2024ted演讲稿(通用30篇)

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2024ted演讲稿(通用30篇)

2024ted演讲稿篇1

IwasoneoftheonlykidsincollegewhohadareasontogototheP.O.bo_attheendoftheday,andthatwasmainlybecausemymotherhasneverbelievedinemail,inFacebook,inte_tingorcellphonesingeneral.AndsowhileotherkidswereBBM-ingtheirparents,Iwasliterallywaitingbythemailbo_togetaletterfromhometoseehowtheweekendhadgone,whichwasalittlefrustratingwhenGrandmawasinthehospital,butIwasjustlookingforsomesortofscribble,someunkemptcursivefrommymother.

AndsowhenImovedtoNewYorkCityaftercollegeandgotcompletelysucker-punchedinthefacebydepression,IdidtheonlythingIcouldthinkofatthetime.Iwrotethosesamekindsoflettersthatmymotherhadwrittenmeforstrangers,andtuckedthemallthroughoutthecity,dozensanddozensofthem.Ileftthemeverywhere,incafesandinlibraries,attheU.N.,everywhere.Ibloggedaboutthoselettersandthedayswhentheywerenecessary,andIposedakindofcrazypromisetotheInternet:thatifyouaskedmeforahand-writtenletter,Iwouldwriteyouone,noquestionsasked.Overnight,myinbo_morphedintothisharborofheartbreak--asinglemotherinSacramento,agirlbeingbulliedinruralKansas,allaskingme,a22-year-oldgirlwhobarelyevenknewherowncoffeeorder,towritethemaloveletterandgivethemareasontowaitbythemailbo_.

Well,todayIfuelaglobalorganizationthatisfueledbythosetripstothemailbo_,fueledbythewaysinwhichwecanharnesssocialmedialikeneverbeforetowriteandmailstrangersletterswhentheyneedthemmost,butmostofall,fueledbycratesofmaillikethisone,mytrustymailcrate,filledwiththescriptingsofordinarypeople,strangerswritingletterstootherstrangersnotbecausethey'reevergoingtomeetandlaughoveracupofcoffee,butbecausetheyhavefoundoneanotherbywayofletter-writing.

But,youknow,thethingthatalwaysgetsmeabouttheselettersisthatmostofthemhavebeenwrittenbypeoplethathaveneverknownthemselveslovedonapieceofpaper.Theycouldnottellyouabouttheinkoftheirownloveletters.They'retheonesfrommygeneration,theonesofusthathavegrownupintoaworldwhereeverythingispaperless,andwheresomeofourbestconversationshavehappeneduponascreen.WehavelearnedtodiaryourpainontoFacebook,andwespeakswiftlyin140charactersorless.

Butwhatifit'snotaboutefficiencythistime?Iwasonthesubwayyesterdaywiththismailcrate,whichisaconversationstarter,letmetellyou.Ifyoueverneedone,justcarryoneofthese.(Laughter)Andamanjuststaredatme,andhewaslike,"Well,whydon'tyouusetheInternet?"AndIthought,"Well,sir,Iamnotastrategist,noramIspecialist.Iammerelyastoryteller."AndsoIcouldtellyouaboutawomanwhosehusbandhasjustcomehomefromAfghanistan,andsheishavingahardtimeunearthingthisthingcalledconversation,andsoshetuckslovelettersthroughoutthehouseasawaytosay,"Comebacktome.Findmewhenyoucan."OragirlwhodecidesthatsheisgoingtoleavelovelettersaroundhercampusinDubuque,Iowa,onlytofindhereffortsripple-effectedthene_tdaywhenshewalksoutontothequadandfindslovelettershangingfromthetrees,tuckedinthebushesandthebenches.Orthemanwhodecidesthatheisgoingtotakehislife,usesFacebookasawaytosaygoodbyetofriendsandfamily.Well,tonighthesleepssafelywithastackoflettersjustlikethisonetuckedbeneathhispillow,scriptedbystrangerswhowerethereforhimwhen.

Thesearethekindsofstoriesthatconvincedmethatletter-writingwillneveragainneedtoflipbackherhairandtalkaboutefficiency,becausesheisanartformnow,allthepartsofher,thesigning,thescripting,themailing,thedoodlesinthemargins.Themerefactthatsomebodywouldevenjustsitdown,pulloutapieceofpaperandthinkaboutsomeonethewholewaythrough,withanintentionthatissomuchhardertounearthwhenthebrowserisupandtheiPhoneispingingandwe'vegotsi_conversationsrollinginatonce,thatisanartformthatdoesnotfalldowntotheGoliathof"getfaster,"nomatterhowmanysocialnetworkswemightjoin.Westillclutchclosetheseletterstoourchest,tothewordsthatspeaklouderthanloud,whenweturnpagesintopalettestosaythethingsthatwehaveneededtosay,thewordsthatwehaveneededtowrite,tosistersandbrothersandeventostrangers,forfartoolong.Thankyou.

2024ted演讲稿篇2

wheniwasnineyearsoldiwentofftosummercampforthefirsttime.andmymotherpackedmeasuitcasefullofbooks,whichtomeseemedlikeaperfectlynaturalthingtodo.becauseinmyfamily,readingwastheprimarygroupactivity.andthismightsoundantisocialtoyou,butforusitwasreallyjustadifferentwayofbeingsocial.youhavetheanimalwarmthofyourfamilysittingrightne_ttoyou,butyouarealsofreetogoroamingaroundtheadventurelandinsideyourownmind.andihadthisideathatcampwasgoingtobejustlikethis,butbetter.(laughter)ihadavisionof10girlssittinginacabincozilyreadingbooksintheirmatchingnightgowns.

当我九岁的时候我第一次去参加夏令营我妈妈帮我整理好了我的行李箱里面塞满了书这对于我来说是一件极为自然的事情因为在我的家庭里阅读是主要的家庭活动听上去你们可能觉得我们是不爱交际的但是对于我的家庭来说这真的只是接触社会的另一种途径你们有自己家庭接触时的温暖亲情家人静坐在你身边但是你也可以自由地漫游在你思维深处的冒险乐园里我有一个想法野营会变得像这样子,当然要更好些(笑声)我想象到十个女孩坐在一个小屋里都穿着合身的女式睡衣惬意地享受着读书的过程

(laughter)

(笑声)

campwasmorelikeakegpartywithoutanyalcohol.andontheveryfirstdayourcounselorgatheredusalltogetherandshetaughtusacheerthatshesaidwewouldbedoingeverydayfortherestofthesummertoinstillcampspirit.anditwentlikethis:"r-o-w-d-i-e,that'sthewaywespellrowdie.rowdie,rowdie,let'sgetrowdie."yeah.soicouldn'tfigureoutforthelifeofmewhyweweresupposedtobesorowdy,orwhywehadtospellthiswordincorrectly.(laughter)butirecitedacheer.irecitedacheeralongwitheverybodyelse.ididmybest.andijustwaitedforthetimethaticouldgooffandreadmybooks.

野营这时更像是一个不提供酒水的派对聚会在第一天的时候呢我们的顾问把我们都集合在一起并且她教会了我们一种今后要用到的庆祝方式在余下夏令营的每一天中让“露营精神”浸润我们之后它就像这样继续着r-o-w-d-i-e这是我们拼写“吵闹"的口号我们唱着“噪音,喧闹,我们要变得吵一点”对,就是这样可我就是弄不明白我的生活会是什么样的为什么我们变得这么吵闹粗暴或者为什么我们非要把这个单词错误地拼写(笑声)但是我可没有忘记庆祝。我与每个人都互相欢呼庆祝了我尽了我最大的努力我只是想等待那一刻我可以离开吵闹的聚会去捧起我挚爱的书

butthefirsttimethatitookmybookoutofmysuitcase,thecoolestgirlinthebunkcameuptomeandsheaskedme,"whyareyoubeingsomellow?"--mellow,ofcourse,beingthee_actoppositeofr-o-w-d-i-e.andthenthesecondtimeitriedit,thecounselorcameuptomewithaconcernede_pressiononherfaceandsherepeatedthepointaboutcampspiritandsaidweshouldallworkveryhardtobeoutgoing.

但是当我第一次把书从行李箱中拿出来的时候床铺中最酷的那个女孩向我走了过来并且她问我:“为什么你要这么安静?”安静,当然,是r-o-w-d-i-e的反义词“喧闹”的反义词而当我第二次拿书的时候我们的顾问满脸忧虑的向我走了过来接着她重复了关于“露营精神”的要点并且说我们都应当努力去变得外向些

andsoiputmybooksaway,backintheirsuitcase,andiputthemundermybed,andtheretheystayedfortherestofthesummer.andifeltkindofguiltyaboutthis.ifeltasifthebooksneededmesomehow,andtheywerecallingouttomeandiwasforsakingthem.butididforsakethemandididn'topenthatsuitcaseagainuntiliwasbackhomewithmyfamilyattheendofthesummer.

于是我放好我的书放回了属于它们的行李箱中并且我把它们放到了床底下在那里它们度过了暑假余下的每一天我对这样做感到很愧疚不知为什么我感觉这些书是需要我的它们在呼唤我,但是我却放弃了它们我确实放下了它们,并且我再也没有打开那个箱子直到我和我的家人一起回到家中在夏末的时候

now,itellyouthisstoryaboutsummercamp.icouldhavetoldyou50othersjustlikeit--allthetimesthatigotthemessagethatsomehowmyquietandintrovertedstyleofbeingwasnotnecessarilytherightwaytogo,thatishouldbetryingtopassasmoreofane_trovert.andialwayssenseddeepdownthatthiswaswrongandthatintrovertswereprettye_cellentjustastheywere.butforyearsideniedthisintuition,andsoibecameawallstreetlawyer,ofallthings,insteadofthewriterthatihadalwayslongedtobe--partlybecauseineededtoprovetomyselfthaticouldbeboldandassertivetoo.andiwasalwaysgoingofftocrowdedbarswhenireallywouldhavepreferredtojusthaveanicedinnerwithfriends.andimadetheseself-negatingchoicessorefle_ively,thatiwasn'tevenawarethatiwasmakingthem.

现在,我向你们讲述这个夏令营的故事我完全可以给你们讲出其他50种版本就像这个一样的故事--每当我感觉到这样的时候它告诉我出于某种原因,我的宁静和内向的风格并不是正确道路上的必需品我应该更多地尝试一个外向者的角色而在我内心深处感觉得到,这是错误的内向的人们都是非常优秀的,确实是这样但是许多年来我都否认了这种直觉于是我首先成为了华尔街的一名律师而不是我长久以来想要成为的一名作家一部分原因是因为我想要证明自己也可以变得勇敢而坚定并且我总是去那些拥挤的酒吧当我只是想要和朋友们吃一顿愉快的晚餐时我做出了这些自我否认的抉择如条件反射一般甚至我都不清楚我做出了这些决定

nowthisiswhatmanyintrovertsdo,andit'sourlossforsure,butitisalsoourcolleagues'lossandourcommunities'loss.andattheriskofsoundinggrandiose,itistheworld'sloss.becausewhenitcomestocreativityandtoleadership,weneedintrovertsdoingwhattheydobest.athirdtoahalfofthepopulationareintroverts--athirdtoahalf.sothat'soneoutofeverytwoorthreepeopleyouknow.soevenifyou'reane_trovertyourself,i'mtalkingaboutyourcoworkersandyourspousesandyourchildrenandthepersonsittingne_ttoyourightnow--allofthemsubjecttothisbiasthatisprettydeepandrealinoursociety.weallinternalizeitfromaveryearlyagewithoutevenhavingalanguageforwhatwe'redoing.

这就是很多内向的人正在做的事情这当然是我们的损失但这同样也是同事们的损失我们所在团队集体的损失当然,冒着被指为夸大其词的风险我想说,更是世界的损失因为当涉及创造和领导的时候我们需要内向的人做到最好三分之一到二分之一的人都是内向的--三分之一到二分之一你要知道这可意味着每两到三个人中就有一个内向的所以即使你自己是一个外向的人我正在说你的同事和你的配偶和你的孩子还有现在正坐在你旁边的那个家伙--他们都要屈从于这样的偏见一种在我们的社会中已经扎根的现实偏见我们从很小的时候就把它藏在内心最深处甚至都不说几句话,关于我们正在做的事情。

nowtoseethebiasclearlyyouneedtounderstandwhatintroversionis.it'sdifferentfrombeingshy.shynessisaboutfearofsocialjudgment.introversionismoreabout,howdoyourespondtostimulation,includingsocialstimulation.soe_trovertsreallycravelargeamountsofstimulation,whereasintrovertsfeelattheirmostaliveandtheirmostswitched-onandtheirmostcapablewhenthey'reinquieter,morelow-keyenvironments.notallthetime--thesethingsaren'tabsolute--butalotofthetime.sothekeythentoma_imizingourtalentsisforusalltoputourselvesinthezoneofstimulationthatisrightforus.

现在让我们来清楚地看待这种偏见我们需要真正了解“内向”到底指什么它和害羞是不同的害羞是对于社会评论的恐惧内向更多的是你怎样对于刺激作出回应包括来自社会的刺激其实内向的人是很渴求大量的鼓舞和激励的反之内向者最感觉到他们的存在这是他们精力最充足的时候,最具有能力的时候当他们存在于更安静的,更低调的环境中并不是所有时候--这些事情都不是绝对的--但是存在于很多时候所以说,关键在于把我们的天赋发挥到最大化这对于我们来说就足够把我们自己放到对于我们正确又合适的激励的区域中去

butnowhere'swherethebiascomesin.ourmostimportantinstitutions,ourschoolsandourworkplaces,theyaredesignedmostlyfore_trovertsandfore_troverts'needforlotsofstimulation.andalsowehavethisbeliefsystemrightnowthaticallthenewgroupthink,whichholdsthatallcreativityandallproductivitycomesfromaveryoddlygregariousplace.

但是现在偏见出现了我们最重要的那些体系我们的学校和工作单位它们都是为性格外向者设计的并且有适合他们需要的刺激和鼓励当然我们现在也有这样一种信用机制我称它为新型的“团队思考”这是一种包含所有创造力和生产力的思考方式从一个社交非常零散的地方产生的

soifyoupicturethetypicalclassroomnowadays:wheniwasgoingtoschool,wesatinrows.wesatinrowsofdeskslikethis,andwedidmostofourworkprettyautonomously.butnowadays,yourtypicalclassroomhaspodsofdesks--fourorfiveorsi_orsevenkidsallfacingeachother.andkidsareworkingincountlessgroupassignments.eveninsubjectslikemathandcreativewriting,whichyouthinkwoulddependonsoloflightsofthought,kidsarenowe_pectedtoactascommitteemembers.andforthekidswhoprefertogooffbythemselvesorjusttoworkalone,thosekidsareseenasoutliersoftenor,worse,asproblemcases.andthevastmajorityofteachersreportsbelievingthattheidealstudentisane_trovertasopposedtoanintrovert,eventhoughintrovertsactuallygetbettergradesandaremoreknowledgeable,accordingtoresearch.(laughter)

当你描绘今天典型教室的图案时当我还上学的时候我们一排排地坐着我们靠着桌子一排排坐着就像这样并且我们大多数工作都是自觉完成的但是在现代社会,所谓典型的教室是些圈起来并排的桌子--四个或是五个或是六、七个孩子坐在一起,面对面孩子们要完成无数个小组任务甚至像数学和创意写作这些课程这些你们认为需要依靠个人闪光想法的课程孩子们现在却被期待成为小组会的成员对于那些喜欢独处,或者自己一个人工作的孩子来说这些孩子常常被视为局外人或者更糟,被视为问题孩子并且很大一部分老师的报告中都相信最理想的学生应该是外向的相对于内向的学生而言甚至说外向的学生能够取得更好的成绩更加博学多识据研究报道(笑声)

okay,samethingistrueinourworkplaces.now,mostofusworkinopenplanoffices,withoutwalls,wherewearesubjecttotheconstantnoiseandgazeofourcoworkers.andwhenitcomestoleadership,introvertsareroutinelypassedoverforleadershippositions,eventhoughintrovertstendtobeverycareful,muchlesslikelytotakeoutsizerisks--whichissomethingwemightallfavornowadays.andinterestingresearchbyadamgrantatthewhartonschoolhasfoundthatintrovertedleadersoftendeliverbetteroutcomesthane_trovertsdo,becausewhentheyaremanagingproactiveemployees,they'remuchmorelikelytoletthoseemployeesrunwiththeirideas,whereasane_trovertcan,quiteunwittingly,getsoe_citedaboutthingsthatthey'reputtingtheirownstamponthings,andotherpeople'sideasmightnotaseasilythenbubbleuptothesurface.

好了。同样的事情也发生在我们工作的地方现在呢,我们中的绝大多数都工作在宽阔没有隔间的办公室里甚至没有墙在这里,我们暴露在不断的噪音和我们同事的凝视目光下工作而当谈及领袖气质的时候内向的人总是按照惯例从领导的位置被忽视了尽管内向的人是非常小心仔细的很少去冒特大的风险--这些风险是今天我们可能都喜欢的宾夕法尼亚大学沃顿商学院的亚当·格兰特教授做了一项很有意思的研究这项研究表明内向的领导们相对于外向领导而言总是会生产更大的效益因为当他们管理主动积极的雇员的时候他们更倾向于让有主见的雇员去自由发挥反之外向的领导就可能,当然是不经意的对于事情变得十分激动他们在事务上有了自己想法的印迹这使其他人的想法可能就不会很容易地在舞台上发光了

nowinfact,someofourtransformativeleadersinhistoryhavebeenintroverts.i'llgiveyousomee_amples.eleanorroosevelt,rosaparks,gandhi--allthesepeopleddescribedthemselvesasquietandsoft-spokenandevenshy.andtheyalltookthespotlight,eventhougheveryboneintheirbodieswastellingthemnotto.andthisturnsouttohaveaspecialpowerallitsown,becausepeoplecouldfeelthattheseleaderswereatthehelm,notbecausetheyenjoyeddirectingothersandnotoutofthepleasureofbeinglookedat;theyweretherebecausetheyhadnochoice,becausetheyweredriventodowhattheythoughtwasright.

事实上,历史上一些有改革能力的领袖都是内向的人我会举一些例子给你们埃莉诺·罗斯福,罗沙·帕克斯,甘地--所有这些人都把自己描述成内向,说话温柔甚至是害羞的人他们仍然站在了聚光灯下即使他们浑身上下都感知他们说不要这证明是一种属于它自身的特殊的力量因为人们都会感觉这些领导者同时是掌舵者并不是因为他们喜欢指挥别人抑或是享受众人目光的聚焦他们处在那个位置因为他们没有选择因为他们行驶在他们认为正确的道路上

nowithinkatthispointit'simportantformetosaythatiactuallylovee_troverts.ialwaysliketosaysomeofmybestfriendsaree_troverts,includingmybelovedhusband.andweallfallatdifferentpoints,ofcourse,alongtheintrovert/e_trovertspectrum.evencarljung,thepsychologistwhofirstpopularizedtheseterms,saidthatthere'snosuchthingasapureintrovertorapuree_trovert.hesaidthatsuchamanwouldbeinalunaticasylum,ifhee_istedatall.andsomepeoplefallsmackinthemiddleoftheintrovert/e_trovertspectrum,andwecallthesepeopleambiverts.andioftenthinkthattheyhavethebestofallworlds.butmanyofusdorecognizeourselvesasonetypeortheother.

现在我觉得对于这点我有必要说那就是我真的喜爱外向的人我总是喜欢说我最好的几个朋友都是外向的人包括我亲爱的丈夫当然了我们都会在不同点时偏向内向者/外向者的范围甚至是卡尔·荣格,这个让这些名词为大众所熟知的心理学家,说道世上绝没有一个纯粹的内向的人或者一个纯粹的外向的人他说这样的人会在精神病院里如果他存在的话还有一些人处在中间的迹象在内向与外向之间我们称这些人为“中向性格者”并且我总是认为他们拥有世界最美好的一切但是我们中的大多数总是认为自己属于内向或者外向,其中一类

andwhati'msayingisthatculturallyweneedamuchbetterbalance.weneedmoreofayinandyangbetweenthesetwotypes.thisisespeciallyimportantwhenitcomestocreativityandtoproductivity,becausewhenpsychologistslookatthelivesofthemostcreativepeople,whattheyfindarepeoplewhoareverygoodate_changingideasandadvancingideas,butwhoalsohaveaseriousstreakofintroversioninthem.

同时我想说从文化意义上讲我们需要一种更好的平衡我们需要更多的阴阳的平衡在这两种类型的人之间这点是极为重要的当涉及创造力和生产力的时候因为当心理学家们看待最有创造力的人的生命的时候他们寻找到的是那些擅长变换思维的人提出想法的人但是他们同时也有着极为显著的偏内向的痕迹

andthisisbecausesolitudeisacrucialingredientoftentocreativity.sodarwin,hetooklongwalksaloneinthewoodsandemphaticallyturneddowndinnerpartyinvitations.theodorgeisel,betterknownasdr.seuss,hedreamedupmanyofhisamazingcreationsinalonelybelltowerofficethathehadinthebackofhishouseinlajolla,california.andhewasactuallyafraidtomeettheyoungchildrenwhoreadhisbooksforfearthattheyweree_pectinghimthiskindofjollysantaclaus-likefigureandwouldbedisappointedwithhismorereservedpersona.stevewozniakinventedthefirstapplecomputersittingaloneinhiscubicalinhewlett-packardwherehewasworkingatthetime.andhesaysthatheneverwouldhavebecomesuchane_pertinthefirstplacehadhenotbeentoointrovertedtoleavethehousewhenhewasgrowingup.

这是因为独处是非常关键的因素对于创造力来说所以达尔文自己一个人漫步在小树林里并且断然拒绝了晚餐派对的邀约西奥多·盖索,更多时候以苏索博士的名号知名他梦想过很多的惊人的创作在他在加利福尼亚州拉霍亚市房子的后面的一座孤独的束层的塔形办公室中而且其实他很害怕见面见那些读过他的书的年轻的孩子们害怕他们会期待他这样一位令人愉快的,圣诞老人形象的人物同时又会因发现他含蓄缄默的性格而失望史蒂夫·沃兹尼亚克发明了第一台苹果电脑一个人独自坐在他的机柜旁在他当时工作的惠普公司并且他说他永远不会在那方面成为一号专家但他还没因太内向到要离开那里那个他成长起来的地方

nowofcourse,thisdoesnotmeanthatweshouldallstopcollaborating--andcaseinpoint,isstevewozniakfamouslycomingtogetherwithstevejobstostartapplecomputer--butitdoesmeanthatsolitudemattersandthatforsomepeopleitistheairthattheybreathe.andinfact,wehaveknownforcenturiesaboutthetranscendentpowerofsolitude.it'sonlyrecentlythatwe'vestrangelybeguntoforgetit.ifyoulookatmostoftheworld'smajorreligions,youwillfindseekers--moses,jesus,buddha,muhammad--seekerswhoaregoingoffbythemselvesalonetothewildernesswheretheythenhaveprofoundepiphaniesandrevelationsthattheythenbringbacktotherestofthecommunity.sonowilderness,norevelations.

当然了这并不意味着我们都应该停止合作--恰当的例子呢,是史蒂夫·沃兹尼亚克和史蒂夫·乔布斯的著名联手创建苹果电脑公司--但是这并不意味着和独处有重大关系并且对于一些人来说这是他们赖以呼吸生存的空气事实上,几个世纪以来我们已经非常明白独处的卓越力量只是到了最近,非常奇怪,我们开始遗忘它了如果你看看世界上主要的宗教你会发现探寻者--摩西,耶稣,佛祖,穆罕默德--那些独身去探寻的人们在大自然的旷野中独处,思索在那里,他们有了深刻的顿悟和对于奥义的揭示之后他们把这些思想带回到社会的其他地方去没有旷原,没有启示

thisisnosurprisethoughifyoulookattheinsightsofcontemporarypsychology.itturnsoutthatwecan'tevenbeinagroupofpeoplewithoutinstinctivelymirroring,mimickingtheiropinions.evenaboutseeminglypersonalandvisceralthingslikewhoyou'reattractedto,youwillstartapingthebeliefsofthepeoplearoundyouwithoutevenrealizingthatthat'swhatyou'redoing.

尽管这并不令人惊讶如果你注意到现代心理学的思想理论它反映出来我们甚至不能和一组人待在一起而不去本能地模仿他们的意见与想法甚至是看上去私人的,发自内心的事情像是你被谁所吸引你会开始模仿你周围的人的信仰甚至都觉察不到你自己在做什么

andgroupsfamouslyfollowtheopinionsofthemostdominantorcharismaticpersonintheroom,eventhoughthere'szerocorrelationbetweenbeingthebesttalkerandhavingthebestideas--imeanzero.so...(laughter)youmightbefollowingthepersonwiththebestideas,butyoumightnot.anddoyoureallywanttoleaveituptochance?muchbetterforeverybodytogooffbythemselves,generatetheirownideasfreedfromthedistortionsofgroupdynamics,andthencometogetherasateamtotalkthemthroughinawell-managedenvironmentandtakeitfromthere.

还曾跟随群体的意见跟随着房间里最具有统治力的,最有领袖气质的人的思路虽然这真的没什么关系在成为一个卓越的演讲家还是拥有最好的主意之间--我的意思是“零相关”那么...(笑声)你们或许会跟随有最好头脑的人但是你们也许不会可你们真的想把这机会扔掉吗?如果每个人都自己行动或许好得多发掘他们自己的想法没有群体动力学的曲解接着来到一起组成一个团队在一个良好管理的环境中互相交流并且在那里学习别的思想

nowifallthisistrue,thenwhyarewegettingitsowrong?whyarewesettingupourschoolsthiswayandourworkplaces?andwhyarewemakingtheseintrovertsfeelsoguiltyaboutwantingtojustgooffbythemselvessomeofthetime?oneanswerliesdeepinourculturalhistory.westernsocieties,andinparticulartheu.s.,havealwaysfavoredthemanofactionoverthemanofcontemplationand"man"ofcontemplation.butinamerica'searlydays,welivedinwhathistorianscallacultureofcharacter,wherewestill,atthatpoint,valuedpeoplefortheirinnerselvesandtheirmoralrectitude.andifyoulookattheself-helpbooksfromthisera,theyallhadtitleswiththingslike"character,thegrandestthingintheworld."andtheyfeaturedrolemodelslikeabrahamlincolnwhowaspraisedforbeingmodestandunassuming.ralphwaldoemersoncalledhim"amanwhodoesnotoffendbysuperiority."

如果说现在这一切都是真的那么为什么我们还得到这样错误的结论?为什么我们要这样创立我们的学校,还有我们的工作单位?为什么我们要让这些内向的人觉得那么愧疚。对于他们只是想要离开,一个人独处一段时间的事实?有一个答案在我们的文化史中埋藏已久西方社会特别是在美国总是偏爱有行动的人而不是有深刻思考的人有深刻思考的“人”但是在美国早期的时候我们生活在一个被历史学家称作“性格特征”的文化那时我们仍然,在这点上,判断人们的价值从人们的内涵和道义正直而且如果你看一看这个时代关于自立的书籍的话它们都有这样一种标题:“性格”,世界上最伟大的事物并且它们以亚伯拉罕·林肯这样的为标榜一个被形容为谦虚低调的男人拉尔夫·瓦尔多·爱默生称他是“一个以‘优越’二形容都不为过的人”

butthenwehitthe20thcenturyandweenteredanewculturethathistorianscallthecultureofpersonality.whathappenediswehadevolvedanagriculturaleconomytoaworldofbigbusiness.andsosuddenlypeoplearemovingfromsmalltownstothecities.andinsteadofworkingalongsidepeoplethey'veknownalltheirlives,nowtheyarehavingtoprovethemselvesinacrowdofstrangers.so,quiteunderstandably,qualitieslikemagnetismandcharismasuddenlycometoseemreallyimportant.andsureenough,theself-helpbookschangetomeetthesenewneedsandtheystarttohavenameslike"howtowinfriendsandinfluencepeople."andtheyfeatureastheirrolemodelsreallygreatsalesmen.sothat'stheworldwe'relivingintoday.that'sourculturalinheritance.

但是接着我们来到了二十世纪并且我们融入了一种新的文化一种被历史学家称作“个性”的文化所发生的改变就是我们从农业经济发展为一个大商业经济的世界而且人们突然开始搬迁从小的城镇搬向城市并且一改他们之前的在生活中和所熟识的人们一起工作的方式现在他们在一群陌生人中间有必要去证明自己这样做是非常可以理解的像领袖气质和个人魅力这样的品质突然间似乎变得极为重要那么可以肯定的是,自助自立的书的内容变更了以适应这些新的需求并且它们开始拥有名称像是《如何赢得朋友和影响他人》(戴尔?卡耐基所著《人性的弱点》)他们的特点是做自己的榜样不得不说确实是好的推销员所以这就是我们今天生活的世界这是我们的文化遗产

nownoneofthisistosaythatsocialskillsareunimportant,andi'malsonotcallingfortheabolishingofteamworkatall.thesamereligionswhosendtheirsagesofftolonelymountaintopsalsoteachusloveandtrust.andtheproblemsthatwearefacingtodayinfieldslikescienceandineconomicsaresovastandsocomple_thatwearegoingtoneedarmiesofpeoplecomingtogethertosolvethemworkingtogether.butiamsayingthatthemorefreedomthatwegiveintrovertstobethemselves,themorelikelythattheyaretocomeupwiththeirownuniquesolutionstotheseproblems.

现在没有谁能够说社交技能是不重要的并且我也不是想呼吁大家废除团队合作模式但仍是相同的宗教,却把他们的圣人送到了孤独的山顶上仍然教导我们爱与信任还有我们今天所要面对的问题像是在科学和经济领域是如此的巨大和复杂以至于我们需要人们强有力地团结起来共同解决这些问题但是我想说,越给内向者自由让他们做自己他们就做得越好去想出他们独特的关于问题的解决办法

sonowi'dliketosharewithyouwhat'sinmysuitcasetoday.guesswhat?books.ihaveasuitcasefullofbooks.here'smargaretatwood,"cat'seye."here'sanovelbymilankundera.andhere's"theguidefortheperple_ed"bymaimonides.butthesearenote_actlymybooks.ibroughtthesebookswithmebecausetheywerewrittenbymygrandfather'sfavoriteauthors.

所以现在我很高兴同你们分享我手提箱中的东西猜猜是什么?书我有一个手提箱里面装满了书这是玛格丽特·阿特伍德的《猫的眼睛》这是一本米兰·昆德拉的书这是一本《迷途指津》是迈蒙尼德写的但这些实际上都不是我的书我还是带着它们,陪伴着我因为它们都是我祖父最喜爱的作家所写

mygrandfatherwasarabbiandhewasawidowerwholivedaloneinasmallapartmentinbrooklynthatwasmyfavoriteplaceintheworldwheniwasgrowingup,partlybecauseitwasfilledwithhisverygentle,verycourtlypresenceandpartlybecauseitwasfilledwithbooks.imeanliterallyeverytable,everychairinthisapartmenthadyieldeditsoriginalfunctiontonowserveasasurfaceforswayingstacksofbooks.justliketherestofmyfamily,mygrandfather'sfavoritethingtodointhewholeworldwastoread.

我的祖父是一名犹太教祭司他独身一人在布鲁克林的一间小公寓中居住那里是我从小到大在这个世界上最喜爱的地方部分原因是他有着非常温和亲切的,温文尔雅的举止部分原因是那里充满了书我的意思是,毫不夸张地说,公寓中的每张桌子,每张椅子都充分应用着它原有的功能就是现在作为承载一大堆都在摇曳的书的表面就像我其他的家庭成员一样我祖父在这个世界上最喜欢做的事情就是阅读

buthealsolovedhiscongregation,andyoucouldfeelthisloveinthesermonsthathegaveeveryweekforthe62yearsthathewasarabbi.hewouldtakesthefruitsofeachweek'sreadingandhewouldweavetheseintricatetapestriesofancientandhumanistthought.andpeoplewouldcomefromallovertohearhimspeak.

但是他同样也热爱他的宗教并且你们可以从他的讲述中感觉到他这种爱这62年来每周他都作为一名犹太教的祭司他会从每周的阅读中汲取养分并且他会编织这些错综复杂的古代和人文主义的思想的挂毯并且人们会从各个地方前来听他的讲话

buthere'sthethingaboutmygrandfather.underneaththisceremonialrole,hewasreallymodestandreallyintroverted--somuchsothatwhenhedeliveredthesesermons,hehadtroublemakingeyecontactwiththeverysamecongregationthathehadbeenspeakingtofor62years.andevenawayfromthepodium,whenyoucalledhimtosayhello,hewouldoftenendtheconversationprematurelyforfearthathewastakinguptoomuchofyourtime.butwhenhediedattheageof94,thepolicehadtoclosedownthestreetsofhisneighborhoodtoaccommodatethecrowdofpeoplewhocameouttomournhim.andsothesedaysitrytolearnfrommygrandfather'se_ampleinmyownway.

但是有这么一件关于我祖父的事情在这个正式的角色下隐藏着他是一个非常谦虚的非常内向的人是那么的谦虚内向以至于当他在向人们讲述的时候他都不敢有视线上的接触和同样的教堂会众他已经发言有62年了甚至都还远离领奖台当你们让他说“你好”的时候他总会提早结束这对话担心他会占用你太多的时间但是当他94岁去世的时候警察们需要封锁他所居住的街道邻里来容纳拥挤的人们前来哀悼他的人们这些天来我都试着从我祖父的事例中学习以我自己的方式

soijustpublishedabookaboutintroversion,andittookmeaboutsevenyearstowrite.andforme,thatsevenyearswasliketotalbliss,becauseiwasreading,iwaswriting,iwasthinking,iwasresearching.itwasmyversionofmygrandfather'shoursofthedayaloneinhislibrary.butnowallofasuddenmyjobisverydifferent,andmyjobistobeoutheretalkingaboutit,talkingaboutintroversion.(laughter)andthat'salotharderforme,becauseashonoredasiamtobeherewithallofyourightnow,thisisnotmynaturalmilieu.

所以我就出版了一本关于内向性格的书它花了我7年的时间完成它而对我来说,这七年像是一种极大的喜悦因为我在阅读,我在写作我在思考,我在探寻这是我的版本对于爷爷一天中几个小时都要独自待在图书馆这件事但是现在突然间我的工作变得很不同了我的工作变成了站在这里讲述它讲述内向的性格(笑声)而且这对于我来说是有一点困难的因为我很荣幸在现在被你们所有人所倾听这可不是我自然的文化背景

soipreparedformomentsliketheseasbesticould.ispentthelastyearpracticingpublicspeakingeverychanceicouldget.andicallthismy"yearofspeakingdangerously."(laughter)andthatactuallyhelpedalot.buti'lltellyou,whathelpsevenmoreismysense,mybelief,myhopethatwhenitcomestoourattitudestointroversionandtoquietandtosolitude,wetrulyarepoisedonthebrinkondramaticchange.imean,weare.andsoiamgoingtoleaveyounowwiththreecallsforactionforthosewhosharethisvision.

所以我准备了一会就像这样以我所能做到的最好的方式我花了最近一年的时间练习在公共场合发言在我能得到的每一个机会中我把这一年称作我的“危险地发言的一年”(笑声)而且它的确帮了我很大的忙但是我要告诉你们一个帮我更大的忙的事情那就是我的感觉,我的信仰,我的希望当谈及我们态度的时候对于内向性格的,对于安静,对于独处的态度时我们确实是在急剧变化的边缘上保持微妙的平衡我的意思是,我们在保持平衡现在我将要给你们留下一些东西三件对于你们的行动有帮助的事情献给那些观看我的演讲的人

numberone:stopthemadnessforconstantgroupwork.juststopit.(laughter)thankyou.(applause)andiwanttobeclearaboutwhati'msaying,becauseideeplybelieveourofficesshouldbeencouragingcasual,chattycafe-styletypesofinteractions--youknow,thekindwherepeoplecometogetherandserendipitouslyhaveane_changeofideas.thatisgreat.it'sgreatforintrovertsandit'sgreatfore_troverts.butweneedmuchmoreprivacyandmuchmorefreedomandmuchmoreautonomyatwork.school,samething.weneedtobeteachingkidstoworktogether,forsure,butwealsoneedtobeteachingthemhowtoworkontheirown.thisisespeciallyimportantfore_trovertedchildrentoo.theyneedtoworkontheirownbecausethatiswheredeepthoughtcomesfrominpart.

第一:停止对于经常要团队协作的执迷与疯狂停止它就好了(笑声)谢谢你们(掌声)我想让我所说的事情变得清晰一些因为我对于我们的办公深信不疑应该鼓励它们那种休闲随意的,聊天似的咖啡厅式的相互作用--你们知道的,道不同不相为谋,人们聚到一起并且互相交换着宝贵的意见这是很棒的这对于内向者很好,同样对于外向者也好但是我们需要更多的隐私和更多的自由还有更多对于我们本身工作的自主权对于学校,也是同样的。我们当然需要教会孩子们要一起学习工作但是我们同样需要教会孩子们怎么样独立完成任务这对于外向的孩子们来说同样是极为重要的他们需要独立完成工作因为从某种程度上,这是他们深刻思考的来源

okay,numbertwo:gotothewilderness.belikebuddha,haveyourownrevelations.i'mnotsayingthatweallhavetonowgooffandbuildourowncabinsinthewoodsandnevertalktoeachotheragain,butiamsayingthatwecouldallstandtounplugandgetinsideourownheadsalittlemoreoften.

好了,第二个:去到野外(打开思维)就像佛祖一样,拥有你们自己对于事物的揭示启迪我并不是说我们都要跑去小树林里建造我们自己的小屋并且之后就永远不和别人说话了但是我要说我们都可以坚持去去除一些障碍物然后深入我们自己的大脑思想时不时得再深入一点

numberthree:takeagoodlookatwhat'sinsideyourownsuitcaseandwhyyouputitthere.soe_troverts,maybeyoursuitcasesarealsofullofbooks.ormaybethey'refullofchampagneglassesorskydivingequipment.whateveritis,ihopeyoutakethesethingsouteverychanceyougetandgraceuswithyourenergyandyourjoy.butintroverts,youbeingyou,youprobablyhavetheimpulsetoguardverycarefullywhat'sinsideyourownsuitcase.andthat'sokay.butoccasionally,justoccasionally,ihopeyouwillopenupyoursuitcasesforotherpeopletosee,becausetheworldneedsyouanditneedsthethingsyoucarry.

第三点:好好看一眼你的旅行箱内有什么东西还有你为什么把它放进去所以外向者们也许你们的箱子内同样堆满了书或者它们装满了香槟的玻璃酒杯或者是跳伞运动的设备不管它是什么,我希望每当你们有机会你们就把它拿出来用你的能量和你的快乐让我们感受到美和享受但是内向者们,你们作为内向者你们很可能有仔细保护一切的冲动在你箱子里的东西这没有问题但是偶尔地,只是说偶尔地我希望你们可以打开你们的手提箱,让别人看一看因为这个世界需要你们,同样需要你们身上所携带的你们特有的事物

soiwishyouthebestofallpossiblejourneysandthecouragetospeaksoftly.

所以对于你们即将走上的所有旅程,我都给予你们我最美好的祝愿还有温柔地说话的勇气

thankyou.thankyou.

非常感谢你们!

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wheniwasnineyearsoldiwentofftosummercampforthefirsttime.andmymotherpackedmeasuitcasefullofbooks,whichtomeseemedlikeaperfectlynaturalthingtodo.becauseinmyfamily,readingwastheprimarygroupactivity.andthismightsoundantisocialtoyou,butforusitwasreallyjustadifferentwayofbeingsocial.youhavetheanimalwarmthofyourfamilysittingrightne_ttoyou,butyouarealsofreetogoroamingaroundtheadventurelandinsideyourownmind.andihadthisideathatcampwasgoingtobejustlikethis,butbetter.(laughter)ihadavisionof10girlssittinginacabincozilyreadingbooksintheirmatchingnightgowns.

(laughter)

campwasmorelikeakegpartywithoutanyalcohol.andontheveryfirstdayourcounselorgatheredusalltogetherandshetaughtusacheerthatshesaidwewouldbedoingeverydayfortherestofthesummertoinstillcampspirit.anditwentlikethis:"r-o-w-d-i-e,that'sthewaywespellrowdie.rowdie,rowdie,let'sgetrowdie."yeah.soicouldn'tfigureoutforthelifeofmewhyweweresupposedtobesorowdy,orwhywehadtospellthiswordincorrectly.(laughter)butirecitedacheer.irecitedacheeralongwitheverybodyelse.ididmybest.andijustwaitedforthetimethaticouldgooffandreadmybooks.

butthefirsttimethatitookmybookoutofmysuitcase,thecoolestgirlinthebunkcameuptomeandsheaskedme,"whyareyoubeingsomellow?"--mellow,ofcourse,beingthee_actoppositeofr-o-w-d-i-e.andthenthesecondtimeitriedit,thecounselorcameuptomewithaconcernede_pressiononherfaceandsherepeatedthepointaboutcampspiritandsaidweshouldallworkveryhardtobeoutgoing.

andsoiputmybooksaway,backintheirsuitcase,andiputthemundermybed,andtheretheystayedfortherestofthesummer.andifeltkindofguiltyaboutthis.ifeltasifthebooksneededmesomehow,andtheywerecallingouttomeandiwasforsakingthem.butididforsakethemandididn'topenthatsuitcaseagainuntiliwasbackhomewithmyfamilyattheendofthesummer.

now,itellyouthisstoryaboutsummercamp.icouldhavetoldyou50othersjustlikeit--allthetimesthatigotthemessagethatsomehowmyquietandintrovertedstyleofbeingwasnotnecessarilytherightwaytogo,thatishouldbetryingtopassasmoreofane_trovert.andialwayssenseddeepdownthatthiswaswrongandthatintrovertswereprettye_cellentjustastheywere.butforyearsideniedthisintuition,andsoibecameawallstreetlawyer,ofallthings,insteadofthewriterthatihadalwayslongedtobe--partlybecauseineededtoprovetomyselfthaticouldbeboldandassertivetoo.andiwasalwaysgoingofftocrowdedbarswhenireallywouldhavepreferredtojusthaveanicedinnerwithfriends.andimadetheseself-negatingchoicessorefle_ively,thatiwasn'tevenawarethatiwasmakingthem.

nowthisiswhatmanyintrovertsdo,andit'sourlossforsure,butitisalsoourcolleagues'lossandourcommunities'loss.andattheriskofsoundinggrandiose,itistheworld'sloss.becausewhenitcomestocreativityandtoleadership,weneedintrovertsdoingwhattheydobest.athirdtoahalfofthepopulationareintroverts--athirdtoahalf.sothat'soneoutofeverytwoorthreepeopleyouknow.soevenifyou'reane_trovertyourself,i'mtalkingaboutyourcoworkersandyourspousesandyourchildrenandthepersonsittingne_ttoyourightnow--allofthemsubjecttothisbiasthatisprettydeepandrealinoursociety.weallinternalizeitfromaveryearlyagewithoutevenhavingalanguageforwhatwe'redoing.

nowtoseethebiasclearlyyouneedtounderstandwhatintroversionis.it'sdifferentfrombeingshy.shynessisaboutfearofsocialjudgment.introversionismoreabout,howdoyourespondtostimulation,includingsocialstimulation.soe_trovertsreallycravelargeamountsofstimulation,whereasintrovertsfeelattheirmostaliveandtheirmostswitched-onandtheirmostcapablewhenthey'reinquieter,morelow-keyenvironments.notallthetime--thesethingsaren'tabsolute--butalotofthetime.sothekeythentoma_imizingourtalentsisforusalltoputourselvesinthezoneofstimulationthatisrightforus.

butnowhere'swherethebiascomesin.ourmostimportantinstitutions,ourschoolsandourworkplaces,theyaredesignedmostlyfore_trovertsandfore_troverts'needforlotsofstimulation.andalsowehavethisbeliefsystemrightnowthaticallthenewgroupthink,whichholdsthatallcreativityandallproductivitycomesfromaveryoddlygregariousplace.

soifyoupicturethetypicalclassroomnowadays:wheniwasgoingtoschool,wesatinrows.wesatinrowsofdeskslikethis,andwedidmostofourworkprettyautonomously.butnowadays,yourtypicalclassroomhaspodsofdesks--fourorfiveorsi_orsevenkidsallfacingeachother.andkidsareworkingincountlessgroupassignments.eveninsubjectslikemathandcreativewriting,whichyouthinkwoulddependonsoloflightsofthought,kidsarenowe_pectedtoactascommitteemembers.andforthekidswhoprefertogooffbythemselvesorjusttoworkalone,thosekidsareseenasoutliersoftenor,worse,asproblemcases.andthevastmajorityofteachersreportsbelievingthattheidealstudentisane_trovertasopposedtoanintrovert,eventhoughintrovertsactuallygetbettergradesandaremoreknowledgeable,accordingtoresearch.(laughter)

okay,samethingistrueinourworkplaces.now,mostofusworkinopenplanoffices,withoutwalls,wherewearesubjecttotheconstantnoiseandgazeofourcoworkers.andwhenitcomestoleadership,introvertsareroutinelypassedoverforleadershippositions,eventhoughintrovertstendtobeverycareful,muchlesslikelytotakeoutsizerisks--whichissomethingwemightallfavornowadays.andinterestingresearchbyadamgrantatthewhartonschoolhasfoundthatintrovertedleadersoftendeliverbetteroutcomesthane_trovertsdo,becausewhentheyaremanagingproactiveemployees,they'remuchmorelikelytoletthoseemployeesrunwiththeirideas,whereasane_trovertcan,quiteunwittingly,getsoe_citedaboutthingsthatthey'reputtingtheirownstamponthings,andotherpeople'sideasmightnotaseasilythenbubbleuptothesurface.

nowinfact,someofourtransformativeleadersinhistoryhavebeenintroverts.i'llgiveyousomee_amples.eleanorroosevelt,rosaparks,gandhi--allthesepeopleddescribedthemselvesasquietandsoft-spokenandevenshy.andtheyalltookthespotlight,eventhougheveryboneintheirbodieswastellingthemnotto.andthisturnsouttohaveaspecialpowerallitsown,becausepeoplecouldfeelthattheseleaderswereatthehelm,notbecausetheyenjoyeddirectingothersandnotoutofthepleasureofbeinglookedat;theyweretherebecausetheyhadnochoice,becausetheyweredriventodowhattheythoughtwasright.

nowithinkatthispointit'simportantformetosaythatiactuallylovee_troverts.ialwaysliketosaysomeofmybestfriendsaree_troverts,includingmybelovedhusband.andweallfallatdifferentpoints,ofcourse,alongtheintrovert/e_trovertspectrum.evencarljung,thepsychologistwhofirstpopularizedtheseterms,saidthatthere'snosuchthingasapureintrovertorapuree_trovert.hesaidthatsuchamanwouldbeinalunaticasylum,ifhee_istedatall.andsomepeoplefallsmackinthemiddleoftheintrovert/e_trovertspectrum,andwecallthesepeopleambiverts.andioftenthinkthattheyhavethebestofallworlds.butmanyofusdorecognizeourselvesasonetypeortheother.

andwhati'msayingisthatculturallyweneedamuchbetterbalance.weneedmoreofayinandyangbetweenthesetwotypes.thisisespeciallyimportantwhenitcomestocreativityandtoproductivity,becausewhenpsychologistslookatthelivesofthemostcreativepeople,whattheyfindarepeoplewhoareverygoodate_changingideasandadvancingideas,butwhoalsohaveaseriousstreakofintroversioninthem.

andthisisbecausesolitudeisacrucialingredientoftentocreativity.sodarwin,hetooklongwalksaloneinthewoodsandemphaticallyturneddowndinnerpartyinvitations.theodorgeisel,betterknownasdr.seuss,hedreamedupmanyofhisamazingcreationsinalonelybelltowerofficethathehadinthebackofhishouseinlajolla,california.andhewasactuallyafraidtomeettheyoungchildrenwhoreadhisbooksforfearthattheyweree_pectinghimthiskindofjollysantaclaus-likefigureandwouldbedisappointedwithhismorereservedpersona.stevewozniakinventedthefirstapplecomputersittingaloneinhiscubicalinhewlett-packardwherehewasworkingatthetime.andhesaysthatheneverwouldhavebecomesuchane_pertinthefirstplacehadhenotbeentoointrovertedtoleavethehousewhenhewasgrowingup.

nowofcourse,thisdoesnotmeanthatweshouldallstopcollaborating--andcaseinpoint,isstevewozniakfamouslycomingtogetherwithstevejobstostartapplecomputer--butitdoesmeanthatsolitudemattersandthatforsomepeopleitistheairthattheybreathe.andinfact,wehaveknownforcenturiesaboutthetranscendentpowerofsolitude.it'sonlyrecentlythatwe'vestrangelybeguntoforgetit.ifyoulookatmostoftheworld'smajorreligions,youwillfindseekers--moses,jesus,buddha,muhammad--seekerswhoaregoingoffbythemselvesalonetothewildernesswheretheythenhaveprofoundepiphaniesandrevelationsthattheythenbringbacktotherestofthecommunity.sonowilderness,norevelations.

thisisnosurprisethoughifyoulookattheinsightsofcontemporarypsychology.itturnsoutthatwecan'tevenbeinagroupofpeoplewithoutinstinctivelymirroring,mimickingtheiropinions.evenaboutseeminglypersonalandvisceralthingslikewhoyou'reattractedto,youwillstartapingthebeliefsofthepeoplearoundyouwithoutevenrealizingthatthat'swhatyou'redoing.

andgroupsfamouslyfollowtheopinionsofthemostdominantorcharismaticpersonintheroom,eventhoughthere'szerocorrelationbetweenbeingthebesttalkerandhavingthebestideas--imeanzero.so...(laughter)youmightbefollowingthepersonwiththebestideas,butyoumightnot.anddoyoureallywanttoleaveituptochance?muchbetterforeverybodytogooffbythemselves,generatetheirownideasfreedfromthedistortionsofgroupdynamics,andthencometogetherasateamtotalkthemthroughinawell-managedenvironmentandtakeitfromthere.

nowifallthisistrue,thenwhyarewegettingitsowrong?whyarewesettingupourschoolsthiswayandourworkplaces?andwhyarewemakingtheseintrovertsfeelsoguiltyaboutwantingtojustgooffbythemselvessomeofthetime?oneanswerliesdeepinourculturalhistory.westernsocieties,andinparticulartheu.s.,havealwaysfavoredthemanofactionoverthemanofcontemplationand"man"ofcontemplation.butinamerica'searlydays,welivedinwhathistorianscallacultureofcharacter,wherewestill,atthatpoint,valuedpeoplefortheirinnerselvesandtheirmoralrectitude.andifyoulookattheself-helpbooksfromthisera,theyallhadtitleswiththingslike"character,thegrandestthingintheworld."andtheyfeaturedrolemodelslikeabrahamlincolnwhowaspraisedforbeingmodestandunassuming.ralphwaldoemersoncalledhim"amanwhodoesnotoffendbysuperiority."

butthenwehitthe20thcenturyandweenteredanewculturethathistorianscallthecultureofpersonality.whathappenediswehadevolvedanagriculturaleconomytoaworldofbigbusiness.andsosuddenlypeoplearemovingfromsmalltownstothecities.andinsteadofworkingalongsidepeoplethey'veknownalltheirlives,nowtheyarehavingtoprovethemselvesinacrowdofstrangers.so,quiteunderstandably,qualitieslikemagnetismandcharismasuddenlycometoseemreallyimportant.andsureenough,theself-helpbookschangetomeetthesenewneedsandtheystarttohavenameslike"howtowinfriendsandinfluencepeople."andtheyfeatureastheirrolemodelsreallygreatsalesmen.sothat'stheworldwe'relivingintoday.that'sourculturalinheritance.

nownoneofthisistosaythatsocialskillsareunimportant,andi'malsonotcallingfortheabolishingofteamworkatall.thesamereligionswhosendtheirsagesofftolonelymountaintopsalsoteachusloveandtrust.andtheproblemsthatwearefacingtodayinfieldslikescienceandineconomicsaresovastandsocomple_thatwearegoingtoneedarmiesofpeoplecomingtogethertosolvethemworkingtogether.butiamsayingthatthemorefreedomthatwegiveintrovertstobethemselves,themorelikelythattheyaretocomeupwiththeirownuniquesolutionstotheseproblems.

sonowi'dliketosharewithyouwhat'sinmysuitcasetoday.guesswhat?books.ihaveasuitcasefullofbooks.here'smargaretatwood,"cat'seye."here'sanovelbymilankundera.andhere's"theguidefortheperple_ed"bymaimonides.butthesearenote_actlymybooks.ibroughtthesebookswithmebecausetheywerewrittenbymygrandfather'sfavoriteauthors.

mygrandfatherwasarabbiandhewasawidowerwholivedaloneinasmallapartmentinbrooklynthatwasmyfavoriteplaceintheworldwheniwasgrowingup,partlybecauseitwasfilledwithhisverygentle,verycourtlypresenceandpartlybecauseitwasfilledwithbooks.imeanliterallyeverytable,everychairinthisapartmenthadyieldeditsoriginalfunctiontonowserveasasurfaceforswayingstacksofbooks.justliketherestofmyfamily,mygrandfather'sfavoritethingtodointhewholeworldwastoread.

buthealsolovedhiscongregation,andyoucouldfeelthisloveinthesermonsthathegaveeveryweekforthe62yearsthathewasarabbi.hewouldtakesthefruitsofeachweek'sreadingandhewouldweavetheseintricatetapestriesofancientandhumanistthought.andpeoplewouldcomefromallovertohearhimspeak.

buthere'sthethingaboutmygrandfather.underneaththisceremonialrole,hewasreallymodestandreallyintroverted--somuchsothatwhenhedeliveredthesesermons,hehadtroublemakingeyecontactwiththeverysamecongregationthathehadbeenspeakingtofor62years.andevenawayfromthepodium,whenyoucalledhimtosayhello,hewouldoftenendtheconversationprematurelyforfearthathewastakinguptoomuchofyourtime.butwhenhediedattheageof94,thepolicehadtoclosedownthestreetsofhisneighborhoodtoaccommodatethecrowdofpeoplewhocameouttomournhim.andsothesedaysitrytolearnfrommygrandfather'se_ampleinmyownway.

soijustpublishedabookaboutintroversion,andittookmeaboutsevenyearstowrite.andforme,thatsevenyearswasliketotalbliss,becauseiwasreading,iwaswriting,iwasthinking,iwasresearching.itwasmyversionofmygrandfather'shoursofthedayaloneinhislibrary.butnowallofasuddenmyjobisverydifferent,andmyjobistobeoutheretalkingaboutit,talkingaboutintroversion.(laughter)andthat'salotharderforme,becauseashonoredasiamtobeherewithallofyourightnow,thisisnotmynaturalmilieu.

soipreparedformomentsliketheseasbesticould.ispentthelastyearpracticingpublicspeakingeverychanceicouldget.andicallthismy"yearofspeakingdangerously."(laughter)andthatactuallyhelpedalot.buti'lltellyou,whathelpsevenmoreismysense,mybelief,myhopethatwhenitcomestoourattitudestointroversionandtoquietandtosolitude,wetrulyarepoisedonthebrinkondramaticchange.imean,weare.andsoiamgoingtoleaveyounowwiththreecallsforactionforthosewhosharethisvision.

numberone:stopthemadnessforconstantgroupwork.juststopit.(laughter)thankyou.(applause)andiwanttobeclearaboutwhati'msaying,becauseideeplybelieveourofficesshouldbeencouragingcasual,chattycafe-styletypesofinteractions--youknow,thekindwherepeoplecometogetherandserendipitouslyhaveane_changeofideas.thatisgreat.it'sgreatforintrovertsandit'sgreatfore_troverts.butweneedmuchmoreprivacyandmuchmorefreedomandmuchmoreautonomyatwork.school,samething.weneedtobeteachingkidstoworktogether,forsure,butwealsoneedtobeteachingthemhowtoworkontheirown.thisisespeciallyimportantfore_trovertedchildrentoo.theyneedtoworkontheirownbecausethatiswheredeepthoughtcomesfrominpart.

okay,numbertwo:gotothewilderness.belikebuddha,haveyourownrevelations.i'mnotsayingthatweallhavetonowgooffandbuildourowncabinsinthewoodsandnevertalktoeachotheragain,butiamsayingthatwecouldallstandtounplugandgetinsideourownheadsalittlemoreoften.

numberthree:takeagoodlookatwhat'sinsideyourownsuitcaseandwhyyouputitthere.soe_troverts,maybeyoursuitcasesarealsofullofbooks.ormaybethey'refullofchampagneglassesorskydivingequipment.whateveritis,ihopeyoutakethesethingsouteverychanceyougetandgraceuswithyourenergyandyourjoy.butintroverts,youbeingyou,youprobablyhavetheimpulsetoguardverycarefullywhat'sinsideyourownsuitcase.andthat'sokay.butoccasionally,justoccasionally,ihopeyouwillopenupyoursuitcasesforotherpeopletosee,becausetheworldneedsyouanditneedsthethingsyoucarry.

soiwishyouthebestofallpossiblejourneysandthecouragetospeaksoftly.

thankyouverymuch.

(applause)

thankyou.thankyou.

2024ted演讲稿篇4

inafunny,rapid-fire4minutes,ale_isohanianofreddittellsthereal-lifefableofonehumpbackwhale'srisetowebstardom.thelessonofmistersplashypantsisashoo-inclassicformeme-makersandmarketersinthefacebookage.

这段有趣的4分钟演讲,来自reddit网站创始人ale_isohanian。他讲了一个座头鲸在网上一夜成名的真实故事。“溅水先生”的故事是脸书时代米姆(小编注:根据《牛津英语词典》,meme被定义为:“文化的基本单位,通过非遗传的方式,特别是模仿而得到传递。”)制造者和传播者共同创造的经典案例。

演讲的开头,ale_isohanian介绍了“溅水先生”的故事。“绿色和平”环保组织为了阻止日本的捕鲸行为,在一只鲸鱼体内植入新片,并发起一个为这只座头鲸起名的活动。“绿色和平”组织希望起低调奢华有内涵的名字,但经过reddit的宣传和推动,票数最多的却是非常不高大上的“溅水先生”这个名字。经过几番折腾,“绿色和平”接受了这个名字,并且这一行动成功阻止了日本捕鲸活动。

演讲内容节选(ale_ohanian从社交网络的角度分析这个事件)

andactually,redditorsintheinternetcommunitywerehappytoparticipate,buttheyweren'twhalelovers.afewofthemcertainlywere.butwe'retalkingaboutalotofpeoplewhowerejustreallyinterestedandreallycaughtupinthisgreatmeme,andinfactsomeonefromgreenpeacecamebackonthesiteandthankedredditforitsparticipation.butthiswasn'treallyoutofaltruism.thiswasjustoutofinterestindoingsomethingcool.

事实上,reddit的社区用户们很高兴参与其中,但他们并非是鲸鱼爱好者。当然,他们中的一小部分或许是。我们看到的是一群人积极地去参与到这个米姆(社会活动)中,实际上“绿色和平”中的人登陆,感谢大家的参与。网友们这么做并非是完全的利他主义。他们只是觉得做这件事很酷。

andthisiskindofhowtheinternetworks.thisisthatgreatbigsecret.becausetheinternetprovidesthislevelplayingfield.yourlinkisjustasgoodasyourlink,whichisjustasgoodasmylink.aslongaswehaveabrowser,anyonecangettoanywebsitenomatterhowbigabudgetyouhave.

这就是互联网的运作方式。这就是我说的秘密。因为互联网提供的是一个机会均等平台。你分享的链接跟他分享的链接一样有趣,我分享的链接也不赖。只要我们有一个浏览器,不论你的财富几何,你都可以去到想浏览的页面。

theotherimportantthingisthatitcostsnothingtogetthatcontentonlinenow.therearesomanygreatpublishingtoolsthatareavailable,itonlytakesafewminutesofyourtimenowtoactuallyproducesomething.andthecostofiterationissocheapthatyoumightaswellgiveitago.

另外,从互联网获取内容不需要任何成本。如今,互联网有各种各样的发布工具,你只需要几分钟就可以成为内容的提供者。这种行为的成本非常低,你也可以试试。

andifyoudo,begenuineaboutit.behonest.beupfront.andoneofthegreatlessonsthatgreenpeaceactuallylearnedwasthatit'sokaytolosecontrol.thefinalmessagethatiwanttosharewithallofyou--thatyoucandowellonline.ifyouwanttosucceedyou'vegottobeokaytojustlosecontrol.thankyou.

如果你真的决定试试,那么请真挚、诚实、坦率地去做。“绿色和平”在这个故事中获得的教训是,有时候失控并不一定是坏事。最后我想告诉你们的是——你可以在网络上做得很好。如果你想在网络上成功,你得经得起一点失控。谢谢。

2024ted演讲稿篇5

拥抱他人,拥抱自己

embracingotherness.whenifirstheardthistheme,ithought,well,embracingothernessisembracingmyself.andthejourneytothatplaceofunderstandingandacceptancehasbeenaninterestingoneforme,andit'sgivenmeaninsightintothewholenotionofself,whichithinkisworthsharingwithyoutoday.

拥抱他类。当我第一次听说这个主题时,我心想,拥抱他类不就是拥抱自己吗。我个人懂得理解和接受他类的经历很有趣,让我对于“自己”这个词也有了新的认识,我想今天在这里和你们分享下我的心得体会。

weeachhaveaself,butidon'tthinkthatwe'rebornwithone.youknowhownewbornbabiesbelievethey'repartofeverything;they'renotseparate?wellthatfundamentalsenseofonenessislostonusveryquickly.it'slikethatinitialstageisover--oneness:infancy,unformed,primitive.it'snolongervalidorreal.whatisrealisseparateness,andatsomepointinearlybabyhood,theideaofselfstartstoform.ourlittleportionofonenessisgivenaname,istoldallkindsofthingsaboutitself,andthesedetails,opinionsandideasbecomefacts,whichgotowardsbuildingourselves,ouridentity.andthatselfbecomesthevehiclefornavigatingoursocialworld.buttheselfisaprojectionbasedonotherpeople'sprojections.isitwhowereallyare?orwhowereallywanttobe,orshouldbe?

我们每个人都有个自我,但并不是生来就如此的。你知道新生的宝宝们觉得他们是任何东西的一部分,而不是分裂的个体。这种本源上的“天人合一”感在我们出生后很快就不见了,就好像我们人生的第一个篇章--和谐统一:婴儿,未成形,原始--结束了。它们似幻似影,而现实的世界是孤独彼此分离的。而在孩童期的某段时间,我们开始形成自我这个观点。宇宙中的小小个体有了自己的名字,有了自己的过去等等各种信息。这些关于自己的细节,看法和观点慢慢变成事实,成为我们身份的一部分。而那个自我,也变成我们人生路上前行的导航仪。然后,这个所谓的自我,是他人自我的映射,还是我们真实的自己呢?我们究竟想成为什么样,应该成为什么样的呢?

sothiswholeinteractionwithselfandidentitywasaverydifficultoneformegrowingup.theselfthatiattemptedtotakeoutintotheworldwasrejectedoverandoveragain.andmypanicatnothavingaselfthatfit,andtheconfusionthatcamefrommyselfbeingrejected,createdan_iety,shameandhopelessness,whichkindofdefinedmeforalongtime.butinretrospect,thedestructionofmyselfwassorepetitivethatistartedtoseeapattern.theselfchanged,gotaffected,broken,destroyed,butanotheronewouldevolve--sometimesstronger,sometimeshateful,sometimesnotwantingtobethereatall.theselfwasnotconstant.andhowmanytimeswouldmyselfhavetodiebeforeirealizedthatitwasneveraliveinthefirstplace?

这个和自我打交道,寻找自己身份的过程在我的成长记忆中一点都不容易。我想成为的那些“自我”不断被否定再否定,而我害怕自己无法融入周遭的环境,因被否定而引起的困惑让我变得更加忧虑,感到羞耻和无望,在很长一段时间就是我存在状态。然而回头看,对自我的解构是那么频繁,以至于我发现了这样一种规律。自我是变化的,受他人影响,分裂或被打败,而另一个自我会产生,这个自我可能更坚强,可能更可憎,有时你也不想变成那样。所谓自我不是固定不变的。而我需要经历多少次自我的破碎重生才会明白其实自我从来没有存在过?

igrewuponthecoastofenglandinthe'70s.mydadiswhitefromcornwall,andmymomisblackfromzimbabwe.eventheideaofusasafamilywaschallengingtomostpeople.butnaturehaditswickedway,andbrownbabieswereborn.butfromabouttheageoffive,iwasawarethatididn'tfit.iwastheblackatheistkidintheall-whitecatholicschoolrunbynuns.iwasananomaly,andmyselfwasrootingaroundfordefinitionandtryingtoplugin.becausetheselflikestofit,toseeitselfreplicated,tobelong.thatconfirmsitse_istenceanditsimportance.anditisimportant.ithasane_tremelyimportantfunction.withoutit,weliterallycan'tinterfacewithothers.wecan'thatchplansandclimbthatstairwayofpopularity,ofsuccess.butmyskincolorwasn'tright.myhairwasn'tright.myhistorywasn'tright.myselfbecamedefinedbyotherness,whichmeantthat,inthatsocialworld,ididn'treallye_ist.andiwas"other"beforebeinganythingelse--evenbeforebeingagirl.iwasanoticeablenobody.

我在70年代英格兰海边长大,我的父亲是康沃尔的白人,母亲是津巴布韦的黑人。而想象我和父母是一家人对于其他人来说总是不太自然。自然有它自己的魔术,棕色皮肤的宝宝诞生了。但从我五岁开始,我就有种感觉我不是这个群体的。我是一个全白人天主教会学校里面黑皮肤无神论小孩。我与他人是不同的,而那个热衷于归属的自我却到处寻找方式寻找归属感。这种认同感让自我感受到存在感和重要性,因此十分重要。这点是如此重要,如果没有自我,我们根本无法与他人沟通。没有它,我们无所适从,无法获取成功或变得受人欢迎。但我的肤色不对,我的头发不对,我的过去不对,我的一切都是另类定义的,在这个社会里,我其实并不真实存在。我首先是个异类,其次才是个女孩。我是可见却毫无意义的人。

anotherworldwasopeninguparoundthistime:performanceanddancing.thatnaggingdreadofself-hooddidn'te_istwheniwasdancing.i'dliterallylosemyself.andiwasareallygooddancer.iwouldputallmyemotionale_pressionintomydancing.icouldbeinthemovementinawaythatiwasn'tabletobeinmyreallife,inmyself.

这时候,另一个世界向我敞开了大门:舞蹈表演。那种关于自我的唠叨恐惧在舞蹈时消失了,我放开四肢,也成为了一位不错的舞者。我将所有的情绪都融入到舞蹈的动作中去,我可以在舞蹈中与自己相溶,尽管在现实生活中却无法做到。

andat16,istumbledacrossanotheropportunity,andiearnedmyfirstactingroleinafilm.icanhardlyfindthewordstodescribethepeaceifeltwheniwasacting.mydysfunctionalselfcouldactuallyplugintoanotherself,notmyown,anditfeltsogood.itwasthefirsttimethatie_istedinsideafully-functioningself--onethaticontrolled,thatisteered,thatigavelifeto.buttheshootingdaywouldend,andi'dreturntomygnarly,awkwardself.

16岁的时候,我遇到了另一个机会,第一部参演的电影。我无法用语言来表达在演戏的时候我所感受到的平和,我无处着落的自我可以与那个角色融为一体,而不是我自己。那感觉真棒。这是第一次我感觉到我拥有一个自我,我可以驾驭,令其富有盛名的自我。然而当拍摄结束,我又会回到自己粗糙不明,笨拙的自我。

by19,iwasafully-fledgedmovieactor,butstillsearchingfordefinition.iappliedtoreadanthropologyatuniversity.dr.phyllisleegavememyinterview,andsheaskedme,"howwouldyoudefinerace?"well,ithoughtihadtheanswertothatone,andisaid,"skincolor.""sobiology,genetics?"shesaid."because,thandie,that'snotaccurate.becausethere'sactuallymoregeneticdifferencebetweenablackkenyanandablackugandanthanthereisbetweenablackkenyanand,say,awhitenorwegian.becauseweallstemfromafrica.soinafrica,there'sbeenmoretimetocreategeneticdiversity."inotherwords,racehasnobasisinbiologicalorscientificfact.ontheonehand,result.right?ontheotherhand,mydefinitionofselfjustlostahugechunkofitscredibility.butwhatwascredible,whatisbiologicalandscientificfact,isthatweallstemfromafrica--infact,fromawomancalledmitochondrialevewholived160,000yearsago.andraceisanillegitimateconceptwhichourselveshavecreatedbasedonfearandignorance.

19岁的时候,我已经是富有经验的专业电影演员,而我还是在寻找自我的定义。我申请了大学的人类学专业。phyllislee博士面试了我,她问我:“你怎么定义种族?”我觉得我很了解这个话题,我说:“肤色。”“那么生物上来说呢,例如遗传基因?”她说,“thandie肤色并不全面,其实一个肯尼亚黑人和乌干达黑人之间基因差异比一个肯尼亚黑人和挪威白人之间差异要更多。因为我们都是从非洲来的,所以在非洲,基因变异演化的时间是最久的。”换句话说,种族在生物学或任何科学上都没有事实根据。另一方面,我对于自我的定义瞬时失去了一大片基础。但那就是生物学事实,我们都是非洲后裔,一位在1600__年前的伟大女性mitochondrialeve的后人。而种族这个无效的概念是我们基于恐惧和无知自己捏造出来的。

strangely,theserevelationsdidn'tcuremylowself-esteem,thatfeelingofotherness.mydesiretodisappearwasstillverypowerful.ihadadegreefromcambridge;ihadathrivingcareer,butmyselfwasacarcrash,andiwoundupwithbulimiaandonatherapist'scouch.andofcourseidid.istillbelievedmyselfwasalliwas.istillvaluedself-worthaboveallotherworth,andwhatwastheretosuggestotherwise?we'vecreatedentirevaluesystemsandaphysicalrealitytosupporttheworthofself.lookattheindustryforself-imageandthejobsitcreates,therevenueitturnsover.we'dberightinassumingthattheselfisanactuallivingthing.butit'snot.it'saprojectionwhichourcleverbrainscreateinordertocheatourselvesfromtherealityofdeath.

奇怪的是,这个发现并没有治好我的自卑,那种被排挤的感觉。我还是那么强烈地想要离开消失。我从剑桥拿到了学位,我有份充满发展的工作,然而我的自我还是一团糟,我得了催吐病不得不接受治疗师的帮助。我还是相信自我是我的全部。我还是坚信“自我”的价值甚过一切。而且我们身处的世界就是如此,我们的整个价值系统和现实环境都是在服务“自我”的价值。看看不同行业里面对于自我的塑造,看看它们创造的那些工作,产出的那些利润。我们甚至必须相信自我是真实存在的。但它们不是,自我不过是我们聪明的脑袋假想出来骗自己不去思考死亡这个话题的幌子。

butthereissomethingthatcangivetheselfultimateandinfiniteconnection--andthatthingisoneness,ouressence.theself'sstruggleforauthenticityanddefinitionwillneverendunlessit'sconnectedtoitscreator--toyouandtome.andthatcanhappenwithawareness--awarenessoftherealityofonenessandtheprojectionofself-hood.forastart,wecanthinkaboutallthetimeswhenwedoloseourselves.ithappenswhenidance,wheni'macting.i'mearthedinmyessence,andmyselfissuspended.inthosemoments,i'mconnectedtoeverything--theground,theair,thesounds,theenergyfromtheaudience.allmysensesarealertandaliveinmuchthesamewayasaninfantmightfeel--thatfeelingofoneness.

但其实我们的终极自我其实是我们的本源,合一。挣扎自我是否真实,究竟是什么永远没有终结,除非它和赋予它意义的创造者合一,就是你和我。而这点当我们意识到现实是你中有我,我中有你,和谐统一,而自我是种假象时就会体会到了。我们可以想想,什么时候我们是身心统一的,例如说我跳舞,表演的时候,我和我的本源连结,而我的自我被抛在一边。那时,我和身边的一切--空气,大地,声音,观众的反馈都连结在一起。我的知觉是敏锐和鲜活的,就像初生的婴儿那样,合一。

andwheni'mactingarole,iinhabitanotherself,andigiveitlifeforawhile,becausewhentheselfissuspendedsoisdivisivenessandjudgment.andi'veplayedeverythingfromavengefulghostinthetimeofslaverytosecretaryofstatein__.andnomatterhowothertheseselvesmightbe,they'reallrelatedinme.andihonestlybelievethekeytomysuccessasanactorandmyprogressasapersonhasbeentheverylackofselfthatusedtomakemefeelsoan_iousandinsecure.ialwayswonderedwhyicouldfeelothers'painsodeeply,whyicouldrecognizethesomebodyinthenobody.it'sbecauseididn'thaveaselftogetintheway.ithoughtilackedsubstance,andthefactthaticouldfeelothers'meantthatihadnothingofmyselftofeel.thethingthatwasasourceofshamewasactuallyasourceofenlightenment.

当我在演戏的时候,我让另一个自我住在我体内,我代表它行动。当我的自我被抛开,紧随的分歧和主观判断也消失了。我曾经扮演过奴隶时代的复仇鬼魂,也扮演过__年的国务卿。不管他们这些自我是怎样的,他们都在那时与我相连。而我也深信作为演员,我的成功,或是作为个体,我的成长都是源于我缺乏“自我”,那种缺乏曾经让我非常忧虑和不安。我总是不明白为什么我会那么深地感受到他人的痛苦,为什么我可以从不知名的人身上看出他人的印痕。是因为我没有所谓的自我来左右我感受的信息吧。我以为我缺少些什么,我以为我对他人的理解是因为我缺乏自我。那个曾经是我深感羞耻的东西其实是种启示。

andwhenirealizedandreallyunderstoodthatmyselfisaprojectionandthatithasafunction,afunnythinghappened.istoppedgivingitsomuchauthority.igiveititsdue.itakeittotherapy.i'vebecomeveryfamiliarwithitsdysfunctionalbehavior.buti'mnotashamedofmyself.infact,irespectmyselfanditsfunction.andovertimeandwithpractice,i'vetriedtolivemoreandmorefrommyessence.andifyoucandothat,incrediblethingshappen.

当我真的理解我的自我不过是种映射,是种工具,一件奇怪的事情发生了。我不再让它过多控制我的生活。我学习管理它,像把它带去看医生一样,我很熟悉那些因自我而失调的举动。我不因自我而羞耻,事实上,我很尊敬我的自我和它的功能。而随着时间过去,我的技术也更加熟练,我可以更多的和我的本源共存。如果你愿意尝试,不可以思议的事情也会发生在你身上。

iwasincongoinfebruary,dancingandcelebratingwithwomenwho'vesurvivedthedestructionoftheirselvesinliterallyunthinkableways--destroyedbecauseotherbrutalized,psychopathicselvesalloverthatbeautifullandarefuelingourselves'addictiontoipods,pads,andbling,whichfurtherdisconnectourselvesfromeverfeelingtheirpain,theirsuffering,theirdeath.because,hey,ifwe'realllivinginourselvesandmistakingitforlife,thenwe'redevaluinganddesensitizinglife.andinthatdisconnectedstate,yeah,wecanbuildfactoryfarmswithnowindows,destroymarinelifeanduserapeasaweaponofwar.sohere'sanotetoself:thecrackshavestartedtoshowinourconstructedworld,andoceanswillcontinuetosurgethroughthecracks,andoilandblood,riversofit.

今年二月,我在刚果和一群女性一起跳舞和庆祝,她们都是经历过各种无法想象事情“自我”遍体鳞伤的人们,那些备受摧残,心理变态的自我充斥在这片美丽的土地,而我们仍痴迷地追逐着ipod,pad等各种闪亮的东西,将我们与他们的痛苦,死亡隔得更远。如果我们各自生活在自我中,并无以为这就是生活,那么我们是在贬低和远离生命的意义。在这种脱节的状态中,我们是可以建设没有窗户的工厂,破坏海洋生态,将__作为战争的工具。为我们的自我做个解释:这是看似完善的世界里的裂痕,海洋,河流,石油和鲜血正不断地从缝中涌出。

crucially,wehaven'tbeenfiguringouthowtoliveinonenesswiththeearthandeveryotherlivingthing.we'vejustbeeninsanelytryingtofigureouthowtolivewitheachother--billionsofeachother.onlywe'renotlivingwitheachother;ourcrazyselvesarelivingwitheachotherandperpetuatinganepidemicofdisconnection.

关键的是,我们还没有明白如何和自然以及其他所有生物和谐地共处。我们只是疯狂地想和其他人沟通,几十亿其他人。只有当我们不在和世界合一的时候,我们疯狂的自我却互相怜惜,并永远继续这场相互隔绝的疫症。

let'slivewitheachotherandtakeitabreathatatime.ifwecangetunderthatheavyself,lightatorchofawareness,andfindouressence,ourconnectiontotheinfiniteandeveryotherlivingthing.weknewitfromthedaywewereborn.let'snotbefreakedoutbyourbountifulnothingness.it'smorearealitythantheonesourselveshavecreated.imaginewhatkindofe_istencewecanhaveifwehonorinevitabledeathofself,appreciatetheprivilegeoflifeandmarvelatwhatcomesne_t.simpleawarenessiswhereitbegins.

让我们共生共荣,并不要太过激进着急。试着放下沉重的自我,点亮知觉的火把,寻找我们的本源,我们与万事万物之间的联系。我们初生时就懂得这个道理的。不要被我们内心丰富的空白吓到,这比我们虚构的自我要真实。想象如果你能接受自我并不存在,你想要如何生活,感恩生命的可贵和未来的惊奇。简单的觉醒就是开始。

thankyouforlistening.

(applause)谢谢。

2024ted演讲稿篇6

trysomethingnewfor30days小计划帮你实现大目标

afewyearsago,ifeltlikeiwasstuckinarut,soidecidedtofollowinthefootstepsofthegreatamericanphilosopher,morganspurlock,andtrysomethingnewfor30days.theideaisactuallyprettysimple.thinkaboutsomethingyou’vealwayswantedtoaddtoyourlifeandtryitforthene_t30days.itturnsout,30daysisjustabouttherightamountoftimetoaddanewhabitorsubtractahabit—likewatchingthenews—fromyourlife.

几年前,我感觉对老一套感到枯燥乏味,所以我决定追随伟大的美国哲学家摩根·斯普尔洛克的脚步,尝试做新事情30天。这个想法的确是非常简单。考虑下,你常想在你生命中做的一些事情接下来30天尝试做这些。这就是,30天刚好是这么一段合适的时间去养成一个新的习惯或者改掉一个习惯——例如看新闻——在你生活中。

there’safewthingsilearnedwhiledoingthese30-daychallenges.thefirstwas,insteadofthemonthsflyingby,forgotten,thetimewasmuchmorememorable.thiswaspartofachallengeididtotakeapictureeverydayforamonth.andiremembere_actlywhereiwasandwhatiwasdoingthatday.ialsonoticedthatasistartedtodomoreandharder30-daychallenges,myself-confidencegrew.iwentfromdesk-dwellingcomputernerdtothekindofguywhobikestowork—forfun.evenlastyear,iendeduphikingupmt.kilimanjaro,thehighestmountaininafrica.iwouldneverhavebeenthatadventurousbeforeistartedmy30-daychallenges.

当我在30天做这些挑战性事情时,我学到以下一些事。第一件事是,取代了飞逝而过易被遗忘的岁月的是这段时间非常的更加令人难忘。挑战的一部分是要一个月内每天我要去拍摄一张照片。我清楚地记得那一天我所处的位置我都在干什么。我也注意到随着我开始做更多的,更难的30天里具有挑战性的事时,我自信心也增强了。我从一个台式计算机宅男极客变成了一个爱骑自行车去工作的人——为了玩乐。甚至去年,我完成了在非洲最高山峰乞力马扎罗山的远足。在我开始这30天做挑战性的事之前我从来没有这样热爱冒险过。

ialsofiguredoutthatifyoureallywantsomethingbadlyenough,youcandoanythingfor30days.haveyoueverwantedtowriteanovel?everynovember,tensofthousandsofpeopletrytowritetheirown50,000wordnovelfromscratchin30days.itturnsout,allyouhavetodoiswrite1,667wordsadayforamonth.soidid.bytheway,thesecretisnottogotosleepuntilyou’vewrittenyourwordsfortheday.youmightbesleep-deprived,butyou’llfinishyournovel.nowismybookthene_tgreatamericannovel?no.iwroteitinamonth.it’sawful.butfortherestofmylife,ifimeetjohnhodgmanatatedparty,idon’thavetosay,“i’macomputerscientist.”no,no,ifiwanttoicansay,“i’manovelist.”

我也认识到如果你真想一些槽糕透顶的事,你可以在30天里做这些事。你曾想写小说吗?每年11月,数以万计的人们在30天里,从零起点尝试写他们自己的5万字小说。这结果就是,你所要去做的事就是每天写1667个字要写一个月。所以我做到了。顺便说一下,秘密在于除非在一天里你已经写完了1667个字,要不你就甭想睡觉。你可能被剥夺睡眠,但你将会完成你的小说。那么我写的书会是下一部伟大的美国小说吗?不是的。我在一个月内写完它。它看上去太可怕了。但在我的余生,如果我在一个ted聚会上遇见约翰·霍奇曼,我不必开口说,“我是一个电脑科学家。”不,不会的,如果我愿意我可以说,“我是一个小说家。”

(laughter)

(笑声)

sohere’sonelastthingi’dliketomention.ilearnedthatwhenimadesmall,sustainablechanges,thingsicouldkeepdoing,theyweremorelikelytostick.there’snothingwrongwithbig,crazychallenges.infact,they’reatonoffun.butthey’relesslikelytostick.whenigaveupsugarfor30days,day31lookedlikethis.

我这儿想提的最后一件事。当我做些小的、持续性的变化,我可以不断尝试做的事时,我学到我可以把它们更容易地坚持做下来。这和又大又疯狂的具有挑战性的事情无关。事实上,它们的乐趣无穷。但是,它们就不太可能坚持做下来。当我在30天里拒绝吃糖果,31天后看上去就像这样。

(laughter)

(笑声)

sohere’smyquestiontoyou:whatareyouwaitingfor?iguaranteeyouthene_t30daysaregoingtopasswhetheryoulikeitornot,sowhynotthinkaboutsomethingyouhavealwayswantedtotryandgiveitashotforthene_t30days.

所以我给大家提的问题是:大家还在等什么呀?我保准大家在未来的30天定会经历你喜欢或者不喜欢的事,那么为什么不考虑一些你常想做的尝试并在未来30天里试试给自己一个机会。

thanks.

谢谢。

(applause)

(掌声)

2024ted演讲稿篇7

简介:残奥会短跑冠军aimeemullins天生没有腓骨,从小就要学习靠义肢走路和奔跑。如今,她不仅是短跑选手、演员、模特,还是一位稳健的演讲者。她不喜欢字典中“disabled”这个词,因为负面词汇足以毁掉一个人。但是,坦然面对不幸,你会发现等待你的是更多的机会。

i'dliketosharewithyouadiscoverythatimadeafewmonthsagowhilewritinganarticleforitalianwired.ialwayskeepmythesaurushandywheneveri'mwritinganything,buti'dalreadyfinishededitingthepiece,andirealizedthatihadneveronceinmylifelookeduptheword"disabled"toseewhati'dfind.

letmereadyoutheentry."disabled,adjective:crippled,helpless,useless,wrecked,stalled,maimed,wounded,mangled,lame,mutilated,run-down,worn-out,weakened,impotent,castrated,paralyzed,handicapped,senile,decrepit,laid-up,done-up,done-for,done-incracked-up,counted-out;seealsohurt,uselessandweak.antonyms,healthy,strong,capable."iwasreadingthislistoutloudtoafriendandatfirstwaslaughing,itwassoludicrous,buti'djustgottenpast"mangled,"andmyvoicebroke,andihadtostopandcollectmyselffromtheemotionalshockandimpactthattheassaultfromthesewordsunleashed.

youknow,ofcourse,thisismyraggedyoldthesaurussoi'mthinkingthismustbeanancientprintdate,right?but,infact,theprintdatewastheearly1980s,wheniwouldhavebeenstartingprimaryschoolandforminganunderstandingofmyselfoutsidethefamilyunitandasrelatedtotheotherkidsandtheworldaroundme.and,needlesstosay,thankgodiwasn'tusingathesaurusbackthen.imean,fromthisentry,itwouldseemthatiwasbornintoaworldthatperceivedsomeonelikemetohavenothingpositivewhatsoevergoingforthem,wheninfact,todayi'mcelebratedfortheopportunitiesandadventuresmylifehasprocured.

so,iimmediatelywenttolookupthe__onlineedition,e_pectingtofindarevisionworthnoting.here'stheupdatedversionofthisentry.unfortunately,it'snotmuchbetter.ifindthelasttwowordsunder"nearantonyms,"particularlyunsettling:"whole"and"wholesome."

so,it'snotjustaboutthewords.it'swhatwebelieveaboutpeoplewhenwenamethemwiththesewords.it'saboutthevaluesbehindthewords,andhowweconstructthosevalues.ourlanguageaffectsourthinkingandhowweviewtheworldandhowweviewotherpeople.infact,manyancientsocieties,includingthegreeksandtheromans,believedthattoutteracurseverballywassopowerful,becausetosaythethingoutloudbroughtitintoe_istence.so,whatrealitydowewanttocallintoe_istence:apersonwhoislimited,orapersonwho'sempowered?bycasuallydoingsomethingassimpleasnamingaperson,achild,wemightbeputtinglidsandcastingshadowsontheirpower.wouldn'twewanttoopendoorsfortheminstead?

onesuchpersonwhoopeneddoorsformewasmychildhooddoctoratthea.i.dupontinstituteinwilmington,delaware.hisnamewasdr.pizzutillo,anitalianamerican,whosename,apparently,wastoodifficultformostamericanstopronounce,sohewentbydr.p.anddr.palwaysworereallycolorfulbowtiesandhadtheveryperfectdispositiontoworkwithchildren.

ilovedalmosteverythingaboutmytimespentatthishospital,withthee_ceptionofmyphysicaltherapysessions.ihadtodowhatseemedlikeinnumerablerepetitionsofe_erciseswiththesethick,elasticbands--differentcolors,youknow--tohelpbuildupmylegmuscles,andihatedthesebandsmorethananything--ihatedthem,hadnamesforthem.ihatedthem.and,youknow,iwasalreadybargaining,asafiveyear-oldchild,withdr.ptotrytogetoutofdoingthesee_ercises,unsuccessfully,ofcourse.and,oneday,hecameintomysession--e_haustiveandunforgiving,thesesessions--andhesaidtome,"wow.aimee,youaresuchastrongandpowerfullittlegirl,ithinkyou'regoingtobreakoneofthosebands.whenyoudobreakit,i'mgoingtogiveyouahundredbucks."

now,ofcourse,thiswasasimpleployondr.p'sparttogetmetodothee_ercisesididn'twanttodobeforetheprospectofbeingtherichestfive-year-oldinthesecondfloorward,butwhatheeffectivelydidformewasreshapeanawfuldailyoccurrenceintoanewandpromisinge_perienceforme.andihavetowondertodaytowhate_tenthisvisionandhisdeclarationofmeasastrongandpowerfullittlegirlshapedmyownviewofmyselfasaninherentlystrong,powerfulandathleticpersonwellintothefuture.

thisisane_ampleofhowadultsinpositionsofpowercanignitethepowerofachild.but,inthepreviousinstancesofthosethesaurusentries,ourlanguageisn'tallowingustoevolveintotherealitythatwewouldallwant,thepossibilityofanindividualtoseethemselvesascapable.ourlanguagehasn'tcaughtupwiththechangesinoursociety,manyofwhichhavebeenbroughtaboutbytechnology.certainly,fromamedicalstandpoint,mylegs,lasersurgeryforvisionimpairment,titaniumkneesandhipreplacementsforagingbodiesthatareallowingpeopletomorefullyengagewiththeirabilities,andmovebeyondthelimitsthatnaturehasimposedonthem--nottomentionsocialnetworkingplatformsallowpeopletoself-identify,toclaimtheirowndescriptionsofthemselves,sotheycangoalignwithglobalgroupsoftheirownchoosing.so,perhapstechnologyisrevealingmoreclearlytousnowwhathasalwaysbeenatruth:thateveryonehassomethingrareandpowerfultoofferoursociety,andthatthehumanabilitytoadaptisourgreatestasset.

thehumanabilitytoadapt,it'saninterestingthing,becausepeoplehavecontinuallywantedtotalktomeaboutovercomingadversity,andi'mgoingtomakeanadmission:thisphraseneversatrightwithme,andialwaysfeltuneasytryingtoanswerpeople'squestionsaboutit,andithinki'mstartingtofigureoutwhy.implicitinthisphraseof"overcomingadversity"istheideathatsuccess,orhappiness,isaboutemergingontheothersideofachallenginge_perienceunscathedorunmarkedbythee_perience,asifmysuccessesinlifehavecomeaboutfromanabilitytosidesteporcircumnavigatethepresumedpitfallsofalifewithprosthetics,orwhatotherpeopleperceiveasmydisability.but,infact,wearechanged.wearemarked,ofcourse,byachallenge,whetherphysically,emotionallyorboth.andi'mgoingtosuggestthatthisisagoodthing.adversityisn'tanobstaclethatweneedtogetaroundinordertoresumelivingourlife.it'spartofourlife.anditendtothinkofitlikemyshadow.sometimesiseealotofit,sometimesthere'sverylittle,butit'salwayswithme.and,certainly,i'mnottryingtodiminishtheimpact,theweight,ofaperson'sstruggle.

thereisadversityandchallengeinlife,andit'sallveryrealandrelativetoeverysingleperson,butthequestionisn'twhetherornotyou'regoingtomeetadversity,buthowyou'regoingtomeetit.so,ourresponsibilityisnotsimplyshieldingthosewecareforfromadversity,butpreparingthemtomeetitwell.andwedoadisservicetoourkidswhenwemakethemfeelthatthey'renotequippedtoadapt.there'sanimportantdifferenceanddistinctionbetweentheobjectivemedicalfactofmybeinganamputeeandthesubjectivesocietalopinionofwhetherornoti'mdisabled.and,truthfully,theonlyrealandconsistentdisabilityi'vehadtoconfrontistheworldeverthinkingthaticouldbedescribedbythosedefinitions.

inourdesiretoprotectthosewecareaboutbygivingthemthecold,hardtruthabouttheirmedicalprognosis,or,indeed,aprognosisonthee_pectedqualityoftheirlife,wehavetomakesurethatwedon'tputthefirstbrickinawallthatwillactuallydisablesomeone.perhapsthee_istingmodelofonlylookingatwhatisbrokeninyouandhowdowefi_it,servestobemoredisablingtotheindividualthanthepathologyitself.

bynottreatingthewholenessofaperson,bynotacknowledgingtheirpotency,wearecreatinganotherillontopofwhatevernaturalstruggletheymighthave.weareeffectivelygradingsomeone'sworthtoourcommunity.soweneedtoseethroughthepathologyandintotherangeofhumancapability.and,mostimportantly,there'sapartnershipbetweenthoseperceiveddeficienciesandourgreatestcreativeability.soit'snotaboutdevaluing,ornegating,thesemoretryingtimesassomethingwewanttoavoidorsweepundertherug,butinsteadtofindthoseopportunitieswrappedintheadversity.somaybetheideaiwanttoputoutthereisnotsomuchovercomingadversityasitisopeningourselvesuptoit,embracingit,grapplingwithit,touseawrestlingterm,maybeevendancingwithit.and,perhaps,ifweseeadversityasnatural,consistentanduseful,we'relessburdenedbythepresenceofit.

thisyearwecelebratethe200thbirthdayofcharlesdarwin,anditwas150yearsago,whenwritingaboutevolution,thatdarwinillustrated,ithink,atruthaboutthehumancharacter.toparaphrase:it'snotthestrongestofthespeciesthatsurvives,norisitthemostintelligentthatsurvives;itistheonethatismostadaptabletochange.conflictisthegenesisofcreation.fromdarwin'swork,amongstothers,wecanrecognizethatthehumanabilitytosurviveandflourishisdrivenbythestruggleofthehumanspiritthroughconflictintotransformation.so,again,transformation,adaptation,isourgreatesthumanskill.and,perhaps,untilwe'retested,wedon'tknowwhatwe'remadeof.maybethat'swhatadversitygivesus:asenseofself,asenseofourownpower.so,wecangiveourselvesagift.wecanre-imagineadversityassomethingmorethanjusttoughtimes.maybewecanseeitaschange.adversityisjustchangethatwehaven'tadaptedourselvestoyet.

ithinkthegreatestadversitythatwe'vecreatedforourselvesisthisideaofnormalcy.now,who'snormal?there'snonormal.there'scommon,there'stypical.there'snonormal,andwouldyouwanttomeetthatpoor,beigepersoniftheye_isted?(laughter)idon'tthinkso.ifwecanchangethisparadigmfromoneofachievingnormalcytooneofpossibility--orpotency,tobeevenalittlebitmoredangerous--wecanreleasethepowerofsomanymorechildren,andinvitethemtoengagetheirrareandvaluableabilitieswiththecommunity.

anthropologiststellusthattheonethingweashumanshavealwaysrequiredofourcommunitymembersistobeofuse,tobeabletocontribute.there'sevidencethatneanderthals,60,000yearsago,carriedtheirelderlyandthosewithseriousphysicalinjury,andperhapsit'sbecausethelifee_perienceofsurvivalofthesepeopleprovedofvaluetothecommunity.theydidn'tviewthesepeopleasbrokenanduseless;theywereseenasrareandvaluable.

afewyearsago,iwasinafoodmarketinthetownwhereigrewupinthatredzoneinnortheasternpennsylvania,andiwasstandingoverabusheloftomatoes.itwassummertime:ihadshortson.ihearthisguy,hisvoicebehindmesay,"well,ifitisn'taimeemullins."anditurnaround,andit'sthisolderman.ihavenoideawhoheis.

andisaid,"i'msorry,sir,havewemet?idon'tremembermeetingyou."

hesaid,"well,youwouldn'tremembermeetingme.imean,whenwemetiwasdeliveringyoufromyourmother'swomb."(laughter)oh,thatguy.and,butofcourse,actually,itdidclick.

thismanwasdr.kean,amanthatihadonlyknownaboutthroughmymother'sstoriesofthatday,because,ofcourse,typicalfashion,iarrivedlateformybirthdaybytwoweeks.andsomymother'sprenatalphysicianhadgoneonvacation,sothemanwhodeliveredmewasacompletestrangertomyparents.and,becauseiwasbornwithoutthefibulabones,andhadfeetturnedin,andafewtoesinthisfootandafewtoesinthat,hehadtobethebearer--thisstrangerhadtobethebearerofbadnews.

hesaidtome,"ihadtogivethisprognosistoyourparentsthatyouwouldneverwalk,andyouwouldneverhavethekindofmobilitythatotherkidshaveoranykindoflifeofindependence,andyou'vebeenmakingliaroutofmeeversince."(laughter)(applause)

thee_traordinarythingisthathesaidhehadsavednewspaperclippingsthroughoutmywholechildhood,whetherwinningasecondgradespellingbee,marchingwiththegirlscouts,youknow,thehalloweenparade,winningmycollegescholarship,oranyofmysportsvictories,andhewasusingit,andintegratingitintoteachingresidentstudents,medstudentsfromhahnemannmedicalschoolandhersheymedicalschool.andhecalledthispartofthecoursethe_factor,thepotentialofthehumanwill.noprognosiscanaccountforhowpowerfulthiscouldbeasadeterminantinthequalityofsomeone'slife.anddr.keanwentontotellme,hesaid,"inmye_perience,unlessrepeatedlytoldotherwise,andevenifgivenamodicumofsupport,iflefttotheirowndevices,achildwillachieve."

see,dr.keanmadethatshiftinthinking.heunderstoodthatthere'sadifferencebetweenthemedicalconditionandwhatsomeonemightdowithit.andthere'sbeenashiftinmythinkingovertime,inthat,ifyouhadaskedmeat15yearsold,ifiwouldhavetradedprostheticsforflesh-and-bonelegs,iwouldn'thavehesitatedforasecond.iaspiredtothatkindofnormalcybackthen.butifyouaskmetoday,i'mnotsosure.andit'sbecauseofthee_periencesi'vehadwiththem,notinspiteofthee_periencesi'vehadwiththem.andperhapsthisshiftinmehashappenedbecausei'vebeene_posedtomorepeoplewhohaveopeneddoorsformethanthosewhohaveputlidsandcastshadowsonme.

see,allyoureallyneedisonepersontoshowyoutheepiphanyofyourownpower,andyou'reoff.ifyoucanhandsomebodythekeytotheirownpower--thehumanspiritissoreceptive--ifyoucandothatandopenadoorforsomeoneatacrucialmoment,youareeducatingtheminthebestsense.you'reteachingthemtoopendoorsforthemselves.infact,thee_actmeaningoftheword"educate"comesfromtherootword"educe."itmeans"tobringforthwhatiswithin,tobringoutpotential."soagain,whichpotentialdowewanttobringout?

therewasacasestudydonein1960sbritain,whentheyweremovingfromgrammarschoolstocomprehensiveschools.it'scalledthestreamingtrials.wecallit"tracking"hereinthestates.it'sseparatingstudentsfroma,b,c,dandsoon.andthe"astudents"getthetoughercurriculum,thebestteachers,etc.well,theytook,overathree-monthperiod,d-levelstudents,gavethema's,toldthemtheywere"a's,"toldthemtheywerebright,andattheendofthisthree-monthperiod,theywereperformingata-level.

and,ofcourse,theheartbreaking,flipsideofthisstudy,isthattheytookthe"astudents"andtoldthemtheywere"d's."andthat'swhathappenedattheendofthatthree-monthperiod.thosewhowerestillaroundinschool,besidesthepeoplewhohaddroppedout.acrucialpartofthiscasestudywasthattheteachersweredupedtoo.theteachersdidn'tknowaswitchhadbeenmade.theyweresimplytold,"thesearethe'a-students,'thesearethe'd-students.'"andthat'showtheywentaboutteachingthemandtreatingthem.

so,ithinkthattheonlytruedisabilityisacrushedspirit,aspiritthat'sbeencrusheddoesn'thavehope,itdoesn'tseebeauty,itnolongerhasournatural,childlikecuriosityandourinnateabilitytoimagine.ifinstead,wecanbolsterahumanspirittokeephope,toseebeautyinthemselvesandothers,tobecuriousandimaginative,thenwearetrulyusingourpowerwell.whenaspirithasthosequalities,weareabletocreatenewrealitiesandnewwaysofbeing.

i'dliketoleaveyouwithapoembyafourteenth-centurypersianpoetnamedhafizthatmyfriend,jacquesdemboistoldmeabout,andthepoemiscalled"thegodwhoonlyknowsfourwords":"everychildhasknowngod,notthegodofnames,notthegodofdon'ts,butthegodwhoonlyknowsfourwordsandkeepsrepeatingthem,saying,'comedancewithme.come,dancewithme.come,dancewithme.'"

thankyou.(applause)

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chineserestaurantshaveplayedanimportantroleinamericanhistory,asamatteroffact.thecubanmissilecrisiswasresolvedinachineserestaurantcalledyenchingpalaceinwashington,d.c.,whichunfortunatelyisclosednow,andabouttobeturnedintowalgreen's.andthehousethatjohnwilkesboothplannedtheassassinationofabrahamlincolnisactuallyalsonowachineserestaurantcalledwok'nroll,onhstreetinwashington.

事实上,中国餐馆在美国历史上发挥了很重要的作用。古巴导弹危机是在华盛顿一家名叫“燕京馆”的中餐馆里解决的。很不幸,这家餐馆现在关门了,即将被改建成沃尔格林连锁药店。而约翰·威尔克斯·布斯刺杀林肯总统的那所房子现在也成了一家中餐馆,就是位于华盛顿的“锅和卷”。

andifyouthinkaboutit,alotofthefoodsthatyouthinkoforwethinkoforamericansthinkofaschinesefoodarebarelyrecognizabletochinese,fore_ample:beefwithbroccoli,eggrolls,generaltso'schicken,fortunecookies,chopsuey,thetake-outbo_es.

如果你仔细想想,就会发现很多你们所认为或我们所认为,或是美国人所认为的中国食物,中国人并不认识。比如西兰花牛肉、蛋卷、左宗棠鸡、幸运饼干、杂碎、外卖盒子。

so,theinterestingquestionis,howdoyougofromfortunecookiesbeingsomethingthatisjapanesetobeingsomethingthatischinese?well,theshortansweris,welockedupallthejapaneseduringworldwarii,includingthosethatmadefortunecookies,sothat'sthetimewhenthechinesemovedin,kindofsawamarketopportunityandtookover.

所以有趣的是,幸运饼干是怎么从日本的东西变成中国的东西的呢?简单地说,我们在二战时扣押了所以的日本人,包括那些做幸运饼干的。这时候,中国人来了,看到了商机,自然就据为己有了。

generaltso'schicken--which,bytheway,intheusnavalacademyiscalledadmiraltso'schicken.ilovethisdish.theoriginalnameinmybookwasactuallycalledthelongmarchofgeneraltso,andhehasmarchedveryfarindeed,becauseheissweet,heisfried,andheischicken--allthingsthatamericanslove.

左宗棠鸡,在美国海军军校被称为左司令鸡。我很喜欢这道菜。在我的书里,这道菜实际上叫左将军的长征,它确实在美国很受欢迎,因为它是甜的,油炸的,是鸡肉做的——全部都是美国人的最爱。

so,youknow,irealizedwheniwasthere,generaltsoiskindofalotlikecolonelsandersinamerica,inthathe'sknownforchickenandnotwar.butinchina,thisguy'sactuallyknownforwarandnotchicken.

我意识到左宗棠将军有点像美国的桑德斯上校(肯德基创始人),因为他是因鸡肉而出名的而不是战争。而在中国,左宗棠确实是因为战争而不是鸡肉闻名的。

soit'skindofpartofthephenomenonicalledspontaneousself-organization,right,where,likeinantcolonies,wherelittledecisionsmadeby--onthemicro-levelactuallyhaveabigimpactonthemacro-level.

这就有点像我所说的自发组织现象。就像在蚂蚁群中,在微观层面上做的小小决定会在宏观层面上产生巨大的影响。

andthegreatinnovationofchickenmcnuggetswasnotnuggetfyingthem,becausethat'skindofaneasyconcept,butthetrickbehindchickenmcnuggetswas,theywereabletoremovethechickenfromtheboneinacost-effectivemanner,whichiswhyittooksolongforotherpeopletocopythem.

麦乐鸡块的发明并没有给他们带来切实收益,因为这个想法很简单,但麦乐鸡背后的技巧是如何用一种划算的方式来把鸡肉从骨头上剔出来。这就是为什么过了这么久才有人模仿他们。

wecanthinkofchineserestaurantsperhapsaslinu_:sortofanopensourcething,right,whereideasfromonepersoncanbecopiedandpropagatedacrosstheentiresystem,thattherecanbespecializedversionsofchinesefood,youknow,dependingontheregion.

我们可以把中餐馆比作linu_:一种开源系统。一个人的想法可以在整个系统中被复制,被普及。在不同的地区,就有特别版本的中国菜。

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wheniwassevenyearsoldandmysisterwasjustfiveyearsold,wewereplayingontopofabunkbed.iwastwoyearsolderthanmysisteratthetime--imean,i'mtwoyearsolderthanhernow--butatthetimeitmeantshehadtodoeverythingthatiwantedtodo,andiwantedtoplaywar.sowewereupontopofourbunkbeds.andononesideofthebunkbed,ihadputoutallofmyg.i.joesoldiersandweaponry.andontheothersidewereallmysister'smylittleponiesreadyforacavalrycharge.

therearedifferingaccountsofwhatactuallyhappenedthatafternoon,butsincemysisterisnotherewithustoday,letmetellyouthetruestory--(laughter)--whichismysister'salittlebitontheclumsyside.somehow,withoutanyhelporpushfromherolderbrotheratall,suddenlyamydisappearedoffofthetopofthebunkbedandlandedwiththiscrashonthefloor.nowinervouslypeeredoverthesideofthebedtoseewhathadbefallenmyfallensisterandsawthatshehadlandedpainfullyonherhandsandkneesonallfoursontheground.

iwasnervousbecausemyparentshadchargedmewithmakingsurethatmysisterandiplayedassafelyandasquietlyaspossible.andseeingashowihadaccidentallybrokenamy'sarmjustoneweekbefore...(laughter)...heroicallypushingheroutofthewayofanoncomingimaginarysniperbullet,(laughter)forwhichihaveyettobethanked,iwastryingashardasicould--shedidn'tevenseeitcoming--iwastryingashardasicouldtobeonmybestbehavior.

andisawmysister'sface,thiswailofpainandsufferingandsurprisethreateningtoeruptfromhermouthandthreateningtowakemyparentsfromthelongwinter'snapforwhichtheyhadsettled.soididtheonlythingmylittlefranticsevenyear-oldbraincouldthinktodotoavertthistragedy.andifyouhavechildren,you'veseenthishundredsoftimesbefore.isaid,"amy,amy,wait.don'tcry.don'tcry.didyouseehowyoulanded?nohumanlandsonallfourslikethat.amy,ithinkthismeansyou'reaunicorn."

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nowthatwascheating,becausetherewasnothingintheworldmysisterwouldwantmorethannottobeamythehurtfiveyear-oldlittlesister,butamythespecialunicorn.ofcourse,thiswasanoptionthatwasopentoherbrainatnopointinthepast.andyoucouldseehowmypoor,manipulatedsisterfacedconflict,asherlittlebrainattemptedtodevoteresourcestofeelingthepainandsufferingandsurpriseshejuste_perienced,orcontemplatinghernew-foundidentityasaunicorn.andthelatterwonout.insteadofcrying,insteadofceasingourplay,insteadofwakingmyparents,withallthenegativeconsequencesthatwouldhaveensuedforme,insteadasmilespreadacrossherfaceandshescrambledrightbackupontothebunkbedwithallthegraceofababyunicorn...(laughter)...withonebrokenleg.

whatwestumbledacrossatthistenderageofjustfiveandseven--wehadnoideaatthetime--wassomethingthatwasgoingbeatthevanguardofascientificrevolutionoccurringtwodecadeslaterinthewaythatwelookatthehumanbrain.whatwehadstumbledacrossissomethingcalledpositivepsychology,whichisthereasonthati'mheretodayandthereasonthatiwakeupeverymorning.

whenifirststartedtalkingaboutthisresearchoutsideofacademia,outwithcompaniesandschools,theveryfirstthingtheysaidtoneverdoistostartyourtalkwithagraph.theveryfirstthingiwanttodoisstartmytalkwithagraph.thisgraphlooksboring,butthisgraphisthereasonigete_citedandwakeupeverymorning.andthisgraphdoesn'tevenmeananything;it'sfakedata.whatwefoundis--

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ifigotthisdatabackstudyingyouhereintheroom,iwouldbethrilled,becausethere'sveryclearlyatrendthat'sgoingonthere,andthatmeansthaticangetpublished,whichisallthatreallymatters.thefactthatthere'soneweirdreddotthat'supabovethecurve,there'soneweirdointheroom--iknowwhoyouare,isawyouearlier--that'snoproblem.that'snoproblem,asmostofyouknow,becauseicanjustdeletethatdot.icandeletethatdotbecausethat'sclearlyameasurementerror.andweknowthat'sameasurementerrorbecauseit'smessingupmydata.

sooneoftheveryfirstthingsweteachpeopleineconomicsandstatisticsandbusinessandpsychologycoursesishow,inastatisticallyvalidway,doweeliminatetheweirdos.howdoweeliminatetheoutlierssowecanfindthelineofbestfit?whichisfantasticifi'mtryingtofindouthowmanyadviltheaveragepersonshouldbetaking--two.butifi'minterestedinpotential,ifi'minterestedinyourpotential,orforhappinessorproductivityorenergyorcreativity,whatwe'redoingiswe'recreatingthecultoftheaveragewithscience.

ifiaskedaquestionlike,"howfastcanachildlearnhowtoreadinaclassroom?"scientistschangetheanswerto"howfastdoestheaveragechildlearnhowtoreadinthatclassroom?"andthenwetailortheclassrighttowardstheaverage.nowifyoufallbelowtheaverageonthiscurve,thenpsychologistsgetthrilled,becausethatmeansyou'reeitherdepressedoryouhaveadisorder,orhopefullyboth.we'rehopingforbothbecauseourbusinessmodelis,ifyoucomeintoatherapysessionwithoneproblem,wewanttomakesureyouleaveknowingyouhave10,soyoukeepcomingbackoverandoveragain.we'llgobackintoyourchildhoodifnecessary,buteventuallywhatwewanttodoismakeyounormalagain.butnormalismerelyaverage.

andwhatipositandwhatpositivepsychologypositsisthatifwestudywhatismerelyaverage,wewillremainmerelyaverage.theninsteadofdeletingthosepositiveoutliers,whatiintentionallydoiscomeintoapopulationlikethisoneandsay,why?whyisitthatsomeofyouaresohighabovethecurveintermsofyourintellectualability,athleticability,musicalability,creativity,energylevels,yourresiliencyinthefaceofchallenge,yoursenseofhumor?whateveritis,insteadofdeletingyou,whatiwanttodoisstudyyou.becausemaybewecangleaninformation--notjusthowtomovepeopleuptotheaverage,buthowwecanmovetheentireaverageupinourcompaniesandschoolsworldwide.

thereasonthisgraphisimportanttomeis,wheniturnonthenews,itseemslikethemajorityoftheinformationisnotpositive,infactit'snegative.mostofit'saboutmurder,corruption,diseases,naturaldisasters.andveryquickly,mybrainstartstothinkthat'stheaccurateratioofnegativetopositiveintheworld.whatthat'sdoingiscreatingsomethingcalledthemedicalschoolsyndrome--which,ifyouknowpeoplewho'vebeentomedicalschool,duringthefirstyearofmedicaltraining,asyoureadthroughalistofallthesymptomsanddiseasesthatcouldhappen,suddenlyyourealizeyouhaveallofthem.

ihaveabrotherin-lawnamedbobo--whichisawholeotherstory.bobomarriedamytheunicorn.bobocalledmeonthephonefromyalemedicalschool,andbobosaid,"shawn,ihaveleprosy."(laughter)which,evenatyale,ise_traordinarilyrare.butihadnoideahowtoconsolepoorbobobecausehehadjustgottenoveranentireweekofmenopause.

(laughter)

seewhatwe'refindingisit'snotnecessarilytherealitythatshapesus,butthelensthroughwhichyourbrainviewstheworldthatshapesyourreality.andifwecanchangethelens,notonlycanwechangeyourhappiness,wecanchangeeverysingleeducationalandbusinessoutcomeatthesametime.

wheniappliedtoharvard,iappliedonadare.ididn'te_pecttogetin,andmyfamilyhadnomoneyforcollege.whenigotamilitaryscholarshiptwoweekslater,theyallowedmetogo.suddenly,somethingthatwasn'tevenapossibilitybecameareality.wheniwentthere,iassumedeveryoneelsewouldseeitasaprivilegeaswell,thatthey'dbee_citedtobethere.evenifyou'reinaclassroomfullofpeoplesmarterthanyou,you'dbehappyjusttobeinthatclassroom,whichiswhatifelt.butwhatifoundthereis,whilesomepeoplee_periencethat,whenigraduatedaftermyfouryearsandthenspentthene_teightyearslivinginthedormswiththestudents--harvardaskedmeto;iwasn'tthatguy.(laughter)iwasanofficerofharvardtocounselstudentsthroughthedifficultfouryears.andwhatifoundinmyresearchandmyteachingisthatthesestudents,nomatterhowhappytheywerewiththeiroriginalsuccessofgettingintotheschool,twoweekslatertheirbrainswerefocused,notontheprivilegeofbeingthere,norontheirphilosophyortheirphysics.theirbrainwasfocusedonthecompetition,theworkload,thehassles,thestresses,thecomplaints.

whenifirstwentinthere,iwalkedintothefreshmendininghall,whichiswheremyfriendsfromwaco,te_as,whichiswhereigrewup--iknowsomeofyouhaveheardofit.whenthey'dcometovisitme,they'dlookaround,they'dsay,"thisfreshmandininghalllookslikesomethingoutofhogwart'sfromthemovie"harrypotter,"whichitdoes.thisishogwart'sfromthemovie"harrypotter"andthat'sharvard.andwhentheyseethis,theysay,"shawn,whydoyouwasteyourtimestudyinghappinessatharvard?seriously,whatdoesaharvardstudentpossiblyhavetobeunhappyabout?"

embeddedwithinthatquestionisthekeytounderstandingthescienceofhappiness.becausewhatthatquestionassumesisthatoure_ternalworldispredictiveofourhappinesslevels,wheninreality,ifiknoweverythingaboutyoure_ternalworld,icanonlypredict10percentofyourlong-termhappiness.90percentofyourlong-termhappinessispredictednotbythee_ternalworld,butbythewayyourbrainprocessestheworld.andifwechangeit,ifwechangeourformulaforhappinessandsuccess,whatwecandoischangethewaythatwecanthenaffectreality.whatwefoundisthatonly25percentofjobsuccessesarepredictedbyi.q.75percentofjobsuccessesarepredictedbyyouroptimismlevels,yoursocialsupportandyourabilitytoseestressasachallengeinsteadofasathreat.

italkedtoaboardingschoolupinnewengland,probablythemostprestigiousboardingschool,andtheysaid,"wealreadyknowthat.soeveryyear,insteadofjustteachingourstudents,wealsohaveawellnessweek.andwe'resoe_cited.mondaynightwehavetheworld'sleadinge_pertcomingintospeakaboutadolescentdepression.tuesdaynightit'sschoolviolenceandbullying.wednesdaynightiseatingdisorders.thursdaynightiselicitdruguse.andfridaynightwe'retryingtodecidebetweenriskyse_orhappiness."(laughter)isaid,"that'smostpeople'sfridaynights."(laughter)(applause)whichi'mgladyouliked,buttheydidnotlikethatatall.silenceonthephone.andintothesilence,isaid,"i'dbehappytospeakatyourschool,butjustsoyouknow,that'snotawellnessweek,that'sasicknessweek.whatyou'vedoneisyou'veoutlinedallthenegativethingsthatcanhappen,butnottalkedaboutthepositive."

theabsenceofdiseaseisnothealth.here'showwegettohealth:weneedtoreversetheformulaforhappinessandsuccess.inthelastthreeyears,i'vetraveledto45differentcountries,workingwithschoolsandcompaniesinthemidstofaneconomicdownturn.andwhatifoundisthatmostcompaniesandschoolsfollowaformulaforsuccess,whichisthis:ifiworkharder,i'llbemoresuccessful.andifi'mmoresuccessful,theni'llbehappier.thatundergirdsmostofourparentingstyles,ourmanagingstyles,thewaythatwemotivateourbehavior.

andtheproblemisit'sscientificallybrokenandbackwardsfortworeasons.first,everytimeyourbrainhasasuccess,youjustchangedthegoalpostofwhatsuccesslookedlike.yougotgoodgrades,nowyouhavetogetbettergrades,yougotintoagoodschoolandafteryougetintoabetterschool,yougotagoodjob,nowyouhavetogetabetterjob,youhityoursalestarget,we'regoingtochangeyoursalestarget.andifhappinessisontheoppositesideofsuccess,yourbrainnevergetsthere.whatwe'vedoneiswe'vepushedhappinessoverthecognitivehorizonasasociety.andthat'sbecausewethinkwehavetobesuccessful,thenwe'llbehappier.

buttherealproblemisourbrainsworkintheoppositeorder.ifyoucanraisesomebody'slevelofpositivityinthepresent,thentheirbraine_perienceswhatwenowcallahappinessadvantage,whichisyourbrainatpositiveperformssignificantlybetterthanitdoesatnegative,neutralorstressed.yourintelligencerises,yourcreativityrises,yourenergylevelsrise.infact,whatwe'vefoundisthateverysinglebusinessoutcomeimproves.yourbrainatpositiveis31percentmoreproductivethanyourbrainatnegative,neutralorstressed.you're37percentbetteratsales.doctorsare19percentfaster,moreaccurateatcomingupwiththecorrectdiagnosiswhenpositiveinsteadofnegative,neutralorstressed.whichmeanswecanreversetheformula.ifwecanfindawayofbecomingpositiveinthepresent,thenourbrainsworkevenmoresuccessfullyaswe'reabletoworkharder,fasterandmoreintelligently.

whatweneedtobeabletodoistoreversethisformulasowecanstarttoseewhatourbrainsareactuallycapableof.becausedopamine,whichfloodsintoyoursystemwhenyou'repositive,hastwofunctions.notonlydoesitmakeyouhappier,itturnsonallofthelearningcentersinyourbrainallowingyoutoadapttotheworldinadifferentway.

we'vefoundthattherearewaysthatyoucantrainyourbraintobeabletobecomemorepositive.injustatwo-minutespanoftimedonefor21daysinarow,wecanactuallyrewireyourbrain,allowingyourbraintoactuallyworkmoreoptimisticallyandmoresuccessfully.we'vedonethesethingsinresearchnowineverysinglecompanythati'veworkedwith,gettingthemtowritedownthreenewthingsthatthey'regratefulforfor21daysinarow,threenewthingseachday.andattheendofthat,theirbrainstartstoretainapatternofscanningtheworld,notforthenegative,butforthepositivefirst.

journalingaboutonepositivee_perienceyou'vehadoverthepast24hoursallowsyourbraintoreliveit.e_erciseteachesyourbrainthatyourbehaviormatters.wefindthatmeditationallowsyourbraintogetovertheculturaladhdthatwe'vebeencreatingbytryingtodomultipletasksatonceandallowsourbrainstofocusonthetaskathand.andfinally,randomactsofkindnessareconsciousactsofkindness.wegetpeople,whentheyopenuptheirinbo_,towriteonepositiveemailpraisingorthankingsomebodyintheirsocialsupportnetwork.

andbydoingtheseactivitiesandbytrainingyourbrainjustlikewetrainourbodies,whatwe'vefoundiswecanreversetheformulaforhappinessandsuccess,andindoingso,notonlycreateripplesofpositivity,butcreatearealrevolution.

thankyouverymuch.

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尊敬的老师、同学们:

大家好!

社会是一个变化万千的群体,要想跟上社会的脚步,需要进行适当的改变,以便更好的和社会融合在一起。

改变环境不如改变自己。社会是个包罗万象、千奇百怪的群体。周围的环境一旦形成就很难用自己的力量去变改。所以我们应该去试着改变自己。一位老者曾对自己的弟子说他拥有移山的本事,只要说“山过来”,山就会自己过来,于是他当着弟子们的面对前面的山说“山过来”,但是山却丝毫未动,对此老者并没有显得很尴尬,他说道:“既然山不会过来,那么我们就向它靠近吧。”环境不会因一个人而改变,所以你要努力适应。托尔斯泰说过:“世界上有两种人,一种是行动者,一种是观望着。很多人都想着要改变世界,却从未想过改变自己。”可见,改变自己,才能与环境更好融合。

改变别人不如改变自己。每个人都有自己的优点和缺点,所以才会存在妒忌和看不惯,但是我们无法让别人改变他的缺点和优点,所以我们要改变自己,让自己学会欣赏和包容。

一位老师总是抱怨班上有很多调皮的孩子上课不听讲,教导之后也屡教不改,很是苦恼,她经常想尽办法想要改变那些调皮的孩子,这时另一个老师说:“孩子们不听课也许是老师口才不好,讲课的魅力不够大,所以孩子们对老师的课兴趣不浓。好好改变一下自己吧。”于是老师开始努力改变自己,改变上课的形式,很快孩子们不再调皮了。改变别人不如改变自己,地球不会因一个人而转,当一根手指指向别人的时候,其他四根手指都指向自己,就算错的不是自己,那也应该检讨为什么别人会那么对我,从而改变自己,学会包容欣赏。

改变自己。虽然我们不能改变天气的恶劣,但我们能改变自己的心情;虽然我们不能改变自己的生命的长短,但是我们能改变自己生命的价值。有些事情无法改变事实,但是我们能改变自己。下定决心改变自己吧,我们将拥有的是改变后的变化。

2024ted演讲稿篇11

寒假里,一向喜欢运动的我只报了一个运动班——羽毛球班,可这次的教练,让我收获了一个意想不到的知识。

记得寒假的第一节羽毛球课,教我打羽毛球的教练有翻天覆地的变化,原先教我的是吴教练,可这是最厉害的阮教练教我们,阮教练原先是教高级,最喜欢用杀球来打那些不听话的人,虽然我没有尝试过,但看那力度,就会让我忐忑不安。

当我第一次和阮教练打球时,经常有十几个球打不到对面,而我却为了接到球跑的气喘吁吁,“下一个”阮教练每次都用复杂的声音,对我说着,眼神里流露出一丝无奈。

过了几天后,阮教练好像在家里想了很久,在今天做了一个决定,“每个人有一个球打不过网,就两个俯卧撑。”我一听,立刻傻了,我一般有十几个球没打过来,那不是要做二十几个俯卧撑,那不累死。但教练已经下了命令,不能不遵从,只好尽力而为吧!我痛苦的想着。“下一个。”教练忽然叫道。我定眼看了看,到我了,时间怎么过的这样快?只好尽力而为。

“前面两个球,后面开放。”教练大声叫道,“妈呀!”我小声嘀咕着,“为什么一到我就变换一个打法?”可这是,阮教练已经发球,我只好认认真真地打球,想一切方法让我可以准确地打到每一个球。我不停地跑,喜欢出汗的我已经汗流满面,可我还是努力接到球。“一个,哈哈,你终于有一个了。”教练说道,“还有几个,加油哦!这时,我万分激动,刚刚有十几个,这次只有一个,太好了。我的眼睛里留下了成功的泪花。

这件事已经过去了几天几夜,但我的脑海里对这件事仍然记忆犹新,阮教练叫我们做俯卧撑,其实就是给我们加大压力,有一句俗话说:有了压力,就有了动力。“因为做俯卧撑累,辛苦,所以我为了不做俯卧撑,当然就会想方设法接到球。

2024ted演讲稿篇12

亲爱的同学们:

大家好!

今天我国旗下演讲的题目是《健康饮食从我做起》。

每一家的健康与食品息息相关,随着经济社会不断进步,人们饮食文化日益多样化,食品卫生与安全成为备受关注的话题。

要健康饮食,就要做到以下几点:

1.不购买街边小吃或街边小店的垃圾食品,去一些正规超市购买食物。

2.买所需食品时,要注意生产日期、保质期、QS生产许可标志等等。

3.认准品牌购买,尽量买一些有品牌的食品。

4.少吃油炸食品及零食,多吃蔬菜水果等有营养的食品。

5.不买价格明显过低的食品,不要贪小失大。

注意以上几点,就大致能做到安全饮食了。俗话说:“民以食为天”。说得通俗一点就是人们每天要吃和喝,食物是人类赖以生存的物质。食品的质量决定了人类生命的质量。因此,食品必须是安全的并且有益健康的。

同时,也呼吁食品安全,关系你我他,但愿生产者不再为食品安全脸红,国人不再为食品安全担心,国家不再为食品安全丢脸。现在,让我们一起行动起来,杜绝有害食品,倡导绿色食品!希望同学们听了我这次的讲话后都健康饮食,健康地成长。

谢谢大家!

2024ted演讲稿篇13

大家好!

人生是短暂而又孤独的,人必须独立坚强的战斗下去,走自己认为正确的道路,不能有丝毫的犹豫与放松。否则就会被时代所淘汰。

正如前几天所报道的一样,美国苹果公司执行官兼总裁史蒂夫乔布斯去世了,媒体网络都相继报道了起来,成为了论坛话题,很多人都为此感到了惊讶与惋惜,但从背后的角度来看,乔布斯的去世不得不说是苹果传奇的结束,自乔布斯1977年创立苹果公司以来,苹果公司一直保持着电子商业界的不朽传奇,第一年就得到了盈利,之后经过公司的不断创新,苹果成为人们不断选择的电子品牌之一,正因为有乔布斯在,才有了苹果的今天,从而带动了电子商业界,使世界不断走向电子科技化,他为电子界写下了光辉的一笔,实现了自己的人生价值,他死的是重于泰山。

人生带给我们的酸甜苦辣,对我们来说都是一种很好的经验,会使我们逐渐成长,正是人类社会有了这种思想,我们的社会才得以一代代延续下来,我们的生活才一天比一天好,人生才有了价值。

相信自己,不断向前看齐,坚定黎明后会是阳光,为人生上色,走出一条自己绘画的人生彩图,使它绚丽起来,做的自己,不断向前迈进,去走向黎明后的彼岸,铺设辉煌的人生。

2024ted演讲稿篇14

尊敬的各位领导,各位同事们:

大家下午好。

我叫___,非常感谢各位领导和同仁的支持与厚爱,能够让我有机会站在这里,与大家分享这一刻的光荣与喜悦。

加入恒瑞这个大家庭已有两年又7个月的时间里,让我真正体会到了,恒瑞的温暖与关爱,以及恒瑞的企业文化,和对人才的关心、培养与重视。

今天能够站在这里发言,并且是代表优秀员工的发言,在这里我要感谢每一位帮助过我的领导和同事,是你们的支持帮助与信任,才使得今天的广东市场打开了一定的局面,在高端食品领域也逐步得到了客户的认可与支持。

20__年,在公司“团结、规范、执行、升级”工作方针下,我作为一名普通的业务员,能真真体会到市场带给企业的压力和给我的动力!其实从20__年6月份刚入公司开始,到7月份下广东市场开发高端食品行业,一方面我们恒瑞在这个新的市场、新的行业中,在没有基础,没有客户资源,没有样板客户等条件下,市场开括起来困难重重;一方面是客户不太信任我们产品,想要从其他客户手中抢到一部分市场,只有凭借公司过硬的产品和一颗执着的恒心,再加上各位领导及同仁们,始终站在我身后,给予了很多的帮助与支持,让我有幸坚持一路走了过来,没有半途而费。

事实上,对于我们这个变性淀粉销售行业而言,是一个出结果和成绩相对较为缓慢的过程,(就像竹子的生长一样,竹子用4年的时间仅仅长了3cm,在第五年开始,以每天30cm的速度疯狂的生长,仅仅用6周就可以长到15米,其实在前面的4年,竹子将根在土壤里延伸了数百米。)我们也是一样只要坚持不断的去前进,终归收获客户与业绩。业绩一点一点,一步一个台阶走出了一点成绩,从刚开始连续4月没业绩,到第5月的第一个客户才半吨货,半年才实现了3吨的业务量。曾经的一度灰心,是领导、同事们的支持、帮助下,通过努力20__年实现71吨的销量;20__年更是突破了300吨,并成功开发了6个新客户,可以说是从量变到质变的升级。

以上,也仅仅说明20__年的一点工作回顾,还谈不上成绩。20__年,坚持“强化、深化、细化”工作思路下,围绕高端品逐步体现出来的优势,加大业务销量和开发新客户的力度,以落实强化、深化、细化工作,我也力争在高端品领域实现自己更大的突破,力争实现600吨销量的目标任务。我相信,我能做到,同时,也鼓励新加入我们销售团队的同仁们,只要努力,只要坚持,付出总会得到回报的!

同时,我个人认为:恒瑞这个大平台是一个充满活力和正能量的企业,公司所提倡的孝贤文化,以及以人为本的理念,使我在工作中感到非常的愉快与轻松。各位领导和同事们的平易近人,使公司整个办公环境变得充满活力和激情。没有压抑感,这也是我来恒瑞两年多的时间里最大的感受,我很喜欢这种环境,也很珍惜这个平台和机会。我希望我们的恒瑞,我们的大家庭越来越好,越来越强大,只有这样我们的个人小家庭,才会更幸福温暖,更有钱景!大家也都明白大河无水小河干的道理,所以恒瑞的明天也是我们的未来。公司的发展与进步,离不开我们每个人的添砖加瓦!我们每个人都有责任和义务去为这个大家庭去贡献自己的一份力量。愿我们的公司,我们的恒瑞,在未来的日子里,一天比一天美好,一年比一年辉煌。

在此我也祝愿各位领导各位同事,在新的一年里,新年快乐,身体健康,万事如意!

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大家好!

有位哲人说得好:如果你不能成为大道,那就当一条小路;如果你不能成为太阳,那就当一颗星星。决定成败的不是尺寸的大小,而在于做一个的你。

也许你常常抱怨自己没有怡人的相貌,没有动人的歌喉,没有惊人的壮举,没有骄人的成绩,没有……也许我们每个人都有自己无法实现的梦想,也许理想和现实总存在着差距。那么,面对这些,你是无奈,是悲痛,还是积极进取?我想每一位有上进心的人都是不甘沉沦的。

再次回顾哲人那段话,我想,大道固然引人注目,但小路也自有小路的风味;太阳虽然被人高歌,受人关注,但哪一颗星星不是“太阳”?只不过它距离我们太遥远罢了,而实际上,它或许比太阳更大,更亮。

总之,社会需要各种人才,每个人都有适合自己的位置。我们不必去追求那些遥不可及的梦想,只要做一个真实的、的你就可以了,不是吗?

2024ted演讲稿篇16

onedayin1819,3,000milesoffthecoastofchile,inoneofthemostremoteregionsofthepacificocean,20americansailorswatchedtheirshipfloodwithseawater.

1819年的某一天,在距离智利海岸3000英里的地方,有一个太平洋上的最偏远的水域,20名美国船员目睹了他们的船只进水的场面。

they'dbeenstruckbyaspermwhale,whichhadrippedacatastrophicholeintheship'shull.astheirshipbegantosinkbeneaththeswells,themenhuddledtogetherinthreesmallwhaleboats.

他们和一头抹香鲸相撞,给船体撞了一个毁灭性的大洞。当船在巨浪中开始沉没时,人们在三条救生小艇中抱作一团。

thesemenwere10,000milesfromhome,morethan1,000milesfromthenearestscrapofland.intheirsmallboats,theycarriedonlyrudimentarynavigationalequipmentandlimitedsuppliesoffoodandwater.

这些人在离家10000万英里的地方,离最近的陆地也超过1000英里。在他们的小艇中,他们只带了落后的导航设备和有限的食物和饮水。

thesewerethemenofthewhaleshipesse_,whosestorywouldlaterinspirepartsof"mobydick."

他们就是捕鲸船esse_上的人们,后来的他们的故事成为《白鲸记》的一部分。

evenintoday'sworld,theirsituationwouldbereallydire,butthinkabouthowmuchworseitwouldhavebeenthen.

即使在当今的世界,碰上这种情况也够杯具的,更不用说在当时的情况有多糟糕。

nooneonlandhadanyideathatanythinghadgonewrong.nosearchpartywascomingtolookforthesemen.somostofushavenevere_periencedasituationasfrighteningastheoneinwhichthesesailorsfoundthemselves,butweallknowwhatit'sliketobeafraid.

岸上的人根本就还没意识到出了什么问题。没有任何人来搜寻他们。我们当中大部分人没有经历过这些船员所处的可怕情景,但我们都知道害怕是什么感觉。

weknowhowfearfeels,buti'mnotsurewespendenoughtimethinkingaboutwhatourfearsmean.

我们知道恐惧的感觉,但是我不能肯定我们会花很多时间想过我们的恐惧到底意味着什么。

aswegrowup,we'reoftenencouragedtothinkoffearasaweakness,justanotherchildishthingtodiscardlikebabyteethorrollerskates.

我们长大以后,我们总是会被鼓励把恐惧视为软弱,需要像乳牙或轮滑鞋一样扔掉的幼稚的东西。

andithinkit'snoaccidentthatwethinkthisway.neuroscientistshaveactuallyshownthathumanbeingsarehard-wiredtobeoptimists.

我想意外事故并非我们所想的那样。神经系统科学家已经知道人类生来就是乐观主义者。

somaybethat'swhywethinkoffear,sometimes,asadangerinandofitself."don'tworry,"weliketosaytooneanother."don'tpanic."inenglish,fearissomethingweconquer.it'ssomethingwefight.

这也许就是为什么我们认为有时候恐惧,本身就是一种危险或带来危险。“不要愁。”我们总是对别人说。“不要慌”。英语中,恐惧是我们需要征服的东西。是我们必须对抗的东西,是我们必须克服的东西。

it'ssomethingweovercome.butwhatifwelookedatfearinafreshway?whatifwethoughtoffearasanamazingactoftheimagination,somethingthatcanbeasprofoundandinsightfulasstorytellingitself?

但是我们如果换个视角看恐惧会如何呢?如果我们把恐惧当做是想象力的一个惊人成果,是和我们讲故事一样精妙而有见地的东西,又会如何呢?

it'seasiesttoseethislinkbetweenfearandtheimaginationinyoungchildren,whosefearsareoftene_traordinarilyvivid.

在小孩子当中,我们最容易看到恐惧与想象之间的联系,他们的恐惧经常是超级生动的。

wheniwasachild,ilivedincalifornia,whichis,youknow,mostlyaveryniceplacetolive,butformeasachild,californiacouldalsobealittlescary.

我小时候住在加利福尼亚,你们都知道,是非常适合居住的位置,但是对一个小孩来说,加利福尼亚也会有点吓人。

irememberhowfrighteningitwastoseethechandelierthathungaboveourdiningtableswingbackandforthduringeveryminorearthquake,andisometimescouldn'tsleepatnight,terrifiedthatthebigonemightstrikewhileweweresleeping.

我记得每次小地震的时候当我看到我们餐桌上的吊灯晃来晃去的时候是多么的吓人,我经常会彻夜难眠,担心大地震会在我们睡觉的时候突然袭来。

andwhatwesayaboutkidswhohavefearslikethatisthattheyhaveavividimagination.butatacertainpoint,mostofuslearntoleavethesekindsofvisionsbehindandgrowup.

我们说小孩子感受到这种恐惧是因为他们有生动的想象力。但是在某个时候,我们大多数学会了抛弃这种想法而变得成熟。

welearnthattherearenomonstershidingunderthebed,andnoteveryearthquakebringsbuildingsdown.butmaybeit'snocoincidencethatsomeofourmostcreativemindsfailtoleavethesekindsoffearsbehindasadults.

我们都知道床下没有魔鬼,也不是每个地震都会震垮房子。但是我们当中最有想象力的人们并没有因为成年而抛弃这种恐惧,这也许并不是巧合。

thesameincredibleimaginationsthatproduced"theoriginofspecies,""janeeyre"and"theremembranceofthingspast,"alsogeneratedintenseworriesthathauntedtheadultlivesofcharlesdarwin,charlottebrontandmarcelproust.sothequestionis,whatcantherestofuslearnaboutfearfromvisionariesandyoungchildren?

同样不可思议的想象力创造了《物种起源》,《简·爱》和《追忆似水年华》,也就是这种与生俱来的深深的担忧一直缠绕着成年的查尔斯·达尔文,夏洛特·勃朗特和马塞尔·普罗斯特。问题就来了,我们其他人如何能从这些梦想家和小孩子身上学会恐惧?

welllet'sreturntotheyear1819foramoment,tothesituationfacingthecrewofthewhaleshipesse_.let'stakealookatthefearsthattheirimaginationsweregeneratingastheydriftedinthemiddleofthepacific.

让我们暂时回到1819年,回到esse_捕鲸船的水手们面对的情况。让我们看看他们漂流在太平洋中央时他们的想象力给他们带来的恐惧感觉。

twenty-fourhourshadnowpassedsincethecapsizingoftheship.thetimehadcomeforthementomakeaplan,buttheyhadveryfewoptions.

船倾覆后已经过了24个小时。这时人们制定了一个计划,但是其实他们没什么太多的选择。

inhisfascinatingaccountofthedisaster,nathanielphilbrickwrotethatthesemenwerejustaboutasfarfromlandasitwaspossibletobeanywhereonearth.

在纳撒尼尔·菲尔布里克(nathanielphilbrick)描述这场灾难的动人文章中,他写到“这些人离陆地如此之远,似乎永远都不可能到达地球上的任何一块陆地。”

themenknewthatthenearestislandstheycouldreachwerethemarquesasislands,1,200milesaway.butthey'dheardsomefrighteningrumors.

这些人知道离他们最近的岛是1200英里以外的马克萨斯群岛(marquesasislands)。但是他们听到了让人恐怖的谣言。

they'dbeentoldthattheseislands,andseveralothersnearby,werepopulatedbycannibals.sothemenpicturedcomingashoreonlytobemurderedandeatenfordinner.anotherpossibledestinationwashawaii,butgiventheseason,thecaptainwasafraidthey'dbestruckbyseverestorms.

他们听说这些群岛,以及附近的一些岛屿上都住着食人族。所以他们脑中都是上岸以后就会被杀掉被人当做盘中餐的画面。另一个可行的目的地是夏威夷,但是船长担心他们会被困在风暴当中。

nowthelastoptionwasthelongest,andthemostdifficult:tosail1,500milesduesouthinhopesofreachingacertainbandofwindsthatcouldeventuallypushthemtowardthecoastofsouthamerica.

所以最后的选择是到最远,也是最艰险的地方:往南走1500英里希望某股风能最终把他们吹到南美洲的海岸。

buttheyknewthatthesheerlengthofthisjourneywouldstretchtheirsuppliesoffoodandwater.tobeeatenbycannibals,tobebatteredbystorms,tostarvetodeathbeforereachingland.

但是他们知道这个行程中一旦偏航将会耗尽他们食物和饮水的供给。被食人族吃掉,被风暴掀翻,在登陆前饿死。

thesewerethefearsthatdancedintheimaginationsofthesepoormen,andasitturnedout,thefeartheychosetolistentowouldgovernwhethertheylivedordied.

这就是萦绕在这群可怜的人想象中的恐惧,事实证明,他们选择听从的恐惧将决定他们的生死。

nowwemightjustaseasilycallthesefearsbyadifferentname.whatifinsteadofcallingthemfears,wecalledthemstories?

也许我们可以很容易的用别的名称来称呼这些恐惧。我们不称之为恐惧,而是称它们为故事如何?

becausethat'sreallywhatfearis,ifyouthinkaboutit.it'sakindofunintentionalstorytellingthatweareallbornknowinghowtodo.andfearsandstorytellinghavethesamecomponents.

如果你仔细想想,这是恐惧真正的意义。这是一种与生俱来的,无意识的讲故事的能力。恐惧和讲故事有着同样的构成。

theyhavethesamearchitecture.likeallstories,fearshavecharacters.inourfears,thecharactersareus.fearsalsohaveplots.theyhavebeginningsandmiddlesandends.youboardtheplane.

他们有同样的结构。如同所有的故事,恐惧中有角色。在恐惧中,角色就是我们自己。恐惧也有情节。他们有开头,有中间,有结尾。你登上飞机。

theplanetakesoff.theenginefails.ourfearsalsotendtocontainimagerythatcanbeeverybitasvividaswhatyoumightfindinthepagesofanovel.pictureacannibal,humanteethsinkingintohumanskin,humanfleshroastingoverafire.

飞机起飞。结果引擎故障。我们的恐惧会包括各种生动的想象,不比你看到的任何一个小说逊色。想象食人族,人类牙齿咬在人类皮肤上,人肉在火上烤。

fearsalsohavesuspense.ifi'vedonemyjobasastorytellertoday,youshouldbewonderingwhathappenedtothemenofthewhaleshipesse_.ourfearsprovokeinusaverysimilarformofsuspense.

恐惧中也有悬念。如果我今天像讲故事一样,留个悬念不说了,你们也许会很想知道esse_捕鲸船上,人们到底怎么样了。我们的恐惧用悬念一样的方式刺激我们。

justlikeallgreatstories,ourfearsfocusourattentiononaquestionthatisasimportantinlifeasitisinliterature:whatwillhappenne_t?

就像一个很好的故事,我们的恐惧也如同一部好的文学作品一样,将我们的注意力集中在对我们生命至关重要的问题上:后来发生了什么?

inotherwords,ourfearsmakeusthinkaboutthefuture.andhumans,bytheway,aretheonlycreaturescapableofthinkingaboutthefutureinthisway,ofprojectingourselvesforwardintime,andthismentaltimetravelisjustonemorethingthatfearshaveincommonwithstorytelling.

换而言之,我们的恐惧让我们想到未来。另外,人来是唯一有能力通过这种方式想到未来的生物,就是预测时间推移后我们的状况,这种精神上的时间旅行是恐惧与讲故事的另一个共同点。

asawriter,icantellyouthatabigpartofwritingfictionislearningtopredicthowoneeventinastorywillaffectalltheotherevents,andfearworksinthatsameway.

我是一个作家,我要告诉你们写小说一个很重要的部分就是学会预测故事中一件事情如何影响另一件事情,恐惧也是同样这么做的。

infear,justlikeinfiction,onethingalwaysleadstoanother.wheniwaswritingmyfirstnovel,"theageofmiracles,"ispentmonthstryingtofigureoutwhatwouldhappeniftherotationoftheearthsuddenlybegantoslowdown.whatwouldhappentoourdays?

恐惧中,如同小说一样,一件事情总是导致另一件事情。我写我的第一部小说《奇迹时代》的时候,我花了数月的时间想象如果地球旋转突然变慢了之后会发生什么。我们的一天变得如何?

whatwouldhappentoourcrops?whatwouldhappentoourminds?andthenitwasonlylaterthatirealizedhowverysimilarthesequestionsweretotheonesiusedtoaskmyselfasachildfrightenedinthenight.

我们身体会怎样?我们的思想会有什么变化?也就是在那之后,我意识到我过去总是问自己的那些些问题和孩子们在夜里害怕是多么的相像。

ifanearthquakestrikestonight,iusedtoworry,whatwillhappentoourhouse?whatwillhappentomyfamily?andtheanswertothosequestionsalwaystooktheformofastory.

要是在过去,如果今晚发生地震,我会很担心,我的房子会怎么样啊?家里人会怎样啊?这类问题的答案通常都会和故事一样。

soifwethinkofourfearsasmorethanjustfearsbutasstories,weshouldthinkofourselvesastheauthorsofthosestories.butjustasimportantly,weneedtothinkofourselvesasthereadersofourfears,andhowwechoosetoreadourfearscanhaveaprofoundeffectonourlives.

所以我们认为我们的恐惧不仅仅是恐惧还是故事,我们应该把自己当作这些故事的作者。但是同样重要的是,我们需要想象我们自己是我们恐惧的解读者,我们选择如何去解读这些恐惧会对我们的生活产生深远的影响。

now,someofusnaturallyreadourfearsmorecloselythanothers.ireadaboutastudyrecentlyofsuccessfulentrepreneurs,andtheauthorfoundthatthesepeoplesharedahabitthathecalled"productiveparanoia,"whichmeantthatthesepeople,insteadofdismissingtheirfears,thesepeoplereadthemclosely,theystudiedthem,andthentheytranslatedthatfearintopreparationandaction.

现在,我们中有些人比其他人更自然的解读自己的恐惧。最近我看过一个关于成功的企业家的研究,作者发现这些人都有个习惯叫做“未雨绸缪“,意思是,这些人,不回避自己的恐惧,而是认真解读并研究恐惧,然后把恐惧转换成准备和行动。

sothatway,iftheirworstfearscametrue,theirbusinesseswereready.

这样,如果最坏的事情发生了,他们的企业也有所准备。

andsometimes,ofcourse,ourworstfearsdocometrue.that'soneofthethingsthatissoe_traordinaryaboutfear.onceinawhile,ourfearscanpredictthefuture.

当然,很多时候,最坏的事情确实发生了。这是恐惧非凡的一面。曾几何时,我们的恐惧预测将来。

butwecan'tpossiblyprepareforallofthefearsthatourimaginationsconcoct.sohowcanwetellthedifferencebetweenthefearsworthlisteningtoandalltheothers?ithinktheendofthestoryofthewhaleshipesse_offersanilluminating,iftragic,e_ample.

但是我们不可能为我们想象力构建的所有恐惧来做准备。所以,如何区分值得听从的恐惧和不值得的呢?我想捕鲸船esse_的故事结局提供了一个有启发性,同时又悲惨的例子。

aftermuchdeliberation,themenfinallymadeadecision.terrifiedofcannibals,theydecidedtoforgotheclosestislandsandinsteadembarkedonthelongerandmuchmoredifficultroutetosouthamerica.

经过数次权衡,他们最终做出了决定。由于害怕食人族,他们决定放弃最近的群岛而是开始更长更艰难的南美洲之旅。

aftermorethantwomonthsatsea,themenranoutoffoodastheyknewtheymight,andtheywerestillquitefarfromland.whenthelastofthesurvivorswerefinallypickedupbytwopassingships,lessthanhalfofthemenwereleftalive,andsomeofthemhadresortedtotheirownformofcannibalism.

在海上呆了两个多月后,他们的食物如预料之中消耗殆尽,而且他们仍然离陆地那么远。当最后的幸存者最终被过往船只救起时,只有一小半的人还活着,实际上他们中的一些人自己变成了食人族。

hermanmelville,whousedthisstoryasresearchfor"mobydick,"wroteyearslater,andfromdryland,quote,"allthesufferingsofthesemiserablemenoftheesse_mightinallhumanprobabilityhavebeenavoidedhadthey,immediatelyafterleavingthewreck,steeredstraightfortahiti.

赫尔曼·梅尔维尔(hermanmelville)将这个故事作为《白鲸记》的素材,在数年后写到:esse_船上遇难者的悲惨结局或许是可以通过人为的努力避免的,如果他们当机立断地离开沉船,直奔塔西提群岛。

but,"asmelvilleputit,"theydreadedcannibals."sothequestionis,whydidthesemendreadcannibalssomuchmorethanthee_tremelikelihoodofstarvation?

“但是”,梅尔维尔说道:“他们害怕食人族”问题是,为什么这些人对于食人族的恐惧超过了更有可能的饥饿威胁呢?

whyweretheyswayedbyonestorysomuchmorethantheother?lookedatfromthisangle,theirsbecomesastoryaboutreading.thenovelistvladimirnabokovsaidthatthebestreaderhasacombinationoftwoverydifferenttemperaments,theartisticandthescientific.

为什么他们会被一个故事影响如此之大呢?从另一个角度来看,这是一个关于解读的故事。小说家弗拉基米尔·纳博科夫(vladimirnabokov)说最好的读者能把两种截然不同的性格结合起来,一个是艺术气质,一个是科学精神。

agoodreaderhasanartist'spassion,awillingnesstogetcaughtupinthestory,butjustasimportantly,thereadersalsoneedsthecoolnessofjudgmentofascientist,whichactstotemperandcomplicatethereader'sintuitivereactionstothestory.aswe'veseen,themenoftheesse_hadnotroublewiththeartisticpart.

好的读者有艺术家的热情,愿意融入故事当中,但是同样重要的是,这些读者还要有科学家的冷静判断,这能帮助他们稳定情绪并分析其对故事的直觉反应。我们可以看出来,esse_上的人在艺术部分一点问题都没有。

theydreamedupavarietyofhorrifyingscenarios.theproblemwasthattheylistenedtothewrongstory.ofallthenarrativestheirfearswrote,theyrespondedonlytothemostlurid,themostvivid,theonethatwaseasiestfortheirimaginationstopicture:cannibals.

他们梦想到一系列恐怖的场景。问题在于他们听从了一个错误的故事。所有他们恐惧中他们只对其中最耸人听闻,最生动的故事,也是他们想象中最早出现的场景:食人族。

butperhapsifthey'dbeenabletoreadtheirfearsmorelikeascientist,withmorecoolnessofjudgment,theywouldhavelistenedinsteadtothelessviolentbutthemorelikelytale,thestoryofstarvation,andheadedfortahiti,justasmelville'ssadcommentarysuggests.

也许,如果他们能像科学家那样稍微冷静一点解读这个故事,如果他们能听从不太惊悚但是更可能发生的半路饿死的故事,他们可能就会直奔塔西提群岛,如梅尔维尔充满惋惜的评论所建议的那样。

andmaybeifwealltriedtoreadourfears,wetoowouldbelessoftenswayedbythemostsalaciousamongthem.

也许如果我们都试着解读自己的恐惧,我们就能少被其中的一些幻象所迷惑。

maybethenwe'dspendlesstimeworryingaboutserialkillersandplanecrashes,andmoretimeconcernedwiththesubtlerandslowerdisastersweface:thesilentbuildupofplaqueinourarteries,thegradualchangesinourclimate.

我们也就能少花一点时间在为系列杀手或者飞机失事方面的担忧,而是更多的关心那些悄然而至的灾难:动脉血小板的逐渐堆积,气候的逐渐变迁。

justasthemostnuancedstoriesinliteratureareoftentherichest,sotoomightoursubtlestfearsbethetruest.readintherightway,ourfearsareanamazinggiftoftheimagination,akindofeverydayclairvoyance,awayofglimpsingwhatmightbethefuturewhenthere'sstilltimetoinfluencehowthatfuturewillplayout.

如同文学中最精妙的故事通常是最丰富的故事,我们最细微的恐惧才是最真实的恐惧。用正确的方法的解读,我们的恐惧就是我们想象力赐给我们的礼物,借此一双慧眼,让我们能管窥未来甚至影响未来。

properlyread,ourfearscanofferussomethingaspreciousasourfavoriteworksofliterature:alittlewisdom,abitofinsightandaversionofthatmostelusivething--thetruth.thankyou.

如果能得到正确的解读,我们的恐惧能和我们最喜欢的文学作品一样给我们珍贵的东西:一点点智慧,一点点洞悉以及对最玄妙东西——真相的诠释。谢谢。

(applause)

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2024ted演讲稿篇17

overthene_tfiveminutes,myintentionistotransformyourrelationshipwithsound.letmestartwiththeobservationthatmostofthesoundaroundusisaccidental,andmuchofitisunpleasant.(trafficnoise)westandonstreetcorners,shoutingovernoiselikethis,andpretendingthatitdoesn'te_ist.well,thishabitofsuppressingsoundhasmeantthatourrelationshipwithsoundhasbecomelargelyunconscious.

therearefourmajorwayssoundisaffectingyouallthetime,andi'dliketoraisetheminyourconsciousnesstoday.firstisphysiological.(loudalarmclocks)sorryaboutthat.i'vejustgivenyouashotofcortisol,yourfight/flighthormone.soundsareaffectingyourhormonesecretionsallthetime,butalsoyourbreathing,yourheartrate--whichijustalsodid--andyourbrainwaves.

it'snotjustunpleasantsoundslikethatthatdoit.thisissurf.(oceanwaves)ithasthefrequencyofroughly12cyclesperminute.mostpeoplefindthatverysoothing,and,interestingly,12cyclesperminuteisroughlythefrequencyofthebreathingofasleepinghuman.thereisadeepresonancewithbeingatrest.wealsoassociateitwithbeingstress-freeandonholiday.

thesecondwayinwhichsoundaffectsyouispsychological.musicisthemostpowerfulformofsoundthatweknowthataffectsouremotionalstate.(albinoni'sadagio)thisisguaranteedtomakemostofyoufeelprettysadifileaveiton.musicisnottheonlykindofsound,however,whichaffectsyouremotions.

naturalsoundcandothattoo.birdsong,fore_ample,isasoundwhichmostpeoplefindreassuring.(birdschirping)thereisareasonforthat.overhundredsofthousandsofyearswe'velearnedthatwhenthebirdsaresinging,thingsaresafe.it'swhentheystopyouneedtobeworried.

thethirdwayinwhichsoundaffectsyouiscognitively.youcan'tunderstandtwopeopletalkingatonce("ifyou'relisteningtothisversionof")("meyou'reonthewrongtrack.")orinthiscaseonepersontalkingtwice.tryandlistentotheotherone.("youhavetochoosewhichmeyou'regoingtolistento.")

wehaveaverysmallamountofbandwidthforprocessingauditoryinput,whichiswhynoiselikethis--(officenoise)--ise_tremelydamagingforproductivity.ifyouhavetoworkinanopen-planofficelikethis,yourproductivityisgreatlyreduced.andwhatevernumberyou'rethinkingof,itprobablyisn'tasbadasthis.(ominousmusic)youareonethirdasproductiveinopen-planofficesasinquietrooms.andihaveatipforyou.ifyouhavetoworkinspaceslikethat,carryheadphoneswithyou,withasoothingsoundlikebirdsong.putthemonandyourproductivitygoesbackuptotriplewhatitwouldbe.

thefourthwayinwhichsoundaffectsusisbehaviorally.withallthatotherstuffgoingon,itwouldbeamazingifourbehaviordidn'tchange.(technomusicinsideacar)so,askyourself:isthispersonevergoingtodriveatasteady28milesperhour?idon'tthinkso.atthesimplest,youmoveawayfromunpleasantsoundandtowardspleasantsounds.soifiweretoplaythis--(jackhammer)--formorethanafewseconds,you'dfeeluncomfortable;formorethanafewminutes,you'dbeleavingtheroomindroves.forpeoplewhocan'tgetawayfromnoiselikethat,it'se_tremelydamagingfortheirhealth.

andthat'snottheonlythingthatbadsounddamages.mostretailsoundisinappropriateandaccidental,andevenhostile,andithasadramaticeffectonsales.forthoseofyouwhoareretailers,youmaywanttolookawaybeforeishowthisslide.theyarelosingupto30percentoftheirbusinesswithpeopleleavingshopsfaster,orjustturningaroundonthedoor.weallhavedoneit,leavingtheareabecausethesoundinthereissodreadful.

iwanttospendjustamomenttalkingaboutthemodelthatwe'vedeveloped,whichallowsustostartatthetopandlookatthedriversofsound,analyzethesoundscapeandthenpredictthefouroutcomesi'vejusttalkedabout.orstartatthebottom,andsaywhatoutcomesdowewant,andthendesignasoundscapetohaveadesiredeffect.atlastwe'vegotsomesciencewecanapply.andwe'reinthebusinessofdesigningsoundscapes.

justawordonmusic.musicisthemostpowerfulsoundthereis,ofteninappropriatelydeployed.it'spowerfulfortworeasons.yourecognizeitfast,andyouassociateitverypowerfully.i'llgiveyoutwoe_amples.(firstchordofthebeatles'"ahardday'snight")mostofyourecognizethatimmediately.theyounger,maybenot.(laughter)(firsttwonotesof"jaws"theme)andmostofyouassociatethatwithsomething!now,thoseareone-secondsamplesofmusic.musicisverypowerful.andunfortunatelyit'sveneeringcommercialspaces,ofteninappropriately.ihopethat'sgoingtochangeoverthene_tfewyears.

letmejusttalkaboutbrandsforamoment,becausesomeofyourunbrands.everybrandisouttheremakingsoundrightnow.thereareeighte_pressionsofabrandinsound.theyareallimportant.andeverybrandneedstohaveguidelinesatthecenter.i'mgladtosaythatisstartingtohappennow.(inteladjingle)youallrecognizethatone.(nokiaringtone)thisisthemost-playedtuneintheworldtoday.1.8billiontimesaday,thattuneisplayed.anditcostnokiaabsolutelynothing.

justleaveyouwithfourgoldenrules,forthoseofyouwhorunbusinesses,forcommercialsound.first,makeitcongruent,pointinginthesamedirectionasyourvisualcommunication.thatincreasesimpactbyover1,100percent.ifyoursoundispointingtheoppositedirection,incongruent,youreduceimpactby86percent.that'sanorderofmagnitude,upordown.thisisimportant.secondly,makeitappropriatetothesituation.thirdly,makeitvaluable.givepeoplesomethingwiththesound.don'tjustbombardthemwithstuff.and,finally,testandtestitagain.soundiscomple_.therearemanycountervailinginfluences.itcanbeabitlikeabowlofspaghetti:sometimesyoujusthavetoeatitandseewhathappens.

soihopethistalkhasraisedsoundinyourconsciousness.ifyou'relisteningconsciously,youcantakecontrolofthesoundaroundyou.it'sgoodforyourhealth.it'sgoodforyourproductivity.ifwealldothatwemovetoastatethatiliketothinkwillbesoundlivingintheworld.i'mgoingtoleaveyouwithalittlebitmorebirdsong.(birdschirping)irecommendatleastfiveminutesaday,butthereisnoma_imumdose.thankyouforlendingmeyourearstoday.(applause)

2024ted演讲稿篇18

大家好!

有句话说:世界上没有两片完全相同的树叶。更没有相同的两个人,我们不能拿普遍的眼光凭某件事看待每个人,而当我们被错误的认识时,就要调整自己的心态——做自己。

有句话说得好:走自己的路,让别人说去吧!我们生在当下,不可能让每个人赞同自己,别人对你提的建议而并非完全适合你,此时就需要自己端正心态,明确自己的路,坚定不移的走下去。李娜在取得法网冠军后长期低迷,被众人评议为昙花一现,刘翔在20__年奥运年会上因一个转身使13亿中国人民惋惜,当听到刘翔退赛的消息时,不知有多少人为之哗然。难道他们真像众人所说的不堪一击吗?如果是,那就不会有20__年7连胜的佳绩,那就不会有尤金赛中12秒87的世界纪录,他们也有沮丧,但更多的是奋起,是努力造就一个新的自己。

一个苹果,有人说它甜,有人说他酸。我们不能避免被别人评论,我们不能,但我们可以更好。

我们只想完成自己的心愿,我们要做的是努力,付出。而不是别人嘴上说的自己,因为我们只想做自己,只能做自己。

2024ted演讲稿篇19

我是个说书之人。在这里,我想和大家分享一些我本人的故事。一些关于所谓的“单一故事的危险性”的经历。我成长在尼日利亚东部的一所大学校园里。我母亲常说我从两岁起就开始读书。不过我认为“四岁起”比较接近事实。所以我从小就开始读书,读的是英国和美国的儿童书籍。

我也是从小就开始写作,当我在七岁那年,开始强迫我可怜的母亲阅读我用铅笔写好的故事,外加上蜡笔描绘的插图时,我所写的故事正如我所读的故事那般,我故事里的人物们都是白皮肤、蓝眼睛的。常在雪中嬉戏,吃着苹果。而且他们经常讨论天气,讨论太阳出来时,一切都多么美好。我一直写着这样故事,虽然说我当时住在尼日利亚,并且从来没有出过国。虽然说我们从来没见过雪,虽然说我们实际上只能吃到芒果;虽然说我们从不讨论天气,因为根本没这个必要。

我故事里的人物们也常喝姜汁啤酒,因为我所读的那些英国书中的人物们常喝姜汁啤酒。虽然说我当时完全不知道姜汁啤酒是什么东西。时隔多年,我一直都怀揣着一个深切的渴望,想尝尝姜汁啤酒的味道。不过这要另当别论了。

这一切所表明的,正是在一个个的故事面前,我们是何等的脆弱,何等的易受影响,尤其当我们还是孩子的时候,因为我当时读的所有书中只有外国人物,我因而坚信:书要想被称为书,就必须有外国人在里面,就必须是关于我无法亲身体验的事情,而这一切都在我接触了非洲书籍之后发生了改变。当时非洲书并不多,而且他们也不像国外书籍那样好找。不过因为!和!之类的作家,我思维中对于文学的概念,产生了质的改变。我意识到像我这样的人———有着巧克力般的肤色和永远无法梳成马尾辫的卷曲头发的女孩们,也可以出现在文学作品中。

我开始撰写我所熟知的事物,但这并不是说我不喜爱那些美国和英国书籍,恰恰相反,那些书籍激发了我的想象力,为我开启了新的世界。但随之而来的后果就是,我不知道原来像我这样的人,也是可以存在于文学作品中的,而与非洲作家的结缘,则是将我从对于书籍的单一故事中拯救了出来。

我来自一个传统的尼日利亚中产家庭,我的父亲是一名教授,我的母亲是一名大学管理员。因此我们和很多其他家庭一样,都会从附近的村庄中雇佣一些帮手来打理家事。在我八岁那一年,我们家招来了一位新的男仆。他的名字叫做FIDE。我父亲只告诉我们说,他是来自一个非常穷苦的家庭,我母亲会时不时的将山芋、大米,还有我们穿旧的衣服送到他的家里。每当我剩下晚饭的时候,我的母亲就会说:吃净你的食物!难道你不知道吗?像FIDE家这样的人可是一无所有。因此我对他们家人充满了怜悯。

后来的一个星期六,我们去FIDE的村庄拜访,他的母亲向我们展示了一个精美别致的草篮————用FIDE的哥哥用染过色的酒椰叶编制的。我当时完全被震惊了。我从来没有想过FIDE的家人居然有亲手制造东西的才能。在那之前,我对FIDE家唯一的了解就是他们是何等的穷困,正因为如此,他们在我脑中的印象只是一个字——————“穷”。他们的贫穷是我赐予他们的单一故事。

多年以后,在我离开尼日利亚前往美国读大学的时候,我又想到了这件事。我那时19岁,我的美国室友当时完全对我感到十分惊讶了。他问我是从哪里学的讲一口如此流利的英语,而当我告知她尼日利亚刚巧是以英语作为官方语言的时候,她的脸上则是写满了茫然。她问我是否可以给她听听她所谓的“部落音乐”,可想而知,当我拿出玛丽亚凯莉的磁带时,她是何等的失望,她断定我不知道如何使用电炉。

我猛然意识到“在他见到我之前,她就已经对我充满了怜悯之心。她对我这个非洲人的预设心态是一种充满施恩与好意的怜悯之情。我那位室友的脑中有一个关于非洲的单一故事。一个充满了灾难的单一故事。在这个单一的故事中,非洲人是完全没有可能在任何方面和她有所相似的;没有可能接收到比怜悯更复杂的感情;没有可能以一个平等的人类的身份与她沟通。

我不得不强调,在我前往美国之前,我从来没有有意识的把自己当做个非洲人。但在美国的时候,每当人们提到”非洲“时,大家都会转向我,虽然我对之类的地方一无所知。但我渐渐的开始接受这个新的身份,现在很多时候我都是把自己当做一个非洲人来看待。不过当人们把非洲当做一个国家来讨论的时候,我还是觉得挺反感的。最近的一次例子就发生在两天前,我从拉各斯搭乘航班,旅程原本相当愉快,直到广播里开始介绍在”印度、非洲以及其他国家”所进行的慈善事业。

当我以一名非洲人的身份在美国读过几年之后,我开始理解我那位室友当时对我的反应。如果我不是在尼日利亚长大,如果我对非洲的一切认识都是来自于大众流行的影像,我相信我眼中的非洲也同样是充满了美丽的地貌、美丽的动物,以及一群难以理解的人们进行着毫无意义的战争、死于艾滋和贫穷、无法为自己辩护,并且等待着一位慈悲的、白种的外国人的救赎,我看待非洲的方式将会和我儿时看待FIDE一家的方式是一样的。

我认为关于非洲的这个单一故事从根本上来自于西方的文学。这是来自伦敦商人JohnLocke的一段话。他在1561年的时候,曾游历非洲西部,并且为他的航行做了翻很有趣的记录。他先是把黑色的非洲人称为“没有房子的野兽”,随后又写道:“他们也是一群无头脑的人,他们的嘴和眼睛都长在了他们的胸口上。”

我每次读到这一段的时候,都不禁大笑起来。他的想象力真的是让人敬佩。但关于他的作品极其重要的一点是它昭示着西方社会讲述非洲故事的一个传统,在这个传统中,撒哈拉以南的非洲充满了消极、差异以及黑暗,是伟大的诗人RudyardKipling笔下所形容的“半恶魔、半孩童”的奇异人种。

正因为如此,我开始意识到我的那位美国室友一定在她的成长过程中,看到并且听过关于这个单一故事的不同版本,就如同之前一位曾经批判我的小说缺乏“真实的非洲感”的教授一样。话说我倒是甘愿承认我的小说有几处写的不好的地方,有几处败笔,但我很难想象我的小说既然会缺乏“真实的非洲感”。事实上,我甚至不知道真实的非洲感到底是个什么东西。那位教授跟我说我书中的人物都和他太相近了,都是受过教育的中产人物。我的人物会开车,他们没有受到饥饿的困扰。正因此,他们缺乏了真实的非洲感。

我在这里不得不指出,我本人也常常被单一的故事蒙蔽双眼。几年前,我从美国探访墨西哥,当时美国的政治气候比较紧张。关于移民的辩论一直在进行着。而在美国,“移民”和“墨西哥人”常常被当做同义词来使用。关于墨西哥人的故事是源源不绝,讲的都是欺诈医疗系统、偷渡边境、在边境被捕之类的事情。

我还记得当我到达瓜达拉哈拉的第一天,看着人们前往工作,在市集上吃着墨西哥卷、抽着烟、大笑着,我记得我刚看到这一切时是何等的惊讶,但随后我的心中便充满了羞耻感。我意识到我当时完全被沉浸在媒体上关于墨西哥人的报道,以致于他们在我的脑中幻化成一个单一的个体———卑贱的移民。我完全相信了关于墨西哥人的单一故事,对此我感到无比的羞愧。这就是创造单一故事的过程,将一群人一遍又一遍地呈现为一个事物,并且只是一个事物,时间久了,他们就变成了那个事物。

而说到单一的故事,就自然而然地要讲到权力这个问题。每当我想到这个世界的权力结构的时候,我都会想起一个伊傅语中的单词,叫做“nkali”,它是一个名词,可以在大意上被翻译成”比另一个人强大。”就如同我们的经济和政治界一样,我们所讲的故事也是建立在它的原则上的。这些故事是怎样被讲述的、由谁来讲述、何时被讲述、有多少故事被讲述,这一切都取决于权力。

2024ted演讲稿篇20

幸福是平等的,幸福是无价的,幸福是珍贵的,幸福是每个人都拥有的。

有人会认为幸福就是有钱、有势、有地位,无钱无势无地位就是不幸福。但谁知道幸福就在我们身边。如果你和以上人的观点一样,那你就太低俗了。

每天回到家,家不是冷冷清清而是有人做好热腾腾的饭菜等你,这就是幸福。每天的说平平淡淡的,不出任何意外,这就是幸福。每月都有一定的工资,这就是幸福。亲朋好友连同自己身体健康、平安,这就是幸福。每天早上醒来,发现自己还活着,这就是幸福。

幸福不是你有钱有势有地位就可以得到的,也不是你费尽心思就可以得到的,它就在你身边一直没走远。

幸福很简单,只是吃饱喝足穿暖有地方住。不要对幸福奢望太多,属于你的幸福就在你身边。“鞋合不合脚,只有脚知道。”这和幸不幸福是同一个道理,也许别人看你不幸福,你却十分幸福。不要盲目追求别人的幸福,到头来只会“竹篮子打水—一场空。”就连原本属于自己的幸福也会失去。

所以珍惜你的幸福吧,每个人的幸福都很简单。

2024ted演讲稿篇21

人的一生在世间浮沉,难免会迷失方向、迷失自己。因而,能够时刻正确认识自己,就显得尤为重要。苏格拉底曾说:“美德即知识,认识你自己。”这恰恰说明了,能够正确认识自己,也是一种至高无上的美德。

有的时候,人们迷失了自己,只是无法找寻到自己真实的存在,不知道自己存在的意义和价值,因而对人生感到迷茫。这个时候,只需要继续寻找,总能够找到前进的方向。然而有的时候,人们迷失了自己之后,不去寻找真实的自己,反而把自己臆想成另一种存在,然后就以那种存在的姿态去继续自己的人生。那种时候,人们就很难再找回自己,甚至会走上一条极端的不归路。

就如同古代帝王,相信每一任帝王在登基之初都是想做一任明君造福百姓的。但是有的帝王会因为权欲熏心,真的把自己当成神,可以主宰终生,最终背离了自己的初衷。纣王要剖比干之心,厉王要“止谤”,连一代圣君唐太宗也差点杀掉勇于劝谏的魏征。由此可见,不能正确认识自己的后果是多么可怕。这也说明了,正确认识自己,有的时候帮助的甚至不仅仅是自己。

但是,在人生迷茫之后,还能正确认识自己,真的那么困难吗?

其实,正确认识自己,只需要自己足够虚心,能够听取别人的意见和建议,有去正视自己和改过自新的勇气便可。

齐王在听了邹忌的劝谏之后,立刻认识到自己的不足,下令改革。法国作家卢梭,他的《忏悔录》是一部空前绝后的“灵魂自白书”,他在书中真实地记录了他的一生,包括他曾做过小偷、抛弃挚友、嫁祸他人的种.种丑行。读此《忏悔录》时常令人感到触目惊心,因为当他把自己剖析得体无完肤的时候,就是他真正认识自己、超越了自己的时候。

所以说,有的时候,正确认识自己,只需要自己思维的一个转变,但就是这样一个小小的转变,带来的影响却可以是不可估量的。对于个人而言,正确认识自己可以帮助自己更好地发展,有时也可以造福身边的人。而对于统治阶级而言,正确认识自己,就可以造福整个国家,给整个社会带去宁静安乐。

人生来不就是为了找到自己真实的存在吗?所以,正确认识自己吧。

2024ted演讲稿篇22

尊敬的老师们,亲爱的同学们:

大家好!

到底是剪短头发呢,还是继续留长发?我在镜子前来回踱步。

“当然是短发方便啦!”妈妈笑着说,“你头发越来越长了,打理起来也越来越麻烦。再说,尝试改变也是一件很美好的事哦!”

我又抬起头,望着镜中踌躇不安的自己和头上有些凌乱的长发,心想:改变为什么一定意味着失去呢?每天清晨,为了这一头长发,我常常要在镜前花费很多宝贵的时间。但是如果剪成了短发,不仅能节约时间,而且我还可以迎接一个崭新的模样,一个崭新的自我……

我下定了决心:改变!

于是,我坐在了理发店的转椅上,镜中的我露出心满意足的微笑。看着满地的碎发,我“如释重负”,一下子觉得世界焕然一新。看来,之前的担忧真是多余!

出了理发店,冬日的暖阳从云朵中露出微笑脸庞。我一边迈着欢快的步伐,一边在想:“改变,真好!”

这让我想起了另一件事。

以前,最让我焦虑的事情,就是在书房那“茫茫书海”中寻找一本急需的作业本。妈妈十分关心我,总是抽空帮我整理书房。但整理之后的日子里,书房总会时不时传来一连串问号:“妈妈,我的课外书呢?”“咦,我的练习册哪去了?”

于是,我尝试改变。从给每一本书归类到把书柜分格,从为每一本作业本“安家”,到给每一支笔找到“住所”……很快,我的书房中的每一位成员都有了“新家”。

从此,我都自己收拾房间。忙碌过后,我每次都感到疲倦,但内心却是无比快乐。因为我体验了“改变”:从妈妈为我的一切操劳,到我自己打理生活。我的房间越来越整洁,我也在改变中成长,越来越独立了。

生命中有许多需要改变的东西,我们要对改变充满信心,不能让多余的担心阻挡我们成长的步伐,因为改变让我们收获自信,收获希望,收获人生的多姿多态!改变,真好!

2024ted演讲稿篇23

Igrewupdiagnosedasphobicallyshy,

我从小就有社交恐惧症

andlikeatleast20otherpeopleinaroomofthissize,

这样的空间大约20人

Iwasastutterer.

就能让以前的我结巴语塞

Doyoudareraiseyourhand?

更别提举手了根本不可能

Anditstickswithus.

这种困扰如影随形

Itreallydoesstickwithus,

你走到哪它就跟到哪

becausewhenwearetreatedthatway,

当大家对你的存在视若无睹

wefeelinvisiblesometimes,

你会开始感觉自己是隐形人

ortalkedaroundandat.

而别人都在你背后窃窃私语

AndasIstartedtolookatpeople,

后来我仔细去观察周遭的人

whichismostlyallIdid,

一直以来我都只敢默默观察

Inoticedthatsomepeoplereallywantedattention

然后发现有些人无法忍受被忽视

andrecognition.

他们要得到大家的注意力和认同

Remember,Iwasyoungthen.

当时我年轻、懵懂

Sowhatdidtheydo?Whatwestilldoperhapstoooften?

渴望注意力的人会做什么?也许现在太多人在做一样的事而不自知

Wetalkaboutourselves.

他们谈论的常常都是自己

AndyetthereareotherpeopleIobservedwhohadwhatIcalledamutualitymindset.

但另一批人就不同了我说他们的人际关系往往有一种“互相”的心态

Ineachsituation,theyfoundawaytotalkaboutusandcreatethat“us”idea.

无论什么场合他们的谈话里都会出现“我们”这个概念

Somyideatoreimaginetheworldistoseeitonewhereweallbecomegreateropportunity-makerswithandforothers.

在我心目中的理想世界每个人都能为自己和别人创造机会

There’snogreateropportunityorcallforactionforusnow

就是现在我们必须把握良机、采取行动

thantobecomeopportunity-makerswhousebesttalentstogethermoreoftenforthegreatergood

多去整合各种才能尽可能的利益他人

andaccomplishthingswecouldn’thavedoneonourown.

一人做不到的多人或许有办法

AndIwanttotalktoyouaboutthat,

这就是我今天的重点

causeevenmorethangiving,

比单纯给予

evenmorethangiving,

施舍、捐赠更有影响力的

isthecapacityforustodosomethingsmartertogether

就是人们学会集思广益

forthegreatergoodthatliftsusbothup

共同合作创造双赢局面

andthatcanscale.

其中的利益会一层层积累

That’swhyI’msittinghere.

这是我今天演讲的重点

ButIalsowanttopointsomethingelseout.

不过我还想说一件事

Eachoneofyouisbetterthananybodyelseatsomething.

台下的你必定在某些事上比其他人都拿手

Thatdisprovesthatpopularnotionthatifyou’rethesmartestpersonintheroom,

和那句名言“你绝不是这里最厉害的人”

you’reinthewrongroom.

恰恰相反

SoletmetellyouaboutaHollywoodpartyIwenttoacoupleyearsback,

我在几年前的一个好莱坞聚会上

andImetthisup-and-comingactress,

遇见了位有潜力的女演员

andweweresoontalkingaboutsomethingthatwebothfeltpassionatelyabout,

我们很快就找到共同话题-

publicart.

公共艺术

AndshehadtheferventbeliefthateverynewbuildinginLosAngeles

她坚信洛杉矶的每栋建筑里

shouldhavepublicartinit.Shewantedaregulationforit,

都应该有公共艺术她想要一套专属公共艺术的规范

andsheferventlystarted,

所以她兴忡忡的着手进行

WhatisherefromChicago?

这里有谁是芝加哥人吗?

Sheferventlystartedtalkingaboutthesebean-shapedreflectivesculpturesinMillenniumPark,

她滔滔不绝的说着千禧公园里的云门雕塑

andpeoplewouldwalkuptoit

人们好奇的上前一探究竟

andthey’dsmileinthereflectionofit,

看着自己的映像微笑

andthey’dposeandthey’dvampandthey’dtakeselfiestogether

摆pose、赞叹、自拍留念

andthey’dlaugh.

然后笑成一团

Andasshewastalking,athoughtcametomymind.

听着听着我突然灵光乍现

Isaid,“Iknowsomeoneyououghttomeet.

我告诉她:“妳应该见见这个人

He’sgettingoutofSanQuentininacoupleofweeks

再几周他就要从圣昆丁州立监狱出来了

andhesharesyourferventdesirethatartshouldengageandenablepeopletoconnect.”

他跟妳一样觉得艺术应该让人有共鸣、激发想像力”

Hespentfiveyearsinsolitary,

他被单独监禁了五年

andImethimbecauseIgaveaspeechatSanQuentin,

我因为在圣昆丁演讲而与他结识

andhe’sarticulate

他口条不错

andhe’srathereasyontheeyes

长的也不赖

becausehe’sbuff.Hehadworkoutregimehedideveryday.

因为他是条热爱健身的汉子

Ithinkshewasfollowingmeatthatpoint.

女演员大概还满有兴趣的

Isaid,“he’dbeanune_pectedally.”

我又说:“他会是个得力助手”

Andnotjustthat.There’sJames.He’sanarchitect

除了他之外我把詹姆也拉进来詹姆是建筑师

andhe’saprofessor,

也是个教授

andhelovesplace-making,andplace-makingiswhenyouhavethosemini-plazas

他对地方营造很有兴趣外头的小广场、

andthoseurbanwalkways

城市人行道

andwherethey’redottedwithart,

任何有艺术点缀的地方都属于地方营造的范畴

wherepeopledrawandcomeupandtalksometimes.

许多人会在那儿画画、闲聊

Ithinkthey’dmakegoodallies.

我想他们一定能合作无间

Andindeedtheywere.

果真没错

Theymettogether.Theyprepared.

他们碰面之后就开始筹备

TheyspokeinfrontoftheLostAngelesCityCouncil.

到洛杉矶市政府传达诉求

Andthecouncilmembersnotonlypassedtheregulation,

结果市议员通过了他们订的条例

halfofthemcamedownandaskedtoposewiththemafterwards.

之后甚至半数议员还去与艺术品合影

Theywerestartling,compellingandcredible.

他们给人的印象是震慑、具说服力、可靠

Youcan’tbuythat.

全都是用钱买不到的

WhatI’maskingyoutoconsideriswhatkindofopportunity-makerswemightbecome,

希望各位想想自己能成为哪种机会制造者

becausemorethanwealth

比财富、

orfancytitles

头衔、

oralotofcontacts,

人脉更可观的

it’sourcapacitytoconnectaroundeachother’sbettersideandbringitout.

是我们发掘他人优点的能力

AndI’mnotsayingthisiseasy,

这一点都不容易

andI’msuremanyofyouhavemadethewrongmovestooaboutwhoyouwantedtoconnectwith,

相信许多人都有找错对象、牵错线的经验

butwhatIwanttosuggestis,thisisanopportunity.

但毕竟都是个“机会”

IstartedthinkingaboutitwaybackwhenIwasaWallStreetJournalreporterandIwasinEurope

这个领悟要从好几年前说起当时我在欧洲担任华尔街日报记者

andIwassupposedtocovertrendsandtrendsthattranscendedbusinessorpoliticsorlifestyle.

采访内容为时尚与流行跨越商业、政治、生活型态隔阂的流行

SoIhadtohavecontactsindifferentworldsverydifferentthanmine,

因此得和背景截然不同的人打交道

becauseotherwiseyoucouldn’tspotthetrends.

否则就无法掌握潮流走向

Andthird,Ihadtowriteastoryinawaysteppingintothereader’sshoes,

写故事时还得设身处地为读者想

theycouldseehowthesetrendscouldaffecttheirlives.

要让他们觉得自己和这些潮流息息相关

That’swhatopportunity-makersdo.

这就是机会制造者的任务

Andhere’sastrangething:

奇怪之处在于

UnlikeanincreasingnumberofAmericanswhoareworkingandlivingandplayingwithpeoplewhothinke_actlylikethem

越来越多人工作、生活、娱乐都喜欢寻找与自己相似的人

becausewethenbecomemorerigidande_treme,

久而久之就变得挑剔、极端起来

opportunity-makersareactivelyseekingsituationswithpeopleunlikethem,

机会制造者寻找与自己不相似的人

andthey’rebuildingrelationships,

和他们建立关系

andbecausetheydothat,

这样做的话

theyhavetrustedrelationshipswheretheycanbringtherightteamin

两方之间就有互信能在适当的时机介绍彼此适当的人

andrecruitthemtosolveaproblembetterandfasterandseizemoreopportunities.

用更快、更好的方法解决问题同时也抓住了更多机会

They’renotaffrontedbydifferences.

机会创造者不会被歧异冒犯

They’refascinatedbythem,

反而深受吸引

andthatisahugeshiftinmindset,

这是心态上的极端不同

andonceyoufeelit,youwantittohappenalotmore.

你一旦意识到就会为它的魅力着迷

Thisworldiscallingoutforustohaveacollectivemindset,

和别人形成“共同体”才是王道

andIbelieveindoingthat.

我个人深信

It’sespeciallyimportantnow.

携手合作在这世代特别重要

Whyisitimportantnow?

为什么呢?

Becausethingscanbedevisedlikedrones

机器小帮手

anddrugsanddatacollection,

药物开发、数据收集

andtheycanbedevisedbymorepeople.

都可以让更多人参与其中

andcheaperwaysforbeneficialpurposes

用更经济的方式创造收益

andthen,asweknowfromthenewseveryday,theycanbeusedfordangerousones.

只是水能载舟亦能复舟也可能被有心人士利用

Itcallsonus,eachofus,toahighercalling.

这个理念非常需要大家的重视

Buthere’stheicingonthecake:

成为机会制造者是一箭双雕

It’snotjustthefirstopportunitythatyoudowithsomebodyelsethat’sprobablyyourgreatest,

除了获得和更高竿对象合作的机会

asaninstitutionoranindividual.

无论对于机构或个人来说

It’safteryou’vehadthate_perienceandyoutrusteachother.

都是开启了这扇门建立信任后

It’stheune_pectedthingsthatyoudeviselateronyounevercouldhavepredicted.

团队合作带来的惊人成果

Fore_ample,MartyisthehusbandofthatactressImentioned,

麦迪是那位女演员的丈夫

andhewatchedthemwhentheywerepracticing,

詹姆等三人排练时他就在旁边看

andhewassoontalkingtoWally,myfriendthee_-con,

并很快和韦利聊开了就是刚出狱的那位

aboutthate_erciseregime.

大概在聊健身吧?

Andhethought,Ihaveasetofracquetballcourts.

麦迪心想:“我有个壁球馆

Thatguycouldteachit.Alotofpeoplewhoworktherearemembersatmycourts.

韦利可以来当教练很多教练都是体育馆的会员

They’refrequenttravelers.

他们很常来我这边

Theycouldpracticeintheirhotelroom,noequipmentprovided.

旅馆房间里没有设备也照样能练习”

That’showWallygothired.

韦利就这样得到了板球教练的工作

Notonlythat,yearslaterhewasalsoteachingracquetball.

几年后他也开始教壁球学生

Yearsafterthat,hewasteachingtheracquetballteachers.

再过了几年则是教壁球老师

WhatI’msuggestingis,whenyouconnectwithpeople

我想说的是当你把周遭有相同兴趣、

aroundasharedinterestandaction,

喜好的人圈在一块

you’reaccustomedtoserendipitousthingshappeningintothefuture,

就会逐渐适应随之而来、意想不到的收获

andIthinkthat’swhatwe’relookingat.

我想这才是至关重要

Weopenourselvesuptothoseopportunities,

面对机会我们敞开心胸

andinthisroomarekeyplayersandtechnology,

关键推手-这里的你们再加上科技

keyplayerswhoareuniquelypositionedtodothis,

每个人各司其职有自己的位置

toscalesystemsandprojectstogether.

提升制度和计划的整体价值

Sohere’swhatI’mcallingforyoutodo.Rememberthethreetraitsofopportunity-makers.

我想拜讬大家的就是记得机会制造者的三项特质

Opportunity-makerskeephoningtheirtopstrength

一、机会制造者不断磨练自己专长

andtheybecomepatternseekers.

开拓事物运作的新方式

Theygetinvolvedindifferentworldsthantheirworlds

二、他们乐于接触不同人的世界

sothey’retrustedandtheycanseethosepatterns,

获取信任学习各种合作方式

andtheycommunicatetoconnectaroundsweetspotsofsharedinterest.

三、他们周旋于各方之间让参与的人都分一杯羹

SowhatI’maskingyouis,theworldishungry.

我想说的是人与人之间太缺乏连结

Itrulybelieve,inmyfirsthande_perience,

根据亲身经验我相信

theworldishungryforustounitetogetherasopportunity-makers

这世界很需要机会制造者

andtoemulatethosebehaviorsassomanyofyoualreadydo,Iknowthatfirsthand,

可能台下的你已经是其中之一大家都应该效仿机会制造者

andtoreimagineaworldwhereweuseourbesttalentstogether

重塑我们的世界融合各领域人才

moreoftentoaccomplishgreaterthingtogetherthanwecouldonourown.

一人不能做的事借由合作来完成

Justremember,

请把这句话放在心上

asDaveLinigeroncesaid,

大卫˙林杰说过

“Youcan’tsucceedcomingtothepotluckwithonlyafork.”

“只带一只叉子就来百乐餐的人永远无法成功”(注:后衍伸为商业成长需要集体合作、贡献)

Thankyouverymuch.

谢谢大家

Thankyou.

谢谢。

2024ted演讲稿篇24

时间,白驹过隙的一瞬,看着窗外‘新世纪’酒店放的烟花,才真正的明白了元旦已经来临,岁月敲响了新的一年的大门。或许在给这文章落款时,我已踏进了20__。

生命轮回的影子,错过、不能错过的瞬间不断交织,最终消逝在冗长的遂道里,被风化,随时间曲折散去。人的一生又有多长,粗略一算,大概紧有的两万多天的时日,而我们一半的时间又在睡梦之中,剩下的,才能让我们自由得支配,或挥霍,或好好珍惜每一天。有人感慨时间的伧促,有人抱怨生命的短暂,还有人醉生梦死,将时间看待凝滞,于是产生了矛盾,对立与统一的结合。两点论告诉我们,在研究事物发展过程中,我们要看到主要矛盾和次要矛盾,要看到矛盾的主要方面和次要方面;重点论要我们在研究复杂事物发展过程中,要着重把握主要矛盾和矛盾的主要方面。人这辈子就这么个理儿,调动你的主观能动性来看待你的人生。

昨天是诸葛祥星的生日,同学唱了首歌《明天会更好》。轻轻敲醒沉睡的心灵、看看忙碌的世界依然孤独的转个不停。唱出我们的热情,让我们的笑容充满着青春的骄傲,去期待着明天会更好。曾几何时,我们放飞梦想,让它插上翅膀,飞到很远的地方;曾几何时,我们播种下希望,用执著的满腔热忱去浇灌它成长…年轻的理想似蜗牛在晨曦中蜿蜒,心里明明藏着另一方净土,却不明白怎会风化成只有宋词的哀叹。

2024ted演讲稿篇25

走进幸福的天堂!let’sgo!

我:“钟老师,您幸福么?”当我问钟老师这个问题的时候,老师感到惊讶,说:“我当然幸福啦!”“那你最大的幸福是什么呀?”我问。钟老师想了一会儿说:“嗯......是可以干自己想干的事,没有人阻拦我。而且要对自己有益,对别人有益那才幸福呢。”

校医却对我说:“没有人来看病,整天清闲着就幸福了。”但我觉得校医是在说笑吧,哪有作为一个医生不想救死扶伤呢?

舞蹈老师说:“能让我教过的学生都能够不断进步,那就是我的幸福了。

厨房叔叔说:“我不知道。”班长说:“对不起,我不接受采访。”吴芃净:“我......跟你一样。”

我不懂,为什么我在问大人时,他(她)们都会狂笑不止,而我在问同学时,同学们就不愿意回答。

钟老师的幸福是因为可以做对自己、别人有益的事。舞蹈老师的幸福是自己教过的学生都能够不断进步。她们都是一个好老师,都在为别人付出。

老师们!你们经历过苦难,但你们都能感到幸福。那我就更加不用说了。

我幸福,因为我生活在幸福中。

一次,我和阿姨坐公交车去天虹购物。在公交车上,有一个老奶奶上车了,可车上没座位了。我看到旁边有一个牌子,上面写:请给老人让座。老师也讲过,要给老人让座。于是,我让老奶奶坐在我的座位上。老奶奶说:“谢谢你!”一个姐姐看见了,让我坐在她的座位上。可见,我们人之间是有爱、是有幸福的。

其实,幸福很简单,它时时刻刻地陪在我们身边!

付出是一种幸福。彼此牵手同行,难免磕碰,重要的是要珍惜爱与付出。

拥有是一种幸福。你有很多东西,难道你不会感到幸福么?

批评是一种幸福。老师和家长批评你,是因为他(她)们关心你。不然,他们怎么会批评你呢?所以,你被批评时,应该高兴呀!

被攻击,被妒忌是一种幸福.因为你有值得被妒忌和攻击的资格。

被出卖是一种幸福。它让你看清楚谁是你真正的朋友。

失望是一种幸福。因为有盼望,才会有失望。有了盼望,就有了追求,有了追求,就有了幸福。

许多人认为有钱就是幸福,因为金钱可以买到很多自己想要的东西。不过,我认为有金钱并不一定就能得到幸福!因为金钱买不到亲情,买不到真诚。

我们如果不能察觉自己的幸福,是因为还不懂的幸福的含义,不懂得感激生活,宽容待人。

幸福不一定需要有很多钱,一家人能相亲相爱,朋友间能真诚相待,就是幸福。有时,一句贴心的话儿,一个感人的动作,那也是幸福。

幸福并不遥远,只要我们用心感受,它就在我们身边,可遇可求。

2024ted演讲稿篇26

大家好!

让我们来问自己一个问题,如果上天给你一次重新选择的机会,你会愿意做谁?是自己还是别人?

记得在小学的一节心理课上,我们的心理老师也这么问过我们。当时我们都不假思索地写在了纸上。统计结果是,全班30个人,29个人是愿意做别人,只有1个人愿意做自己。

为什么不愿意做自己?也许你觉得自己太过于平凡了,但是,万物不都是这样吗?一棵小草是平凡的,它只是默默地生长,任人践踏。野花是平凡的,也许它一直是个被忽略的角色,它比其他的花更不起眼,它没有玫瑰的娇艳,没有百合的清香,也没有玉兰这般的高贵,可它同样能开出属于自己的一片天。平凡,不等于我们不可以创造自己的不平凡,平凡,不等于我们不幸福。幸福的人不一定愿意做自己,但愿意做自己的人一定很幸福。

既然知道我永远是我,不可能是别人,那么就快乐地做自己。做自己,本就是一种幸福!

2024ted演讲稿篇27

动物,它们是我们的朋友;动物,我们要保护它们;动物,也有尊严;动物;也有血有肉;动物,它跟我们一样,也是一条生命啊。

人们常常捕杀那些可怜的小动物,在他们的脑子里,只想着杀了他们赚钱,他们似乎已经丧失意志。如果我亲眼看见他们捕杀动物,我会问他们:“难道他们没有家人吗?你没有体验过骨肉分离的滋味,你想过那是什么滋味儿吗?它们也有血有肉、它们也知道感恩,你想过在他们即将被你们杀死的时候,心里会想些什么吗?你们不知道,有那么多无辜的小动物经过你的手被杀死,难道他们有罪吗?难道他们生下来就应该被残害吗?难道你们不该被遭报应吗?

你们可以换位思考一下,假如你是一条无辜的小动物,在你生下来的那一刻,你亲眼看见你的母亲死于非命或你被那些人给杀害了,你们心里会怎么想?你们就会亲身体验到骨肉分离的滋味吧?既然你想到这些,你们就该好好反思反思,那些无辜的小生命就该死于你们这些心肠狠毒的人手里吗?就算它们该死,也轮不到你们动手。我不知道你们知不知道,那些小生命临死之前会是什么样的神情?你们不知道,为什么?因为你们没血没肉,你们杀了那么多无辜的小动物,该死的人不是它们,而是你们,因为当你给它们东西的时候,他们会知道感恩。

也许你们会想,就是一条畜生,有什么好值钱的?杀就杀呗,反正还能给我赚点钱,你们这样想就错了,不只错,而且大错特错。对,他们虽然是畜生,它们好歹是条生命,对,它们虽不值钱,但它们不该死……

好啦,话不多说,我希望那些捕杀小动物的人,你们早一点改过自新,不然,你们早晚受到法律的制裁。

2024ted演讲稿篇28

长大以后,我只能奔跑,一边失去,一边在寻找,明天你好,即使含着泪微笑。——题记

青岛一五年的第一场雪在一中校园里纷飞,我独自站在窗口望那“鹅毛”纷纷落落,心无感触似是无稽之谈,但是要我说出那其中的感触,我只能笑而不语。不是一个人独行惯了才独自赏雪,只是认为唯有一人才能体会到一片雪花飘荡在这万千孤独的迷茫。路漫漫,及行迷之未远,归。

喧闹的环境伴随着阶梯教室那扇门打开而渐渐平息。我望着一身材平平的男人向我们走来,在无尽的掌声中向我们鞠躬,那瞬间我是木讷的,为什么如此成功之人会这般谦逊,我眯起眼,妄想从其中汲取些许。身边的朋友无一不被外籍校长抓住了眼球,而我的目光一直停留在他的身上未曾离去。随着讲座的开始,那段往事渐渐地浮现在我们的眼前。听他讲到那坎坷崎岖的路程,我的眉头不由紧皱,心也随之触痛。的确!谁能想象到一双弹钢琴的手竟然曾经承担过这般的苦痛!董荣璨博士轻松的言语讲述着他在外奔波的三十年,而那些经历牵动着台下的我们每一个人的心。还好,一切的一切都是有用的,他成为了伟大的作曲家,钢琴家,艺术家,一个大写的中国人!

崇敬在我的眼眶流露,只是隔着那遥远的距离而无法传达,那炙热的情感流露无一不表达着我对他的敬仰之情!一曲现场创作像一股暖流涌向心头,简单的音符在他的手指下编织成婉转、悠扬的曲子,飘到我们的心中飘到我们的灵魂里!我的手指不由随着节奏敲打着桌面,用心去感受其中的情感。一曲《梁祝》回荡在耳旁,其中蕴含着的是三十多年的心血和汗水,满满的感情流露让我的内心有所触动,也许那天收获的不仅仅是听觉的盛宴,也是满满的内心感动。

临近一五年的尾声,忙忙碌碌的自己也似乎找到了目标。内心怀着那份信仰,马不停蹄地走着。不做无庸的事,不做无庸的人。时光荏苒,却冲刷不掉我内心怀揣的前进的激情;白驹过隙,只希望留下的是美好的回忆。怀揣着这份信念前进,让我强忍住泪水,高昂着头前进。我不畏艰难困苦,只望见了黎明的一缕曙光便会前行,那等待我的必定是我的信仰,在最后的最后,我们会相拥,拥抱明天!

我不是作曲家,无法用跳跃的音符谱写深情;我不是钢琴家,我不会用流畅的乐章流露传情;我不是艺术家,无法用高端的美展现自己。但是我心怀理想又怎么肯轻易折服?负面、消极的全都抛之脑后,趁现在,努力给自己“艺术人生”!

长大以后,我开始奔跑,即使含着泪微笑,但不远处的斑斓星光在闪烁,那便是我的信念,明天你好!

2024ted演讲稿篇29

大家好!我今天演讲的题目是《青春》。

青春如行云流水,淌指而过,抓不住也握不稳,因此青春也显得格外珍贵,容不得半点浪费,但亲爱的朋友,请不必感叹青春的柔弱易逝,她是如此富有生机与精彩。她能够支持你站稳岗位,负好己责,拼搏出你要的生活。那么正值青春的我们,就应该乘青春正值旺季,草长莺飞之时,怀揣着激情,勇敢的面对生活,燃放自己,用流逝的青春去换一个我们要的明天。

还记得刚来到大学的日子吗?想起来,不远,仿似昨天,可细细想下来,又觉得是好远,好像已经是好远的好久以前了。回味这一路走来,有高考后自己汗水没有白流的欣慰,有考入大学时的兴奋,有离开家遇见她们的悸动。当然,也有过难过与失意,或者悲伤和失落,因为学校的小道没有林荫,食堂大妈的手艺不合我们的胃口,教室桌椅的坐着不舒服等等。可是随着我们携手上课下课,吃饭玩耍,开开玩笑间,多出来的胡茬也悄悄的留下了岁月的痕迹的两年里,逝去的青春,我们渐渐熟悉,拥有了熟悉的笑脸,亲切的言语,可以曰人,可以曰家,可以曰天下。慢慢的那些细小的不满与失意也尽然被图书馆里的书香掩盖,翻阅一页页间,学习充满了我们青春的每一个角落。看似如此简单,琐碎,却也无不在努力勾勒出我们多姿多彩的青春。

此时,那些流年里的光景也忽隐忽现得很好看。原来拥有青春的我们是如此富有,因为年轻,就有资本,我们用来投资明天,投资下一个属于美好的自己。想着梦想,践行着一步两步,越走越远。放弃了叫嚣,学会了低头。放低了身段,学会了静修。看清自己要走的道路,研修我们要有的专业。装几本书,压压包,穿行于向左向右的知识之路,紧紧的身影,只因追求学海的博大。握几只笔,弯弯手,画摆于朝里朝外的锦绣蓝图,沙沙的响声,只为设计美好的明天。没有花前月下的甜蜜,也不羡慕牡丹花下的香醉,尽管单调,但却不会在等到将来有一天,青春一到用时方恨曾经虚度。我们青春,我们简单,我们过季时间,纯酿出自己的舞酒。

亲爱的朋友们,不可否认我们都迷茫过。因为这因为那,放纵过、难过过、冲突过、生气过、莫名过,可是在每一个夜晚过后,新的一天又如约而至,又有一天的时间来改变改善,那么我们还有什么理由继续生气、放纵…以至于浪费我们如此珍贵的青春。青春是短暂的,但是就是再短暂的时光也没有借口在我们的生命里虚度。我们要尽青春之力,负生命之责,付出自己,馈赠给予,收获人生财富,留着在以后的岁月给我们成长和成熟提供一个契机。那么同学,如果你还在迷茫,抛弃迷茫吧,把握人生的航向,牢记勤字当头,不懈摇桨,搏击涛海大浪,泛舟人生。用我们的青春和生命奏响时代的强音,用我们的聪明和勇气扬起理想的风帆,打开成功的阀门,让美好的下一刻顺流而来,绘画出人生精彩的篇章。

我的演讲完了,谢谢!

2024ted演讲稿篇30

每个人至少拥有一个梦想,有一个理由去坚强,心若没有了栖息的地方,到哪里都是在流浪。水之一方,没有了昨天,今天,明天;海之一角,没有了前世,今生,来生;所思所议在刹那间全部盛开,又凋落…捧起时间的潮汐,埋葬以前的心愿,期待着明天会更好,至少我们会变得成熟了,感知到这个世界在微妙的变动。时间散落在平静的心湖中,荡起阵阵涟漪,一圈圈的希冀,勾勒出我们的人生蓝图。

不知明天会怎样?或许风和日丽,或许阴雨绵绵,亦或许狂风怒卷。但我们还是期待这它的到来,期待它给我们带来惊喜,人生就是由无数的未知构成。它犹如舞台上的一出戏,不同的是,在人生的舞台上演出是没有彩排的。

卡耐基说过:It'syourtakingpartinginthelifeandtheactionsbutnotyouroutcomethatcounts.没有凝固的生命,没有亘古的荒原,只要我们满怀期待,拥有梦想,任何的消沉都会绽放瑰丽的神奇,在没有色彩的地方创造色彩,在没有声音的地方创造声音,在没有奇迹的地方创造奇迹。

明天,真的会更好。