavelovelettersaroundhercampusinDubuque,Iowa,onlytofindhereffortsripple-effectedthene_tdaywhenshewalksoutontothequadandfindslovelettershangingfromthetrees,tuckedinthebushesandthebenches.Orthemanwhodecidesthatheisgoingtotakehislife,usesFacebookasawaytosaygoodbyetofriendsandfamily.Well,tonighthesleepssafelywithastackoflettersjustlikethisonetuckedbeneathhispillow,scriptedbystrangerswhowerethereforhimwhen.
Thesearethekindsofstoriesthatconvincedmethatletter-writingwillneveragainneedtoflipbackherhairandtalkaboutefficiency,becausesheisanartformnow,allthepartsofher,thesigning,thescripting,themailing,thedoodlesinthemargins.Themerefactthatsomebodywouldevenjustsitdown,pulloutapieceofpaperandthinkaboutsomeonethewholewaythrough,withanintentionthatissomuchhardertounearthwhenthebrowserisupandtheiPhoneispingingandwe'vegotsi_conversationsrollinginatonce,thatisanartformthatdoesnotfalldowntotheGoliathof"getfaster,"nomatterhowmanysocialnetworkswemightjoin.Westillclutchclosetheseletterstoourchest,tothewordsthatspeaklouderthanloud,whenweturnpagesintopalettestosaythethingsthatwehaveneededtosay,thewordsthatwehaveneededtowrite,tosistersandbrothersandeventostrangers,forfartoolong.Thankyou.
ted演讲稿范文篇3
简介:残奥会短跑冠军aimeemullins天生没有腓骨,从小就要学习靠义肢走路和奔跑。如今,她不仅是短跑选手、演员、模特,还是一位稳健的演讲者。她不喜欢字典中“disabled”这个词,因为负面词汇足以毁掉一个人。但是,坦然面对不幸,你会发现等待你的是更多的机会。
i'dliketosharewithyouadiscoverythatimadeafewmonthsagowhilewritinganarticleforitalianwired.ialwayskeepmythesaurushandywheneveri'mwritinganything,buti'dalreadyfinishededitingthepiece,andirealizedthatihadneveronceinmylifelookeduptheword"disabled"toseewhati'dfind.
letmereadyoutheentry."disabled,adjective:crippled,helpless,useless,wrecked,stalled,maimed,wounded,mangled,lame,mutilated,run-down,worn-out,weakened,impotent,castrated,paralyzed,handicapped,senile,decrepit,laid-up,done-up,done-for,done-incracked-up,counted-out;seealsohurt,uselessandweak.antonyms,healthy,strong,capable."iwasreadingthislistoutloudtoafriendandatfirstwaslaughing,itwassoludicrous,buti'djustgottenpast"mangled,"andmyvoicebroke,andihadtostopandcollectmyselffromtheemotionalshockandimpactthattheassaultfromthesewordsunleashed.
youknow,ofcourse,thisismyraggedyoldthesaurussoi'mthinkingthismustbeanancientprintdate,right?but,infact,theprintdatewastheearly1980s,wheniwouldhavebeenstartingprimaryschoolandforminganunderstandingofmyselfoutsidethefamilyunitandasrelatedtotheotherkidsandtheworldaroundme.and,needlesstosay,thankgodiwasn'tusingathesaurusbackthen.imean,fromthisentry,itwouldseemthatiwasbornintoaworldthatperceivedsomeonelikemetohavenothingpositivewhatsoevergoingforthem,wheninfact,todayi'mcelebratedfortheopportunitiesandadventuresmylifehasprocured.
so,iimmediatelywenttolookupthe__onlineedition,e_pectingtofindarevisionworthnoting.here'stheupdatedversionofthisentry.unfortunately,it'snotmuchbetter.ifindthelasttwowordsunder"nearantonyms,"particularlyunsettling:"whole"and"wholesome."
so,it'snotjustaboutthewords.it'swhatwebelieveaboutpeoplewhenwenamethemwiththesewords.it'saboutthevaluesbehindthewords,andhowweconstructthosevalues.ourlanguageaffectsourthinkingandhowweviewtheworldandhowweviewotherpeople.infact,manyancientsocieties,includingthegreeksandtheromans,believedthattoutteracurseverballywassopowerful,becausetosaythethingoutloudbroughtitintoe_istence.so,whatrealitydowewanttocallintoe_istence:apersonwhoislimited,orapersonwho'sempowered?bycasuallydoingsomethingassimpleasnamingaperson,achild,wemightbeputtinglidsandcastingshadowsontheirpower.wouldn'twewanttoopendoorsfortheminstead?
onesuchpersonwhoopeneddoorsformewasmychildhooddoctoratthea.i.dupontinstituteinwilmington,delaware.hisnamewasdr.pizzutillo,anitalianamerican,whosename,apparently,wastoodifficultformostamericanstopronounce,sohewentbydr.p.anddr.palwaysworereallycolorfulbowtiesandhadtheveryperfectdispositiontoworkwithchildren.
ilovedalmosteverythingaboutmytimespentatthishospital,withthee_ceptionofmyphysicaltherapysessions.ihadtodowhatseemedlikeinnumerablerepetitionsofe_erciseswiththesethick,elasticbands--differentcolors,youknow--tohelpbuildupmylegmuscles,andihatedthesebandsmorethananything--ihatedthem,hadnamesforthem.ihatedthem.and,youknow,iwasalreadybargaining,asafiveyear-oldchild,withdr.ptotrytogetoutofdoingthesee_ercises,unsuccessfully,ofcourse.and,oneday,hecameintomysession--e_haustiveandunforgiving,thesesessions--andhesaidtome,"wow.aimee,youaresuchastrongandpowerfullittlegirl,ithinkyou'regoingtobreakoneofthosebands.whenyoudobreakit,i'mgoingtogiveyouahundredbucks."
now,ofcourse,thiswasasimpleployondr.p'sparttogetmetodothee_ercisesididn'twanttodobeforetheprospectofbeingtherichestfive-year-oldinthesecondfloorward,butwhatheeffectivelydidformewasreshapeanawfuldailyoccurrenceintoanewandpromisinge_perienceforme.andihavetowondertodaytowhate_tenthisvisionandhisdeclarationofmeasastrongandpowerfullittlegirlshapedmyownviewofmyselfasaninherentlystrong,powerfulandathleticpersonwellintothefuture.
thisisane_ampleofhowadultsinpositionsofpowercanignitethepowerofachild.but,inthepreviousinstancesofthosethesaurusentries,ourlanguageisn'tallowingustoevolveintotherealitythatwewouldallwant,thepossibilityofanindividualtoseethemselvesascapable.ourlanguagehasn'tcaughtupwiththechangesinoursociety,manyofwhichhavebeenbroughtaboutbytechnology.certainly,fromamedicalstandpoint,mylegs,lasersurgeryforvisionimpairment,titaniumkneesandhipreplacementsforagingbodiesthatareallowingpeopletomorefullyengagewiththeirabilities,andmovebeyondthelimitsthatnaturehasimposedonthem--nottomentionsocialnetworkingplatformsallowpeopletoself-identify,toclaimtheirowndescriptionsofthemselves,sotheycangoalignwithglobalgroupsoftheirownchoosing.so,perhapstechnologyisrevealingmoreclearlytousnowwhathasalwaysbeenatruth:thateveryonehassomethingrareandpowerfultoofferoursociety,andthatthehumanabilitytoadaptisourgreatestasset.
thehumanabilitytoadapt,it'saninterestingthing,becausepeoplehavecontinuallywantedtotalktomeaboutovercomingadversity,andi'mgoingtomakeanadmission:thisphraseneversatrightwithme,andialwaysfeltuneasytryingtoanswerpeople'squestionsaboutit,andithinki'mstartingtofigureoutwhy.implicitinthisphraseof"overcomingadversity"istheideathatsuccess,orhappiness,isaboutemergingontheothersideofachallenginge_perienceunscathedorunmarkedbythee_perience,asifmysuccessesinlifehavecomeaboutfromanabilitytosidesteporcircumnavigatethepresumedpitfallsofalifewithprosthetics,orwhatotherpeopleperceiveasmydisability.but,infact,wearechanged.wearemarked,ofcourse,byachallenge,whetherphysically,emotionallyorboth.andi'mgoingtosuggestthatthisisagoodthing.adversityisn'tanobstaclethatweneedtogetaroundinordertoresumelivingourlife.it'spartofourlife.anditendtothinkofitlikemyshadow.sometimesiseealotofit,sometimesthere'sverylittle,butit'salwayswithme.and,certainly,i'mnottryingtodiminishtheimpact,theweight,ofaperson'sstruggle.
thereisadversityandchallengeinlife,andit'sallveryrealandrelativetoeverysingleperson,butthequestionisn'twhetherornotyou'regoingtomeetadversity,buthowyou'regoingtomeetit.so,ourresponsibilityisnotsimplyshieldingthosewecareforfromadversity,butpreparingthemtomeetitwell.andwedoadisservicetoourkidswhenwemakethemfeelthatthey'renotequippedtoadapt.there'sanimportantdifferenceanddistinctionbetweentheobjectivemedicalfactofmybeinganamputeeandthesubjectivesocietalopinionofwhetherornoti'mdisabled.and,truthfully,theonlyrealandconsistentdisabilityi'vehadtoconfrontistheworldeverthinkingthaticouldbedescribedbythosedefinitions.
inourdesiretoprotectthosewecareaboutbygivingthemthecold,hardtruthabouttheirmedicalprognosis,or,indeed,aprognosisonthee_pectedqualityoftheirlife,wehavetomakesurethatwedon'tputthefirstbrickinawallthatwillactuallydisablesomeone.perhapsthee_istingmodelofonlylookingatwhatisbrokeninyouandhowdowefi_it,servestobemoredisablingtotheindividualthanthepathologyitself.
bynottreatingthewholenessofaperson,bynotacknowledgingtheirpotency,wearecreatinganotherillontopofwhatevernaturalstruggletheymighthave.weareeffectivelygradingsomeone'sworthtoourcommunity.soweneedtoseethroughthepathologyandintotherangeofhumancapability.and,mostimportantly,there'sapartnershipbetweenthoseperceiveddeficienciesandourgreatestcreativeability.soit'snotaboutdevaluing,ornegating,thesemoretryingtimesassomethingwewanttoavoidorsweepundertherug,butinsteadtofindthoseopportunitieswrappedintheadversity.somaybetheideaiwanttoputoutthereisnotsomuchovercomingadversityasitisopeningourselvesuptoit,embracingit,grapplingwithit,touseawrestlingterm,maybeevendancingwithit.and,perhaps,ifweseeadversityasnatural,consistentanduseful,we'relessburdenedbythepresenceofit.
thisyearwecelebratethe200thbirthdayofcharlesdarwin,anditwas150yearsago,whenwritingaboutevolution,thatdarwinillustrated,ithink,atruthaboutthehumancharacter.toparaphrase:it'snotthestrongestofthespeciesthatsurvives,norisitthemostintelligentthatsurvives;itistheonethatismostadaptabletochange.conflictisthegenesisofcreation.fromdarwin'swork,amongstothers,wecanrecognizethatthehumanabilitytosurviveandflourishisdrivenbythestruggleofthehumanspiritthroughconflictintotransformation.so,again,transformation,adaptation,isourgreatesthumanskill.and,perhaps,untilwe'retested,wedon'tknowwhatwe'remadeof.maybethat'swhatadversitygivesus:asenseofself,asenseofourownpower.so,wecangiveourselvesagift.wecanre-imagineadversityassomethingmorethanjusttoughtimes.maybewecanseeitaschange.adversityisjustchangethatwehaven'tadaptedourselvestoyet.
ithinkthegreatestadversitythatwe'vecreatedforourselvesisthisideaofnormalcy.now,who'snormal?there'snonormal.there'scommon,there'stypical.there'snonormal,andwouldyouwanttomeetthatpoor,beigepersoniftheye_isted?(laughter)idon'tthinkso.ifwecanchangethisparadigmfromoneofachievingnormalcytooneofpossibility--orpotency,tobeevenalittlebitmoredangerous--wecanreleasethepowerofsomanymorechildren,andinvitethemtoengagetheirrareandvaluableabilitieswiththecommunity.
anthropologiststellusthattheonethingweashumanshavealwaysrequiredofourcommunitymembersistobeofuse,tobeabletocontribute.there'sevidencethatneanderthals,60,000yearsago,carriedtheirelderlyandthosewithseriousphysicalinjury,andperhapsit'sbecausethelifee_perienceofsurvivalofthesepeopleprovedofvaluetothecommunity.theydidn'tviewthesepeopleasbrokenanduseless;theywereseenasrareandvaluable.
afewyearsago,iwasinafoodmarketinthetownwhereigrewupinthatredzoneinnortheasternpennsylvania,andiwasstandingoverabusheloftomatoes.itwassummertime:ihadshortson.ihearthisguy,hisvoicebehindmesay,"well,ifitisn'taimeemullins."anditurnaround,andit'sthisolderman.ihavenoideawhoheis.
andisaid,"i'msorry,sir,havewemet?idon'tremembermeetingyou."
hesaid,"well,youwouldn'tremembermeetingme.imean,whenwemetiwasdeliveringyoufromyourmother'swomb."(laughter)oh,thatguy.and,butofcourse,actually,itdidclick.
thismanwasdr.kean,amanthatihadonlyknownaboutthroughmymother'sstoriesofthatday,because,ofcourse,typicalfashion,iarrivedlateformybirthdaybytwoweeks.andsomymother'sprenatalphysicianhadgoneonvacation,sothemanwhodeliveredmewasacompletestrangertomyparents.and,becauseiwasbornwithoutthefibulabones,andhadfeetturnedin,andafewtoesinthisfootandafewtoesinthat,hehadtobethebearer--thisstrangerhadtobethebearerofbadnews.
hesaidtome,"ihadtogivethisprognosistoyourparentsthatyouwouldneverwalk,andyouwouldneverhavethekindofmobilitythatotherkidshaveoranykindoflifeofindependence,andyou'vebeenmakingliaroutofmeeversince."(laughter)(applause)
thee_traordinarythingisthathesaidhehadsavednewspaperclippingsthroughoutmywholechildhood,whetherwinningasecondgradespellingbee,marchingwiththegirlscouts,youknow,thehalloweenparade,winningmycollegescholarship,oranyofmysportsvictories,andhewasusingit,andintegratingitintoteachingresidentstudents,medstudentsfromhahnemannmedicalschoolandhersheymedicalschool.andhecalledthispartofthecoursethe_factor,thepotentialofthehumanwill.noprognosiscanaccountforhowpowerfulthiscouldbeasadeterminantinthequalityofsomeone'slife.anddr.keanwentontotellme,hesaid,"inmye_perience,unlessrepeatedlytoldotherwise,andevenifgivenamodicumofsupport,iflefttotheirowndevices,achildwillachieve."
see,dr.keanmadethatshiftinthinking.heunderstoodthatthere'sadifferencebetweenthemedicalconditionandwhatsomeonemightdowithit.andthere'sbeenashiftinmythinkingovertime,inthat,ifyouhadaskedmeat15yearsold,ifiwouldhavetradedprostheticsforflesh-and-bonelegs,iwouldn'thavehesitatedforasecond.iaspiredtothatkindofnormalcybackthen.butifyouaskmetoday,i'mnotsosure.andit'sbecauseofthee_periencesi'vehadwiththem,notinspiteofthee_periencesi'vehadwiththem.andperhapsthisshiftinmehashappenedbecausei'vebeene_posedtomorepeoplewhohaveopeneddoorsformethanthosewhohaveputlidsandcastshadowsonme.
see,allyoureallyneedisonepersontoshowyoutheepiphanyofyourownpower,andyou'reoff.ifyoucanhandsomebodythekeytotheirownpower--thehumanspiritissoreceptive--ifyoucandothatandopenadoorforsomeoneatacrucialmoment,youareeducatingtheminthebestsense.you'reteachingthemtoopendoorsforthemselves.infact,thee_actmeaningoftheword"educate"comesfromtherootword"educe."itmeans"tobringforthwhatiswithin,tobringoutpotential."soagain,whichpotentialdowewanttobringout?
therewasacasestudydonein1960sbritain,whentheyweremovingfromgrammarschoolstocomprehensiveschools.it'scalledthestreamingtrials.wecallit"tracking"hereinthestates.it'sseparatingstudentsfroma,b,c,dandsoon.andthe"astudents"getthetoughercurriculum,thebestteachers,etc.well,theytook,overathree-monthperiod,d-levelstudents,gavethema's,toldthemtheywere"a's,"toldthemtheywerebright,andattheendofthisthree-monthperiod,theywereperformingata-level.
and,ofcourse,theheartbreaking,flipsideofthisstudy,isthattheytookthe"astudents"andtoldthemtheywere"d's."andthat'swhathappenedattheendofthatthree-monthperiod.thosewhowerestillaroundinschool,besidesthepeoplewhohaddroppedout.acrucialpartofthiscasestudywasthattheteachersweredupedtoo.theteachersdidn'tknowaswitchhadbeenmade.theyweresimplytold,"thesearethe'a-students,'thesearethe'd-students.'"andthat'showtheywentaboutteachingthemandtreatingthem.
so,ithinkthattheonlytruedisabilityisacrushedspirit,aspiritthat'sbeencrusheddoesn'thavehope,itdoesn'tseebeauty,itnolongerhasournatural,childlikecuriosityandourinnateabilitytoimagine.ifinstead,wecanbolsterahumanspirittokeephope,toseebeautyinthemselvesandothers,tobecuriousandimaginative,thenwearetrulyusingourpowerwell.whenaspirithasthosequalities,weareabletocreatenewrealitiesandnewwaysofbeing.
i'dliketoleaveyouwithapoembyafourteenth-centurypersianpoetnamedhafizthatmyfriend,jacquesdemboistoldmeabout,andthepoemiscalled"thegodwhoonlyknowsfourwords":"everychildhasknowngod,notthegodofnames,notthegodofdon'ts,butthegodwhoonlyknowsfourwordsandkeepsrepeatingthem,saying,'comedancewithme.come,dancewithme.come,dancewithme.'"
thankyou.(applause)
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chineserestaurantshaveplayedanimportantroleinamericanhistory,asamatteroffact.thecubanmissilecrisiswasresolvedinachineserestaurantcalledyenchingpalaceinwashington,d.c.,whichunfortunatelyisclosednow,andabouttobeturnedintowalgreen's.andthehousethatjohnwilkesboothplannedtheassassinationofabrahamlincolnisactuallyalsonowachineserestaurantcalledwok'nroll,onhstreetinwashington.
事实上,中国餐馆在美国历史上发挥了很重要的作用。古巴导弹危机是在华盛顿一家名叫“燕京馆”的中餐馆里解决的。很不幸,这家餐馆现在关门了,即将被改建成沃尔格林连锁药店。而约翰·威尔克斯·布斯刺杀林肯总统的那所房子现在也成了一家中餐馆,就是位于华盛顿的“锅和卷”。
andifyouthinkaboutit,alotofthefoodsthatyouthinkoforwethinkoforamericansthinkofaschinesefoodarebarelyrecognizabletochinese,fore_ample:beefwithbroccoli,eggrolls,generaltso'schicken,fortunecookies,chopsuey,thetake-outbo_es.
如果你仔细想想,就会发现很多你们所认为或我们所认为,或是美国人所认为的中国食物,中国人并不认识。比如西兰花牛肉、蛋卷、左宗棠鸡、幸运饼干、杂碎、外卖盒子。
so,theinterestingquestionis,howdoyougofromfortunecookiesbeingsomethingthatisjapanesetobeingsomethingthatischinese?well,theshortansweris,welockedupallthejapaneseduringworldwarii,includingthosethatmadefortunecookies,sothat'sthetimewhenthechinesemovedin,kindofsawamarketopportunityandtookover.
所以有趣的是,幸运饼干是怎么从日本的东西变成中国的东西的呢?简单地说,我们在二战时扣押了所以的日本人,包括那些做幸运饼干的。这时候,中国人来了,看到了商机,自然就据为己有了。
generaltso'schicken--which,bytheway,intheusnavalacademyiscalledadmiraltso'schicken.ilovethisdish.theoriginalnameinmybookwasactuallycalledthelongmarchofgeneraltso,andhehasmarchedveryfarindeed,becauseheissweet,heisfried,andheischicken--allthingsthatamericanslove.
左宗棠鸡,在美国海军军校被称为左司令鸡。我很喜欢这道菜。在我的书里,这道菜实际上叫左将军的长征,它确实在美国很受欢迎,因为它是甜的,油炸的,是鸡肉做的——全部都是美国人的最爱。
so,youknow,irealizedwheniwasthere,generaltsoiskindofalotlikecolonelsandersinamerica,inthathe'sknownforchickenandnotwar.butinchina,thisguy'sactuallyknownforwarandnotchicken.
我意识到左宗棠将军有点像美国的桑德斯上校(肯德基创始人),因为他是因鸡肉而出名的而不是战争。而在中国,左宗棠确实是因为战争而不是鸡肉闻名的。
soit'skindofpartofthephenomenonicalledspontaneousself-organization,right,where,likeinantcolonies,wherelittledecisionsmadeby--onthemicro-levelactuallyhaveabigimpactonthemacro-level.
这就有点像我所说的自发组织现象。就像在蚂蚁群中,在微观层面上做的小小决定会在宏观层面上产生巨大的影响。
andthegreatinnovationofchickenmcnuggetswasnotnuggetfyingthem,becausethat'skindofaneasyconcept,butthetrickbehindchickenmcnuggetswas,theywereabletoremovethechickenfromtheboneinacost-effectivemanner,whichiswhyittooksolongforotherpeopletocopythem.
麦乐鸡块的发明并没有给他们带来切实收益,因为这个想法很简单,但麦乐鸡背后的技巧是如何用一种划算的方式来把鸡肉从骨头上剔出来。这就是为什么过了这么久才有人模仿他们。
wecanthinkofchineserestaurantsperhapsaslinu_:sortofanopensourcething,right,whereideasfromonepersoncanbecopiedandpropagatedacrosstheentiresystem,thattherecanbespecializedversionsofchinesefood,youknow,dependingontheregion.
我们可以把中餐馆比作linu_:一种开源系统。一个人的想法可以在整个系统中被复制,被普及。在不同的地区,就有特别版本的中国菜。
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inafunny,rapid-fire4minutes,ale_isohanianofreddittellsthereal-lifefableofonehumpbackwhale'srisetowebstardom.thelessonofmistersplashypantsisashoo-inclassicformeme-makersandmarketersinthefacebookage.
这段有趣的4分钟演讲,来自reddit网站创始人ale_isohanian。他讲了一个座头鲸在网上一夜成名的真实故事。“溅水先生”的故事是脸书时代米姆(小编注:根据《牛津英语词典》,meme被定义为:“文化的基本单位,通过非遗传的方式,特别是模仿而得到传递。”)制造者和传播者共同创造的经典案例。
演讲的开头,ale_isohanian介绍了“溅水先生”的故事。“绿色和平”环保组织为了阻止日本的捕鲸行为,在一只鲸鱼体内植入新片,并发起一个为这只座头鲸起名的活动。“绿色和平”组织希望起低调奢华有内涵的名字,但经过reddit的宣传和推动,票数最多的却是非常不高大上的“溅水先生”这个名字。经过几番折腾,“绿色和平”接受了这个名字,并且这一行动成功阻止了日本捕鲸活动。
演讲内容节选(ale_ohanian从社交网络的角度分析这个事件)
andactually,redditorsintheinternetcommunitywerehappytoparticipate,buttheyweren'twhalelovers.afewofthemcertainlywere.butwe'retalkingaboutalotofpeoplewhowerejustreallyinterestedandreallycaughtupinthisgreatmeme,andinfactsomeonefromgreenpeacecamebackonthesiteandthankedredditforitsparticipation.butthiswasn'treallyoutofaltruism.thiswasjustoutofinterestindoingsomethingcool.
事实上,reddit的社区用户们很高兴参与其中,但他们并非是鲸鱼爱好者。当然,他们中的一小部分或许是。我们看到的是一群人积极地去参与到这个米姆(社会活动)中,实际上“绿色和平”中的人登陆,感谢大家的参与。网友们这么做并非是完全的利他主义。他们只是觉得做这件事很酷。
andthisiskindofhowtheinternetworks.thisisthatgreatbigsecret.becausetheinternetprovidesthislevelplayingfield.yourlinkisjustasgoodasyourlink,whichisjustasgoodasmylink.aslongaswehaveabrowser,anyonecangettoanywebsitenomatterhowbigabudgetyouhave.
这就是互联网的运作方式。这就是我说的秘密。因为互联网提供的是一个机会均等平台。你分享的链接跟他分享的链接一样有趣,我分享的链接也不赖。只要我们有一个浏览器,不论你的财富几何,你都可以去到想浏览的页面。
theotherimportantthingisthatitcostsnothingtogetthatcontentonlinenow.therearesomanygreatpublishingtoolsthatareavailable,itonlytakesafewminutesofyourtimenowtoactuallyproducesomething.andthecostofiterationissocheapthatyoumightaswellgiveitago.
另外,从互联网获取内容不需要任何成本。如今,互联网有各种各样的发布工具,你只需要几分钟就可以成为内容的提供者。这种行为的成本非常低,你也可以试试。
andifyoudo,begenuineaboutit.behonest.beupfront.andoneofthegreatlessonsthatgreenpeaceactuallylearnedwasthatit'sokaytolosecontrol.thefinalmessagethatiwanttosharewithallofyou--thatyoucandowellonline.ifyouwanttosucceedyou'vegottobeokaytojustlosecontrol.thankyou.
如果你真的决定试试,那么请真挚、诚实、坦率地去做。“绿色和平”在这个故事中获得的教训是,有时候失控并不一定是坏事。最后我想告诉你们的是——你可以在网络上做得很好。如果你想在网络上成功,你得经得起一点失控。谢谢。
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wheniwassevenyearsoldandmysisterwasjustfiveyearsold,wewereplayingontopofabunkbed.iwastwoyearsolderthanmysisteratthetime--imean,i'mtwoyearsolderthanhernow--butatthetimeitmeantshehadtodoeverythingthatiwantedtodo,andiwantedtoplaywar.sowewereupontopofourbunkbeds.andononesideofthebunkbed,ihadputoutallofmyg.i.joesoldiersandweaponry.andontheothersidewereallmysister'smylittleponiesreadyforacavalrycharge.
therearedifferingaccountsofwhatactuallyhappenedthatafternoon,butsincemysisterisnotherewithustoday,letmetellyouthetruestory--(laughter)--whichismysister'salittlebitontheclumsyside.somehow,withoutanyhelporpushfromherolderbrotheratall,suddenlyamydisappearedoffofthetopofthebunkbedandlandedwiththiscrashonthefloor.nowinervouslypeeredoverthesideofthebedtoseewhathadbefallenmyfallensisterandsawthatshehadlandedpainfullyonherhandsandkneesonallfoursontheground.
iwasnervousbecausemyparentshadchargedmewithmakingsurethatmysisterandiplayedassafelyandasquietlyaspossible.andseeingashowihadaccidentallybrokenamy'sarmjustoneweekbefore...(laughter)...heroicallypushingheroutofthewayofanoncomingimaginarysniperbullet,(laughter)forwhichihaveyettobethanked,iwastryingashardasicould--shedidn'tevenseeitcoming--iwastryingashardasicouldtobeonmybestbehavior.
andisawmysister'sface,thiswailofpainandsufferingandsurprisethreateningtoeruptfromhermouthandthreateningtowakemyparentsfromthelongwinter'snapforwhichtheyhadsettled.soididtheonlythingmylittlefranticsevenyear-oldbraincouldthinktodotoavertthistragedy.andifyouhavechildren,you'veseenthishundredsoftimesbefore.isaid,"amy,amy,wait.don'tcry.don'tcry.didyouseehowyoulanded?nohumanlandsonallfourslikethat.amy,ithinkthismeansyou'reaunicorn."
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nowthatwascheating,becausetherewasnothingintheworldmysisterwouldwantmorethannottobeamythehurtfiveyear-oldlittlesister,butamythespecialunicorn.ofcourse,thiswasanoptionthatwasopentoherbrainatnopointinthepast.andyoucouldseehowmypoor,manipulatedsisterfacedconflict,asherlittlebrainattemptedtodevoteresourcestofeelingthepainandsufferingandsurpriseshejuste_perienced,orcontemplatinghernew-foundidentityasaunicorn.andthelatterwonout.insteadofcrying,insteadofceasingourplay,insteadofwakingmyparents,withallthenegativeconsequencesthatwouldhaveensuedforme,insteadasmilespreadacrossherfaceandshescrambledrightbackupontothebunkbedwithallthegraceofababyunicorn...(laughter)...withonebrokenleg.
whatwestumbledacrossatthistenderageofjustfiveandseven--wehadnoideaatthetime--wassomethingthatwasgoingbeatthevanguardofascientificrevolutionoccurringtwodecadeslaterinthewaythatwelookatthehumanbrain.whatwehadstumbledacrossissomethingcalledpositivepsychology,whichisthereasonthati'mheretodayandthereasonthatiwakeupeverymorning.
whenifirststartedtalkingaboutthisresearchoutsideofacademia,outwithcompaniesandschools,theveryfirstthingtheysaidtoneverdoistostartyourtalkwithagraph.theveryfirstthingiwanttodoisstartmytalkwithagraph.thisgraphlooksboring,butthisgraphisthereasonigete_citedandwakeupeverymorning.andthisgraphdoesn'tevenmeananything;it'sfakedata.whatwefoundis--
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ifigotthisdatabackstudyingyouhereintheroom,iwouldbethrilled,becausethere'sveryclearlyatrendthat'sgoingonthere,andthatmeansthaticangetpublished,whichisallthatreallymatters.thefactthatthere'soneweirdreddotthat'supabovethecurve,there'soneweirdointheroom--iknowwhoyouare,isawyouearlier--that'snoproblem.that'snoproblem,asmostofyouknow,becauseicanjustdeletethatdot.icandeletethatdotbecausethat'sclearlyameasurementerror.andweknowthat'sameasurementerrorbecauseit'smessingupmydata.
sooneoftheveryfirstthingsweteachpeopleineconomicsandstatisticsandbusinessandpsychologycoursesishow,inastatisticallyvalidway,doweeliminatetheweirdos.howdoweeliminatetheoutlierssowecanfindthelineofbestfit?whichisfantasticifi'mtryingtofindouthowmanyadviltheaveragepersonshouldbetaking--two.butifi'minterestedinpotential,ifi'minterestedinyourpotential,orforhappinessorproductivityorenergyorcreativity,whatwe'redoingiswe'recreatingthecultoftheaveragewithscience.
ifiaskedaquestionlike,"howfastcanachildlearnhowtoreadinaclassroom?"scientistschangetheanswerto"howfastdoestheaveragechildlearnhowtoreadinthatclassroom?"andthenwetailortheclassrighttowardstheaverage.nowifyoufallbelowtheaverageonthiscurve,thenpsychologistsgetthrilled,becausethatmeansyou'reeitherdepressedoryouhaveadisorder,orhopefullyboth.we'rehopingforbothbecauseourbusinessmodelis,ifyoucomeintoatherapysessionwithoneproblem,wewanttomakesureyouleaveknowingyouhave10,soyoukeepcomingbackoverandoveragain.we'llgobackintoyourchildhoodifnecessary,buteventuallywhatwewanttodoismakeyounormalagain.butnormalismerelyaverage.
andwhatipositandwhatpositivepsychologypositsisthatifwestudywhatismerelyaverage,wewillremainmerelyaverage.theninsteadofdeletingthosepositiveoutliers,whatiintentionallydoiscomeintoapopulationlikethisoneandsay,why?whyisitthatsomeofyouaresohighabovethecurveintermsofyourintellectualability,athleticability,musicalability,creativity,energylevels,yourresiliencyinthefaceofchallenge,yoursenseofhumor?whateveritis,insteadofdeletingyou,whatiwanttodoisstudyyou.becausemaybewecangleaninformation--notjusthowtomovepeopleuptotheaverage,buthowwecanmovetheentireaverageupinourcompaniesandschoolsworldwide.
thereasonthisgraphisimportanttomeis,wheniturnonthenews,itseemslikethemajorityoftheinformationisnotpositive,infactit'snegative.mostofit'saboutmurder,corruption,diseases,naturaldisasters.andveryquickly,mybrainstartstothinkthat'stheaccurateratioofnegativetopositiveintheworld.whatthat'sdoingiscreatingsomethingcalledthemedicalschoolsyndrome--which,ifyouknowpeoplewho'vebeentomedicalschool,duringthefirstyearofmedicaltraining,asyoureadthroughalistofallthesymptomsanddiseasesthatcouldhappen,suddenlyyourealizeyouhaveallofthem.
ihaveabrotherin-lawnamedbobo--whichisawholeotherstory.bobomarriedamytheunicorn.bobocalledmeonthephonefromyalemedicalschool,andbobosaid,"shawn,ihaveleprosy."(laughter)which,evenatyale,ise_traordinarilyrare.butihadnoideahowtoconsolepoorbobobecausehehadjustgottenoveranentireweekofmenopause.
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seewhatwe'refindingisit'snotnecessarilytherealitythatshapesus,butthelensthroughwhichyourbrainviewstheworldthatshapesyourreality.andifwecanchangethelens,notonlycanwechangeyourhappiness,wecanchangeeverysingleeducationalandbusinessoutcomeatthesametime.
wheniappliedtoharvard,iappliedonadare.ididn'te_pecttogetin,andmyfamilyhadnomoneyforcollege.whenigotamilitaryscholarshiptwoweekslater,theyallowedmetogo.suddenly,somethingthatwasn'tevenapossibilitybecameareality.wheniwentthere,iassumedeveryoneelsewouldseeitasaprivilegeaswell,thatthey'dbee_citedtobethere.evenifyou'reinaclassroomfullofpeoplesmarterthanyou,you'dbehappyjusttobeinthatclassroom,whichiswhatifelt.butwhatifoundthereis,whilesomepeoplee_periencethat,whenigraduatedaftermyfouryearsandthenspentthene_teightyearslivinginthedormswiththestudents--harvardaskedmeto;iwasn'tthatguy.(laughter)iwasanofficerofharvardtocounselstudentsthroughthedifficultfouryears.andwhatifoundinmyresearchandmyteachingisthatthesestudents,nomatterhowhappytheywerewiththeiroriginalsuccessofgettingintotheschool,twoweekslatertheirbrainswerefocused,notontheprivilegeofbeingthere,norontheirphilosophyortheirphysics.theirbrainwasfocusedonthecompetition,theworkload,thehassles,thestresses,thecomplaints.
whenifirstwentinthere,iwalkedintothefreshmendininghall,whichiswheremyfriendsfromwaco,te_as,whichiswhereigrewup--iknowsomeofyouhaveheardofit.whenthey'dcometovisitme,they'dlookaround,they'dsay,"thisfreshmandininghalllookslikesomethingoutofhogwart'sfromthemovie"harrypotter,"whichitdoes.thisishogwart'sfromthemovie"harrypotter"andthat'sharvard.andwhentheyseethis,theysay,"shawn,whydoyouwasteyourtimestudyinghappinessatharvard?seriously,whatdoesaharvardstudentpossiblyhavetobeunhappyabout?"
embeddedwithinthatquestionisthekeytounderstandingthescienceofhappiness.becausewhatthatquestionassumesisthatoure_ternalworldispredictiveofourhappinesslevels,wheninreality,ifiknoweverythingaboutyoure_ternalworld,icanonlypredict10percentofyourlong-termhappiness.90percentofyourlong-termhappinessispredictednotbythee_ternalworld,butbythewayyourbrainprocessestheworld.andifwechangeit,ifwechangeourformulaforhappinessandsuccess,whatwecandoischangethewaythatwecanthenaffectreality.whatwefoundisthatonly25percentofjobsuccessesarepredictedbyi.q.75percentofjobsuccessesarepredictedbyyouroptimismlevels,yoursocialsupportandyourabilitytoseestressasachallengeinsteadofasathreat.
italkedtoaboardingschoolupinnewengland,probablythemostprestigiousboardingschool,andtheysaid,"wealreadyknowthat.soeveryyear,insteadofjustteachingourstudents,wealsohaveawellnessweek.andwe'resoe_cited.mondaynightwehavetheworld'sleadinge_pertcomingintospeakaboutadolescentdepression.tuesdaynightit'sschoolviolenceandbullying.wednesdaynightiseatingdisorders.thursdaynightiselicitdruguse.andfridaynightwe'retryingtodecidebetweenriskyse_orhappiness."(laughter)isaid,"that'smostpeople'sfridaynights."(laughter)(applause)whichi'mgladyouliked,buttheydidnotlikethatatall.silenceonthephone.andintothesilence,isaid,"i'dbehappytospeakatyourschool,butjustsoyouknow,that'snotawellnessweek,that'sasicknessweek.whatyou'vedoneisyou'veoutlinedallthenegativethingsthatcanhappen,butnottalkedaboutthepositive."
theabsenceofdiseaseisnothealth.here'showwegettohealth:weneedtoreversetheformulaforhappinessandsuccess.inthelastthreeyears,i'vetraveledto45differentcountries,workingwithschoolsandcompaniesinthemidstofaneconomicdownturn.andwhatifoundisthatmostcompaniesandschoolsfollowaformulaforsuccess,whichisthis:ifiworkharder,i'llbemoresuccessful.andifi'mmoresuccessful,theni'llbehappier.thatundergirdsmostofourparentingstyles,ourmanagingstyles,thewaythatwemotivateourbehavior.
andtheproblemisit'sscientificallybrokenandbackwardsfortworeasons.first,everytimeyourbrainhasasuccess,youjustchangedthegoalpostofwhatsuccesslookedlike.yougotgoodgrades,nowyouhavetogetbettergrades,yougotintoagoodschoolandafteryougetintoabetterschool,yougotagoodjob,nowyouhavetogetabetterjob,youhityoursalestarget,we'regoingtochangeyoursalestarget.andifhappinessisontheoppositesideofsuccess,yourbrainnevergetsthere.whatwe'vedoneiswe'vepushedhappinessoverthecognitivehorizonasasociety.andthat'sbecausewethinkwehavetobesuccessful,thenwe'llbehappier.
buttherealproblemisourbrainsworkintheoppositeorder.ifyoucanraisesomebody'slevelofpositivityinthepresent,thentheirbraine_perienceswhatwenowcallahappinessadvantage,whichisyourbrainatpositiveperformssignificantlybetterthanitdoesatnegative,neutralorstressed.yourintelligencerises,yourcreativityrises,yourenergylevelsrise.infact,whatwe'vefoundisthateverysinglebusinessoutcomeimproves.yourbrainatpositiveis31percentmoreproductivethanyourbrainatnegative,neutralorstressed.you're37percentbetteratsales.doctorsare19percentfaster,moreaccurateatcomingupwiththecorrectdiagnosiswhenpositiveinsteadofnegative,neutralorstressed.whichmeanswecanreversetheformula.ifwecanfindawayofbecomingpositiveinthepresent,thenourbrainsworkevenmoresuccessfullyaswe'reabletoworkharder,fasterandmoreintelligently.
whatweneedtobeabletodoistoreversethisformulasowecanstarttoseewhatourbrainsareactuallycapableof.becausedopamine,whichfloodsintoyoursystemwhenyou'repositive,hastwofunctions.notonlydoesitmakeyouhappier,itturnsonallofthelearningcentersinyourbrainallowingyoutoadapttotheworldinadifferentway.
we'vefoundthattherearewaysthatyoucantrainyourbraintobeabletobecomemorepositive.injustatwo-minutespanoftimedonefor21daysinarow,wecanactuallyrewireyourbrain,allowingyourbraintoactuallyworkmoreoptimisticallyandmoresuccessfully.we'vedonethesethingsinresearchnowineverysinglecompanythati'veworkedwith,gettingthemtowritedownthreenewthingsthatthey'regratefulforfor21daysinarow,threenewthingseachday.andattheendofthat,theirbrainstartstoretainapatternofscanningtheworld,notforthenegative,butforthepositivefirst.
journalingaboutonepositivee_perienceyou'vehadoverthepast24hoursallowsyourbraintoreliveit.e_erciseteachesyourbrainthatyourbehaviormatters.wefindthatmeditationallowsyourbraintogetovertheculturaladhdthatwe'vebeencreatingbytryingtodomultipletasksatonceandallowsourbrainstofocusonthetaskathand.andfinally,randomactsofkindnessareconsciousactsofkindness.wegetpeople,whentheyopenuptheirinbo_,towriteonepositiveemailpraisingorthankingsomebodyintheirsocialsupportnetwork.
andbydoingtheseactivitiesandbytrainingyourbrainjustlikewetrainourbodies,whatwe'vefoundiswecanreversetheformulaforhappinessandsuccess,andindoingso,notonlycreateripplesofpositivity,butcreatearealrevolution.
thankyouverymuch.
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trysomethingnewfor30days小计划帮你实现大目标
afewyearsago,ifeltlikeiwasstuckinarut,soidecidedtofollowinthefootstepsofthegreatamericanphilosopher,morganspurlock,andtrysomethingnewfor30days.theideaisactuallyprettysimple.thinkaboutsomethingyou’vealwayswantedtoaddtoyourlifeandtryitforthene_t30days.itturnsout,30daysisjustabouttherightamountoftimetoaddanewhabitorsubtractahabit—likewatchingthenews—fromyourlife.
几年前,我感觉对老一套感到枯燥乏味,所以我决定追随伟大的美国哲学家摩根·斯普尔洛克的脚步,尝试做新事情30天。这个想法的确是非常简单。考虑下,你常想在你生命中做的一些事情接下来30天尝试做这些。这就是,30天刚好是这么一段合适的时间去养成一个新的习惯或者改掉一个习惯——例如看新闻——在你生活中。
there’safewthingsilearnedwhiledoingthese30-daychallenges.thefirstwas,insteadofthemonthsflyingby,forgotten,thetimewasmuchmorememorable.thiswaspartofachallengeididtotakeapictureeverydayforamonth.andiremembere_actlywhereiwasandwhatiwasdoingthatday.ialsonoticedthatasistartedtodomoreandharder30-daychallenges,myself-confidencegrew.iwentfromdesk-dwellingcomputernerdtothekindofguywhobikestowork—forfun.evenlastyear,iendeduphikingupmt.kilimanjaro,thehighestmountaininafrica.iwouldneverhavebeenthatadventurousbeforeistartedmy30-daychallenges.
当我在30天做这些挑战性事情时,我学到以下一些事。第一件事是,取代了飞逝而过易被遗忘的岁月的是这段时间非常的更加令人难忘。挑战的一部分是要一个月内每天我要去拍摄一张照片。我清楚地记得那一天我所处的位置我都在干什么。我也注意到随着我开始做更多的,更难的30天里具有挑战性的事时,我自信心也增强了。我从一个台式计算机宅男极客变成了一个爱骑自行车去工作的人——为了玩乐。甚至去年,我完成了在非洲最高山峰乞力马扎罗山的远足。在我开始这30天做挑战性的事之前我从来没有这样热爱冒险过。
ialsofiguredoutthatifyoureallywantsomethingbadlyenough,youcandoanythingfor30days.haveyoueverwantedtowriteanovel?everynovember,tensofthousandsofpeopletrytowritetheirown50,000wordnovelfromscratchin30days.itturnsout,allyouhavetodoiswrite1,667wordsadayforamonth.soidid.bytheway,thesecretisnottogotosleepuntilyou’vewrittenyourwordsfortheday.youmightbesleep-deprived,butyou’llfinishyournovel.nowismybookthene_tgreatamericannovel?no.iwroteitinamonth.it’sawful.butfortherestofmylife,ifimeetjohnhodgmanatatedparty,idon’thavetosay,“i’macomputerscientist.”no,no,ifiwanttoicansay,“i’manovelist.”
我也认识到如果你真想一些槽糕透顶的事,你可以在30天里做这些事。你曾想写小说吗?每年11月,数以万计的人们在30天里,从零起点尝试写他们自己的5万字小说。这结果就是,你所要去做的事就是每天写1667个字要写一个月。所以我做到了。顺便说一下,秘密在于除非在一天里你已经写完了1667个字,要不你就甭想睡觉。你可能被剥夺睡眠,但你将会完成你的小说。那么我写的书会是下一部伟大的美国小说吗?不是的。我在一个月内写完它。它看上去太可怕了。但在我的余生,如果我在一个ted聚会上遇见约翰·霍奇曼,我不必开口说,“我是一个电脑科学家。”不,不会的,如果我愿意我可以说,“我是一个小说家。”
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sohere’sonelastthingi’dliketomention.ilearnedthatwhenimadesmall,sustainablechanges,thingsicouldkeepdoing,theyweremorelikelytostick.there’snothingwrongwithbig,crazychallenges.infact,they’reatonoffun.butthey’relesslikelytostick.whenigaveupsugarfor30days,day31lookedlikethis.
我这儿想提的最后一件事。当我做些小的、持续性的变化,我可以不断尝试做的事时,我学到我可以把它们更容易地坚持做下来。这和又大又疯狂的具有挑战性的事情无关。事实上,它们的乐趣无穷。但是,它们就不太可能坚持做下来。当我在30天里拒绝吃糖果,31天后看上去就像这样。
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sohere’smyquestiontoyou:whatareyouwaitingfor?iguaranteeyouthene_t30daysaregoingtopasswhetheryoulikeitornot,sowhynotthinkaboutsomethingyouhavealwayswantedtotryandgiveitashotforthene_t30days.
所以我给大家提的问题是:大家还在等什么呀?我保准大家在未来的30天定会经历你喜欢或者不喜欢的事,那么为什么不考虑一些你常想做的尝试并在未来30天里试试给自己一个机会。
thanks.
谢谢。
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ted演讲稿范文篇8
wheniwasnineyearsoldiwentofftosummercampforthefirsttime.andmymotherpackedmeasuitcasefullofbooks,whichtomeseemedlikeaperfectlynaturalthingtodo.becauseinmyfamily,readingwastheprimarygroupactivity.andthismightsoundantisocialtoyou,butforusitwasreallyjustadifferentwayofbeingsocial.youhavetheanimalwarmthofyourfamilysittingrightne_ttoyou,butyouarealsofreetogoroamingaroundtheadventurelandinsideyourownmind.andihadthisideathatcampwasgoingtobejustlikethis,butbetter.(laughter)ihadavisionof10girlssittinginacabincozilyreadingbooksintheirmatchingnightgowns.
当我九岁的时候我第一次去参加夏令营我妈妈帮我整理好了我的行李箱里面塞满了书这对于我来说是一件极为自然的事情因为在我的家庭里阅读是主要的家庭活动听上去你们可能觉得我们是不爱交际的但是对于我的家庭来说这真的只是接触社会的另一种途径你们有自己家庭接触时的温暖亲情家人静坐在你身边但是你也可以自由地漫游在你思维深处的冒险乐园里我有一个想法野营会变得像这样子,当然要更好些(笑声)我想象到十个女孩坐在一个小屋里都穿着合身的女式睡衣惬意地享受着读书的过程
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campwasmorelikeakegpartywithoutanyalcohol.andontheveryfirstdayourcounselorgatheredusalltogetherandshetaughtusacheerthatshesaidwewouldbedoingeverydayfortherestofthesummertoinstillcampspirit.anditwentlikethis:"r-o-w-d-i-e,that'sthewaywespellrowdie.rowdie,rowdie,let'sgetrowdie."yeah.soicouldn'tfigureoutforthelifeofmewhyweweresupposedtobesorowdy,orwhywehadtospellthiswordincorrectly.(laughter)butirecitedacheer.irecitedacheeralongwitheverybodyelse.ididmybest.andijustwaitedforthetimethaticouldgooffandreadmybooks.
野营这时更像是一个不提供酒水的派对聚会在第一天的时候呢我们的顾问把我们都集合在一起并且她教会了我们一种今后要用到的庆祝方式在余下夏令营的每一天中让“露营精神”浸润我们之后它就像这样继续着r-o-w-d-i-e这是我们拼写“吵闹"的口号我们唱着“噪音,喧闹,我们要变得吵一点”对,就是这样可我就是弄不明白我的生活会是什么样的为什么我们变得这么吵闹粗暴或者为什么我们非要把这个单词错误地拼写(笑声)但是我可没有忘记庆祝。我与每个人都互相欢呼庆祝了我尽了我最大的努力我只是想等待那一刻我可以离开吵闹的聚会去捧起我挚爱的书
butthefirsttimethatitookmybookoutofmysuitcase,thecoolestgirlinthebunkcameuptomeandsheaskedme,"whyareyoubeingsomellow?"--mellow,ofcourse,beingthee_actoppositeofr-o-w-d-i-e.andthenthesecondtimeitriedit,thecounselorcameuptomewithaconcernede_pressiononherfaceandsherepeatedthepointaboutcampspiritandsaidweshouldallworkveryhardtobeoutgoing.
但是当我第一次把书从行李箱中拿出来的时候床铺中最酷的那个女孩向我走了过来并且她问我:“为什么你要这么安静?”安静,当然,是r-o-w-d-i-e的反义词“喧闹”的反义词而当我第二次拿书的时候我们的顾问满脸忧虑的向我走了过来接着她重复了关于“露营精神”的要点并且说我们都应当努力去变得外向些
andsoiputmybooksaway,backintheirsuitcase,andiputthemundermybed,andtheretheystayedfortherestofthesummer.andifeltkindofguiltyaboutthis.ifeltasifthebooksneededmesomehow,andtheywerecallingouttomeandiwasforsakingthem.butididforsakethemandididn'topenthatsuitcaseagainuntiliwasbackhomewithmyfamilyattheendofthesummer.
于是我放好我的书放回了属于它们的行李箱中并且我把它们放到了床底下在那里它们度过了暑假余下的每一天我对这样做感到很愧疚不知为什么我感觉这些书是需要我的它们在呼唤我,但是我却放弃了它们我确实放下了它们,并且我再也没有打开那个箱子直到我和我的家人一起回到家中在夏末的时候
now,itellyouthisstoryaboutsummercamp.icouldhavetoldyou50othersjustlikeit--allthetimesthatigotthemessagethatsomehowmyquietandintrovertedstyleofbeingwasnotnecessarilytherightwaytogo,thatishouldbetryingtopassasmoreofane_trovert.andialwayssenseddeepdownthatthiswaswrongandthatintrovertswereprettye_cellentjustastheywere.butforyearsideniedthisintuition,andsoibecameawallstreetlawyer,ofallthings,insteadofthewriterthatihadalwayslongedtobe--partlybecauseineededtoprovetomyselfthaticouldbeboldandassertivetoo.andiwasalwaysgoingofftocrowdedbarswhenireallywouldhavepreferredtojusthaveanicedinnerwithfriends.andimadetheseself-negatingchoicessorefle_ively,thatiwasn'tevenawarethatiwasmakingthem.
现在,我向你们讲述这个夏令营的故事我完全可以给你们讲出其他50种版本就像这个一样的故事--每当我感觉到这样的时候它告诉我出于某种原因,我的宁静和内向的风格并不是正确道路上的必需品我应该更多地尝试一个外向者的角色而在我内心深处感觉得到,这是错误的内向的人们都是非常优秀的,确实是这样但是许多年来我都否认了这种直觉于是我首先成为了华尔街的一名律师而不是我长久以来想要成为的一名作家一部分原因是因为我想要证明自己也可以变得勇敢而坚定并且我总是去那些拥挤的酒吧当我只是想要和朋友们吃一顿愉快的晚餐时我做出了这些自我否认的抉择如条件反射一般甚至我都不清楚我做出了这些决定
nowthisiswhatmanyintrovertsdo,andit'sourlossforsure,butitisalsoourcolleagues'lossandourcommunities'loss.andattheriskofsoundinggrandiose,itistheworld'sloss.becausewhenitcomestocreativityandtoleadership,weneedintrovertsdoingwhattheydobest.athirdtoahalfofthepopulationareintroverts--athirdtoahalf.sothat'soneoutofeverytwoorthreepeopleyouknow.soevenifyou'reane_trovertyourself,i'mtalkingaboutyourcoworkersandyourspousesandyourchildrenandthepersonsittingne_ttoyourightnow--allofthemsubjecttothisbiasthatisprettydeepandrealinoursociety.weallinternalizeitfromaveryearlyagewithoutevenhavingalanguageforwhatwe'redoing.
这就是很多内向的人正在做的事情这当然是我们的损失但这同样也是同事们的损失我们所在团队集体的损失当然,冒着被指为夸大其词的风险我想说,更是世界的损失因为当涉及创造和领导的时候我们需要内向的人做到最好三分之一到二分之一的人都是内向的--三分之一到二分之一你要知道这可意味着每两到三个人中就有一个内向的所以即使你自己是一个外向的人我正在说你的同事和你的配偶和你的孩子还有现在正坐在你旁边的那个家伙--他们都要屈从于这样的偏见一种在我们的社会中已经扎根的现实偏见我们从很小的时候就把它藏在内心最深处甚至都不说几句话,关于我们正在做的事情。
nowtoseethebiasclearlyyouneedtounderstandwhatintroversionis.it'sdifferentfrombeingshy.shynessisaboutfearofsocialjudgment.introversionismoreabout,howdoyourespondtostimulation,includingsocialstimulation.soe_trovertsreallycravelargeamountsofstimulation,whereasintrovertsfeelattheirmostaliveandtheirmostswitched-onandtheirmostcapablewhenthey'reinquieter,morelow-keyenvironments.notallthetime--thesethingsaren'tabsolute--butalotofthetime.sothekeythentoma_imizingourtalentsisforusalltoputourselvesinthezoneofstimulationthatisrightforus.
现在让我们来清楚地看待这种偏见我们需要真正了解“内向”到底指什么它和害羞是不同的害羞是对于社会评论的恐惧内向更多的是你怎样对于刺激作出回应包括来自社会的刺激其实内向的人是很渴求大量的鼓舞和激励的反之内向者最感觉到他们的存在这是他们精力最充足的时候,最具有能力的时候当他们存在于更安静的,更低调的环境中并不是所有时候--这些事情都不是绝对的--但是存在于很多时候所以说,关键在于把我们的天赋发挥到最大化这对于我们来说就足够把我们自己放到对于我们正确又合适的激励的区域中去
butnowhere'swherethebiascomesin.ourmostimportantinstitutions,ourschoolsandourworkplaces,theyaredesignedmostlyfore_trovertsandfore_troverts'needforlotsofstimulation.andalsowehavethisbeliefsystemrightnowthaticallthenewgroupthink,whichholdsthatallcreativityandallproductivitycomesfromaveryoddlygregariousplace.
但是现在偏见出现了我们最重要的那些体系我们的学校和工作单位它们都是为性格外向者设计的并且有适合他们需要的刺激和鼓励当然我们现在也有这样一种信用机制我称它为新型的“团队思考”这是一种包含所有创造力和生产力的思考方式从一个社交非常零散的地方产生的
soifyoupicturethetypicalclassroomnowadays:wheniwasgoingtoschool,wesatinrows.wesatinrowsofdeskslikethis,andwedidmostofourworkprettyautonomously.butnowadays,yourtypicalclassroomhaspodsofdesks--fourorfiveorsi_orsevenkidsallfacingeachother.andkidsareworkingincountlessgroupassignments.eveninsubjectslikemathandcreativewriting,whichyouthinkwoulddependonsoloflightsofthought,kidsarenowe_pectedtoactascommitteemembers.andforthekidswhoprefertogooffbythemselvesorjusttoworkalone,thosekidsareseenasoutliersoftenor,worse,asproblemcases.andthevastmajorityofteachersreportsbelievingthattheidealstudentisane_trovertasopposedtoanintrovert,eventhoughintrovertsactuallygetbettergradesandaremoreknowledgeable,accordingtoresearch.(laughter)
当你描绘今天典型教室的图案时当我还上学的时候我们一排排地坐着我们靠着桌子一排排坐着就像这样并且我们大多数工作都是自觉完成的但是在现代社会,所谓典型的教室是些圈起来并排的桌子--四个或是五个或是六、七个孩子坐在一起,面对面孩子们要完成无数个小组任务甚至像数学和创意写作这些课程这些你们认为需要依靠个人闪光想法的课程孩子们现在却被期待成为小组会的成员对于那些喜欢独处,或者自己一个人工作的孩子来说这些孩子常常被视为局外人或者更糟,被视为问题孩子并且很大一部分老师的报告中都相信最理想的学生应该是外向的相对于内向的学生而言甚至说外向的学生能够取得更好的成绩更加博学多识据研究报道(笑声)
okay,samethingistrueinourworkplaces.now,mostofusworkinopenplanoffices,withoutwalls,wherewearesubjecttotheconstantnoiseandgazeofourcoworkers.andwhenitcomestoleadership,introvertsareroutinelypassedoverforleadershippositions,eventhoughintrovertstendtobeverycareful,muchlesslikelytotakeoutsizerisks--whichissomethingwemightallfavornowadays.andinterestingresearchbyadamgrantatthewhartonschoolhasfoundthatintrovertedleadersoftendeliverbetteroutcomesthane_trovertsdo,becausewhentheyaremanagingproactiveemployees,they'remuchmorelikelytoletthoseemployeesrunwiththeirideas,whereasane_trovertcan,quiteunwittingly,getsoe_citedaboutthingsthatthey'reputtingtheirownstamponthings,andotherpeople'sideasmightnotaseasilythenbubbleuptothesurface.
好了。同样的事情也发生在我们工作的地方现在呢,我们中的绝大多数都工作在宽阔没有隔间的办公室里甚至没有墙在这里,我们暴露在不断的噪音和我们同事的凝视目光下工作而当谈及领袖气质的时候内向的人总是按照惯例从领导的位置被忽视了尽管内向的人是非常小心仔细的很少去冒特大的风险--这些风险是今天我们可能都喜欢的宾夕法尼亚大学沃顿商学院的亚当·格兰特教授做了一项很有意思的研究这项研究表明内向的领导们相对于外向领导而言总是会生产更大的效益因为当他们管理主动积极的雇员的时候他们更倾向于让有主见的雇员去自由发挥反之外向的领导就可能,当然是不经意的对于事情变得十分激动他们在事务上有了自己想法的印迹这使其他人的想法可能就不会很容易地在舞台上发光了
nowinfact,someofourtransformativeleadersinhistoryhavebeenintroverts.i'llgiveyousomee_amples.eleanorroosevelt,rosaparks,gandhi--allthesepeopleddescribedthemselvesasquietandsoft-spokenandevenshy.andtheyalltookthespotlight,eventhougheveryboneintheirbodieswastellingthemnotto.andthisturnsouttohaveaspecialpowerallitsown,becausepeoplecouldfeelthattheseleaderswereatthehelm,notbecausetheyenjoyeddirectingothersandnotoutofthepleasureofbeinglookedat;theyweretherebecausetheyhadnochoice,becausetheyweredriventodowhattheythoughtwasright.
事实上,历史上一些有改革能力的领袖都是内向的人我会举一些例子给你们埃莉诺·罗斯福,罗沙·帕克斯,甘地--所有这些人都把自己描述成内向,说话温柔甚至是害羞的人他们仍然站在了聚光灯下即使他们浑身上下都感知他们说不要这证明是一种属于它自身的特殊的力量因为人们都会感觉这些领导者同时是掌舵者并不是因为他们喜欢指挥别人抑或是享受众人目光的聚焦他们处在那个位置因为他们没有选择因为他们行驶在他们认为正确的道路上
nowithinkatthispointit'simportantformetosaythatiactuallylovee_troverts.ialwaysliketosaysomeofmybestfriendsaree_troverts,includingmybelovedhusband.andweallfallatdifferentpoints,ofcourse,alongtheintrovert/e_trovertspectrum.evencarljung,thepsychologistwhofirstpopularizedtheseterms,saidthatthere'snosuchthingasapureintrovertorapuree_trovert.hesaidthatsuchamanwouldbeinalunaticasylum,ifhee_istedatall.andsomepeoplefallsmackinthemiddleoftheintrovert/e_trovertspectrum,andwecallthesepeopleambiverts.andioftenthinkthattheyhavethebestofallworlds.butmanyofusdorecognizeourselvesasonetypeortheother.
现在我觉得对于这点我有必要说那就是我真的喜爱外向的人我总是喜欢说我最好的几个朋友都是外向的人包括我亲爱的丈夫当然了我们都会在不同点时偏向内向者/外向者的范围甚至是卡尔·荣格,这个让这些名词为大众所熟知的心理学家,说道世上绝没有一个纯粹的内向的人或者一个纯粹的外向的人他说这样的人会在精神病院里如果他存在的话还有一些人处在中间的迹象在内向与外向之间我们称这些人为“中向性格者”并且我总是认为他们拥有世界最美好的一切但是我们中的大多数总是认为自己属于内向或者外向,其中一类
andwhati'msayingisthatculturallyweneedamuchbetterbalance.weneedmoreofayinandyangbetweenthesetwotypes.thisisespeciallyimportantwhenitcomestocreativityandtoproductivity,becausewhenpsychologistslookatthelivesofthemostcreativepeople,whattheyfindarepeoplewhoareverygoodate_changingideasandadvancingideas,butwhoalsohaveaseriousstreakofintroversioninthem.
同时我想说从文化意义上讲我们需要一种更好的平衡我们需要更多的阴阳的平衡在这两种类型的人之间这点是极为重要的当涉及创造力和生产力的时候因为当心理学家们看待最有创造力的人的生命的时候他们寻找到的是那些擅长变换思维的人提出想法的人但是他们同时也有着极为显著的偏内向的痕迹
andthisisbecausesolitudeisacrucialingredientoftentocreativity.sodarwin,hetooklongwalksaloneinthewoodsandemphaticallyturneddowndinnerpartyinvitations.theodorgeisel,betterknownasdr.seuss,hedreamedupmanyofhisamazingcreationsinalonelybelltowerofficethathehadinthebackofhishouseinlajolla,california.andhewasactuallyafraidtomeettheyoungchildrenwhoreadhisbooksforfearthattheyweree_pectinghimthiskindofjollysantaclaus-likefigureandwouldbedisappointedwithhismorereservedpersona.stevewozniakinventedthefirstapplecomputersittingaloneinhiscubicalinhewlett-packardwherehewasworkingatthetime.andhesaysthatheneverwouldhavebecomesuchane_pertinthefirstplacehadhenotbeentoointrovertedtoleavethehousewhenhewasgrowingup.
这是因为独处是非常关键的因素对于创造力来说所以达尔文自己一个人漫步在小树林里并且断然拒绝了晚餐派对的邀约西奥多·盖索,更多时候以苏索博士的名号知名他梦想过很多的惊人的创作在他在加利福尼亚州拉霍亚市房子的后面的一座孤独的束层的塔形办公室中而且其实他很害怕见面见那些读过他的书的年轻的孩子们害怕他们会期待他这样一位令人愉快的,圣诞老人形象的人物同时又会因发现他含蓄缄默的性格而失望史蒂夫·沃兹尼亚克发明了第一台苹果电脑一个人独自坐在他的机柜旁在他当时工作的惠普公司并且他说他永远不会在那方面成为一号专家但他还没因太内向到要离开那里那个他成长起来的地方
nowofcourse,thisdoesnotmeanthatweshouldallstopcollaborating--andcaseinpoint,isstevewozniakfamouslycomingtogetherwithstevejobstostartapplecomputer--butitdoesmeanthatsolitudemattersandthatforsomepeopleitistheairthattheybreathe.andinfact,wehaveknownforcenturiesaboutthetranscendentpowerofsolitude.it'sonlyrecentlythatwe'vestrangelybeguntoforgetit.ifyoulookatmostoftheworld'smajorreligions,youwillfindseekers--moses,jesus,buddha,muhammad--seekerswhoaregoingoffbythemselvesalonetothewildernesswheretheythenhaveprofoundepiphaniesandrevelationsthattheythenbringbacktotherestofthecommunity.sonowilderness,norevelations.
当然了这并不意味着我们都应该停止合作--恰当的例子呢,是史蒂夫·沃兹尼亚克和史蒂夫·乔布斯的著名联手创建苹果电脑公司--但是这并不意味着和独处有重大关系并且对于一些人来说这是他们赖以呼吸生存的空气事实上,几个世纪以来我们已经非常明白独处的卓越力量只是到了最近,非常奇怪,我们开始遗忘它了如果你看看世界上主要的宗教你会发现探寻者--摩西,耶稣,佛祖,穆罕默德--那些独身去探寻的人们在大自然的旷野中独处,思索在那里,他们有了深刻的顿悟和对于奥义的揭示之后他们把这些思想带回到社会的其他地方去没有旷原,没有启示
thisisnosurprisethoughifyoulookattheinsightsofcontemporarypsychology.itturnsoutthatwecan'tevenbeinagroupofpeoplewithoutinstinctivelymirroring,mimickingtheiropinions.evenaboutseeminglypersonalandvisceralthingslikewhoyou'reattractedto,youwillstartapingthebeliefsofthepeoplearoundyouwithoutevenrealizingthatthat'swhatyou'redoing.
尽管这并不令人惊讶如果你注意到现代心理学的思想理论它反映出来我们甚至不能和一组人待在一起而不去本能地模仿他们的意见与想法甚至是看上去私人的,发自内心的事情像是你被谁所吸引你会开始模仿你周围的人的信仰甚至都觉察不到你自己在做什么
andgroupsfamouslyfollowtheopinionsofthemostdominantorcharismaticpersonintheroom,eventhoughthere'szerocorrelationbetweenbeingthebesttalkerandhavingthebestideas--imeanzero.so...(laughter)youmightbefollowingthepersonwiththebestideas,butyoumightnot.anddoyoureallywanttoleaveituptochance?muchbetterforeverybodytogooffbythemselves,generatetheirownideasfreedfromthedistortionsofgroupdynamics,andthencometogetherasateamtotalkthemthroughinawell-managedenvironmentandtakeitfromthere.
还曾跟随群体的意见跟随着房间里最具有统治力的,最有领袖气质的人的思路虽然这真的没什么关系在成为一个卓越的演讲家还是拥有最好的主意之间--我的意思是“零相关”那么...(笑声)你们或许会跟随有最好头脑的人但是你们也许不会可你们真的想把这机会扔掉吗?如果每个人都自己行动或许好得多发掘他们自己的想法没有群体动力学的曲解接着来到一起组成一个团队在一个良好管理的环境中互相交流并且在那里学习别的思想
nowifallthisistrue,thenwhyarewegettingitsowrong?whyarewesettingupourschoolsthiswayandourworkplaces?andwhyarewemakingtheseintrovertsfeelsoguiltyaboutwantingtojustgooffbythemselvessomeofthetime?oneanswerliesdeepinourculturalhistory.westernsocieties,andinparticulartheu.s.,havealwaysfavoredthemanofactionoverthemanofcontemplationand"man"ofcontemplation.butinamerica'searlydays,welivedinwhathistorianscallacultureofcharacter,wherewestill,atthatpoint,valuedpeoplefortheirinnerselvesandtheirmoralrectitude.andifyoulookattheself-helpbooksfromthisera,theyallhadtitleswiththingslike"character,thegrandestthingintheworld."andtheyfeaturedrolemodelslikeabrahamlincolnwhowaspraisedforbeingmodestandunassuming.ralphwaldoemersoncalledhim"amanwhodoesnotoffendbysuperiority."
如果说现在这一切都是真的那么为什么我们还得到这样错误的结论?为什么我们要这样创立我们的学校,还有我们的工作单位?为什么我们要让这些内向的人觉得那么愧疚。对于他们只是想要离开,一个人独处一段时间的事实?有一个答案在我们的文化史中埋藏已久西方社会特别是在美国总是偏爱有行动的人而不是有深刻思考的人有深刻思考的“人”但是在美国早期的时候我们生活在一个被历史学家称作“性格特征”的文化那时我们仍然,在这点上,判断人们的价值从人们的内涵和道义正直而且如果你看一看这个时代关于自立的书籍的话它们都有这样一种标题:“性格”,世界上最伟大的事物并且它们以亚伯拉罕·林肯这样的为标榜一个被形容为谦虚低调的男人拉尔夫·瓦尔多·爱默生称他是“一个以‘优越’二形容都不为过的人”
butthenwehitthe20thcenturyandweenteredanewculturethathistorianscallthecultureofpersonality.whathappenediswehadevolvedanagriculturaleconomytoaworldofbigbusiness.andsosuddenlypeoplearemovingfromsmalltownstothecities.andinsteadofworkingalongsidepeoplethey'veknownalltheirlives,nowtheyarehavingtoprovethemselvesinacrowdofstrangers.so,quiteunderstandably,qualitieslikemagnetismandcharismasuddenlycometoseemreallyimportant.andsureenough,theself-helpbookschangetomeetthesenewneedsandtheystarttohavenameslike"howtowinfriendsandinfluencepeople."andtheyfeatureastheirrolemodelsreallygreatsalesmen.sothat'stheworldwe'relivingintoday.that'sourculturalinheritance.
但是接着我们来到了二十世纪并且我们融入了一种新的文化一种被历史学家称作“个性”的文化所发生的改变就是我们从农业经济发展为一个大商业经济的世界而且人们突然开始搬迁从小的城镇搬向城市并且一改他们之前的在生活中和所熟识的人们一起工作的方式现在他们在一群陌生人中间有必要去证明自己这样做是非常可以理解的像领袖气质和个人魅力这样的品质突然间似乎变得极为重要那么可以肯定的是,自助自立的书的内容变更了以适应这些新的需求并且它们开始拥有名称像是《如何赢得朋友和影响他人》(戴尔?卡耐基所著《人性的弱点》)他们的特点是做自己的榜样不得不说确实是好的推销员所以这就是我们今天生活的世界这是我们的文化遗产
nownoneofthisistosaythatsocialskillsareunimportant,andi'malsonotcallingfortheabolishingofteamworkatall.thesamereligionswhosendtheirsagesofftolonelymountaintopsalsoteachusloveandtrust.andtheproblemsthatwearefacingtodayinfieldslikescienceandineconomicsaresovastandsocomple_thatwearegoingtoneedarmiesofpeoplecomingtogethertosolvethemworkingtogether.butiamsayingthatthemorefreedomthatwegiveintrovertstobethemselves,themorelikelythattheyaretocomeupwiththeirownuniquesolutionstotheseproblems.
现在没有谁能够说社交技能是不重要的并且我也不是想呼吁大家废除团队合作模式但仍是相同的宗教,却把他们的圣人送到了孤独的山顶上仍然教导我们爱与信任还有我们今天所要面对的问题像是在科学和经济领域是如此的巨大和复杂以至于我们需要人们强有力地团结起来共同解决这些问题但是我想说,越给内向者自由让他们做自己他们就做得越好去想出他们独特的关于问题的解决办法
sonowi'dliketosharewithyouwhat'sinmysuitcasetoday.guesswhat?books.ihaveasuitcasefullofbooks.here'smargaretatwood,"cat'seye."here'sanovelbymilankundera.andhere's"theguidefortheperple_ed"bymaimonides.butthesearenote_actlymybooks.ibroughtthesebookswithmebecausetheywerewrittenbymygrandfather'sfavoriteauthors.
所以现在我很高兴同你们分享我手提箱中的东西猜猜是什么?书我有一个手提箱里面装满了书这是玛格丽特·阿特伍德的《猫的眼睛》这是一本米兰·昆德拉的书这是一本《迷途指津》是迈蒙尼德写的但这些实际上都不是我的书我还是带着它们,陪伴着我因为它们都是我祖父最喜爱的作家所写
mygrandfatherwasarabbiandhewasawidowerwholivedaloneinasmallapartmentinbrooklynthatwasmyfavoriteplaceintheworldwheniwasgrowingup,partlybecauseitwasfilledwithhisverygentle,verycourtlypresenceandpartlybecauseitwasfilledwithbooks.imeanliterallyeverytable,everychairinthisapartmenthadyieldeditsoriginalfunctiontonowserveasasurfaceforswayingstacksofbooks.justliketherestofmyfamily,mygrandfather'sfavoritethingtodointhewholeworldwastoread.
我的祖父是一名犹太教祭司他独身一人在布鲁克林的一间小公寓中居住那里是我从小到大在这个世界上最喜爱的地方部分原因是他有着非常温和亲切的,温文尔雅的举止部分原因是那里充满了书我的意思是,毫不夸张地说,公寓中的每张桌子,每张椅子都充分应用着它原有的功能就是现在作为承载一大堆都在摇曳的书的表面就像我其他的家庭成员一样我祖父在这个世界上最喜欢做的事情就是阅读
buthealsolovedhiscongregation,andyoucouldfeelthisloveinthesermonsthathegaveeveryweekforthe62yearsthathewasarabbi.hewouldtakesthefruitsofeachweek'sreadingandhewouldweavetheseintricatetapestriesofancientandhumanistthought.andpeoplewouldcomefromallovertohearhimspeak.
但是他同样也热爱他的宗教并且你们可以从他的讲述中感觉到他这种爱这62年来每周他都作为一名犹太教的祭司他会从每周的阅读中汲取养分并且他会编织这些错综复杂的古代和人文主义的思想的挂毯并且人们会从各个地方前来听他的讲话
buthere'sthethingaboutmygrandfather.underneaththisceremonialrole,hewasreallymodestandreallyintroverted--somuchsothatwhenhedeliveredthesesermons,hehadtroublemakingeyecontactwiththeverysamecongregationthathehadbeenspeakingtofor62years.andevenawayfromthepodium,whenyoucalledhimtosayhello,hewouldoftenendtheconversationprematurelyforfearthathewastakinguptoomuchofyourtime.butwhenhediedattheageof94,thepolicehadtoclosedownthestreetsofhisneighborhoodtoaccommodatethecrowdofpeoplewhocameouttomournhim.andsothesedaysitrytolearnfrommygrandfather'se_ampleinmyownway.
但是有这么一件关于我祖父的事情在这个正式的角色下隐藏着他是一个非常谦虚的非常内向的人是那么的谦虚内向以至于当他在向人们讲述的时候他都不敢有视线上的接触和同样的教堂会众他已经发言有62年了甚至都还远离领奖台当你们让他说“你好”的时候他总会提早结束这对话担心他会占用你太多的时间但是当他94岁去世的时候警察们需要封锁他所居住的街道邻里来容纳拥挤的人们前来哀悼他的人们这些天来我都试着从我祖父的事例中学习以我自己的方式
soijustpublishedabookaboutintroversion,andittookmeaboutsevenyearstowrite.andforme,thatsevenyearswasliketotalbliss,becauseiwasreading,iwaswriting,iwasthinking,iwasresearching.itwasmyversionofmygrandfather'shoursofthedayaloneinhislibrary.butnowallofasuddenmyjobisverydifferent,andmyjobistobeoutheretalkingaboutit,talkingaboutintroversion.(laughter)andthat'salotharderforme,becauseashonoredasiamtobeherewithallofyourightnow,thisisnotmynaturalmilieu.
所以我就出版了一本关于内向性格的书它花了我7年的时间完成它而对我来说,这七年像是一种极大的喜悦因为我在阅读,我在写作我在思考,我在探寻这是我的版本对于爷爷一天中几个小时都要独自待在图书馆这件事但是现在突然间我的工作变得很不同了我的工作变成了站在这里讲述它讲述内向的性格(笑声)而且这对于我来说是有一点困难的因为我很荣幸在现在被你们所有人所倾听这可不是我自然的文化背景
soipreparedformomentsliketheseasbesticould.ispentthelastyearpracticingpublicspeakingeverychanceicouldget.andicallthismy"yearofspeakingdangerously."(laughter)andthatactuallyhelpedalot.buti'lltellyou,whathelpsevenmoreismysense,mybelief,myhopethatwhenitcomestoourattitudestointroversionandtoquietandtosolitude,wetrulyarepoisedonthebrinkondramaticchange.imean,weare.andsoiamgoingtoleaveyounowwiththreecallsforactionforthosewhosharethisvision.
所以我准备了一会就像这样以我所能做到的最好的方式我花了最近一年的时间练习在公共场合发言在我能得到的每一个机会中我把这一年称作我的“危险地发言的一年”(笑声)而且它的确帮了我很大的忙但是我要告诉你们一个帮我更大的忙的事情那就是我的感觉,我的信仰,我的希望当谈及我们态度的时候对于内向性格的,对于安静,对于独处的态度时我们确实是在急剧变化的边缘上保持微妙的平衡我的意思是,我们在保持平衡现在我将要给你们留下一些东西三件对于你们的行动有帮助的事情献给那些观看我的演讲的人
numberone:stopthemadnessforconstantgroupwork.juststopit.(laughter)thankyou.(applause)andiwanttobeclearaboutwhati'msaying,becauseideeplybelieveourofficesshouldbeencouragingcasual,chattycafe-styletypesofinteractions--youknow,thekindwherepeoplecometogetherandserendipitouslyhaveane_changeofideas.thatisgreat.it'sgreatforintrovertsandit'sgreatfore_troverts.butweneedmuchmoreprivacyandmuchmorefreedomandmuchmoreautonomyatwork.school,samething.weneedtobeteachingkidstoworktogether,forsure,butwealsoneedtobeteachingthemhowtoworkontheirown.thisisespeciallyimportantfore_trovertedchildrentoo.theyneedtoworkontheirownbecausethatiswheredeepthoughtcomesfrominpart.
第一:停止对于经常要团队协作的执迷与疯狂停止它就好了(笑声)谢谢你们(掌声)我想让我所说的事情变得清晰一些因为我对于我们的办公深信不疑应该鼓励它们那种休闲随意的,聊天似的咖啡厅式的相互作用--你们知道的,道不同不相为谋,人们聚到一起并且互相交换着宝贵的意见这是很棒的这对于内向者很好,同样对于外向者也好但是我们需要更多的隐私和更多的自由还有更多对于我们本身工作的自主权对于学校,也是同样的。我们当然需要教会孩子们要一起学习工作但是我们同样需要教会孩子们怎么样独立完成任务这对于外向的孩子们来说同样是极为重要的他们需要独立完成工作因为从某种程度上,这是他们深刻思考的来源
okay,numbertwo:gotothewilderness.belikebuddha,haveyourownrevelations.i'mnotsayingthatweallhavetonowgooffandbuildourowncabinsinthewoodsandnevertalktoeachotheragain,butiamsayingthatwecouldallstandtounplugandgetinsideourownheadsalittlemoreoften.
好了,第二个:去到野外(打开思维)就像佛祖一样,拥有你们自己对于事物的揭示启迪我并不是说我们都要跑去小树林里建造我们自己的小屋并且之后就永远不和别人说话了但是我要说我们都可以坚持去去除一些障碍物然后深入我们自己的大脑思想时不时得再深入一点
numberthree:takeagoodlookatwhat'sinsideyourownsuitcaseandwhyyouputitthere.soe_troverts,maybeyoursuitcasesarealsofullofbooks.ormaybethey'refullofchampagneglassesorskydivingequipment.whateveritis,ihopeyoutakethesethingsouteverychanceyougetandgraceuswithyourenergyandyourjoy.butintroverts,youbeingyou,youprobablyhavetheimpulsetoguardverycarefullywhat'sinsideyourownsuitcase.andthat'sokay.butoccasionally,justoccasionally,ihopeyouwillopenupyoursuitcasesforotherpeopletosee,becausetheworldneedsyouanditneedsthethingsyoucarry.
第三点:好好看一眼你的旅行箱内有什么东西还有你为什么把它放进去所以外向者们也许你们的箱子内同样堆满了书或者它们装满了香槟的玻璃酒杯或者是跳伞运动的设备不管它是什么,我希望每当你们有机会你们就把它拿出来用你的能量和你的快乐让我们感受到美和享受但是内向者们,你们作为内向者你们很可能有仔细保护一切的冲动在你箱子里的东西这没有问题但是偶尔地,只是说偶尔地我希望你们可以打开你们的手提箱,让别人看一看因为这个世界需要你们,同样需要你们身上所携带的你们特有的事物
soiwishyouthebestofallpossiblejourneysandthecouragetospeaksoftly.
所以对于你们即将走上的所有旅程,我都给予你们我最美好的祝愿还有温柔地说话的勇气
thankyou.thankyou.
非常感谢你们!
ted演讲稿范文篇9
wheniwasnineyearsoldiwentofftosummercampforthefirsttime.andmymotherpackedmeasuitcasefullofbooks,whichtomeseemedlikeaperfectlynaturalthingtodo.becauseinmyfamily,readingwastheprimarygroupactivity.andthismightsoundantisocialtoyou,butforusitwasreallyjustadifferentwayofbeingsocial.youhavetheanimalwarmthofyourfamilysittingrightne_ttoyou,butyouarealsofreetogoroamingaroundtheadventurelandinsideyourownmind.andihadthisideathatcampwasgoingtobejustlikethis,butbetter.(laughter)ihadavisionof10girlssittinginacabincozilyreadingbooksintheirmatchingnightgowns.
(laughter)
campwasmorelikeakegpartywithoutanyalcohol.andontheveryfirstdayourcounselorgatheredusalltogetherandshetaughtusacheerthatshesaidwewouldbedoingeverydayfortherestofthesummertoinstillcampspirit.anditwentlikethis:"r-o-w-d-i-e,that'sthewaywespellrowdie.rowdie,rowdie,let'sgetrowdie."yeah.soicouldn'tfigureoutforthelifeofmewhyweweresupposedtobesorowdy,orwhywehadtospellthiswordincorrectly.(laughter)butirecitedacheer.irecitedacheeralongwitheverybodyelse.ididmybest.andijustwaitedforthetimethaticouldgooffandreadmybooks.
butthefirsttimethatitookmybookoutofmysuitcase,thecoolestgirlinthebunkcameuptomeandsheaskedme,"whyareyoubeingsomellow?"--mellow,ofcourse,beingthee_actoppositeofr-o-w-d-i-e.andthenthesecondtimeitriedit,thecounselorcameuptomewithaconcernede_pressiononherfaceandsherepeatedthepointaboutcampspiritandsaidweshouldallworkveryhardtobeoutgoing.
andsoiputmybooksaway,backintheirsuitcase,andiputthemundermybed,andtheretheystayedfortherestofthesummer.andifeltkindofguiltyaboutthis.ifeltasifthebooksneededmesomehow,andtheywerecallingouttomeandiwasforsakingthem.butididforsakethemandididn'topenthatsuitcaseagainuntiliwasbackhomewithmyfamilyattheendofthesummer.
now,itellyouthisstoryaboutsummercamp.icouldhavetoldyou50othersjustlikeit--allthetimesthatigotthemessagethatsomehowmyquietandintrovertedstyleofbeingwasnotnecessarilytherightwaytogo,thatishouldbetryingtopassasmoreofane_trovert.andialwayssenseddeepdownthatthiswaswrongandthatintrovertswereprettye_cellentjustastheywere.butforyearsideniedthisintuition,andsoibecameawallstreetlawyer,ofallthings,insteadofthewriterthatihadalwayslongedtobe--partlybecauseineededtoprovetomyselfthaticouldbeboldandassertivetoo.andiwasalwaysgoingofftocrowdedbarswhenireallywouldhavepreferredtojusthaveanicedinnerwithfriends.andimadetheseself-negatingchoicessorefle_ively,thatiwasn'tevenawarethatiwasmakingthem.
nowthisiswhatmanyintrovertsdo,andit'sourlossforsure,butitisalsoourcolleagues'lossandourcommunities'loss.andattheriskofsoundinggrandiose,itistheworld'sloss.becausewhenitcomestocreativityandtoleadership,weneedintrovertsdoingwhattheydobest.athirdtoahalfofthepopulationareintroverts--athirdtoahalf.sothat'soneoutofeverytwoorthreepeopleyouknow.soevenifyou'reane_trovertyourself,i'mtalkingaboutyourcoworkersandyourspousesandyourchildrenandthepersonsittingne_ttoyourightnow--allofthemsubjecttothisbiasthatisprettydeepandrealinoursociety.weallinternalizeitfromaveryearlyagewithoutevenhavingalanguageforwhatwe'redoing.
nowtoseethebiasclearlyyouneedtounderstandwhatintroversionis.it'sdifferentfrombeingshy.shynessisaboutfearofsocialjudgment.introversionismoreabout,howdoyourespondtostimulation,includingsocialstimulation.soe_trovertsreallycravelargeamountsofstimulation,whereasintrovertsfeelattheirmostaliveandtheirmostswitched-onandtheirmostcapablewhenthey'reinquieter,morelow-keyenvironments.notallthetime--thesethingsaren'tabsolute--butalotofthetime.sothekeythentoma_imizingourtalentsisforusalltoputourselvesinthezoneofstimulationthatisrightforus.
butnowhere'swherethebiascomesin.ourmostimportantinstitutions,ourschoolsandourworkplaces,theyaredesignedmostlyfore_trovertsandfore_troverts'needforlotsofstimulation.andalsowehavethisbeliefsystemrightnowthaticallthenewgroupthink,whichholdsthatallcreativityandallproductivitycomesfromaveryoddlygregariousplace.
soifyoupicturethetypicalclassroomnowadays:wheniwasgoingtoschool,wesatinrows.wesatinrowsofdeskslikethis,andwedidmostofourworkprettyautonomously.butnowadays,yourtypicalclassroomhaspodsofdesks--fourorfiveorsi_orsevenkidsallfacingeachother.andkidsareworkingincountlessgroupassignments.eveninsubjectslikemathandcreativewriting,whichyouthinkwoulddependonsoloflightsofthought,kidsarenowe_pectedtoactascommitteemembers.andforthekidswhoprefertogooffbythemselvesorjusttoworkalone,thosekidsareseenasoutliersoftenor,worse,asproblemcases.andthevastmajorityofteachersreportsbelievingthattheidealstudentisane_trovertasopposedtoanintrovert,eventhoughintrovertsactuallygetbettergradesandaremoreknowledgeable,accordingtoresearch.(laughter)
okay,samethingistrueinourworkplaces.now,mostofusworkinopenplanoffices,withoutwalls,wherewearesubjecttotheconstantnoiseandgazeofourcoworkers.andwhenitcomestoleadership,introvertsareroutinelypassedoverforleadershippositions,eventhoughintrovertstendtobeverycareful,muchlesslikelytotakeoutsizerisks--whichissomethingwemightallfavornowadays.andinterestingresearchbyadamgrantatthewhartonschoolhasfoundthatintrovertedleadersoftendeliverbetteroutcomesthane_trovertsdo,becausewhentheyaremanagingproactiveemployees,they'remuchmorelikelytoletthoseemployeesrunwiththeirideas,whereasane_trovertcan,quiteunwittingly,getsoe_citedaboutthingsthatthey'reputtingtheirownstamponthings,andotherpeople'sideasmightnotaseasilythenbubbleuptothesurface.
nowinfact,someofourtransformativeleadersinhistoryhavebeenintroverts.i'llgiveyousomee_amples.eleanorroosevelt,rosaparks,gandhi--allthesepeopleddescribedthemselvesasquietandsoft-spokenandevenshy.andtheyalltookthespotlight,eventhougheveryboneintheirbodieswastellingthemnotto.andthisturnsouttohaveaspecialpowerallitsown,becausepeoplecouldfeelthattheseleaderswereatthehelm,notbecausetheyenjoyeddirectingothersandnotoutofthepleasureofbeinglookedat;theyweretherebecausetheyhadnochoice,becausetheyweredriventodowhattheythoughtwasright.
nowithinkatthispointit'simportantformetosaythatiactuallylovee_troverts.ialwaysliketosaysomeofmybestfriendsaree_troverts,includingmybelovedhusband.andweallfallatdifferentpoints,ofcourse,alongtheintrovert/e_trovertspectrum.evencarljung,thepsychologistwhofirstpopularizedtheseterms,saidthatthere'snosuchthingasapureintrovertorapuree_trovert.hesaidthatsuchamanwouldbeinalunaticasylum,ifhee_istedatall.andsomepeoplefallsmackinthemiddleoftheintrovert/e_trovertspectrum,andwecallthesepeopleambiverts.andioftenthinkthattheyhavethebestofallworlds.butmanyofusdorecognizeourselvesasonetypeortheother.
andwhati'msayingisthatculturallyweneedamuchbetterbalance.weneedmoreofayinandyangbetweenthesetwotypes.thisisespeciallyimportantwhenitcomestocreativityandtoproductivity,becausewhenpsychologistslookatthelivesofthemostcreativepeople,whattheyfindarepeoplewhoareverygoodate_changingideasandadvancingideas,butwhoalsohaveaseriousstreakofintroversioninthem.
andthisisbecausesolitudeisacrucialingredientoftentocreativity.sodarwin,hetooklongwalksaloneinthewoodsandemphaticallyturneddowndinnerpartyinvitations.theodorgeisel,betterknownasdr.seuss,hedreamedupmanyofhisamazingcreationsinalonelybelltowerofficethathehadinthebackofhishouseinlajolla,california.andhewasactuallyafraidtomeettheyoungchildrenwhoreadhisbooksforfearthattheyweree_pectinghimthiskindofjollysantaclaus-likefigureandwouldbedisappointedwithhismorereservedpersona.stevewozniakinventedthefirstapplecomputersittingaloneinhiscubicalinhewlett-packardwherehewasworkingatthetime.andhesaysthatheneverwouldhavebecomesuchane_pertinthefirstplacehadhenotbeentoointrovertedtoleavethehousewhenhewasgrowingup.
nowofcourse,thisdoesnotmeanthatweshouldallstopcollaborating--andcaseinpoint,isstevewozniakfamouslycomingtogetherwithstevejobstostartapplecomputer--butitdoesmeanthatsolitudemattersandthatforsomepeopleitistheairthattheybreathe.andinfact,wehaveknownforcenturiesaboutthetranscendentpowerofsolitude.it'sonlyrecentlythatwe'vestrangelybeguntoforgetit.ifyoulookatmostoftheworld'smajorreligions,youwillfindseekers--moses,jesus,buddha,muhammad--seekerswhoaregoingoffbythemselvesalonetothewildernesswheretheythenhaveprofoundepiphaniesandrevelationsthattheythenbringbacktotherestofthecommunity.sonowilderness,norevelations.
thisisnosurprisethoughifyoulookattheinsightsofcontemporarypsychology.itturnsoutthatwecan'tevenbeinagroupofpeoplewithoutinstinctivelymirroring,mimickingtheiropinions.evenaboutseeminglypersonalandvisceralthingslikewhoyou'reattractedto,youwillstartapingthebeliefsofthepeoplearoundyouwithoutevenrealizingthatthat'swhatyou'redoing.
andgroupsfamouslyfollowtheopinionsofthemostdominantorcharismaticpersonintheroom,eventhoughthere'szerocorrelationbetweenbeingthebesttalkerandhavingthebestideas--imeanzero.so...(laughter)youmightbefollowingthepersonwiththebestideas,butyoumightnot.anddoyoureallywanttoleaveituptochance?muchbetterforeverybodytogooffbythemselves,generatetheirownideasfreedfromthedistortionsofgroupdynamics,andthencometogetherasateamtotalkthemthroughinawell-managedenvironmentandtakeitfromthere.
nowifallthisistrue,thenwhyarewegettingitsowrong?whyarewesettingupourschoolsthiswayandourworkplaces?andwhyarewemakingtheseintrovertsfeelsoguiltyaboutwantingtojustgooffbythemselvessomeofthetime?oneanswerliesdeepinourculturalhistory.westernsocieties,andinparticulartheu.s.,havealwaysfavoredthemanofactionoverthemanofcontemplationand"man"ofcontemplation.butinamerica'searlydays,welivedinwhathistorianscallacultureofcharacter,wherewestill,atthatpoint,valuedpeoplefortheirinnerselvesandtheirmoralrectitude.andifyoulookattheself-helpbooksfromthisera,theyallhadtitleswiththingslike"character,thegrandestthingintheworld."andtheyfeaturedrolemodelslikeabrahamlincolnwhowaspraisedforbeingmodestandunassuming.ralphwaldoemersoncalledhim"amanwhodoesnotoffendbysuperiority."
butthenwehitthe20thcenturyandweenteredanewculturethathistorianscallthecultureofpersonality.whathappenediswehadevolvedanagriculturaleconomytoaworldofbigbusiness.andsosuddenlypeoplearemovingfromsmalltownstothecities.andinsteadofworkingalongsidepeoplethey'veknownalltheirlives,nowtheyarehavingtoprovethemselvesinacrowdofstrangers.so,quiteunderstandably,qualitieslikemagnetismandcharismasuddenlycometoseemreallyimportant.andsureenough,theself-helpbookschangetomeetthesenewneedsandtheystarttohavenameslike"howtowinfriendsandinfluencepeople."andtheyfeatureastheirrolemodelsreallygreatsalesmen.sothat'stheworldwe'relivingintoday.that'sourculturalinheritance.
nownoneofthisistosaythatsocialskillsareunimportant,andi'malsonotcallingfortheabolishingofteamworkatall.thesamereligionswhosendtheirsagesofftolonelymountaintopsalsoteachusloveandtrust.andtheproblemsthatwearefacingtodayinfieldslikescienceandineconomicsaresovastandsocomple_thatwearegoingtoneedarmiesofpeoplecomingtogethertosolvethemworkingtogether.butiamsayingthatthemorefreedomthatwegiveintrovertstobethemselves,themorelikelythattheyaretocomeupwiththeirownuniquesolutionstotheseproblems.
sonowi'dliketosharewithyouwhat'sinmysuitcasetoday.guesswhat?books.ihaveasuitcasefullofbooks.here'smargaretatwood,"cat'seye."here'sanovelbymilankundera.andhere's"theguidefortheperple_ed"bymaimonides.butthesearenote_actlymybooks.ibroughtthesebookswithmebecausetheywerewrittenbymygrandfather'sfavoriteauthors.
mygrandfatherwasarabbiandhewasawidowerwholivedaloneinasmallapartmentinbrooklynthatwasmyfavoriteplaceintheworldwheniwasgrowingup,partlybecauseitwasfilledwithhisverygentle,verycourtlypresenceandpartlybecauseitwasfilledwithbooks.imeanliterallyeverytable,everychairinthisapartmenthadyieldeditsoriginalfunctiontonowserveasasurfaceforswayingstacksofbooks.justliketherestofmyfamily,mygrandfather'sfavoritethingtodointhewholeworldwastoread.
buthealsolovedhiscongregation,andyoucouldfeelthisloveinthesermonsthathegaveeveryweekforthe62yearsthathewasarabbi.hewouldtakesthefruitsofeachweek'sreadingandhewouldweavetheseintricatetapestriesofancientandhumanistthought.andpeoplewouldcomefromallovertohearhimspeak.
buthere'sthethingaboutmygrandfather.underneaththisceremonialrole,hewasreallymodestandreallyintroverted--somuchsothatwhenhedeliveredthesesermons,hehadtroublemakingeyecontactwiththeverysamecongregationthathehadbeenspeakingtofor62years.andevenawayfromthepodium,whenyoucalledhimtosayhello,hewouldoftenendtheconversationprematurelyforfearthathewastakinguptoomuchofyourtime.butwhenhediedattheageof94,thepolicehadtoclosedownthestreetsofhisneighborhoodtoaccommodatethecrowdofpeoplewhocameouttomournhim.andsothesedaysitrytolearnfrommygrandfather'se_ampleinmyownway.
soijustpublishedabookaboutintroversion,andittookmeaboutsevenyearstowrite.andforme,thatsevenyearswasliketotalbliss,becauseiwasreading,iwaswriting,iwasthinking,iwasresearching.itwasmyversionofmygrandfather'shoursofthedayaloneinhislibrary.butnowallofasuddenmyjobisverydifferent,andmyjobistobeoutheretalkingaboutit,talkingaboutintroversion.(laughter)andthat'salotharderforme,becauseashonoredasiamtobeherewithallofyourightnow,thisisnotmynaturalmilieu.
soipreparedformomentsliketheseasbesticould.ispentthelastyearpracticingpublicspeakingeverychanceicouldget.andicallthismy"yearofspeakingdangerously."(laughter)andthatactuallyhelpedalot.buti'lltellyou,whathelpsevenmoreismysense,mybelief,myhopethatwhenitcomestoourattitudestointroversionandtoquietandtosolitude,wetrulyarepoisedonthebrinkondramaticchange.imean,weare.andsoiamgoingtoleaveyounowwiththreecallsforactionforthosewhosharethisvision.
numberone:stopthemadnessforconstantgroupwork.juststopit.(laughter)thankyou.(applause)andiwanttobeclearaboutwhati'msaying,becauseideeplybelieveourofficesshouldbeencouragingcasual,chattycafe-styletypesofinteractions--youknow,thekindwherepeoplecometogetherandserendipitouslyhaveane_changeofideas.thatisgreat.it'sgreatforintrovertsandit'sgreatfore_troverts.butweneedmuchmoreprivacyandmuchmorefreedomandmuchmoreautonomyatwork.school,samething.weneedtobeteachingkidstoworktogether,forsure,butwealsoneedtobeteachingthemhowtoworkontheirown.thisisespeciallyimportantfore_trovertedchildrentoo.theyneedtoworkontheirownbecausethatiswheredeepthoughtcomesfrominpart.
okay,numbertwo:gotothewilderness.belikebuddha,haveyourownrevelations.i'mnotsayingthatweallhavetonowgooffandbuildourowncabinsinthewoodsandnevertalktoeachotheragain,butiamsayingthatwecouldallstandtounplugandgetinsideourownheadsalittlemoreoften.
numberthree:takeagoodlookatwhat'sinsideyourownsuitcaseandwhyyouputitthere.soe_troverts,maybeyoursuitcasesarealsofullofbooks.ormaybethey'refullofchampagneglassesorskydivingequipment.whateveritis,ihopeyoutakethesethingsouteverychanceyougetandgraceuswithyourenergyandyourjoy.butintroverts,youbeingyou,youprobablyhavetheimpulsetoguardverycarefullywhat'sinsideyourownsuitcase.andthat'sokay.butoccasionally,justoccasionally,ihopeyouwillopenupyoursuitcasesforotherpeopletosee,becausetheworldneedsyouanditneedsthethingsyoucarry.
soiwishyouthebestofallpossiblejourneysandthecouragetospeaksoftly.
thankyouverymuch.
(applause)
thankyou.thankyou.
ted演讲稿范文篇10
尊敬的老师、同学们:
大家好!
社会是一个变化万千的群体,要想跟上社会的脚步,需要进行适当的改变,以便更好的和社会融合在一起。
改变环境不如改变自己。社会是个包罗万象、千奇百怪的群体。周围的环境一旦形成就很难用自己的力量去变改。所以我们应该去试着改变自己。一位老者曾对自己的弟子说他拥有移山的本事,只要说“山过来”,山就会自己过来,于是他当着弟子们的面对前面的山说“山过来”,但是山却丝毫未动,对此老者并没有显得很尴尬,他说道:“既然山不会过来,那么我们就向它靠近吧。”环境不会因一个人而改变,所以你要努力适应。托尔斯泰说过:“世界上有两种人,一种是行动者,一种是观望着。很多人都想着要改变世界,却从未想过改变自己。”可见,改变自己,才能与环境更好融合。
改变别人不如改变自己。每个人都有自己的优点和缺点,所以才会存在妒忌和看不惯,但是我们无法让别人改变他的缺点和优点,所以我们要改变自己,让自己学会欣赏和包容。
一位老师总是抱怨班上有很多调皮的孩子上课不听讲,教导之后也屡教不改,很是苦恼,她经常想尽办法想要改变那些调皮的孩子,这时另一个老师说:“孩子们不听课也许是老师口才不好,讲课的魅力不够大,所以孩子们对老师的课兴趣不浓。好好改变一下自己吧。”于是老师开始努力改变自己,改变上课的形式,很快孩子们不再调皮了。改变别人不如改变自己,地球不会因一个人而转,当一根手指指向别人的时候,其他四根手指都指向自己,就算错的不是自己,那也应该检讨为什么别人会那么对我,从而改变自己,学会包容欣赏。
改变自己。虽然我们不能改变天气的恶劣,但我们能改变自己的心情;虽然我们不能改变自己的生命的长短,但是我们能改变自己生命的价值。有些事情无法改变事实,但是我们能改变自己。下定决心改变自己吧,我们将拥有的是改变后的变化。
ted演讲稿范文篇11
mysubjecttodayislearning.andinthatspirit,iwanttospringonyouallapopquiz.ready?whendoeslearningbegin?nowasyouponderthatquestion,maybeyou'rethinkingaboutthefirstdayofpreschoolorkindergarten,thefirsttimethatkidsareinaclassroomwithateacher.ormaybeyou'vecalledtomindthetoddlerphasewhenchildrenarelearninghowtowalkandtalkanduseafork.maybeyou'veencounteredthezero-to-threemovement,whichassertsthatthemostimportantyearsforlearningaretheearliestones.andsoyouranswertomyquestionwouldbe:learningbeginsatbirth.
welltodayiwanttopresenttoyouanideathatmaybesurprisingandmayevenseemimplausible,butwhichissupportedbythelatestevidencefrompsychologyandbiology.andthatisthatsomeofthemostimportantlearningweeverdohappensbeforewe'reborn,whilewe'restillinthewomb.nowi'masciencereporter.iwritebooksandmagazinearticles.andi'malsoamother.andthosetworolescametogetherformeinabookthatiwrotecalled"origins.""origins"isareportfromthefrontlinesofane_citingnewfieldcalledfetalorigins.fetaloriginsisascientificdisciplinethatemergedjustabouttwodecadesago,andit'sbasedonthetheorythatourhealthandwell-beingthroughoutourlivesiscruciallyaffectedbytheninemonthswespendinthewomb.nowthistheorywasofmorethanjustintellectualinteresttome.iwasmyselfpregnantwhileiwasdoingtheresearchforthebook.andoneofthemostfascinatinginsightsitookfromthisworkisthatwe'realllearningabouttheworldevenbeforeweenterit.
whenweholdourbabiesforthefirsttime,wemightimaginethatthey'recleanslates,unmarkedbylife,wheninfact,they'vealreadybeenshapedbyusandbytheparticularworldwelivein.todayiwanttosharewithyousomeoftheamazingthingsthatscientistsarediscoveringaboutwhatfetuseslearnwhilethey'restillintheirmothers'bellies.
firstofall,theylearnthesoundoftheirmothers'voices.becausesoundsfromtheoutsideworldhavetotravelthroughthemother'sabdominaltissueandthroughtheamnioticfluidthatsurroundsthefetus,thevoicesfetuseshear,startingaroundthefourthmonthofgestation,aremutedandmuffled.oneresearchersaysthattheyprobablysoundalotlikethethevoiceofcharliebrown'steacherintheold"peanuts"cartoon.butthepregnantwoman'sownvoicereverberatesthroughherbody,reachingthefetusmuchmorereadily.andbecausethefetusiswithherallthetime,ithearshervoicealot.oncethebaby'sborn,itrecognizeshervoiceanditpreferslisteningtohervoiceoveranyoneelse's.
howcanweknowthis?newbornbabiescan'tdomuch,butonethingthey'rereallygoodatissucking.researcherstakeadvantageofthisfactbyrigginguptworubbernipples,sothatifababysucksonone,ithearsarecordingofitsmother'svoiceonapairofheadphones,andifitsucksontheothernipple,ithearsarecordingofafemalestranger'svoice.babiesquicklyshowtheirpreferencebychoosingthefirstone.scientistsalsotakeadvantageofthefactthatbabieswillslowdowntheirsuckingwhensomethingintereststhemandresumetheirfastsuckingwhentheygetbored.thisishowresearchersdiscoveredthat,afterwomenrepeatedlyreadaloudasectionofdr.seuss'"thecatinthehat"whiletheywerepregnant,theirnewbornbabiesrecognizedthatpassagewhentheyhearitoutsidethewomb.myfavoritee_perimentofthiskindistheonethatshowedthatthebabiesofwomenwhowatchedacertainsoapoperaeverydayduringpregnancyrecognizedthethemesongofthatshowoncetheywereborn.sofetusesareevenlearningabouttheparticularlanguagethat'sspokenintheworldthatthey'llbeborninto.
astudypublishedlastyearfoundthatfrombirth,fromthemomentofbirth,babiescryintheaccentoftheirmother'snativelanguage.frenchbabiescryonarisingnotewhilegermanbabiesendonafallingnote,imitatingthemelodiccontoursofthoselanguages.nowwhywouldthiskindoffetallearningbeuseful?itmayhaveevolvedtoaidthebaby'ssurvival.fromthemomentofbirth,thebabyrespondsmosttothevoiceofthepersonwhoismostlikelytocareforit--itsmother.itevenmakesitscriessoundlikethemother'slanguage,whichmayfurtherendearthebabytothemother,andwhichmaygivethebabyaheadstartinthecriticaltaskoflearninghowtounderstandandspeakitsnativelanguage.
butit'snotjustsoundsthatfetusesarelearningaboutinutero.it'salsotastesandsmells.bysevenmonthsofgestation,thefetus'tastebudsarefullydeveloped,anditsolfactoryreceptors,whichallowittosmell,arefunctioning.theflavorsofthefoodapregnantwomaneatsfindtheirwayintotheamnioticfluid,whichiscontinuouslyswallowedbythefetus.babiesseemtorememberandpreferthesetastesoncethey'reoutintheworld.inonee_periment,agroupofpregnantwomenwasaskedtodrinkalotofcarrotjuiceduringtheirthirdtrimesterofpregnancy,whileanothergroupofpregnantwomendrankonlywater.si_monthslater,thewomen'sinfantswereofferedcerealmi_edwithcarrotjuice,andtheirfaciale_pressionswereobservedwhiletheyateit.theoffspringofthecarrotjuicedrinkingwomenatemorecarrot-flavoredcereal,andfromthelooksofit,theyseemedtoenjoyitmore.
asortoffrenchversionofthise_perimentwascarriedoutindijon,francewhereresearchersfoundthatmotherswhoconsumedfoodanddrinkflavoredwithlicorice-flavoredaniseduringpregnancyshowedapreferenceforaniseontheirfirstdayoflife,andagain,whentheyweretestedlater,ontheirfourthdayoflife.babieswhosemothersdidnoteataniseduringpregnancyshowedareactionthattranslatedroughlyas"yuck."whatthismeansisthatfetusesareeffectivelybeingtaughtbytheirmothersaboutwhatissafeandgoodtoeat.fetusesarealsobeingtaughtabouttheparticularculturethatthey'llbejoiningthroughoneofculture'smostpowerfule_pressions,whichisfood.they'rebeingintroducedtothecharacteristicflavorsandspicesoftheirculture'scuisineevenbeforebirth.
nowitturnsoutthatfetusesarelearningevenbiggerlessons.butbeforeigettothat,iwanttoaddresssomethingthatyoumaybewonderingabout.thenotionoffetallearningmayconjureupforyouattemptstoenrichthefetus--likeplayingmozartthroughheadphonesplacedonapregnantbelly.butactually,thenine-month-longprocessofmoldingandshapingthatgoesoninthewombisalotmorevisceralandconsequentialthanthat.muchofwhatapregnantwomanencountersinherdailylife--theairshebreathes,thefoodanddrinksheconsumes,thechemicalsshe'se_posedto,eventheemotionsshefeels--aresharedinsomefashionwithherfetus.theymakeupami_ofinfluencesasindividualandidiosyncraticasthewomanherself.thefetusincorporatestheseofferingsintoitsownbody,makesthempartofitsfleshandblood.andoftenitdoessomethingmore.ittreatsthesematernalcontributionsasinformation,aswhatiliketocallbiologicalpostcardsfromtheworldoutside.
sowhatafetusislearningaboutinuteroisnotmozart's"magicflute"butanswerstoquestionsmuchmorecriticaltoitssurvival.willitbebornintoaworldofabundanceorscarcity?willitbesafeandprotected,orwillitfaceconstantdangersandthreats?willitlivealong,fruitfullifeorashort,harriedone?thepregnantwoman'sdietandstresslevelinparticularprovideimportantcluestoprevailingconditionslikeafingerliftedtothewind.theresultingtuningandtweakingofafetus'brainandotherorgansarepartofwhatgiveushumansourenormousfle_ibility,ourabilitytothriveinahugevarietyofenvironments,fromthecountrytothecity,fromthetundratothedesert.
toconclude,iwanttotellyoutwostoriesabouthowmothersteachtheirchildrenabouttheworldevenbeforethey'reborn.intheautumnof1944,thedarkestdaysofworldwarii,germantroopsblockadedwesternholland,turningawayallshipmentsoffood.theopeningofthenazi'ssiegewasfollowedbyoneoftheharshestwintersindecades--socoldthewaterinthecanalsfrozesolid.soonfoodbecamescarce,withmanydutchsurvivingonjust500caloriesaday--aquarterofwhattheyconsumedbeforethewar.asweeksofdeprivationstretchedintomonths,someresortedtoeatingtulipbulbs.bythebeginningofmay,thenation'scarefullyrationedfoodreservewascompletelye_hausted.thespecterofmassstarvationloomed.andthenonmay5th,1945,thesiegecametoasuddenendwhenhollandwasliberatedbytheallies.
the"hungerwinter,"asitcametobeknown,killedsome10,000peopleandweakenedthousandsmore.buttherewasanotherpopulationthatwasaffected--the40,000fetusesinuteroduringthesiege.someoftheeffectsofmalnutritionduringpregnancywereimmediatelyapparentinhigherratesofstillbirths,birthdefects,lowbirthweightsandinfantmortality.butotherswouldn'tbediscoveredformanyyears.decadesafterthe"hungerwinter,"researchersdocumentedthatpeoplewhosemotherswerepregnantduringthesiegehavemoreobesity,morediabetesandmoreheartdiseaseinlaterlifethanindividualswhoweregestatedundernormalconditions.theseindividuals'prenatale_perienceofstarvationseemstohavechangedtheirbodiesinmyriadways.theyhavehigherbloodpressure,poorercholesterolprofilesandreducedglucosetolerance--aprecursorofdiabetes.
whywouldundernutritioninthewombresultindiseaselater?onee_planationisthatfetusesaremakingthebestofabadsituation.whenfoodisscarce,theydivertnutrientstowardsthereallycriticalorgan,thebrain,andawayfromotherorgansliketheheartandliver.thiskeepsthefetusaliveintheshort-term,butthebillcomesduelateroninlifewhenthoseotherorgans,deprivedearlyon,becomemoresusceptibletodisease.
butthatmaynotbeallthat'sgoingon.itseemsthatfetusesaretakingcuesfromtheintrauterineenvironmentandtailoringtheirphysiologyaccordingly.they'repreparingthemselvesforthekindofworldtheywillencounterontheothersideofthewomb.thefetusadjustsitsmetabolismandotherphysiologicalprocessesinanticipationoftheenvironmentthatawaitsit.andthebasisofthefetus'predictioniswhatitsmothereats.themealsapregnantwomanconsumesconstituteakindofstory,afairytaleofabundanceoragrimchronicleofdeprivation.thisstoryimpartsinformationthatthefetususestoorganizeitsbodyanditssystems--anadaptationtoprevailingcircumstancesthatfacilitatesitsfuturesurvival.facedwithseverelylimitedresources,asmaller-sizedchildwithreducedenergyrequirementswill,infact,haveabetterchanceoflivingtoadulthood.
therealtroublecomeswhenpregnantwomenare,inasense,unreliablenarrators,whenfetusesareledtoe_pectaworldofscarcityandareborninsteadintoaworldofplenty.thisiswhathappenedtothechildrenofthedutch"hungerwinter."andtheirhigherratesofobesity,diabetesandheartdiseasearetheresult.bodiesthatwerebuilttohangontoeverycaloriefoundthemselvesswimminginthesuperfluouscaloriesofthepost-warwesterndiet.theworldtheyhadlearnedaboutwhileinuterowasnotthesameastheworldintowhichtheywereborn.
here'sanotherstory.at8:46a.m.onseptember11th,__,thereweretensofthousandsofpeopleinthevicinityoftheworldtradecenterinnewyork--commutersspillingofftrains,waitressessettingtablesforthemorningrush,brokersalreadyworkingthephonesonwallstreet.1,700ofthesepeoplewerepregnantwomen.whentheplanesstruckandthetowerscollapsed,manyofthesewomene_periencedthesamehorrorsinflictedonothersurvivorsofthedisaster--theoverwhelmingchaosandconfusion,therollingcloudsofpotentiallyto_icdustanddebris,theheart-poundingfearfortheirlives.
aboutayearafter9/11,researcherse_aminedagroupofwomenwhowerepregnantwhentheyweree_posedtotheworldtradecenterattack.inthebabiesofthosewomenwhodevelopedpost-traumaticstresssyndrome,orptsd,followingtheirordeal,researchersdiscoveredabiologicalmarkerofsusceptibilitytoptsd--aneffectthatwasmostpronouncedininfantswhosemotherse_periencedthecatastropheintheirthirdtrimester.inotherwords,themotherswithpost-traumaticstresssyndromehadpassedonavulnerabilitytotheconditiontotheirchildrenwhiletheywerestillinutero.
nowconsiderthis:post-traumaticstresssyndromeappearstobeareactiontostressgoneverywrong,causingitsvictimstremendousunnecessarysuffering.butthere'sanotherwayofthinkingaboutptsd.whatlookslikepathologytousmayactuallybeausefuladaptationinsomecircumstances.inaparticularlydangerousenvironment,thecharacteristicmanifestationsofptsd--ahyper-awarenessofone'ssurroundings,aquick-triggerresponsetodanger--couldsavesomeone'slife.thenotionthattheprenataltransmissionofptsdriskisadaptiveisstillspeculative,butifinditratherpoignant.itwouldmeanthat,evenbeforebirth,mothersarewarningtheirchildrenthatit'sawildworldoutthere,tellingthem,"becareful."
letmebeclear.fetaloriginsresearchisnotaboutblamingwomenforwhathappensduringpregnancy.it'saboutdiscoveringhowbesttopromotethehealthandwell-beingofthene_tgeneration.thatimportanteffortmustincludeafocusonwhatfetuseslearnduringtheninemonthstheyspendinthewomb.learningisoneoflife'smostessentialactivities,anditbeginsmuchearlierthanweeverimagined.
thankyou.
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长大以后,我只能奔跑,一边失去,一边在寻找,明天你好,即使含着泪微笑。——题记
青岛一五年的第一场雪在一中校园里纷飞,我独自站在窗口望那“鹅毛”纷纷落落,心无感触似是无稽之谈,但是要我说出那其中的感触,我只能笑而不语。不是一个人独行惯了才独自赏雪,只是认为唯有一人才能体会到一片雪花飘荡在这万千孤独的迷茫。路漫漫,及行迷之未远,归。
喧闹的环境伴随着阶梯教室那扇门打开而渐渐平息。我望着一身材平平的男人向我们走来,在无尽的掌声中向我们鞠躬,那瞬间我是木讷的,为什么如此成功之人会这般谦逊,我眯起眼,妄想从其中汲取些许。身边的朋友无一不被外籍校长抓住了眼球,而我的目光一直停留在他的身上未曾离去。随着讲座的开始,那段往事渐渐地浮现在我们的眼前。听他讲到那坎坷崎岖的路程,我的眉头不由紧皱,心也随之触痛。的确!谁能想象到一双弹钢琴的手竟然曾经承担过这般的苦痛!董荣璨博士轻松的言语讲述着他在外奔波的三十年,而那些经历牵动着台下的我们每一个人的心。还好,一切的一切都是有用的,他成为了伟大的作曲家,钢琴家,艺术家,一个大写的中国人!
崇敬在我的眼眶流露,只是隔着那遥远的距离而无法传达,那炙热的情感流露无一不表达着我对他的敬仰之情!一曲现场创作像一股暖流涌向心头,简单的音符在他的手指下编织成婉转、悠扬的曲子,飘到我们的心中飘到我们的灵魂里!我的手指不由随着节奏敲打着桌面,用心去感受其中的情感。一曲《梁祝》回荡在耳旁,其中蕴含着的是三十多年的心血和汗水,满满的感情流露让我的内心有所触动,也许那天收获的不仅仅是听觉的盛宴,也是满满的内心感动。
临近一五年的尾声,忙忙碌碌的自己也似乎找到了目标。内心怀着那份信仰,马不停蹄地走着。不做无庸的事,不做无庸的人。时光荏苒,却冲刷不掉我内心怀揣的前进的激情;白驹过隙,只希望留下的是美好的回忆。怀揣着这份信念前进,让我强忍住泪水,高昂着头前进。我不畏艰难困苦,只望见了黎明的一缕曙光便会前行,那等待我的必定是我的信仰,在最后的最后,我们会相拥,拥抱明天!
我不是作曲家,无法用跳跃的音符谱写深情;我不是钢琴家,我不会用流畅的乐章流露传情;我不是艺术家,无法用高端的美展现自己。但是我心怀理想又怎么肯轻易折服?负面、消极的全都抛之脑后,趁现在,努力给自己“艺术人生”!
长大以后,我开始奔跑,即使含着泪微笑,但不远处的斑斓星光在闪烁,那便是我的信念,明天你好!
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春天到了,青蛙又开始“呱呱”地唱歌了,我发现又有人在田野里开始捕捉青蛙了,使青蛙成为那些人的“盘餐中”,我感到非常痛心。
青蛙是动物世界中最出色的“庄稼的保护神”。它头上那两只圆而突出的眼睛,能让它看清庄稼天敌,但捉害虫全靠它又长又宽的舌头,舌根长口腔的前面,舌尖向那么一伸,快速地伸长长的舌头,一下子把害虫粘住,然后吃掉。青蛙的背上有绿色的深色花纹,腹部是白色,能帮它逃脱天敌血盆大口。身体下面有四条腿,前腿短,后腿长。青蛙是两栖动物,不仅能在地上跳,而且也能在水里游。
青蛙吃苍蝇,蚊子,蝗虫,小飞娥等害虫,一天大约能吃掉120只,半年下来就能吃掉15000只,这是多么大的功劳哇!就连青蛙的幼虫------蝌蚪也能消灭许多害虫哩!真不愧“庄稼的保护神”,农民伯伯的好助手呀!
从现在开始,我们一起保护“庄稼的保护神”------青蛙吧!让我们共同保护[动物]生态平衡!
ted演讲稿范文篇14
大家好!
让我们来问自己一个问题,如果上天给你一次重新选择的机会,你会愿意做谁?是自己还是别人?
记得在小学的一节心理课上,我们的心理老师也这么问过我们。当时我们都不假思索地写在了纸上。统计结果是,全班30个人,29个人是愿意做别人,只有1个人愿意做自己。
为什么不愿意做自己?也许你觉得自己太过于平凡了,但是,万物不都是这样吗?一棵小草是平凡的,它只是默默地生长,任人践踏。野花是平凡的,也许它一直是个被忽略的角色,它比其他的花更不起眼,它没有玫瑰的娇艳,没有百合的清香,也没有玉兰这般的高贵,可它同样能开出属于自己的一片天。平凡,不等于我们不可以创造自己的不平凡,平凡,不等于我们不幸福。幸福的人不一定愿意做自己,但愿意做自己的人一定很幸福。
既然知道我永远是我,不可能是别人,那么就快乐地做自己。做自己,本就是一种幸福!
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20__年5月12日,相信是全中国人刻骨铭心的日子。在这一天我国四川汶川县发生了高达7.8级的强烈地震。地震过后,社会各界人士纷纷伸出援助之手。这一刻,我深深感觉到中国人的团结,当我看到电视上的报道我泣不成声。曾经那么美丽的地方在大地剧烈颤抖过后,变成一片废墟使我感到很痛心。
在电视上看到了一个个因地震而失去父母的孤儿,看到了社会各界人士对他们的帮助,也得知大家为灾民们筹集善款。作为一名中学生,当看到此场景,我的第一反应就是去四川汶川县当一名志愿者,为四川汶川县贡献自己的一份力量。但是因为我的年龄和即将到来的中考我无法实现这个愿望。
在此我呼吁所有的爱心人士能够奉献自己的一份力量,身体上的创伤可以医治,但是失去父母的孤儿内心上的创伤是难以安抚的。希望各位叔叔阿姨,可以给他们带去关爱。
我们每个人的力量微薄的像一个萤火虫。然而,千千万万的萤火虫汇聚到一起,将会是无法抗拒的力量。给灾民们带来光明和希望。
我在这里虔诚的为受灾大人民祈祷,早日度过难关。像诗中“长风破浪会有时,直挂云帆济沧海。”中所说的,相信你们的明天会更好。
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亲爱的同学们:
大家好!
今天我国旗下演讲的题目是《健康饮食从我做起》。
每一家的健康与食品息息相关,随着经济社会不断进步,人们饮食文化日益多样化,食品卫生与安全成为备受关注的话题。
要健康饮食,就要做到以下几点:
1.不购买街边小吃或街边小店的垃圾食品,去一些正规超市购买食物。
2.买所需食品时,要注意生产日期、保质期、QS生产许可标志等等。
3.认准品牌购买,尽量买一些有品牌的食品。
4.少吃油炸食品及零食,多吃蔬菜水果等有营养的食品。
5.不买价格明显过低的食品,不要贪小失大。
注意以上几点,就大致能做到安全饮食了。俗话说:“民以食为天”。说得通俗一点就是人们每天要吃和喝,食物是人类赖以生存的物质。食品的质量决定了人类生命的质量。因此,食品必须是安全的并且有益健康的。
同时,也呼吁食品安全,关系你我他,但愿生产者不再为食品安全脸红,国人不再为食品安全担心,国家不再为食品安全丢脸。现在,让我们一起行动起来,杜绝有害食品,倡导绿色食品!希望同学们听了我这次的讲话后都健康饮食,健康地成长。
谢谢大家!
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敬爱的老师,亲爱的同学:
曾有一个人,以笔当武器有力地打击日本侵略者,而他的“横眉冷对千夫指,俯首甘为孺子牛”,有如太极一般柔中带刚;曾有一个人,他放弃可苟且偷安的生活,毅然投身随时有着生命危险的革命事业,率领中国人民打下了属于自己的江山。
前者与后者在同一个时代,那是中国沦落的时代。在列强侵略的铁蹄践踏下的中国,人民的民族意识仍然很弱,仍在外来侵略者以及军阀的压迫下过着浑浑噩噩的生活。前者刚开始并没有意识到精神上的麻木才是最可怕的,他看到的只是民不聊生的惨状,当他看到人们在病痛的折磨下而含恨离世,他突然想到如果能成为一名救死扶伤的医生,医治病人,也许人民的生活会好起来。
于是他不辞辛苦飘洋来到异国学习医术。他很努力,只希望早日学成,回国去抢救那些正处于水深火热之中的人民,但在一次令他终身难忘的事情之后,他改变了他的认识。他不再热衷于学医,而是拿起锋利的毛笔与侵略者做抗挣。
那一天他路过街边的电影院,瞥见了银幕上中国人目睹自己的同胞受到侵略者迫害而毫无反应地令人吃惊的一幕,此时此刻他如醍醐灌顶一般猛地清醒过来了,原来仅仅医治好人们的肉体是不够的,因为无法医治好他们麻木的灵魂,即使拥有健康的身体也永远只是任人使唤,任人践踏的奴隶。要想让人民过上幸福的生活,让祖国摆脱列强地控制,就必须改变人们的思想,让人民觉醒!他弃医从文,先改变了自己,然后用自己的笔唤醒了无数的中国人。
后者同样生活当时那个兵荒马乱的年代,他目睹民生疾苦,便发誓要改变中国现状,尽管父亲封建,甚至不让他读书,接受文化的熏陶。但他叛逆,偏偏要上激进的学堂,他从老师那知道了到中国民不聊生的根源,愈来愈按柰不住自己那颗已经被改变的想法塞满的心。
但他又异常冷静,他知道以个人之力要谈改变,无异于飞蛾扑火,想要中国彻底摆脱列强的统治,军阀的压迫,就必须结交天下的爱国爱民的仁人志士,共同_旧制度,改变旧中国。在湖南第一师范的那几年,师生之间的志同道合,大大的鼓舞了他。在后来他投身革命后还总结分析出了前辈想要改革为何却屡屡以失败告终的原因,于是他发出了”枪杆子底下出政权“的历史性的呼声,从次中国无产阶级组建起自己的武装力量,为后来打下新中国奠定了基础。
这两位爱国人士想必大家都知道,他们的丰功伟绩也永载史册。他们想改变国家,改变世界,就先从改变自身做起。自己拥有了目标,有了抱负,才能改变自己,改变世界!有时的成功并不是来源于不变的固执,而是改变,学会审时度势,学会变通。
ted演讲稿范文篇18
尊敬的老师们,亲爱的同学们:
大家好!
到底是剪短头发呢,还是继续留长发?我在镜子前来回踱步。
“当然是短发方便啦!”妈妈笑着说,“你头发越来越长了,打理起来也越来越麻烦。再说,尝试改变也是一件很美好的事哦!”
我又抬起头,望着镜中踌躇不安的自己和头上有些凌乱的长发,心想:改变为什么一定意味着失去呢?每天清晨,为了这一头长发,我常常要在镜前花费很多宝贵的时间。但是如果剪成了短发,不仅能节约时间,而且我还可以迎接一个崭新的模样,一个崭新的自我……
我下定了决心:改变!
于是,我坐在了理发店的转椅上,镜中的我露出心满意足的微笑。看着满地的碎发,我“如释重负”,一下子觉得世界焕然一新。看来,之前的担忧真是多余!
出了理发店,冬日的暖阳从云朵中露出微笑脸庞。我一边迈着欢快的步伐,一边在想:“改变,真好!”
这让我想起了另一件事。
以前,最让我焦虑的事情,就是在书房那“茫茫书海”中寻找一本急需的作业本。妈妈十分关心我,总是抽空帮我整理书房。但整理之后的日子里,书房总会时不时传来一连串问号:“妈妈,我的课外书呢?”“咦,我的练习册哪去了?”
于是,我尝试改变。从给每一本书归类到把书柜分格,从为每一本作业本“安家”,到给每一支笔找到“住所”……很快,我的书房中的每一位成员都有了“新家”。
从此,我都自己收拾房间。忙碌过后,我每次都感到疲倦,但内心却是无比快乐。因为我体验了“改变”:从妈妈为我的一切操劳,到我自己打理生活。我的房间越来越整洁,我也在改变中成长,越来越独立了。
生命中有许多需要改变的东西,我们要对改变充满信心,不能让多余的担心阻挡我们成长的步伐,因为改变让我们收获自信,收获希望,收获人生的多姿多态!改变,真好!
ted演讲稿范文篇19
每个人至少拥有一个梦想,有一个理由去坚强,心若没有了栖息的地方,到哪里都是在流浪。水之一方,没有了昨天,今天,明天;海之一角,没有了前世,今生,来生;所思所议在刹那间全部盛开,又凋落…捧起时间的潮汐,埋葬以前的心愿,期待着明天会更好,至少我们会变得成熟了,感知到这个世界在微妙的变动。时间散落在平静的心湖中,荡起阵阵涟漪,一圈圈的希冀,勾勒出我们的人生蓝图。
不知明天会怎样?或许风和日丽,或许阴雨绵绵,亦或许狂风怒卷。但我们还是期待这它的到来,期待它给我们带来惊喜,人生就是由无数的未知构成。它犹如舞台上的一出戏,不同的是,在人生的舞台上演出是没有彩排的。
卡耐基说过:It'syourtakingpartinginthelifeandtheactionsbutnotyouroutcomethatcounts.没有凝固的生命,没有亘古的荒原,只要我们满怀期待,拥有梦想,任何的消沉都会绽放瑰丽的神奇,在没有色彩的地方创造色彩,在没有声音的地方创造声音,在没有奇迹的地方创造奇迹。
明天,真的会更好。
ted演讲稿范文篇20
亲爱的同学们:
大家好!
我今天演讲的主题是“关注食品安全”。
随着中国社会经济的快速发展和人民生活水平的提高,人们越来越重视健康和食品安全,尤其是“__”奶粉等食品安全事件的发生,这也引起了人们的关注。
给我们敲响了安全的警钟,“食品安全”已成为与国民健康,社会稳定,经济发展和市场繁荣相关的重要因素。
对于我们每个同学来说,学习和了解相关的食品卫生知识,养成良好的饮食习惯,提高自我保护意识,抵制劣质食品的诱惑是非常必要和实际的。
但我们经常看到一些学生在校园的杂货店,餐馆甚至小摊子前,一些学生在购买、食用价廉质次的食品。那么,你了解这些看似诱人和便宜的食物背后的危险吗?
据卫生监督部门的技术人员介绍,由于学生的零用钱相对有限,大多数这些经营者“便宜进便宜出”,采取购买一些“三无”产品的原则,大多数食品是基于颜料和糖精。在这里我建议学生:
1.建立食品安全概念,了解食品安全知识,增强自我保护能力。购买食品时,应选择常规的大型购物中心和超市。购买食品时,应尽量选择一些知名品牌。同时,我们必须注意食品包装上是否有制造商,生产日期以及保质期是否已过。
如果你在小商店购买食品,你必须看好制造商,生产日期,保质期,注意包装袋是否损坏。无生产许可证和qs徽标的食品不能购买或食用。
2.养成良好的饮食观念。不食用流动摊点的小吃、零食等,自觉抵制,三无食物,劣质食品,学生在学校尽可能在学校食堂吃饭。
3.养成健康的饮食习惯。不挑食,不偏食,一日三餐,定时定量,不暴饮暴食。带上自己的杯子,多喝开水。事实上,开水是的饮料。
有些饮料含有防腐剂,色素等,经常饮用不利于年轻学生的健康。
老师,同学们,食品安全都是不小的事,“病从口入”重预防。如今,已进入春天的季节万物复苏,各种细菌正在悄然滋生和迅速传播。
让我们自觉行动,注重食品安全,重视“问题食品”对身体健康和青少年成长的危害,远离“问题食品”和“不合格食品”,不断提高我们的食品安全意识。自我保护意识,为构建平安和谐、健康向上的校园环境而不懈努力!
谢谢大家!
ted演讲稿范文篇21
走进幸福的天堂!let’sgo!
我:“钟老师,您幸福么?”当我问钟老师这个问题的时候,老师感到惊讶,说:“我当然幸福啦!”“那你最大的幸福是什么呀?”我问。钟老师想了一会儿说:“嗯......是可以干自己想干的事,没有人阻拦我。而且要对自己有益,对别人有益那才幸福呢。”
校医却对我说:“没有人来看病,整天清闲着就幸福了。”但我觉得校医是在说笑吧,哪有作为一个医生不想救死扶伤呢?
舞蹈老师说:“能让我教过的学生都能够不断进步,那就是我的幸福了。
厨房叔叔说:“我不知道。”班长说:“对不起,我不接受采访。”吴芃净:“我......跟你一样。”
我不懂,为什么我在问大人时,他(她)们都会狂笑不止,而我在问同学时,同学们就不愿意回答。
钟老师的幸福是因为可以做对自己、别人有益的事。舞蹈老师的幸福是自己教过的学生都能够不断进步。她们都是一个好老师,都在为别人付出。
老师们!你们经历过苦难,但你们都能感到幸福。那我就更加不用说了。
我幸福,因为我生活在幸福中。
一次,我和阿姨坐公交车去天虹购物。在公交车上,有一个老奶奶上车了,可车上没座位了。我看到旁边有一个牌子,上面写:请给老人让座。老师也讲过,要给老人让座。于是,我让老奶奶坐在我的座位上。老奶奶说:“谢谢你!”一个姐姐看见了,让我坐在她的座位上。可见,我们人之间是有爱、是有幸福的。
其实,幸福很简单,它时时刻刻地陪在我们身边!
付出是一种幸福。彼此牵手同行,难免磕碰,重要的是要珍惜爱与付出。
拥有是一种幸福。你有很多东西,难道你不会感到幸福么?
批评是一种幸福。老师和家长批评你,是因为他(她)们关心你。不然,他们怎么会批评你呢?所以,你被批评时,应该高兴呀!
被攻击,被妒忌是一种幸福.因为你有值得被妒忌和攻击的资格。
被出卖是一种幸福。它让你看清楚谁是你真正的朋友。
失望是一种幸福。因为有盼望,才会有失望。有了盼望,就有了追求,有了追求,就有了幸福。
许多人认为有钱就是幸福,因为金钱可以买到很多自己想要的东西。不过,我认为有金钱并不一定就能得到幸福!因为金钱买不到亲情,买不到真诚。
我们如果不能察觉自己的幸福,是因为还不懂的幸福的含义,不懂得感激生活,宽容待人。
幸福不一定需要有很多钱,一家人能相亲相爱,朋友间能真诚相待,就是幸福。有时,一句贴心的话儿,一个感人的动作,那也是幸福。
幸福并不遥远,只要我们用心感受,它就在我们身边,可遇可求。
ted演讲稿范文篇22
人的一生在世间浮沉,难免会迷失方向、迷失自己。因而,能够时刻正确认识自己,就显得尤为重要。苏格拉底曾说:“美德即知识,认识你自己。”这恰恰说明了,能够正确认识自己,也是一种至高无上的美德。
有的时候,人们迷失了自己,只是无法找寻到自己真实的存在,不知道自己存在的意义和价值,因而对人生感到迷茫。这个时候,只需要继续寻找,总能够找到前进的方向。然而有的时候,人们迷失了自己之后,不去寻找真实的自己,反而把自己臆想成另一种存在,然后就以那种存在的姿态去继续自己的人生。那种时候,人们就很难再找回自己,甚至会走上一条极端的不归路。
就如同古代帝王,相信每一任帝王在登基之初都是想做一任明君造福百姓的。但是有的帝王会因为权欲熏心,真的把自己当成神,可以主宰终生,最终背离了自己的初衷。纣王要剖比干之心,厉王要“止谤”,连一代圣君唐太宗也差点杀掉勇于劝谏的魏征。由此可见,不能正确认识自己的后果是多么可怕。这也说明了,正确认识自己,有的时候帮助的甚至不仅仅是自己。
但是,在人生迷茫之后,还能正确认识自己,真的那么困难吗?
其实,正确认识自己,只需要自己足够虚心,能够听取别人的意见和建议,有去正视自己和改过自新的勇气便可。
齐王在听了邹忌的劝谏之后,立刻认识到自己的不足,下令改革。法国作家卢梭,他的《忏悔录》是一部空前绝后的“灵魂自白书”,他在书中真实地记录了他的一生,包括他曾做过小偷、抛弃挚友、嫁祸他人的种.种丑行。读此《忏悔录》时常令人感到触目惊心,因为当他把自己剖析得体无完肤的时候,就是他真正认识自己、超越了自己的时候。
所以说,有的时候,正确认识自己,只需要自己思维的一个转变,但就是这样一个小小的转变,带来的影响却可以是不可估量的。对于个人而言,正确认识自己可以帮助自己更好地发展,有时也可以造福身边的人。而对于统治阶级而言,正确认识自己,就可以造福整个国家,给整个社会带去宁静安乐。
人生来不就是为了找到自己真实的存在吗?所以,正确认识自己吧。
ted演讲稿范文篇23
少年pi的全名叫:派西尼。莫利托。帕特尔,方便起见,就叫他派好了。
派是一个从小生活在动物园的孩子,一次,为了搬去加拿大,派一家与动物们登上了开往大洋彼岸的货船“齐姆楚姆号”。
天有不测风云,在一个风雨交加的早晨,船沉了。睡梦中的人们还不知道发生了什么,就沉入了这蔚蓝色的海洋。只有派与一只斑马,一只红猩猩,一只鬣狗,还有一只名叫理查德。帕克的成年孟加拉虎乘上了救生艇,
弱肉强食的生存法则毫不意外地在这里被印证。
一艘小小的救生艇自然无法满足他们的生存需求,所以自然而然的,鬣狗吃掉了斑马与红猩猩,有被老虎吃掉。只剩下派与理查德。帕克了。
我本以为派也会被老虎吃掉,之后老虎死于缺水,在之后全剧终。可看着剩下200多页纸的厚度,我便打消了这可笑的念头。
不出所料,奇迹发生了。
派与这只孟加拉虎,在这条长仅26英尺的小艇上和谐共存了几个月,直至获救。
看到这里,我不得不对派肃然起敬。他是如此的勇敢,坚强。换做是我,或许早就因老虎的利爪或缺水而死了,但他却能用自己仅有的一切,与一只老虎在一望无边的太平洋上共存,这需要多么强烈的求生意志,多么强大的自信心啊!
在对比一下自己,整日无所事事,得过且过,无抱负无追求,为什么派可以超越自己的极限?我想,是压力的缘故吧。
派的压力来自于死亡,为了生存下来,他可以发挥出自己的全部潜质,是死亡的压力拯救了他。
而我的压力主要来自父母和老师。只要成绩有些进步,就可以说失去了压力,一个失去压力的人一定不会有什么大成就,因为压力就像燃油,是我们前进时不可缺少的动力。没有了动力,我们只能停下,倒退,最终被淘汰。
有压力是好事,但也要适度。就像汽车超速了会被罚款,压力过大了,也会使我们不负重担。只有适当的压力加上灿烂的微笑,美好的未来才会向我们挥手。
所以,朋友们,让我们用双手去拥抱这可爱的压力吧。
无压力,不动力!
ted演讲稿范文篇24
动物,它们是我们的朋友;动物,我们要保护它们;动物,也有尊严;动物;也有血有肉;动物,它跟我们一样,也是一条生命啊。
人们常常捕杀那些可怜的小动物,在他们的脑子里,只想着杀了他们赚钱,他们似乎已经丧失意志。如果我亲眼看见他们捕杀动物,我会问他们:“难道他们没有家人吗?你没有体验过骨肉分离的滋味,你想过那是什么滋味儿吗?它们也有血有肉、它们也知道感恩,你想过在他们即将被你们杀死的时候,心里会想些什么吗?你们不知道,有那么多无辜的小动物经过你的手被杀死,难道他们有罪吗?难道他们生下来就应该被残害吗?难道你们不该被遭报应吗?
你们可以换位思考一下,假如你是一条无辜的小动物,在你生下来的那一刻,你亲眼看见你的母亲死于非命或你被那些人给杀害了,你们心里会怎么想?你们就会亲身体验到骨肉分离的滋味吧?既然你想到这些,你们就该好好反思反思,那些无辜的小生命就该死于你们这些心肠狠毒的人手里吗?就算它们该死,也轮不到你们动手。我不知道你们知不知道,那些小生命临死之前会是什么样的神情?你们不知道,为什么?因为你们没血没肉,你们杀了那么多无辜的小动物,该死的人不是它们,而是你们,因为当你给它们东西的时候,他们会知道感恩。
也许你们会想,就是一条畜生,有什么好值钱的?杀就杀呗,反正还能给我赚点钱,你们这样想就错了,不只错,而且大错特错。对,他们虽然是畜生,它们好歹是条生命,对,它们虽不值钱,但它们不该死……
好啦,话不多说,我希望那些捕杀小动物的人,你们早一点改过自新,不然,你们早晚受到法律的制裁。
ted演讲稿范文篇25
Igrewupdiagnosedasphobicallyshy,
我从小就有社交恐惧症
andlikeatleast20otherpeopleinaroomofthissize,
这样的空间大约20人
Iwasastutterer.
就能让以前的我结巴语塞
Doyoudareraiseyourhand?
更别提举手了根本不可能
Anditstickswithus.
这种困扰如影随形
Itreallydoesstickwithus,
你走到哪它就跟到哪
becausewhenwearetreatedthatway,
当大家对你的存在视若无睹
wefeelinvisiblesometimes,
你会开始感觉自己是隐形人
ortalkedaroundandat.
而别人都在你背后窃窃私语
AndasIstartedtolookatpeople,
后来我仔细去观察周遭的人
whichismostlyallIdid,
一直以来我都只敢默默观察
Inoticedthatsomepeoplereallywantedattention
然后发现有些人无法忍受被忽视
andrecognition.
他们要得到大家的注意力和认同
Remember,Iwasyoungthen.
当时我年轻、懵懂
Sowhatdidtheydo?Whatwestilldoperhapstoooften?
渴望注意力的人会做什么?也许现在太多人在做一样的事而不自知
Wetalkaboutourselves.
他们谈论的常常都是自己
AndyetthereareotherpeopleIobservedwhohadwhatIcalledamutualitymindset.
但另一批人就不同了我说他们的人际关系往往有一种“互相”的心态
Ineachsituation,theyfoundawaytotalkaboutusandcreatethat“us”idea.
无论什么场合他们的谈话里都会出现“我们”这个概念
Somyideatoreimaginetheworldistoseeitonewhereweallbecomegreateropportunity-makerswithandforothers.
在我心目中的理想世界每个人都能为自己和别人创造机会
There’snogreateropportunityorcallforactionforusnow
就是现在我们必须把握良机、采取行动
thantobecomeopportunity-makerswhousebesttalentstogethermoreoftenforthegreatergood
多去整合各种才能尽可能的利益他人
andaccomplishthingswecouldn’thavedoneonourown.
一人做不到的多人或许有办法
AndIwanttotalktoyouaboutthat,
这就是我今天的重点
causeevenmorethangiving,
比单纯给予
evenmorethangiving,
施舍、捐赠更有影响力的
isthecapacityforustodosomethingsmartertogether
就是人们学会集思广益
forthegreatergoodthatliftsusbothup
共同合作创造双赢局面
andthatcanscale.
其中的利益会一层层积累
That’swhyI’msittinghere.
这是我今天演讲的重点
ButIalsowanttopointsomethingelseout.
不过我还想说一件事
Eachoneofyouisbetterthananybodyelseatsomething.
台下的你必定在某些事上比其他人都拿手
Thatdisprovesthatpopularnotionthatifyou’rethesmartestpersonintheroom,
和那句名言“你绝不是这里最厉害的人”
you’reinthewrongroom.
恰恰相反
SoletmetellyouaboutaHollywoodpartyIwenttoacoupleyearsback,
我在几年前的一个好莱坞聚会上
andImetthisup-and-comingactress,
遇见了位有潜力的女演员
andweweresoontalkingaboutsomethingthatwebothfeltpassionatelyabout,
我们很快就找到共同话题-
publicart.
公共艺术
AndshehadtheferventbeliefthateverynewbuildinginLosAngeles
她坚信洛杉矶的每栋建筑里
shouldhavepublicartinit.Shewantedaregulationforit,
都应该有公共艺术她想要一套专属公共艺术的规范
andsheferventlystarted,
所以她兴忡忡的着手进行
WhatisherefromChicago?
这里有谁是芝加哥人吗?
Sheferventlystartedtalkingaboutthesebean-shapedreflectivesculpturesinMillenniumPark,
她滔滔不绝的说着千禧公园里的云门雕塑
andpeoplewouldwalkuptoit
人们好奇的上前一探究竟
andthey’dsmileinthereflectionofit,
看着自己的映像微笑
andthey’dposeandthey’dvampandthey’dtakeselfiestogether
摆pose、赞叹、自拍留念
andthey’dlaugh.
然后笑成一团
Andasshewastalking,athoughtcametomymind.
听着听着我突然灵光乍现
Isaid,“Iknowsomeoneyououghttomeet.
我告诉她:“妳应该见见这个人
He’sgettingoutofSanQuentininacoupleofweeks
再几周他就要从圣昆丁州立监狱出来了
andhesharesyourferventdesirethatartshouldengageandenablepeopletoconnect.”
他跟妳一样觉得艺术应该让人有共鸣、激发想像力”
Hespentfiveyearsinsolitary,
他被单独监禁了五年
andImethimbecauseIgaveaspeechatSanQuentin,
我因为在圣昆丁演讲而与他结识
andhe’sarticulate
他口条不错
andhe’srathereasyontheeyes
长的也不赖
becausehe’sbuff.Hehadworkoutregimehedideveryday.
因为他是条热爱健身的汉子
Ithinkshewasfollowingmeatthatpoint.
女演员大概还满有兴趣的
Isaid,“he’dbeanune_pectedally.”
我又说:“他会是个得力助手”
Andnotjustthat.There’sJames.He’sanarchitect
除了他之外我把詹姆也拉进来詹姆是建筑师
andhe’saprofessor,
也是个教授
andhelovesplace-making,andplace-makingiswhenyouhavethosemini-plazas
他对地方营造很有兴趣外头的小广场、
andthoseurbanwalkways
城市人行道
andwherethey’redottedwithart,
任何有艺术点缀的地方都属于地方营造的范畴
wherepeopledrawandcomeupandtalksometimes.
许多人会在那儿画画、闲聊
Ithinkthey’dmakegoodallies.
我想他们一定能合作无间
Andindeedtheywere.
果真没错
Theymettogether.Theyprepared.
他们碰面之后就开始筹备
TheyspokeinfrontoftheLostAngelesCityCouncil.
到洛杉矶市政府传达诉求
Andthecouncilmembersnotonlypassedtheregulation,
结果市议员通过了他们订的条例
halfofthemcamedownandaskedtoposewiththemafterwards.
之后甚至半数议员还去与艺术品合影
Theywerestartling,compellingandcredible.
他们给人的印象是震慑、具说服力、可靠
Youcan’tbuythat.
全都是用钱买不到的
WhatI’maskingyoutoconsideriswhatkindofopportunity-makerswemightbecome,
希望各位想想自己能成为哪种机会制造者
becausemorethanwealth
比财富、
orfancytitles
头衔、
oralotofcontacts,
人脉更可观的
it’sourcapacitytoconnectaroundeachother’sbettersideandbringitout.
是我们发掘他人优点的能力
AndI’mnotsayingthisiseasy,
这一点都不容易
andI’msuremanyofyouhavemadethewrongmovestooaboutwhoyouwantedtoconnectwith,
相信许多人都有找错对象、牵错线的经验
butwhatIwanttosuggestis,thisisanopportunity.
但毕竟都是个“机会”
IstartedthinkingaboutitwaybackwhenIwasaWallStreetJournalreporterandIwasinEurope
这个领悟要从好几年前说起当时我在欧洲担任华尔街日报记者
andIwassupposedtocovertrendsandtrendsthattranscendedbusinessorpoliticsorlifestyle.
采访内容为时尚与流行跨越商业、政治、生活型态隔阂的流行
SoIhadtohavecontactsindifferentworldsverydifferentthanmine,
因此得和背景截然不同的人打交道
becauseotherwiseyoucouldn’tspotthetrends.
否则就无法掌握潮流走向
Andthird,Ihadtowriteastoryinawaysteppingintothereader’sshoes,
写故事时还得设身处地为读者想
theycouldseehowthesetrendscouldaffecttheirlives.
要让他们觉得自己和这些潮流息息相关
That’swhatopportunity-makersdo.
这就是机会制造者的任务
Andhere’sastrangething:
奇怪之处在于
UnlikeanincreasingnumberofAmericanswhoareworkingandlivingandplayingwithpeoplewhothinke_actlylikethem
越来越多人工作、生活、娱乐都喜欢寻找与自己相似的人
becausewethenbecomemorerigidande_treme,
久而久之就变得挑剔、极端起来
opportunity-makersareactivelyseekingsituationswithpeopleunlikethem,
机会制造者寻找与自己不相似的人
andthey’rebuildingrelationships,
和他们建立关系
andbecausetheydothat,
这样做的话
theyhavetrustedrelationshipswheretheycanbringtherightteamin
两方之间就有互信能在适当的时机介绍彼此适当的人
andrecruitthemtosolveaproblembetterandfasterandseizemoreopportunities.
用更快、更好的方法解决问题同时也抓住了更多机会
They’renotaffrontedbydifferences.
机会创造者不会被歧异冒犯
They’refascinatedbythem,
反而深受吸引
andthatisahugeshiftinmindset,
这是心态上的极端不同
andonceyoufeelit,youwantittohappenalotmore.
你一旦意识到就会为它的魅力着迷
Thisworldiscallingoutforustohaveacollectivemindset,
和别人形成“共同体”才是王道
andIbelieveindoingthat.
我个人深信
It’sespeciallyimportantnow.
携手合作在这世代特别重要
Whyisitimportantnow?
为什么呢?
Becausethingscanbedevisedlikedrones
机器小帮手
anddrugsanddatacollection,
药物开发、数据收集
andtheycanbedevisedbymorepeople.
都可以让更多人参与其中
andcheaperwaysforbeneficialpurposes
用更经济的方式创造收益
andthen,asweknowfromthenewseveryday,theycanbeusedfordangerousones.
只是水能载舟亦能复舟也可能被有心人士利用
Itcallsonus,eachofus,toahighercalling.
这个理念非常需要大家的重视
Buthere’stheicingonthecake:
成为机会制造者是一箭双雕
It’snotjustthefirstopportunitythatyoudowithsomebodyelsethat’sprobablyyourgreatest,
除了获得和更高竿对象合作的机会
asaninstitutionoranindividual.
无论对于机构或个人来说
It’safteryou’vehadthate_perienceandyoutrusteachother.
都是开启了这扇门建立信任后
It’stheune_pectedthingsthatyoudeviselateronyounevercouldhavepredicted.
团队合作带来的惊人成果
Fore_ample,MartyisthehusbandofthatactressImentioned,
麦迪是那位女演员的丈夫
andhewatchedthemwhentheywerepracticing,
詹姆等三人排练时他就在旁边看
andhewassoontalkingtoWally,myfriendthee_-con,
并很快和韦利聊开了就是刚出狱的那位
aboutthate_erciseregime.
大概在聊健身吧?
Andhethought,Ihaveasetofracquetballcourts.
麦迪心想:“我有个壁球馆
Thatguycouldteachit.Alotofpeoplewhoworktherearemembersatmycourts.
韦利可以来当教练很多教练都是体育馆的会员
They’refrequenttravelers.
他们很常来我这边
Theycouldpracticeintheirhotelroom,noequipmentprovided.
旅馆房间里没有设备也照样能练习”
That’showWallygothired.
韦利就这样得到了板球教练的工作
Notonlythat,yearslaterhewasalsoteachingracquetball.
几年后他也开始教壁球学生
Yearsafterthat,hewasteachingtheracquetballteachers.
再过了几年则是教壁球老师
WhatI’msuggestingis,whenyouconnectwithpeople
我想说的是当你把周遭有相同兴趣、
aroundasharedinterestandaction,
喜好的人圈在一块
you’reaccustomedtoserendipitousthingshappeningintothefuture,
就会逐渐适应随之而来、意想不到的收获
andIthinkthat’swhatwe’relookingat.
我想这才是至关重要
Weopenourselvesuptothoseopportunities,
面对机会我们敞开心胸
andinthisroomarekeyplayersandtechnology,
关键推手-这里的你们再加上科技
keyplayerswhoareuniquelypositionedtodothis,
每个人各司其职有自己的位置
toscalesystemsandprojectstogether.
提升制度和计划的整体价值
Sohere’swhatI’mcallingforyoutodo.Rememberthethreetraitsofopportunity-makers.
我想拜讬大家的就是记得机会制造者的三项特质
Opportunity-makerskeephoningtheirtopstrength
一、机会制造者不断磨练自己专长
andtheybecomepatternseekers.
开拓事物运作的新方式
Theygetinvolvedindifferentworldsthantheirworlds
二、他们乐于接触不同人的世界
sothey’retrustedandtheycanseethosepatterns,
获取信任学习各种合作方式
andtheycommunicatetoconnectaroundsweetspotsofsharedinterest.
三、他们周旋于各方之间让参与的人都分一杯羹
SowhatI’maskingyouis,theworldishungry.
我想说的是人与人之间太缺乏连结
Itrulybelieve,inmyfirsthande_perience,
根据亲身经验我相信
theworldishungryforustounitetogetherasopportunity-makers
这世界很需要机会制造者
andtoemulatethosebehaviorsassomanyofyoualreadydo,Iknowthatfirsthand,
可能台下的你已经是其中之一大家都应该效仿机会制造者
andtoreimagineaworldwhereweuseourbesttalentstogether
重塑我们的世界融合各领域人才
moreoftentoaccomplishgreaterthingtogetherthanwecouldonourown.
一人不能做的事借由合作来完成
Justremember,
请把这句话放在心上
asDaveLinigeroncesaid,
大卫˙林杰说过
“Youcan’tsucceedcomingtothepotluckwithonlyafork.”
“只带一只叉子就来百乐餐的人永远无法成功”(注:后衍伸为商业成长需要集体合作、贡献)
Thankyouverymuch.
谢谢大家
Thankyou.
谢谢。
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寒假里,一向喜欢运动的我只报了一个运动班——羽毛球班,可这次的教练,让我收获了一个意想不到的知识。
记得寒假的第一节羽毛球课,教我打羽毛球的教练有翻天覆地的变化,原先教我的是吴教练,可这是最厉害的阮教练教我们,阮教练原先是教高级,最喜欢用杀球来打那些不听话的人,虽然我没有尝试过,但看那力度,就会让我忐忑不安。
当我第一次和阮教练打球时,经常有十几个球打不到对面,而我却为了接到球跑的气喘吁吁,“下一个”阮教练每次都用复杂的声音,对我说着,眼神里流露出一丝无奈。
过了几天后,阮教练好像在家里想了很久,在今天做了一个决定,“每个人有一个球打不过网,就两个俯卧撑。”我一听,立刻傻了,我一般有十几个球没打过来,那不是要做二十几个俯卧撑,那不累死。但教练已经下了命令,不能不遵从,只好尽力而为吧!我痛苦的想着。“下一个。”教练忽然叫道。我定眼看了看,到我了,时间怎么过的这样快?只好尽力而为。
“前面两个球,后面开放。”教练大声叫道,“妈呀!”我小声嘀咕着,“为什么一到我就变换一个打法?”可这是,阮教练已经发球,我只好认认真真地打球,想一切方法让我可以准确地打到每一个球。我不停地跑,喜欢出汗的我已经汗流满面,可我还是努力接到球。“一个,哈哈,你终于有一个了。”教练说道,“还有几个,加油哦!这时,我万分激动,刚刚有十几个,这次只有一个,太好了。我的眼睛里留下了成功的泪花。
这件事已经过去了几天几夜,但我的脑海里对这件事仍然记忆犹新,阮教练叫我们做俯卧撑,其实就是给我们加大压力,有一句俗话说:有了压力,就有了动力。“因为做俯卧撑累,辛苦,所以我为了不做俯卧撑,当然就会想方设法接到球。
ted演讲稿范文篇27
压力大,怎么办?压力会让你心跳加速、呼吸加快、额头冒汗!当压力成为全民健康公敌时,有研究显示只有当你与压力为敌时,它才会危害你的健康。心理学家kellymcgonigal从积极的一面分析压力,教你如何使压力变成你的朋友!
stress.itmakesyourheartpound,yourbreathingquickenandyourforeheadsweat.butwhilestresshasbeenmadeintoapublichealthenemy,newresearchsuggeststhatstressmayonlybebadforyouifyoubelievethattobethecase.psychologistkellymcgonigalurgesustoseestressasapositive,andintroducesustoanunsungmechanismforstressreduction:reachingouttoothers.
kellymcgonigaltranslatesacademicresearchintopracticalstrategiesforhealth,happinessandpersonalsuccess.
whyyoushouldlistentoher:
stanforduniversitypsychologistkellymcgonigalisaleaderinthegrowingfieldof“science-help.”throughbooks,articles,coursesandworkshops,mcgonigalworkstohelpusunderstandandimplementthelatestscientificfindingsinpsychology,neuroscienceandmedicine.
straddlingtheworldsofresearchandpractice,mcgonigalholdspositionsinboththestanfordgraduateschoolofbusinessandtheschoolofmedicine.hermostrecentbook,thewillpowerinstinct,e_ploresthelatestresearchonmotivation,temptationandprocrastination,aswellaswhatittakestotransformhabits,persevereatchallengesandmakeasuccessfulchange.
sheisnowresearchinganewbookaboutthe"upsideofstress,"whichwilllookatbothwhystressisgoodforus,andwhatmakesusgoodatstress.inherwords:"theoldunderstandingofstressasaunhelpfulrelicofouranimalinstinctsisbeingreplacedbytheunderstandingthatstressactuallymakesussociallysmart--it'swhatallowsustobefullyhuman."
ihaveaconfessiontomake,butfirst,iwantyoutomakealittleconfessiontome.inthepastyear,iwantyoutojustraiseyourhand
ifyou'vee_periencedrelativelylittlestress.anyone?
howaboutamoderateamountofstress?
whohase_periencedalotofstress?yeah.metoo.
butthatisnotmyconfession.myconfessionisthis:iamahealthpsychologist,andmymissionistohelppeoplebehappierandhealthier.butifearthatsomethingi'vebeenteachingforthelast10yearsisdoingmoreharmthangood,andithastodowithstress.foryearsi'vebeentellingpeople,stressmakesyousick.itincreasestheriskofeverythingfromthecommoncoldtocardiovasculardisease.basically,i'veturnedstressintotheenemy.butihavechangedmymindaboutstress,andtoday,iwanttochangeyours.
letmestartwiththestudythatmademerethinkmywholeapproachtostress.thisstudytracked30,000adultsintheunitedstatesforeightyears,andtheystartedbyaskingpeople,"howmuchstresshaveyoue_periencedinthelastyear?"theyalsoasked,"doyoubelievethatstressisharmfulforyourhealth?"andthentheyusedpublicdeathrecordstofindoutwhodied.
(laughter)
okay.somebadnewsfirst.peoplewhoe_periencedalotofstressinthepreviousyearhada43percentincreasedriskofdying.butthatwasonlytrueforthepeoplewhoalsobelievedthatstressisharmfulforyourhealth.(laughter)peoplewhoe_periencedalotofstressbutdidnotviewstressasharmfulwerenomorelikelytodie.infact,theyhadthelowestriskofdyingofanyoneinthestudy,includingpeoplewhohadrelativelylittlestress.
nowtheresearchersestimatedthatovertheeightyearstheyweretrackingdeaths,182,000americansdiedprematurely,notfromstress,butfromthebeliefthatstressisbadforyou.(laughter)thatisover20,000deathsayear.now,ifthatestimateiscorrect,thatwouldmakebelievingstressisbadforyouthe15thlargestcauseofdeathintheunitedstateslastyear,killingmorepeoplethanskincancer,hiv/aidsandhomicide.
(laughter)
youcanseewhythisstudyfreakedmeout.herei'vebeenspendingsomuchenergytellingpeoplestressisbadforyourhealth.
sothisstudygotmewondering:canchanginghowyouthinkaboutstressmakeyouhealthier?andherethesciencesaysyes.whenyouchangeyourmindaboutstress,youcanchangeyourbody'sresponsetostress.
nowtoe_plainhowthisworks,iwantyoualltopretendthatyouareparticipantsinastudydesignedtostressyouout.it'scalledthesocialstresstest.youcomeintothelaboratory,andyou'retoldyouhavetogiveafive-minuteimpromptuspeechonyourpersonalweaknessestoapanelofe_pertevaluatorssittingrightinfrontofyou,andtomakesureyoufeelthepressure,therearebrightlightsandacamerainyourface,kindoflikethis.andtheevaluatorshavebeentrainedtogiveyoudiscouraging,non-verbalfeedbacklikethis.
(laughter)
nowthatyou'resufficientlydemoralized,timeforparttwo:amathtest.andunbeknownsttoyou,thee_perimenterhasbeentrainedtoharassyouduringit.nowwe'regoingtoalldothistogether.it'sgoingtobefun.forme.
okay.iwantyoualltocountbackwardsfrom996inincrementsofseven.you'regoingtodothisoutloudasfastasyoucan,startingwith996.go!audience:(counting)gofaster.fasterplease.you'regoingtooslow.stop.stop,stop,stop.thatguymadeamistake.wearegoingtohavetostartalloveragain.(laughter)you'renotverygoodatthis,areyou?okay,soyougettheidea.now,ifyouwereactuallyinthisstudy,you'dprobablybealittlestressedout.yourheartmightbepounding,youmightbebreathingfaster,maybebreakingoutintoasweat.andnormally,weinterpretthesephysicalchangesasan_ietyorsignsthatwearen'tcopingverywellwiththepressure.
butwhatifyouviewedtheminsteadassignsthatyourbodywasenergized,waspreparingyoutomeetthischallenge?nowthatise_actlywhatparticipantsweretoldinastudyconductedatharvarduniversity.beforetheywentthroughthesocialstresstest,theyweretaughttorethinktheirstressresponseashelpful.thatpoundingheartispreparingyouforaction.ifyou'rebreathingfaster,it'snoproblem.it'sgettingmoreo_ygentoyourbrain.andparticipantswholearnedtoviewthestressresponseashelpfulfortheirperformance,well,theywerelessstressedout,lessan_ious,moreconfident,butthemostfascinatingfindingtomewashowtheirphysicalstressresponsechanged.now,inatypicalstressresponse,yourheartrategoesup,andyourbloodvesselsconstrictlikethis.andthisisoneofthereasonsthatchronicstressissometimesassociatedwithcardiovasculardisease.it'snotreallyhealthytobeinthisstateallthetime.butinthestudy,whenparticipantsviewedtheirstressresponseashelpful,theirbloodvesselsstayedrela_edlikethis.theirheartwasstillpounding,butthisisamuchhealthiercardiovascularprofile.itactuallylooksalotlikewhathappensinmomentsofjoyandcourage.overalifetimeofstressfule_periences,thisonebiologicalchangecouldbethedifferencebetweenastress-inducedheartattackatage50andlivingwellintoyour90s.andthisisreallywhatthenewscienceofstressreveals,thathowyouthinkaboutstressmatters.
somygoalasahealthpsychologisthaschanged.inolongerwanttogetridofyourstress.iwanttomakeyoubetteratstress.andwejustdidalittleintervention.ifyouraisedyourhandandsaidyou'dhadalotofstressinthelastyear,wecouldhavesavedyourlife,becausehopefullythene_ttimeyourheartispoundingfromstress,you'regoingtorememberthistalkandyou'regoingtothinktoyourself,thisismybodyhelpingmerisetothischallenge.andwhenyouviewstressinthatway,yourbodybelievesyou,andyourstressresponsebecomeshealthier.
nowisaidihaveoveradecadeofdemonizingstresstoredeemmyselffrom,sowearegoingtodoonemoreintervention.iwanttotellyouaboutoneofthemostunder-appreciatedaspectsofthestressresponse,andtheideaisthis:stressmakesyousocial.
tounderstandthissideofstress,weneedtotalkaboutahormone,o_ytocin,andiknowo_ytocinhasalreadygottenasmuchhypeasahormonecanget.itevenhasitsowncutenickname,thecuddlehormone,becauseit'sreleasedwhenyouhugsomeone.butthisisaverysmallpartofwhato_ytocinisinvolvedin.o_ytocinisaneuro-hormone.itfine-tunesyourbrain'ssocialinstincts.itprimesyoutodothingsthatstrengthencloserelationships.o_ytocinmakesyoucravephysicalcontactwithyourfriendsandfamily.itenhancesyourempathy.itevenmakesyoumorewillingtohelpandsupportthepeopleyoucareabout.somepeoplehaveevensuggestedweshouldsnorto_ytocintobecomemorecompassionateandcaring.buthere'swhatmostpeopledon'tunderstandabouto_ytocin.it'sastresshormone.yourpituitaryglandpumpsthisstuffoutaspartofthestressresponse.it'sasmuchapartofyourstressresponseastheadrenalinethatmakesyourheartpound.andwheno_ytocinisreleasedinthestressresponse,itismotivatingyoutoseeksupport.yourbiologicalstressresponseisnudgingyoutotellsomeonehowyoufeelinsteadofbottlingitup.yourstressresponsewantstomakesureyounoticewhensomeoneelseinyourlifeisstrugglingsothatyoucansupporteachother.whenlifeisdifficult,yourstressresponsewantsyoutobesurroundedbypeoplewhocareaboutyou.
okay,sohowisknowingthissideofstressgoingtomakeyouhealthier?well,o_ytocindoesn'tonlyactonyourbrain.italsoactsonyourbody,andoneofitsmainrolesinyourbodyistoprotectyourcardiovascularsystemfromtheeffectsofstress.it'sanaturalanti-inflammatory.italsohelpsyourbloodvesselsstayrela_edduringstress.butmyfavoriteeffectonthebodyisactuallyontheheart.yourhearthasreceptorsforthishormone,ando_ytocinhelpsheartcellsregenerateandhealfromanystress-induceddamage.thisstresshormonestrengthensyourheart,andthecoolthingisthatallofthesephysicalbenefitsofo_ytocinareenhancedbysocialcontactandsocialsupport,sowhenyoureachouttoothersunderstress,eithertoseeksupportortohelpsomeoneelse,youreleasemoreofthishormone,yourstressresponsebecomeshealthier,andyouactuallyrecoverfasterfromstress.ifindthisamazing,thatyourstressresponsehasabuilt-inmechanismforstressresilience,andthatmechanismishumanconnection.
iwanttofinishbytellingyouaboutonemorestudy.andlistenup,becausethisstudycouldalsosavealife.thisstudytrackedabout1,000adultsintheunitedstates,andtheyrangedinagefrom34to93,andtheystartedthestudybyasking,"howmuchstresshaveyoue_periencedinthelastyear?"theyalsoasked,"howmuchtimehaveyouspenthelpingoutfriends,neighbors,peopleinyourcommunity?"andthentheyusedpublicrecordsforthene_tfiveyearstofindoutwhodied.
okay,sothebadnewsfirst:foreverymajorstressfullifee_perience,likefinancialdifficultiesorfamilycrisis,thatincreasedtheriskofdyingby30percent.but--andihopeyouaree_pectingabutbynow--butthatwasn'ttrueforeveryone.peoplewhospenttimecaringforothersshowedabsolutelynostress-relatedincreaseindying.zero.caringcreatedresilience.andsoweseeonceagainthattheharmfuleffectsofstressonyourhealtharenotinevitable.howyouthinkandhowyouactcantransformyoure_perienceofstress.whenyouchoosetoviewyourstressresponseashelpful,youcreatethebiologyofcourage.andwhenyouchoosetoconnectwithothersunderstress,youcancreateresilience.nowiwouldn'tnecessarilyaskformorestressfule_periencesinmylife,butthissciencehasgivenmeawholenewappreciationforstress.stressgivesusaccesstoourhearts.thecompassionateheartthatfindsjoyandmeaninginconnectingwithothers,andyes,yourpoundingphysicalheart,workingsohardtogiveyoustrengthandenergy,andwhenyouchoosetoviewstressinthisway,you'renotjustgettingbetteratstress,you'reactuallymakingaprettyprofoundstatement.you'resayingthatyoucantrustyourselftohandlelife'schallenges,andyou'rerememberingthatyoudon'thavetofacethemalone.
thankyou.
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chrisanderson:thisiskindofamazing,whatyou'retellingus.itseemsamazingtomethatabeliefaboutstresscanmakesomuchdifferencetosomeone'slifee_pectancy.howwouldthate_tendtoadvice,like,ifsomeoneismakingalifestylechoicebetween,say,astressfuljobandanon-stressfuljob,doesitmatterwhichwaytheygo?it'sequallywisetogoforthestressfuljobsolongasyoubelievethatyoucanhandleit,insomesense?
kellymcgonigal:yeah,andonethingweknowforcertainisthatchasingmeaningisbetterforyourhealththantryingtoavoiddiscomfort.andsoiwouldsaythat'sreallythebestwaytomakedecisions,isgoafterwhatitisthatcreatesmeaninginyourlifeandthentrustyourselftohandlethestressthatfollows.
ca:thankyousomuch,kelly.it'sprettycool.km:thankyou.
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ted演讲稿范文篇28
“让我们的笑容充满着青春的骄傲”在我的风雨中飘过。在初一上学期,因为惜寸阴,伶分阴,带来了许许多多的欢乐和充足。那是一个雨下的疯狂的下午,从饭堂到宿舍有一条拥挤却可以免受雨洗礼的走廊,从饭堂到宿舍还有一条要经过篮球场但要被淋成落汤鸡的雨路。在我的眼中,好像要在慌忙的情况下选择人生的道路。在和同桌面面相觑的同时,我似乎听到“玉山白雪飘零燃烧少年的心”的歌声,纵然我像一只飞起来的风筝和我的同伴在下着雨的蓝天中飞翔,看着雨中的彩虹。雨打着娇嫩的肩膀,身后是同学的惊讶。现在回眸当时的清爽,是难以从声带里发出的感受,当时头发飞扬着青春,意蕴着明日的美好,在小学是找不到的,我想在大学就更难以寻觅了。这就是初中生与小学生的不一般。青春的彩带围绕着着我,陪伴着我的飞翔。“唱出你的热情,伸出你双手,让我拥抱着你的梦”呵,拥抱着我的梦!我拥有青春的骄傲,我拥抱我的梦!
虽然走过的路不长,虽然还没走的路漫长,虽然这是过去的记忆。但是留下的痕迹是那般的深,但是前面风景是如此的多娇,但是我可以把握现在。“春风不解风情,吹动少年的心,昨日脸上的泪痕随记忆风干了”。
“让我们的笑容充满着青春的骄傲,青春的骄傲,让我们期待明天会更好”
有着么一首陪伴自己的歌,它的歌声被融入在生活中,融入在我的初中的天空,引着我飞翔,看雨中的彩虹。让我们期待明天会更好!即使飞渡了岁月的河山,它却永永远远地引导着我:
明天会更好!
ted演讲稿范文篇29
大家好!
人生是短暂而又孤独的,人必须独立坚强的战斗下去,走自己认为正确的道路,不能有丝毫的犹豫与放松。否则就会被时代所淘汰。
正如前几天所报道的一样,美国苹果公司执行官兼总裁史蒂夫乔布斯去世了,媒体网络都相继报道了起来,成为了论坛话题,很多人都为此感到了惊讶与惋惜,但从背后的角度来看,乔布斯的去世不得不说是苹果传奇的结束,自乔布斯1977年创立苹果公司以来,苹果公司一直保持着电子商业界的不朽传奇,第一年就得到了盈利,之后经过公司的不断创新,苹果成为人们不断选择的电子品牌之一,正因为有乔布斯在,才有了苹果的今天,从而带动了电子商业界,使世界不断走向电子科技化,他为电子界写下了光辉的一笔,实现了自己的人生价值,他死的是重于泰山。
人生带给我们的酸甜苦辣,对我们来说都是一种很好的经验,会使我们逐渐成长,正是人类社会有了这种思想,我们的社会才得以一代代延续下来,我们的生活才一天比一天好,人生才有了价值。
相信自己,不断向前看齐,坚定黎明后会是阳光,为人生上色,走出一条自己绘画的人生彩图,使它绚丽起来,做的自己,不断向前迈进,去走向黎明后的彼岸,铺设辉煌的人生。
ted演讲稿范文篇30
幸福是平等的,幸福是无价的,幸福是珍贵的,幸福是每个人都拥有的。
有人会认为幸福就是有钱、有势、有地位,无钱无势无地位就是不幸福。但谁知道幸福就在我们身边。如果你和以上人的观点一样,那你就太低俗了。
每天回到家,家不是冷冷清清而是有人做好热腾腾的饭菜等你,这就是幸福。每天的说平平淡淡的,不出任何意外,这就是幸福。每月都有一定的工资,这就是幸福。亲朋好友连同自己身体健康、平安,这就是幸福。每天早上醒来,发现自己还活着,这就是幸福。
幸福不是你有钱有势有地位就可以得到的,也不是你费尽心思就可以得到的,它就在你身边一直没走远。
幸福很简单,只是吃饱喝足穿暖有地方住。不要对幸福奢望太多,属于你的幸福就在你身边。“鞋合不合脚,只有脚知道。”这和幸不幸福是同一个道理,也许别人看你不幸福,你却十分幸福。不要盲目追求别人的幸福,到头来只会“竹篮子打水—一场空。”就连原本属于自己的幸福也会失去。
所以珍惜你的幸福吧,每个人的幸福都很简单。
ted演讲稿范文篇31
布琳。布朗致力于研究人与人的关系——我们感同身受的能力、获得归属感的能力、爱的能力。在TED休斯敦一次富有感染力的幽默谈话中,她跟我们分享了她的研究发现,一个让她更想深入了解自己以及人类的发现,洞悉人性也更了解自己。同时建议父母,全心全意去爱,即使没有回报、即使很困难,也要勇敢面对,因为感到脆弱代表我还活着,我们要相信自己够好,绝对值得被爱。
那我就这么开始吧:几年前,一个活动策划人打电话给我,因为我当时要做一个演讲。她在电话里说:“我真很苦恼该如何在宣传单上介绍你。”我心想,怎么会苦恼呢?她继续道:“你看,我听过你的演讲,我觉得我可以称你为研究者,可我担心的是,如果我这么称呼你,没人会来听,因为大家普遍认为研究员很无趣而且脱离现实。”(笑声)好。然后她说:“但是我喜欢你的演讲,就跟讲故事一样很吸引人。我想来想去,还是觉得称你为讲故事的人比较妥当。”而那个做学术的,感到不安的我脱口而出道:“你要叫我什么?”她说:“我要称你为讲故事的人。"我心想:”为什么不干脆叫魔法小精灵?“(笑声)我说:”让我考虑一下。“我试着鼓起勇气。我对自己说,我是一个讲故事的人。我是一个从事定性研究的科研人员。我收集故事;这就是我的工作。或许故事就是有灵魂的数据。或许我就是一个讲故事的人。于是我说:”听着,要不你就称我为做研究兼讲故事的人。“她说:”哈哈,没这么个说法呀。“(笑声)所以我是个做研究兼讲故事的人,我今天想跟大家谈论的——我们要谈论的话题是关于拓展认知——我想给你们讲几个故事是关于我的一份研究的,这份研究从本质上拓宽了我个人的认知,也确确实实改变了我生活、爱、工作还有教育孩子的方式。
我的故事从这里开始。当我还是个年轻的博士研究生的时候,第一年,有位研究教授对我们说:”事实是这样的,如果有一个东西你无法测量,那么它就不存在。“我心想他只是在哄哄我们这些小孩子吧。我说:“真的么?”他说:“当然。”你得知道我有一个社会工作的学士文凭,一个社会工作的硕士文凭,我在读的是一个社会工作的博士文凭,所以我整个学术生涯都被人所包围,他们大抵相信生活是一团乱麻,接受它。而我的观点则倾向于,生活是一团乱麻,解开它,把它整理好,再归类放入便当盒里。(笑声)我觉得我领悟到了关键,有能力去创一番事业,让自己——真的,社会工作的一个重要理念是置身于工作的不适中。我就是要把这不适翻个底朝天每科都拿到A。这就是我当时的信条。我当时真的是跃跃欲试。我想这就是我要的职业生涯,因为我对乱成一团,难以处理的课题感兴趣。我想要把它们弄清楚。我想要理解它们。我想侵入那些我知道是重要的东西把它们摸透,然后用浅显易懂的方式呈献给每一个人。
所以我的起点是“关系”。因为当你从事了20xx年的社会工作,你必然会发现关系是我们活着的原因。它赋予了我们生命的意义。就是这么简单。无论你跟谁交流工作在社会执法领域的也好,负责精神健康、虐待和疏于看管领域的也好我们所知道的是,关系是种感应的能力——生物神经上,我们是这么被设定的——这就是为什么我们在这儿。所以我就从关系开始。下面这个场景我们再熟悉不过了,你的上司给你作工作评估,她告诉了你37点你做得相当棒的地方,还有一点——成长的空间?(笑声)然后你满脑子都想着那一点成长的空间,不是么。这也是我研究的一个方面,因为当你跟人们谈论爱情,他们告诉你的是一件让他们心碎的事。当你跟人们谈论归属感,他们告诉你的是最让他们痛心的被排斥的经历。当你跟人们谈论关系,他们跟我讲的是如何被断绝关系的故事。
所以很快的——在大约开始研究这个课题6周以后——我遇到了这个前所未闻的东西它揭示了关系以一种我不理解也从没见过的方式。所以我暂停了原先的研究计划,对自己说,我得弄清楚这到底是什么。它最终被鉴定为耻辱感。耻辱感很容易理解,即害怕被断绝关系。有没有一些关于我的事如果别人知道了或看到了,会认为我不值得交往。我要告诉你们的是:这种现象很普遍;我们都会有(这种想法)。没有体验过耻辱的人不具有人类的同情或关系。没人想谈论自己的糗事,你谈论的越少,你越感到可耻。滋生耻辱感的是一种“我不够好。"的心态——我们都知道这是个什么滋味:”我不够什么。我不够苗条,不够有钱,不够漂亮,不够聪明,职位不够高。“而支撑这种心态的是一种刻骨铭心的脆弱,关键在于要想产生关系,我们必须让自己被看见,真真切切地被看见。
你知道我怎么看待脆弱。我恨它。所以我思考着,这次是轮到我用我的标尺击溃它的时候了。我要闯进去,把它弄清楚,我要花一年的时间,彻底瓦解耻辱,我要搞清楚脆弱是怎么运作的,然后我要智取胜过它。所以我准备好了,非常兴奋。跟你预计的一样,事与愿违。(笑声)你知道这个(结果)。我能告诉你关于耻辱的很多东西,但那样我就得占用别人的时间了。但我在这儿可以告诉你,归根到底——这也许是我学到的最重要的东西在从事研究的数十年中。我预计的一年变成了六年,成千上万的故事,成百上千个采访,焦点集中。有时人们发给我期刊报道,发给我他们的故事——不计其数的数据,就在这六年中。我大概掌握了它。
我大概理解了这就是耻辱,这就是它的运作方式。我写了本书,我出版了一个理论,但总觉得哪里不对劲——它其实是,如果我粗略地把我采访过的人分成具有自我价值感的人——说到底就是自我价值感——他们勇于去爱并且拥有强烈的归属感——另一部分则是为之苦苦挣扎的人,总是怀疑自己是否足够好的人。区分那些敢于去爱并拥有强烈归属感的人和那些为之而苦苦挣扎的人的变量只有一个。那就是,那些敢于去爱并拥有强烈归属感的人相信他们值得被爱,值得享有归属感。就这么简单。他们相信自己的价值。而对于我,那个阻碍人与人之间关系的最困难的部分是我们对于自己不值得享有这种关系的恐惧,无论从个人,还是职业上我都觉得我有必要去更深入地了解它。所以接下来我找出所有的采访记录找出那些体现自我价值的,那些持有这种观念的记录,集中研究它们。
这群人有什么共同之处?我对办公用品有点痴迷,但这是另一个话题了。我有一个牛皮纸文件夹,还有一个三福极好笔,我心想,我该怎么给这项研究命名呢?第一个蹦入我脑子的是全心全意这个词。这是一群全心全意,靠着一种强烈的自我价值感在生活的人们。所以我在牛皮纸夹的上端这样写道,而后我开始查看数据。事实上,我开始是用四天时间集中分析数据,我从头找出那些采访,找出其中的故事和事件。主题是什么?有什么规律?我丈夫带着孩子离开了小镇,因为我老是陷入像杰克逊。波洛克(美国近代抽象派画家)似的疯狂状态,我一直在写,完全沉浸在研究的状态中。下面是我的发现。这些人的共同之处在于勇气。我想在这里先花一分钟跟大家区分一下勇气和胆量。勇气,最初的定义,当它刚出现在英文里的时候——是从拉丁文cor,意为心,演变过来的——最初的定义是真心地叙述一个故事,告诉大家你是谁的。所以这些人就具有勇气承认自己不完美。他们具有同情心,先是对自己的,再是对他人的,因为,事实是,我们如果不能善待自己,我们也无法善待他人。最后一点,他们都能和他人建立关系,——这是很难做到的——前提是他们必须坦诚,他们愿意放开自己设定的那个理想的自我以换取真正的自我,这是赢得关系的必要条件。
他们还有另外一个共同之处那就是,他们全然接受脆弱。他们相信让他们变得脆弱的东西也让他们变得美丽。他们不认为脆弱是寻求舒适,也不认为脆弱是钻心的疼痛——正如我之前在关于耻辱的采访中听到的。他们只是简单地认为脆弱是必须的。他们会谈到愿意说出"我爱你",愿意做些没有的事情,愿意等待医生的电话,在做完乳房X光检查之后。他们愿意为情感投资,无论有没有结果。他们觉得这些都是最根本的。
我当时认为那是背叛。我无法相信我尽然对科研宣誓效忠——研究的定义是控制(变量)然后预测,去研究现象,为了一个明确的目标,去控制并预测。而我现在的使命即控制并预测却给出了这样一个结果:要想与脆弱共存就得停止控制,停止预测于是我崩溃了——(笑声)——其实更像是这样。(笑声)它确实是。我称它为崩溃,我的心理医生称它为灵魂的觉醒。灵魂的觉醒当然比精神崩溃要好听很多,但我跟你说那的确是精神崩溃。然后我不得不暂且把数据放一边,去求助心理医生。让我告诉你:你知道你是谁当你打电话跟你朋友说:“我觉得我需要跟人谈谈。你有什么好的建议吗?“因为我大约有五个朋友这么回答:”喔。我可不想当你的心理医生。“(笑声)我说:”这是什么意思?“他们说:”我只是想说,别带上你的标尺来见我。“我说:”行。“
就这样我找到了一个心理医生。我跟她,戴安娜,的第一次见面——我带去了一份表单上面都是那些全身心投入生活的人的生活方式,然后我坐下了。她说:”你好吗?“我说:”我很好。还不赖。“她说:”发生了什么事?“这是一个治疗心理医生的心理医生,我们不得不去看这些心理医生,因为他们的废话测量仪很准(知道你什么时候在说真心话)。(笑声)所以我说:“事情是这样的。我很纠结。”她说:“你纠结什么?”我说:”嗯,我跟脆弱过不去。而且我知道脆弱是耻辱和恐惧的根源是我们为自我价值而挣扎的根源,但它同时又是欢乐,创造性,归属感,爱的源泉。所以我觉得我有问题,我需要帮助。“我补充道:”但是,这跟家庭无关,跟童年无关。“(笑声)“我只需要一些策略。”(笑声)(掌声)谢谢。戴安娜的反应是这样的。(笑声)我接着说:“这很糟糕,对么?”她说:“这不算好,也不算坏。”(笑声)“它本身就是这样。”我说:“哦,我的天,要悲剧了。”
(笑声)
(悲剧)果然发生了,但又没有发生。大概有一年的时间。你知道的,有些人当他们发现脆弱和温柔很重要的时候,他们放下所有戒备,欣然接受。(我要声明)一,这不是我,二,我朋友里面也没有这样的人。(笑声)对我来说,那是长达一年的斗争。是场激烈的混战。脆弱打我一拳,我又还击它一拳。最后我输了,但我或许赢回了我的生活。
然后我再度投入到了我的研究中,又花了几年时间真正试图去理解那些全身心投入生活的人,他们做了怎样的决定,他们是如何应对脆弱的。为什么我们为之痛苦挣扎?我是独自在跟脆弱斗争吗?不是。这是我学到的:我们麻痹脆弱——(例如)当我们等待(医生)电话的时候。好笑的是,我在Twitter微博和Facebook上发布了一条状态,“你怎样定义脆弱?什么会让你感到脆弱?“在1个半小时内,我收到了150条回复。因为我想知道大家都是怎么想的。(回复中有)不得不请求丈夫帮忙,因为我病了,而且我们刚结婚;跟丈夫提出要爱;跟妻子提出要爱;被拒绝;约某人出来;等待医生的答复;被裁员;裁掉别人——这就是我们生活的世界。我们活在一个脆弱的世界里。我们应对的方法之一是麻痹脆弱。
我觉得这不是没有依据——这也不是依据存在的唯一理由,我认为我们当代问题的一大部分都可以归咎于它——在美国历史上,我们是欠债最多,肥胖,毒瘾、用药最为严重的一代。问题是——我从研究中认识到——你无法选择性地麻痹感情。你不能说,这些是不好的。这是脆弱,这是悲哀,这是耻辱,这是恐惧,这是失望,我不想要这些情感。我要去喝几瓶啤酒,吃个香蕉坚果松饼。(笑声)我不想要这些情感。我知道台下传来的是会意的笑声。别忘了,我是靠“入侵”你们的生活过日子的。天哪。(笑声)你无法只麻痹那些痛苦的情感而不麻痹所有的感官,所有的情感。你无法有选择性地去麻痹。当我们麻痹那些(消极的情感),我们也麻痹了欢乐,麻痹了感恩,麻痹了幸福。然后我们会变得痛不欲生,我们继而寻找生命的意义,然后我们感到脆弱,然后我们喝几瓶啤酒,吃个香蕉坚果松饼。危险的循环就这样这形成了。
我们需要思考的一件事是我们是为什么,怎么样麻痹自己的。这不一定是指吸毒。我们麻痹自己的另一个方式是把不确定的事变得确定。宗教已经从一种信仰、一种对不可知的相信变成了确定。我是对的,你是错的。闭嘴。就是这样。只要是确定的就是好的。我们越是害怕,我们就越脆弱,然后我们变得愈加害怕。这件就是当今政治的现状。探讨已经不复存在。对话已经荡然无存。有的仅仅是指责。你知道研究领域是如何描述指责的吗?一种发泄痛苦与不快的方式。我们追求完美。如果有人想这样塑造他的生活,那个人就是我,但这行不通。因为我们做的只是把屁股上的赘肉挪到我们的脸上。(笑声)这真是,我希望一百年以后,当人们回过头来会不禁感叹:”哇!“
(笑声)
我们想要,这是最危险的,我们的孩子变得完美。让我告诉你我们是如何看待孩子的。从他们出生的那刻起,他们就注定要挣扎。当你把这些完美的宝宝抱在怀里的时候,我们的任务不是说:”看看她,她完美的无可挑剔。“而是确保她保持完美——保证她五年级的时候可以进网球队,七年级的时候稳进耶鲁。那不是我们的任务。我们的任务是注视着她,对她说,“你知道吗?你并不完美,你注定要奋斗,但你值得被爱,值得享有归属感。”这才是我们的职责。给我看用这种方式培养出来的一代孩子,我保证我们今天有的问题会得到解决。我们假装我们的行为不会影响他人。不仅在我们个人生活中我们这么做,在工作中也一样——无论是紧急救助,石油泄漏,还是产品召回——我们假装我们做的事对他人不会造成什么大影响。我想对这些公司说:嘿,这不是我们第一次牛仔竞技。我们只要你坦诚地,真心地说一句:"对不起,我们会处理这个问题。“
但还有一种方法,我把它留给你们。这是我的心得:卸下我们的面具,让我们被看见,深入地被看见,即便是脆弱的一面;全心全意地去爱,尽管没有任何担保——这是最困难的,我也可以告诉你,作为一名家长,这个非常非常困难——带着一颗感恩的心,保持快乐哪怕是在最恐惧的时候哪怕我们怀疑:”我能不能爱得这么深?我能不能如此热情地相信这份感情?我能不能如此矢志不渝?“在消极的时候能打住,而不是一味地幻想事情会如何变得更糟,对自己说:”我已经很感恩了,因为能感受到这种脆弱,这意味着我还活着。“最后,还有最重要的一点,那就是相信我们已经做得够好了。因为我相信当我们在一个让人觉得“我已经足够了”的环境中打拼的时候我们会停止抱怨,开始倾听,我们会对周围的人会更友善,更温和,对自己也会更友善,更温和。
这就是我演讲的全部内容。谢谢大家。
(掌声)
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敬爱的老师,亲爱的同学:
每一天清晨太阳都会从东边升起,到了傍晚就会从西边落下,这个没有任何一个人能够改变,同样我们没法让时间停止,也没不可能让别人怎摸样,唯一能改变的,仅有自己!
小的时候,我总会问别人这样一个问题:你觉得我好不好,那莫在你心中我排第几呢?尤其是对自己亲近的人,如果他们的回答让我不高兴的话,我总会很生气很生气,下意识的觉得他们不喜欢我,所以就拼命的让他们改变看法,谁出我满意的答案!并且让他们都也必须要为我而改变,否则我会很难过的!
此刻想起来的确是可笑至极了,可是在今日我仍会向好朋友问这样的问题。
可是初中毕竟不是以前了,渐渐的我和身边的同学变得很疏远,无论是男生还是女生,无论是班里的同学还是年级里面的,关系都不是很好,那种感觉真的好难受,我想哭,可是却不敢。
我不明白为什末,我无力去对别人说你应当,你必须之类的话了。
不明白为什末,一霎那间我忽然懂得了什莫,我想要求自己做些深末。可能是因为此刻的环境吧,我不再在乎别人的看法,只做自己而已。
我以往无数次的想过要改变自己,可是好像都失败了,我不想明白原因,只想做我自己,所以此刻的我不再在乎别人的看法,已经不再在乎很多事情了,我不明白这算不算改变,如果是的话,那末是变好还是坏!
可是我清楚的体会到此刻的生活比以前简便很多,趣味很多。
是啊,即使很多人都认为江山易改本性难移,可是改变自己还是比改变别人要容易得多吖!
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overthene_tfiveminutes,myintentionistotransformyourrelationshipwithsound.letmestartwiththeobservationthatmostofthesoundaroundusisaccidental,andmuchofitisunpleasant.(trafficnoise)westandonstreetcorners,shoutingovernoiselikethis,andpretendingthatitdoesn'te_ist.well,thishabitofsuppressingsoundhasmeantthatourrelationshipwithsoundhasbecomelargelyunconscious.
therearefourmajorwayssoundisaffectingyouallthetime,andi'dliketoraisetheminyourconsciousnesstoday.firstisphysiological.(loudalarmclocks)sorryaboutthat.i'vejustgivenyouashotofcortisol,yourfight/flighthormone.soundsareaffectingyourhormonesecretionsallthetime,butalsoyourbreathing,yourheartrate--whichijustalsodid--andyourbrainwaves.
it'snotjustunpleasantsoundslikethatthatdoit.thisissurf.(oceanwaves)ithasthefrequencyofroughly12cyclesperminute.mostpeoplefindthatverysoothing,and,interestingly,12cyclesperminuteisroughlythefrequencyofthebreathingofasleepinghuman.thereisadeepresonancewithbeingatrest.wealsoassociateitwithbeingstress-freeandonholiday.
thesecondwayinwhichsoundaffectsyouispsychological.musicisthemostpowerfulformofsoundthatweknowthataffectsouremotionalstate.(albinoni'sadagio)thisisguaranteedtomakemostofyoufeelprettysadifileaveiton.musicisnottheonlykindofsound,however,whichaffectsyouremotions.
naturalsoundcandothattoo.birdsong,fore_ample,isasoundwhichmostpeoplefindreassuring.(birdschirping)thereisareasonforthat.overhundredsofthousandsofyearswe'velearnedthatwhenthebirdsaresinging,thingsaresafe.it'swhentheystopyouneedtobeworried.
thethirdwayinwhichsoundaffectsyouiscognitively.youcan'tunderstandtwopeopletalkingatonce("ifyou'relisteningtothisversionof")("meyou'reonthewrongtrack.")orinthiscaseonepersontalkingtwice.tryandlistentotheotherone.("youhavetochoosewhichmeyou'regoingtolistento.")
wehaveaverysmallamountofbandwidthforprocessingauditoryinput,whichiswhynoiselikethis--(officenoise)--ise_tremelydamagingforproductivity.ifyouhavetoworkinanopen-planofficelikethis,yourproductivityisgreatlyreduced.andwhatevernumberyou'rethinkingof,itprobablyisn'tasbadasthis.(ominousmusic)youareonethirdasproductiveinopen-planofficesasinquietrooms.andihaveatipforyou.ifyouhavetoworkinspaceslikethat,carryheadphoneswithyou,withasoothingsoundlikebirdsong.putthemonandyourproductivitygoesbackuptotriplewhatitwouldbe.
thefourthwayinwhichsoundaffectsusisbehaviorally.withallthatotherstuffgoingon,itwouldbeamazingifourbehaviordidn'tchange.(technomusicinsideacar)so,askyourself:isthispersonevergoingtodriveatasteady28milesperhour?idon'tthinkso.atthesimplest,youmoveawayfromunpleasantsoundandtowardspleasantsounds.soifiweretoplaythis--(jackhammer)--formorethanafewseconds,you'dfeeluncomfortable;formorethanafewminutes,you'dbeleavingtheroomindroves.forpeoplewhocan'tgetawayfromnoiselikethat,it'se_tremelydamagingfortheirhealth.
andthat'snottheonlythingthatbadsounddamages.mostretailsoundisinappropriateandaccidental,andevenhostile,andithasadramaticeffectonsales.forthoseofyouwhoareretailers,youmaywanttolookawaybeforeishowthisslide.theyarelosingupto30percentoftheirbusinesswithpeopleleavingshopsfaster,orjustturningaroundonthedoor.weallhavedoneit,leavingtheareabecausethesoundinthereissodreadful.
iwanttospendjustamomenttalkingaboutthemodelthatwe'vedeveloped,whichallowsustostartatthetopandlookatthedriversofsound,analyzethesoundscapeandthenpredictthefouroutcomesi'vejusttalkedabout.orstartatthebottom,andsaywhatoutcomesdowewant,andthendesignasoundscapetohaveadesiredeffect.atlastwe'vegotsomesciencewecanapply.andwe'reinthebusinessofdesigningsoundscapes.
justawordonmusic.musicisthemostpowerfulsoundthereis,ofteninappropriatelydeployed.it'spowerfulfortworeasons.yourecognizeitfast,andyouassociateitverypowerfully.i'llgiveyoutwoe_amples.(firstchordofthebeatles'"ahardday'snight")mostofyourecognizethatimmediately.theyounger,maybenot.(laughter)(firsttwonotesof"jaws"theme)andmostofyouassociatethatwithsomething!now,thoseareone-secondsamplesofmusic.musicisverypowerful.andunfortunatelyit'sveneeringcommercialspaces,ofteninappropriately.ihopethat'sgoingtochangeoverthene_tfewyears.
letmejusttalkaboutbrandsforamoment,becausesomeofyourunbrands.everybrandisouttheremakingsoundrightnow.thereareeighte_pressionsofabrandinsound.theyareallimportant.andeverybrandneedstohaveguidelinesatthecenter.i'mgladtosaythatisstartingtohappennow.(inteladjingle)youallrecognizethatone.(nokiaringtone)thisisthemost-playedtuneintheworldtoday.1.8billiontimesaday,thattuneisplayed.anditcostnokiaabsolutelynothing.
justleaveyouwithfourgoldenrules,forthoseofyouwhorunbusinesses,forcommercialsound.first,makeitcongruent,pointinginthesamedirectionasyourvisualcommunication.thatincreasesimpactbyover1,100percent.ifyoursoundispointingtheoppositedirection,incongruent,youreduceimpactby86percent.that'sanorderofmagnitude,upordown.thisisimportant.secondly,makeitappropriatetothesituation.thirdly,makeitvaluable.givepeoplesomethingwiththesound.don'tjustbombardthemwithstuff.and,finally,testandtestitagain.soundiscomple_.therearemanycountervailinginfluences.itcanbeabitlikeabowlofspaghetti:sometimesyoujusthavetoeatitandseewhathappens.
soihopethistalkhasraisedsoundinyourconsciousness.ifyou'relisteningconsciously,youcantakecontrolofthesoundaroundyou.it'sgoodforyourhealth.it'sgoodforyourproductivity.ifwealldothatwemovetoastatethatiliketothinkwillbesoundlivingintheworld.i'mgoingtoleaveyouwithalittlebitmorebirdsong.(birdschirping)irecommendatleastfiveminutesaday,butthereisnoma_imumdose.thankyouforlendingmeyourearstoday.(applause)
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瞧,她笑的多开心呀,两只眼睛成了弯弯的月亮,微微的翘起的小鼻子向上耸起,红红的小嘴随着咯咯的笑声一张一合的,就连那两只小羊角辫也在抖动着。你知道她是谁吗?告诉你,那就是我。
我个儿不高,大约1米1左右。我有很多特点,最大的特点就是喜欢动物。
初冬,我在街上花钱买了两只小鸡,一只乳白色,一只橘黄色。买了它们满以为妈妈也会像我一样高兴,可一进门,妈妈就不高兴的说:“你怎么把这小东西买回来啦?他会冻死的。”我不以为然,我决心要把它们养活。我先把它们放在地上,又拿来小米喂它们,可它们只是叽叽叽地叫,不肯吃。妈妈走过来说:“天气冷,它们冻得顾不上吃了。”我仔细一看,果然,它们冻得直发抖。于是,我把它们放在手心上,它们才叽叽叽地吃起来。晚上,我在桌前写作业,小鸡在旁边并不吃我给它们的小米,总是叽叽叽地叫。每办法,只好把它们放在我的棉衣里,它们才不叫了。我安心地写完作业,把它们拿出来,它们又开始叫了,我只好跟它们“同床共枕”。
总算熬到开暖气的那一天了,房间变暖了,小鸡的羽毛也长了。晚上,我把它们放在盒子里,怕它们跑了,就在上面又蒙上了一层布。结果第二天,小鸡闷死了。我伤心的哭了,并且一连好几天都很伤心。
我曾经被赵忠祥伯伯主持的《动物世界》所感动,希望自己长大以后,为保护动物做宣传。我也曾被那些铺杀动物的不法分子所激怒,为那些无辜被害的动物流泪。有一次,我在电视上看到公安局抓获一批走私动物皮的犯罪分子,既高兴,又伤心,伤心的是有那么多的动物被他们残忍的杀害了,高兴的是公安局的叔叔终于把那一伙惨无人道的走私分之抓获了,侥幸生存的一批动物可以得到保护了。
这就是我,一个喜欢动物,爱护动物的小女孩。
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尊敬的老师、同学们:
大家好!
很多年以前,我曾经说过,时间可以改变一切。
看着那些老旧的照片,感觉好像还是活在过去,想着想着……如今,也回不到从前了,也听不到那欠扁的笑容了,其实,我以为一辈子都不会忘记的事情就在我们念念不忘的日子里,而被我遗忘了,努力想记起你们的名字,却是徒然,真的记不起了……
岁月如流水,转瞬之间,又是一年过去了。以前习惯了嘻嘻哈哈、笑容满面的我,现在时常稍作停顿,时而顾盼,时而思考,一路走来,不断的思考,不少的烦恼,也不愿错过每一处风景。时间的力量,不仅在于它可以让你重新审视这个世界,而且是一种解药可以冲淡回忆。不愿记起的、快乐的、难以释怀的、所有的记忆。也可以把人的思维方式也全盘更新一遍。突然有一天,回头再找寻原来的我,才发现我已非我。
在家的日子就是那么无聊、那么无奈。只是吃好睡好、但是同样的24小时就很难熬。每天都是傻乎乎在家发呆,在家也想了很多以前悔恨的事,走过的、路过的、玩过的……都留下我那悔恨的足迹……现在,我就要做一个全新的我,也不再是以前的我,而是“少说话,多办事”“……”的我。一切不幸之事随着时间而覆盖……
每个人都是一道靓丽的风景线,但世界不会为你而改变,环境也不会主动去适应我们自己。因而,我们只能去改变自己,去适应环境,进而取得成功。
改变自己,方可以意志的血滴和拼搏的汗水酿成历久弥香的琼浆,方可以不凋的希望和不灭的梦想编织绚丽辉煌的彩虹,方可以永恒的执着和顽强的韧力筑起固若金汤的铁壁铜墙。